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LegElbow/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 04:02 PM
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So you still like her. TRP is about being honest with yourself. If you can't even be honest with yourself you haven't started the process.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 04:04 AM
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You have a lot of insecurity. TRP is less about dating and more about self improvement. No thing as an easy path to success. You will grow in confidence as you see your improvements.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:59 AM
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They don't know any better. A lot of times young people think adults who make their own money know it all. But they are just as lost as everyone else.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:57 AM
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Jealousy. Only plate her if you have no intention of LTRing any girls.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:51 AM
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He can't be helped. You gotta focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:50 AM
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Self improvement is key. That is where confidence comes from: progress.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:50 AM
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TRP is the opposite of PUA. So you just implemented two opposite philosophies.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:49 AM
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Next that ass. You just gotta know that single women in their 30's are suspect to the CC. Most women who are not CC are snatched up in LTRs in their 20's. Attractive women that is.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:48 AM
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Yeah suggest something different. If she says no, then it's not about the date but the food.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:44 AM
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Tell her you don't wanna see her again. As far as her friend. You can't stop her from saying what she's gonna say. You fucked up, gotta deal with the consequences. Maybe she lets it go. Who knows.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:41 AM
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This is not red pill. Being dishonest is the opposite of TRP. If you wanna fuck around, fuck around. But don't play with people. It's a loser mentality.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:39 AM
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Focus on self improvement. Know that doing that will not only benefit your life, but also increase your attractiveness.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:37 AM
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You should have zero concern. If he confronts you or is aggressive in any way. Deal with it harshly.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:28 AM
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Be aggressive.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 05:45 AM
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Everyone has diff standards. If you can get 7s consistently more power to ya. Always go for more. Quality LTRs are tricky though.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 05:40 AM
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Just remember that your happiness comes first. Because if you don't look out for you, who will? Acting in a self interested manner is naturally alpha.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 05:37 AM
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Invest in yourself.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 06:05 AM
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You have poor judgement and are insecure. The fact that you ever considered this whore LTR material gives you the red flag. Emotions are things that can be difficult to control but that is a battle you must win if you want to be TRP. See her as a fuck toy and stop with the oneitis. There WILL be other women. You see yourself as high value so there should be no problem in that aspect.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:59 AM
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The right answer is butter the fatty up.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:52 AM
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It's beta to be in an LDR.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 04:16 AM
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No. It's just sex. Just make sure you don't catch anything. That would really give you regret.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 04:09 AM
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You are her emotional tampon. She tries to gain confidence with you so she can date other men.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 04:08 AM
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Sad little girl.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 04:00 AM
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If you are not materially benefiting from them. GTFO. One thing rich kids have a hard time receiving is genuine friendships. People who genuinely care about him.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 03:53 AM
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You've been with 50+ women? What are you doing with them?
/r/askTRP06/02/16 06:21 PM
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A lot of people of both genders do that.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 04:57 PM
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Move on.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 03:17 PM
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I would focus on personal improvements.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:37 AM
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It is only a big deal if you make it a big deal.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:37 AM
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"Takes one to know one." A woman's biggest insecurity is her weight and looks.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:20 AM
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She is not your plate. You are her plate. Beta.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:19 AM
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Offer a specific date and time. If she can't make time, move on. People make time for things they want.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:58 PM
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Call or face to face. I'm just calling it now that does not like you. You seem desperate. The fact that she flaked on you should have been enough. If she liked you she would have made time.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:55 PM
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Ask her out. If she does not say yes, move on.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:53 PM
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No. When a leader acts emotional and speaks in an emotional way, it is to incite a reaction, to inspire. They are trying to manipulate your emotions. They are in complete control of theirs. What I try to do is show positive emotion and withhold negative emotion. Crying at a funeral, for example, to me would be positive emotion. Crying because your girl is threatening to leave you is negative/weak emotion.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:38 PM
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Don't even worry about it.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 09:11 PM
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You sound like a kid. Just do push ups. Get yourself a pull up bar. When they see they can't stop you. When they see your determination, they might even help you.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 09:05 PM
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My advice would be: When you begin to implement good habits, try implementing them one by one. Meaning, make sure you get that ONE GOOD HABIT down where it comes second nature before you implement another good habit. For me, I added one good habit a month. This way, I don't stop doing the other good habits that I have been doing. You build slowly and steadily.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 09:00 PM
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Showing emotion is fine when you are in control. The problem is most people can't control emotion, especially negative emotions.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 08:55 PM
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What I do is drive to the cites closest to you and look for jobs there. If you get one see if you can find roommates and share rent. Then you go from there. Going to University or Vocational will open opportunities, too. Breaking away is difficult as heck but with focus and sheer determination you will get there.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 08:48 PM
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No need to speak on TRP matters unless you have to. Your actions in your life should speak for you.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 01:59 AM
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Focus on yourself. If you do that, they will come to you.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 01:57 AM
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Just tell her your expectations while in an LTR. If she has a problem with it, say "OK." Don't argue. Just slowly but surely take away the things you offer in the LTR. If she does not behave like someone in an LTR, you should not, either. Grow some balls. Why are you so afraid of being direct with your woman?
