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Yeah it gets very complicated. In my analogy, I’m operating under the assumption that it would be two drunk individuals. It’s always been considered unethical for a sober person to have sex with a wasted person (unless perhaps it’s someone with whom they are in a relationship with, and it has been agreed upon beforehand. But even so, in today’s climate that can still get murky). The problem is that there seems to be a narrative being pushed that even when both individuals are drunk, the blame sh…
/r/MensRights30/04/25 07:15 AM
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—>> Im laying with my wife next to me, and all my favourite managers and leaders have predominantly been women in my life. Absolutely, and that’s a tough one for me to grapple with. I have always supported and looked up to many women in my life as well. I try to explain to people that they are pushing away the men that stood with them in the first place, but it falls on deaf ears. You can’t just keep calling all men monsters and not expect some sort of push back. That’s just human nature.
/r/MensRights22/04/25 12:02 AM
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Thanks for the heads up, I will edit it now.
/r/MensRights21/04/25 06:07 PM
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I’d be lying if I said the modern world hasn’t made me consider the thought of suicide. It really takes a toll on you when you see how men are being dragged through the mud in the public eye while people cheer it on. It makes me feel unsafe. I pick apart every relationship or interaction I’ve had with women in past and it makes me think “oh god, could this be manipulated to look a certain way?” The fact that I even have to think about that makes me uneasy. And then to top it all off, you get moc…
/r/MensRights15/04/25 08:19 PM
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Agreed. I’m also torn on the ethics of wanting social media banned. We would be better off without it, but banning it across the board would open up its own can of worms. Hopefully we see more age restrictions being put into place. At this point, if I someone told me I could go back in time and stop one canon event, I’d probably choose to stop the invention of the iPhone. Would it fix all of our problems? Probably not, but maybe it wouldn’t catapult it into what we are dealing with today.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 12:11 AM
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It blows my mind. I tend to try and err on the side of optimism, but…it’s getting harder. A few years ago I felt that people may come to their senses, but it seems to be getting out of hand at this point. I used to not care as much. I thought “whatever, I’ll just mind my business while the world burns”. But now that witch hunting men has become everyone’s favorite pastime, I have to start speaking up. I just want to live out my life in peace. That’s kind of hard when I know men are getting throw…
/r/MensRights12/04/25 11:56 PM
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Ah yes, but if a woman wears a see through top without a bra, or a skirt with her ass hanging out, it’s nbd. Got it.
/r/MensRights12/04/25 11:42 PM
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*gestures vaguely. A serious answer is the internet. Kids are influencing kids. And as we all know, kids are dumb. Parents used to be able to kind of reign in their dumbness and assert some logic into their thinking, but with social media, that is basically impossible now. The worst part is, adults are now being influenced by this younger generation without even knowing it. Social media comments don’t come with an age tag, so adults just (wrongly) assume they are conversing with another adult, w…
/r/MensRights12/04/25 11:42 PM
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Imagine having no reading comprehension. Nobody is trying to defend rape. We’re trying to stop the definition from changing to where it can be weaponized in any scenario. This isn’t just about “rape”, people redefine words all the time to fit their narrative to the point that words don’t even hold their original meaning anymore. It’s people like you who come in here and ignore the context of a message and reinterpret in your own way just to be contrarian that make it impossible to move forward o…
/r/MensRights12/04/25 04:34 PM
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Huh? When did I say I don’t want consequences to be possible? If there is REAL PROOF and he is found guilty, that’s fine. If the proof is “he did this and you just have to take my word for it”, and he is THEN found guilty, then yes I believe that is unjust. And you’d be a fool to think otherwise.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 10:19 PM
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It’s about rewording legal jargon to encompass more than it was originally intended, which is then used to accuse and convict people of things that they didn’t do. An example would be, in sports, it used to be widely accepted to pat a teammate on the bottom as a congratulatory celebration. Sort of a “good play” gesture. If you were to do that to a random person on the street, that is assault, but within the confines of the sporting event, it is accepted as a normal thing. (Used to be, I don’t kn…
/r/MensRights11/04/25 09:54 PM
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Yup. It starts within. Men need to stand up for each other first, and then we work from there.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 07:54 PM
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Sure. And I can acknowledge that. The problem is when women convince each other that they were raped, when they weren’t. There is a lot of brainwashing going on and I think that is what is resulting in these accusations many years later.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 06:07 PM
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I see. One look at their profile tells me that any debate with them isn’t worth it.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 02:02 AM
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You’ll have to excuse my ignorance but what is MGTOW?
/r/MensRights11/04/25 01:49 AM
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You’ll have to enlighten me as to what MTP is
/r/MensRights11/04/25 01:49 AM
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You are right about thinking the worst, on both sides. I try to avoid extremes in any scenario, it only makes things worse. The only problem is, I don’t know how to make both sides meet in the middle. And, with men being thrown in jail left and right without any meaningful proof, I can’t blame people for getting extreme. The fact than men’s lives are seen as something that can be thrown away without a second thought is terrifying.
/r/MensRights10/04/25 05:44 PM
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As far as I know it was “he-said-she-said”. The first jury was hung, the second jury is where the guilty verdict happened. I know he is appealing it so it’ll be interesting to see if they can reverse it.
