LeftyGuns88 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Keep her excited or someone else will "Imagine moving across the country to be with the woman you love...." I think that's a big part of the problem. He's centering his life around her, just to have her in his life. She's clearly in the driver's seat and he's just glad to be in the car. Think she would move across the country (or even the county) to be with him? Doubt it. He needs her way more than she needs him and she's taking full advantage of that.	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/18 04:23 PM
8	Don’t try to plate a girl forever – for your own sake Dude, that Captain Crunch reference made me laugh. You have made my whole morning, Sir!	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/18 02:16 PM
2	Walked away from a 7 year relationship, then found out about TRP weeks later Consider yourself lucky and also stronger than you give yourself credit for since you were able to end it. I spent a 20 year marriage in the same situation you were: always tried to make her happy and better her mood and she appreciated none of it. You will be fine as time passes. You sound like you learned a lot from this. And you became stronger and more self aware when you acted to break it off. Just don't repeat your old mistakes and don't keep in contact with her. You're not friends, rememb…	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/18 04:04 PM
9	Do not even try reconnecting with your oneitis Why should he talk to her at all? She doesn't really care about him, she just wants his attention to validate her, that's all. She's trying to pull him back into her orbit like he used to be. It's all about her, not about him. Best thing for him to do is go real NC and block her so he can start to move on, not half NC where she can still reach out to him and he's still connected to her on social media.	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/18 08:35 PM
1	Do they ALL need to be TRAINED and CHECKED? My experience (+ want your opinion) I think that wether most of these guys who post here will admit it or not, we're all eventually in the same position as you where you have to check your partner's behavior. I have to do the same and I agree with you I don't particularly enjoy that I have to do it. But as men, this is our role in the relationship. Like Rollo says in The Rational Male : you get to a place where you just want to rest, to take it easy, to let things slide sometimes. But you can't. Most of the guys here are very anti…	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/18 07:01 PM
2	Do they ALL need to be TRAINED and CHECKED? My experience (+ want your opinion) I don't think frequent checking is going to drive her away. Assuming that she is a very attractive woman who is used to getting what she wants, of course her behavior will test the limits of what you find acceptable sometimes either through her testing you or simply because she has been allowed to run "free range" for so long with other guys that she is genuinely used to that kind of behavior. Regardless, it seems to be working for you so I would keep it up. The alternative is to stop checking h…	/r/TheRedPill	15/07/18 07:32 PM
1	Does this girl like me? What do I do? Just ask her to come "hang out" with you one on one and make sure she knows you're interested in more than being just her friend. At least she drove you home in another town. so that's some kind of effort on her part. You have to escalate soon because the more time you spend with her doing non-sexual friend type stuff, the more likely it is that she will see you as a friend and not a dude she's interested in.	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/18 08:27 PM
5	She doesn't want me romantically but didn't let me go easy Damn bro, you're right: they talk to the betas because the real alphas won't talk to them. I didn't think of it like that before. I know because I used to be in the same boat before I went NC on several chicks when I realized I was just orbiting them. Props on the Patrice O'Neil "time ho" reference!	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/18 07:29 PM
8	I'm done chasing after Her You’re 100% right. OP needs to honestly examine what his “best friend” does for him and stack it up against what he does for her. My guess is he will see it’s a one way street with him giving way more than he’s getting from her. Which is when he will have to confront the fact that to her he is simply a beta orbiter that exists to give her validation and attention. Hopefully he can break free at that point.	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/18 03:57 PM
4	I'm done chasing after Her You got oneitis, bad. You need to cut ties with her. I was in the same situation so I’m not preaching from a higher place brother, I’ve been there. Patrice O’Neil said it best: Trying to be friends with her is essentially a dishonest relationship. You really want more from her than to be just friends so you’re just biding your time, waiting for her to get tired of the other guy. She probably will get tired of him but she isn’t going to then suddenly see you as a romantic interest, it doesn’t wor…	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/18 03:15 PM
1	LTR - Simple Steps to Success That’s a great point. For years I dated hot chicks with major red flags and then was surprised when they ended up acting just like the red flags indicated they would. I finally wised up (thanks to TRP) but now that I look back at myself I can’t believe how dumb I was. Can’t turn a ho into a housewife.	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/17 02:28 AM