/r/askTRP28/01/16 01:47 AM
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If you revert it is because you never really believed or you never really understood it. TRP is just explaining human(female) behavior and strategy to counter it.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 01:40 AM
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The more fear you have of losing someone, the closer you are to losing them. Move on. Learn from your mistakes and improve. If you pursue her then you are in her frame. You are at her mercy.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 01:37 AM
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I'll be in my 30's. Stable job. Modest place. Modest ride. Share my life with an attractive woman with practical skills. Maybe a kid or two. Spending my money and time wisely. I'm already building up to these things. Good habits are so key. So is structure.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 05:05 AM
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I try not to use anything. Only "enhancer" I use is drinking a mug of tea in the morning. Nothing added.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 04:21 AM
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Then settle. I don't wanna settle. You have to see life as a fight. You have to fight for what's yours. If you sit back you will take the scraps.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 03:41 AM
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I would not even respond. If she wants to talk to you she should make the effort to see you in person.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 02:44 PM
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Tell her you have a change of heart. That you want to remain acquaintances.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 02:42 PM
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You're a blue pill beta.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 09:49 PM
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I'm a computer engineering student. So no. I think you should apply for jobs to see where you stand. What if you get hired? If $13,500 ain't no thang, go for it. Just me personally I would keep that money.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:54 PM
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My advice? Self teach first. Get the online/book resources and give it a go. If after a long while you still have motivation/discipline to keep learning then maybe think about a substantial investment into classes. A large portion of coders are self motivated and self taught.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:40 PM
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You are a beta orbiter. No contact her. Move on.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:34 PM
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Do it all. By any means necessary to get her to orgasm, I say.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:32 PM
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Eat and sleep.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:28 PM
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Just think about the consequences. If you fail, does that friend group break up? Do you leave the group? Her? And if you succeed? The point is, the group dynamic changes when you take action. You just gotta try and take everything into account. I personally don't think it's worth it unless losing that friend group isn't a big deal.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:01 PM
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People should do what they want.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:41 PM
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So you like her. If not, stay away for a while....or forever.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:40 PM
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Tell her. Say you wanna take her out on a DATE. If she says anything to imply it's a casual/friend thing, tell her it isn't. Nothing wrong with showing strong interest. It becomes wrong when you are putting in ALL the effort, time after time.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:34 PM
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She doesn't like you. Also, too many questions. Make statements. Show initial interest, but if she doesn't reciprocate, ignore entirely. She's used to a million guys on her clit.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:32 PM
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Most people are like this. It makes them feel bad about themselves.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:21 PM
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Tell her it's over. Stop being a beta.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:17 PM
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You're deep in the BP. Don't hate the player hate the game.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:14 PM
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Fear is anti-TRP. If you like a girl, show strong initial interest. Strong enough that she knows right away your intentions. When you put in the effort, she needs to reciprocate with the same effort. If she doesn't, move on. Just don't let her string you along.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:08 PM
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She wants more. If you don't more to the relationship, no contact her. She'll come around. The fact that's she's willing to be your plate means she is super into you.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 12:32 AM
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Your life is your own. If you feel you need TRP pursue regardless. At the end of the day, only you can make you happy.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 12:28 AM
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Generally, your thought pattern should be "me first." If you're not getting what you want with a woman, you're not giving shit. You should know very well what you bring as a man.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 12:23 AM
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I think you're doing her wrong. If you are an attractive guy and can get laid easily just spin plates until you're satisfied. Break up with her.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 12:16 AM
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You just gotta do it. You have to wanna change bad enough. Being uncomfortable, anxious, tired, etc. are normal when changing yourself. Over a long period of time, these feelings will fade. But you gotta keep at it. I hate repeating myself but at the end of day if you want it bad enough you will do it; begin the process.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 12:01 AM
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"That's personal."