/r/MensRights10/04/25 02:30 AM
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As far as I know it was “he-said-she-said”. The first jury was hung, the second jury is where the guilty verdict happened. I know he is appealing it so it’ll be interesting to see if they can reverse it.
/r/MensRights10/04/25 02:30 AM
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This is a reasonable response and I understand what you mean. However, I will say that my point isn’t to argue that a crime shouldn’t still be a crime after X amount of years, I’m questioning how low the bar may be dropping as to what can count as “evidence” for such a serious crime all these years later.
/r/MensRights10/04/25 01:00 AM
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We don’t need to accuse them as if it’s factual before we have seen the proof either. It’s about a middle ground, but this website automatically launches into a witch hunt. There’s no such thing as a fair trial anymore. Also, where exactly has he been hiding? He’s been a loud mouthed celebrity for 20 years now.
/r/MensRights10/04/25 12:33 AM
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You are stating that a vicious crime occurred as if it’s factual. You are just proving my point. You don’t care about the truth, you care about conviction no matter what, before you even have any evidence. You WANT him to be guilty.
/r/MensRights10/04/25 12:32 AM
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It’s not a matter of what he’s doing right now, it’s a matter of what lies ahead of him. The fact that he can even be brought to court 25 YEARS LATER is insane. I don’t care about statistics. This isn’t a video game. These are peoples lives. Also, I’d be curious of the statistics of female rapists that are never brought to the police’s attention. I’m sure it’s much higher than 63% because it’s an uphill battle to prove rape by a female, and a downhill landslide to try and prove it by a male.
/r/MensRights10/04/25 12:02 AM
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I don’t care about Russell Brand. I haven’t given him a second thought since seeing Forgetting Sarah Marshall in 2008. It’s about fixing a broken system. I don’t care if he is a loser, I care about men being thrown in jail with insufficient evidence.
/r/MensRights09/04/25 11:41 PM
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You have no idea how brainwashed you sound. INNOCENT UNTIL PROVEN GUILTY. Why is that so hard to conceive? It’s not “assume guilt until proven innocent” which is what you are trying to preach. You know how much more dangerous it is to have people set on a guilty verdict before the trial, than the other way around (which is what was originally intended by the judicial system. I will repeat it. Innocent until proven guilty).
/r/MensRights09/04/25 10:00 PM
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I think you should ask yourself why you are trying so hard to make us believe he could be guilty. I’m going with innocent until proven guilty, ya know, how it’s supposed to be…
/r/MensRights09/04/25 07:43 PM
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No, I haven’t made up my mind. If he is guilty and there is sufficient evidence, I will concede. I would feel this way about any case that is randomly brought forth with questionable evidence. I don’t think I should be able to accuse any one of anything from a lifetime ago and be taken seriously without some serious proof. Serious proof in this scenario, to me at least, is tangible evidence. Not words. Video, perhaps a rape kit that done at the time of the event (which is unlikely, because again…
/r/MensRights09/04/25 06:40 PM
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Yes, rapist exists. And modern feminism is trying to make it where any man can be considered a rapist no matter what. Me Too has removed all accountability from woman when it comes to sexual encounters. Congrats. You don’t want justice, you want prosecution, and that’s evident. Why do you even lurk here? Do you want to make sure men don’t have a safe space anywhere?
/r/MensRights09/04/25 06:23 PM
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What do you consider proof? Unless it’s DNA or video evidence, I don’t know what “proof” has always existed yet not worthy of coming forward with until 25 years later… You are taking the courts side because you are a woman, but this is the tip of the ice berg. This has nothing to do with sexual assault, this has to do with preventing witch hunts in any form. Men are taking the brunt of it right now, but eventually it will move onto other things. If we can freely just accuse people of things and …
/r/MensRights09/04/25 06:12 PM
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The bar for evidence keeps getting moved so low that the word doesn’t even hold weight anymore. What sort of evidence suddenly appears after 25 years?
/r/MensRights09/04/25 06:05 PM
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I’m not necessarily asking how to teach them what consent means. That’s already been covered, I’m saying how to protect them from having consensual sex and then being wrongfully vilified. It also doesn’t help that the word “consent” seems to be an ever evolving definition. It used to be that consent was consenting to the act of sex. Now, there seems to be some of “oh I consented, but I guess I regret it” and then all the sudden the guy is a bad guy? Seems a little sketch… (And I’m not talking ab…
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:29 PM
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Yup. If you keep calling someone a monster long enough, they will eventually just become one. I’m not saying these influencers are monsters, it’s just a good analogy to sort of encapsulate the psychology you are pointing out.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 12:31 AM
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I generally agree, but the problem is, these young people are being influenced exclusively online. So, while I generally try to not engage too much, you still need to make your voice heard from time to time to let people know this is something worth standing up for.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 12:17 AM
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It’s crazy. I used to actually support the feminist movement in its early years (not early years as in a century ago, but early years of the current movement. Lol), but it’s unfortunately a shell of what it once was. At first, the crazy feminist was the outlier. The ones shouting “all men bad” were actually looked down upon by actual feminist who just wanted equal rights. However, those days are long gone. It’s become a hate group, just like any other. Luckily it seems that more and more men are…
/r/MensRights22/03/25 12:15 AM
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