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| 1 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.lol yeah but I have to vet through WAY more than I should and it’s exhausting. Just because I can catch a good fish out of 1000 casts doesn’t mean I’m going to keep coming back to try and catch more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:33 AM |
| – | Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man.DING, DING, DING!!!! We have a winner!!!! 🏆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Men that want to be seen as "hookup material" should only date women who hookup with themonly to certain men, that's the point.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Men that want to be seen as "hookup material" should only date women who hookup with themI've hooked up with women that specifically said they "don't do hookups"....... what do you think a player is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Men that want to be seen as "hookup material" should only date women who hookup with thembecause they get women who "aren't looking for hookups" to hookup with them...... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Men that want to be seen as "hookup material" should only date women who hookup with themYou can call us degenerate men but say nothing about the degenerate women who lied to their husbands about their promiscuous past and made her husband wait for sex but gave it up to other men....... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 04:16 AM |
| 5 | Men that want to be seen as "hookup material" should only date women who hookup with themThe problem with this logic is that Men who don't do "hookups" and are seeking women who also "don't do hookups" could be hooking up with "higher tier" men or generally just men they find attractive and these men that are "long game dating" wouldn't even know it if that makes sense. So, it's pointless to assume the woman you're seeking or trying to date isn't hooking up with men on the side while you're pursuing her because I've had this happen to me. This is where the whole red pill kind of sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 04:12 AM |
| 4 | Men that want to be seen as "hookup material" should only date women who hookup with themI mean they definitely can….this is where the whole term situationship came from. You start out just hanging out and banging then you can get into a relationship if you’re both feeling it. I’ve had sex with women on the first date and gotten into a relationship with them at a later point down the road, it definitely happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 03:59 AM |
| 8 | Men that want to be seen as "hookup material" should only date women who hookup with themYes they do. The amount of relationships that start without sex is very low unless you’re in religious circles. No man is going to start a relationship with a woman without having sex first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 03:53 AM |
| 3 | The Blue/Red pill is dead to Gen Z.This. I’m seeing the same chronically single girls on the dating apps over a span of YEARS. I’ve been on dating apps since 2015 and I see the same girls on there every year. They’re only searching for the top alphas and they’d rather be single and forever alone if they don’t find one. In the past women would settle for beta guys that provide a security blanket or whatever but they don’t do that anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 02:17 AM |
| – | Men should ask permission before asking sexually explicit questionsIt's called experience. It's the same logic as watching a video on picking up women and expecting a 100% success rate without ever approaching a woman. You either have the experiences, or you don't. Go ask a woman for permission while trying to escalate intimacy and tell me how that goes for you. It's the typical "why can't I find a nice guy?" while woman actively seek and date "bad boys". They say one thing but they want something completely different, never trust what a woman says. You just do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 01:45 AM |
| – | Men should ask permission before asking sexually explicit questionsLMAO touch grass or better yet a vagina. The dating world isn’t some statistical algorithm that can be solved. It’s the basics of the red pill. Women aren’t going to care about asking for “permission” from men they actually find attractive. Chances are if she wants you to ask for permission she either doesn’t have raw desire for you or some very weird trauma response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Men should ask permission before asking sexually explicit questionsNothing. But any man with experience isn’t going to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Men should ask permission before asking sexually explicit questionsExperience as a 34 year old man. It’s the classic “don’t take dating advice for men from women.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Men should ask permission before asking sexually explicit questionsThe only guys you’re going to find to do that are super shy “nice guys” or virgins. The problem with that logic is that may be what you prefer but that would turn off a majority of women. Most guys have better success just making the move and dealing with the rejection rather than asking permission and putting yourself into a bad dynamic. Once a woman sees you in that way or what we call the “friend zone” you’re never getting out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 04:25 PM |
| 5 | Men should ask permission before asking sexually explicit questionsLMAO “men aren’t assertive enough” “why doesn’t he make the move first?” “Men should ask permission first” Do you want him to ask permission to kiss you too? Sips tea* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Dating for Women is Not Like Looking for Clean Water in a Swamp; Rather, it is Like Looking for Healthy Food in a Grocery Storelol the bar for a woman is literally not even a bar or obstacle to overcome. I haven’t been on a date with a woman that actually got my dick hard in a few years. All you have to do is not be morbidly obese and you’re already a 7 and above if you’re a woman. The amount of women that have zero knowledge or self awareness of diet and exercise is astounding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Dating single Mother's is a massive "L" For men.Single mothers are fine for casual encounters but I wouldn’t date one unless I was a single dad. More power to the men that do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 01:18 AM |
| 0 | Apparently, men dehumanizing women is a normal part of male sexuality.Saying you don’t have issues with size preferences is saying you don’t have issue with dehumanizing a man to a sex object. Let’s say you had a man you liked and were compatible with and started romantically dating but you had a “size preference” and he doesn’t measure up to said preference when you slept together. Then you dehumanized him to a sex object for something he was born with and can’t control even though he could be a good life partner. It’s textbook double standards. You can’t have yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, men dehumanizing women is a normal part of male sexuality.They don’t, I’m talking about “little dick” name calling that we see plenty of women doing. Sex toys mean that some women genuinely prefer a bigger penis and some women would disqualify a man for his penis size or would compare him to a previous partner in bed. So men are treated as sex objects as well otherwise penis size wouldn’t matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 06:10 PM |