/r/askTRP21/01/16 11:56 PM
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You gotta slowly build yourself up. And with that your confidence will slowly grow. First thing you need to do is gain weight and muscle. Go over to r/fitness and r/gainit and they can help you with that. Then you have to define what will make you happy and feel successful. Once all these things happen, it's about finding resources to help get where you wanna be, and developing good daily habits. One last thing: never concern yourself with the past. It's gone and done with. You can only control …
/r/askTRP19/01/16 02:20 PM
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It's smart for a woman. For a man, it's a solid option. It's what I'm trying to do. A lot of young people think your 20's are about having fun and finding yourself. I think it's a time when you are really grinding to establish that rest of your life, in all aspects.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 02:10 PM
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Just have fun. Don't catch feelings.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 01:31 AM
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If you want and LTR, past matters. If you just wanna screw around, past doesn't matter. You can't turn a whore into a housewife.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 01:30 AM
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Nope. Starting building yourself up slowly. As you build, you will grow in confidence. First, you have to define clearly what success and happiness in your life means. Then you look for resources on how to get there. Once you actually have goals: short and long term, it makes everything easier. Don't even worry about women right now.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 01:28 AM
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Don't catch feelings. If you do that's on you.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 07:03 PM
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Two ways: Wing man to give the cock blocker some fake attention and preoccupy her, Get in between them and let the HB8 know she can do what she wants. Don't pressure her. Just allow her to freely make the decision. If you pressure her, she will likely go with her friend.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:46 PM
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LDR only benefit women. They get the things they need from men, but men don't get what they need from women. Tell her you can't promise her anything. Make no effort to stay in contact and genuinely move on with your life. If she comes back and there is a spark, then may rekindle. But accept that she's probably had her fun abroad.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:32 PM
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Oneitis.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 02:50 PM
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Nope. You should never worry about what other are doing. Only worry about your goals. Goals are so important to have because it gives you direction and a reason to be productive.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 02:49 PM
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Let his heart be broken. Sometimes that is the only way.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 02:47 PM
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You don't even explain what it is. How is it similar and different from TRP. Anyway, any philosophy that doesn't advocated self improvement as the core component is a dead end.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 12:23 AM
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PUA is not TRP. PUA is a house of a cards. TRP is building a foundation worthy of standing on.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 12:42 AM
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And self worth comes from self improvement, progress. That's why bettering yourself is such a key component to TRP working for you. If you ignore that aspect, your "game" is a house of cards.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 09:23 PM
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Don't worry about the words or meaning of music. Listen to what feels good. I listen to some Cheryl Crow. "First cut is the deepest" is a hamster song but I'm not concerned. I just enjoy the vibe of it. You can serve the music's purpose, or it can serve yours.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 09:18 PM
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First off, I don't he's attractive. Secondly, his name is in the news. He just wants to benefit off the cow. I think he's got what he wanted.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 09:14 PM
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Here's the thing. Those men shouldn't give a fuck anyway. Keep living their life. Improving themselves. The Blue Pill way is to drown in sorrow.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 09:12 PM
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Good shit. Talking and learning is great, but taking consistent action is when the really begins.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 09:10 PM
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Even if you're a guy on her level, why would you want to deal with her and what she brings? The entitlement would be off the chain! You would want a woman hotter(which isn't hard to find) and not as big a head.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 09:09 PM
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Do it anyway. Degrade to the max. It will get her off even harder. Just remember something: This girl is not long term material. You're playing with fire the longer you stay with her.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 10:40 PM
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From what you've written, she's been a plate, FWB, and allows you to keep other plates. I feel like you're taking advantage of a really low self esteem chick. These chicks have major issues. It will come back and bite you in the butt.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 03:07 AM
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"I prefer this relationship remain casual."
/r/askTRP04/01/16 03:03 AM
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I think you're losing attraction to her the person. I don't think a man can ever be tired of a hot body but he can be tired of her shit. So much shit that it negates her positives. Hot girls everywhere have ex boyfriends because someone, somewhere is tired of their shit. I don't agree that LTRs are not natural. I think they can be, for the right reasons. You just gotta find a girl that meet your core needs. Sex/attraction is just one aspect.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 02:56 AM
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American women of all races have little to offer. Because all the benefits of being a woman: domestic, feminine, soft, not fat, etc. They are lacking. So they lack all the upsides of being a woman, and are good at downsides of being a woman.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 02:10 AM
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She can literally see your desperation from her phone screen. You mean nothing to her. Lower than dirt. First thing you need to do is not contact her ever again. Second, read the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 04:07 AM
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The fact that she's the one choosing means you're in a position of weakness. Opposite of TRP principles. Stop showing interest. Move on to other girls. If she comes, you will be in the position of strength. If no, no loss.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 03:56 AM
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That's what she should get for shit testing you, though. Shit tests should not go unpunished. Even if the punishment is just a slap on the wrist. Yes, there will be shit tests in a relationship, but you can take measures to limit the frequency and severity. Besides that, you know your situation better than anyone else.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 08:13 PM
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I think she got to you. When you said "how would you like it..." it showed that you care about her actions and that it affected you. She got what she wanted from that exchange. You should have acted like everything was absolutely fine and just distance yourself from her some. Remember, your power in the relationship is commitment, time, and affection. You simply take these things away from her temporarily and she will get the message. And, you never have to show your hand.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 07:36 PM
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Just saw her pic. She's 26, nothing special, and fast reaching the wall. Hopefully she humbles herself sooner than later or it will be forced upon her.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 07:17 PM
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Here's my slut test. How many sluts actually have domestic skills? How many are open to doing crazy things in bed early on? I would test her domestic skills, not only in quality but quantity. How good is she and how often does she do them? Then I would talk about being interested in doing more extreme things like anal, gagging, things of that nature early on. Then see her reaction. If she's great domestically and have reservations about doing extreme acts early on. She's probably not a slut. The…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 03:53 PM
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I think it takes effort on both sides for the relationship to continue to be good and long lasting. The issue is both sides knowing what they need to do, and what they need to continue to do. There should be no misunderstanding or miscommunication.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 02:48 AM
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Great story. To keep a woman's fire burning you gotta care less.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 07:48 PM
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I see TRP as a male adaptation to feminism(a female adaption), not an enemy. This sub is becoming more and more men's rights and less about ADAPTING and finding SUCCESS in the current social climate. It's better to adapt to change, not fight it. Why? Because change is unstoppable.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 02:57 AM
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This is a hilarious situation. All I'll say is a lot of guys will feel this way. For me I would be able to mess with this chick but I don't know if I can commit long term.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 11:12 PM
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There's a lot of men out here who aren't fit to pass on their genes. They just do because it's easy as fuck to do it in modern society. This beta is one of them.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 11:06 PM
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We didn't need this for proof. Proof is all around us. Every single day.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 04:51 PM
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Why are you hanging out with a female? Especially a female you like? You haven't swallowed enough because you missed that beta behavior. What men "pay" women is their time, attention, and affection. You gave her all that without her giving you her most valuable asset: pussy.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 07:56 PM
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I don't think this sub should be political. At least limit it as much as possible. It should mainly concern itself with self improvement and understanding/analyzing female behavior. I like the examples/field reports as well. The more political the sub gets the more it becomes something else than what a lot of people came here for. I thinking political will hurt the growth of this sub.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 01:52 AM
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Fuck no. Relationships aren't that difficult where you need a whole book for it.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 01:45 AM
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I don't think alpha widows are a big deal like a lot think. I don't care if I'm not a woman's best as long as I don't know about it, and she's giving me everything I ask. If she's unenthusiastic and makes no effort, then that's an issue, generally. If it's only in her head, it harms no one. A racist is only a racist if he opens his mouth about it.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 01:33 AM