| 8 | Apparently, men dehumanizing women is a normal part of male sexuality.Women dehumanize men to sex objects too otherwise we wouldn’t see things like “little dick energy” name calling or women’s toys that are sized to their preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 06:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenI had a girlfriend that was like this and it was pretty nice actually. I’d work construction, go to the gym, play video games and she’d read books, read poetry, She’d watch classical movies, she had a record collection, we were pretty much exact opposites. We’d watch movies together, I’d do basic maintenance on her car and she’d be amazed by it. Dating a woman with “shared interests” is generally a pain in the ass. Pretty soon you’re stuck doing “hobbies” every weekend, or all your free time tur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 02:17 PM |
| -2 | Almost all women in the developed world are dating men out of their leagueLack of men combined with high inflation and a reduced labor force, has created a tighter labor market, complicating efforts by the Federal Reserve to cool inflation. Which has caused covid stagflation, A reduced labor supply forces businesses to raise wages to attract workers, which can contribute to wage-price inflation. The decline in participation reduces potential GDP, with estimates suggesting it could have been $296–$442 billion higher in 2023. Settle down white knight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 02:13 AM |
| -2 | Almost all women in the developed world are dating men out of their leagueMen produce goods and services for the economy, more men participating in the work force, the better. Less men dating because of women and feminism, thus less men participating in the work force and working less hours which creates inflation and a higher cost of living due to less men to produce labor for goods and services which means you pay more for goods and services. You are here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 01:49 AM |
| 3 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenThis. It’s like trying to meet a woman at the gym. Said people that are doing said hobby probably aren’t there to meet a partner or are interested in meeting a potential partner. You’re probably going to have to sift through a lot of people and deal with a lot of rejection before you find someone. It’s the same logic as launching yourself at every pretty woman you see in a grocery store. Said hobby group is eventually going to pickup that you’re a single guy trying to pickup women and probably a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 11:25 PM |
| 16 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average Men“Join hobbies” is generally just nonsense advice from women. Men generally don’t have time for hobbies between work, home maintenance, car maintenance, and of course the gym because they want us to be in shape like jason Momoa but also have time to do some coed hobby every week. Dating apps are generally the same as real life. If women aren’t attracted to you on a dating app, real life probably isn’t going to be any different. “If you’re homeless just buy a house”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 08:15 PM |
| – | What makes you not to want to date a woman?Honestly if you’re in shape and put on a little makeup, you’re already ahead of 80% of women. Act feminine, don’t swear or talk like a guy. Probably the most annoying thing I’ve seen out of attractive women lately is the dumb pit viper glasses, swearing, and saying “bro” over and over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.That’s coping. There’s definitely people who commit infidelity that aren’t attracted to their spouse or grew out of being attracted to their spouse and happened to have someone give them the “butterflies”. A common sense man isn’t going to commit infidelity with an ugly woman when he has an attractive spouse that puts out regularly. Does his spouse become unattractive or stop putting out or happens to have an attractive coworker that he commits infidelity with while still being attracted to his … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 11:38 PM |
| 8 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.Infidelity isn’t lack of attraction to your spouse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 11:30 PM |
| 6 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.That doesn’t coincide with divorce rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 11:25 PM |
| 4 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.It’s because it’s becoming more mainstream now that the internet has been around for 30 years. This stuff was only talked about in old forum sites back in the 2000’s and men having garage beers. Now that we have people broadcasting their lives over social media it’s becoming publicized. The entire boomer mindset of “happy wife happy life” was the start of red and blue pill. Back in the day you were only competing with men in your town for a woman, now you’re competing with the entire world. Red … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 11:23 PM |
| 19 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.Black pill is right on most instances. Most married men are married because the women settled and didn’t want to be 40 year old leftovers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 06:03 PM |
| 0 | People happily in relationships: how did you "pick better"?Nothing wrong with that. The problem is you have promiscuous women that set these kinds of standards to certain men or once they hit a certain age and expect this kind of treatment even though they were promiscuous in their past and gave it to men who didn’t have to work for it. This is the basics of the red pill. A lot of trad wives are nothing but online grifters as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 05:14 PM |
| 6 | People happily in relationships: how did you "pick better"?She says no coffee dates but has no problem taking a man’s money for dinner and drinks then ghosting him right after. The entire reason coffee or “walk in the park” dates were done was to circumvent high maintenance women, the only reason they don’t do these “dates” is so they can disqualify men that won’t give you their resources for nothing in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 04:51 PM |
| 0 | People happily in relationships: how did you "pick better"?In a rom com fantasy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 04:32 PM |
| 1 | People happily in relationships: how did you "pick better"?The only way you’re finding this is with some Catholic Church guy that’s never done anything with a woman and is waiting for marriage or a turbo virgin that’s never kissed a girl. Even then they’re not going to be comfortable around women enough to meet these standards. Life isn’t a rom-com movie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 01:28 PM |
| 0 | People happily in relationships: how did you "pick better"?Haha kudos to you. I was reading through that list and immediately thought “nope”. I’d be better off buying a powerball ticket than trying to find that again. I dated women that were close to 3/4 of it but most have student loan debt or want the never ending Instagram luxurious lifestyle, “TRAVEL, TRAVEL, TRAVEL!!!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 01:31 AM |
| -4 | People happily in relationships: how did you "pick better"?You just disqualified 98% of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 01:16 AM |
| 2 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.It depends, exclusive fuckbuddys are good with the right people when you don’t want to wear condoms and catch STDs. Testing doesn’t work when you have to wait several weeks after sexual encounters to not get false negatives so staying exclusive makes sense and I personally would rather use my hand then risk STDs with a woman that wants to rotate multiple partners. Men get burnt out from random casual sex and don’t want long dry spell periods trying to find a partner. People are too busy in this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 07:24 PM |
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