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Precisely. With women: action >>>>>>>>>>> words
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:36 PM
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Pretty good thinking on your feet. But yeah, you gotta seal the deal before you praise yourself.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 03:18 AM
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Yep. And even if you're really into a girl, and you believe she deserves the attention for her behavior, you should always make sure your outward attention towards her is slightly less than hers to yours.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 01:04 AM
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Wish I had this insight when I was your age. You're doing just fine.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 01:00 AM
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Stupid way of looking at it. Is a women who gets to the age of 30 without an LTR a woman of quality? Women who have some quality, by the time they are 30 would have had multiple LTRs. That would decrease their numbers drastically.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 12:39 AM
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And if you expect something back you will be sorely disappointed. It should be a nice surprise to get something back.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 03:02 PM
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You sound like a moron. Way more reading. No more posting.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 05:15 PM
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Having a deep voice indicates high testosterone which is why it turns women on. You hear that, Mike Tyson? It's genetics, man.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 05:07 PM
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She's irrelevant. She's trying to be relevant.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 03:29 PM
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These posts are so stupid. This shit has nothing to do with why people are here. What does this have to do with dealing with women and sexual strategy? Self improvement? Besides, he was coward. Generals in the modern era sit comfortably in head quarters while everyone else does the fighting.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 04:36 PM
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Wait, so you were married at 21? To a man that made less money than you? This can only mean you are ugly or fat. Probably both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 05:50 PM
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You settled because you had less options. You were post-wall. You waited too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 05:34 PM
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Yep. In the path to become better in mind, body, and soul, slow and steady is the key. Enthusiasm is a short term solution. Discipline and consistency is the only way.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 02:24 PM
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What makes you think he doesn't do it for fun? Dude is RP.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 03:07 PM
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Put yourself first, always. Because no one else will.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 10:47 PM
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The game is crazy yo. If I could get a chick in my future who just wants to fuck... It'd be a blessing.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 01:12 AM
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You only know what you see. You don't know the whole story.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 05:01 PM
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Great point I never considered.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 01:54 AM
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How should you know if you’re hydrated? Your piss must be clear. No yellow or orange piss. Only clear piss is allowed. Your piss should be very light yellow.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 01:35 AM
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Seriously dude, I hope you realize that this is blue pill as hell. You are hating the player, not the game. Forget swallowing the red pill. You haven't even touched it.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:37 PM
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This is such a blue pill opinion. It's like the rockNroll fans in r/music being angry/jealous that their genre of music is now nothing more than a small niche. Or the Hockey fans jealous that people love basketball more. People like rap/pop because the style of music is more representative of modern society than any other genre. Jealousy is WEAK emotion.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:03 PM
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What woman is worth that? Any women open to, or encouraging open relationships is already suspect. Plate her immediately so you don't have to spend any more relationship effort on her.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 10:41 PM
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Only if your SMV is so much higher than your SO. If that's the case, you've already lost anyway. It's so much easier for women to get laid than men.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 10:31 PM
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Disagree with most of this. Slow and steady wins the race. The key will always be consistency and discipline.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 10:08 PM
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Well, Germany does have a lower birth rate than Japan. And Germany allows immigration.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 03:41 PM
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they can hunt and do everything males do, at least 75% as effectively. Fuck no. Women would die without men.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 11:04 PM
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