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Yes of course he'll be offended if you say that you are the ambitious one and he isn't. That shouldn't be a surprise, and you seem to think that you two need to reach a conclusion/final view of the relationship together, but you don't. If you are going to accept him for who he is, just do it, and don't say anything about it. We women often think that our views and our future plans need to be announced, that things need to get talked about. My advice to you going forward would be - smile and stfu…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/25 11:46 AM
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A sweeper, not a keeper... Hm, I would guess it is because of the child, the divorcee thing, and the age. Imagine the guy that you want, would he want you IF he can have someone else? Someone with less experience, younger, without another mans child... that's more likely their first choice. That is probably why they aren't prioritizing you as a mate choice, but rather as a sexual choice. If you do manage to find a guy to your liking, but he doesn't want a relationship with you, then I can recomm…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/25 10:14 PM
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You should approach them then.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/25 10:10 PM
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Thankfully its not a work environment, it was just a weekedn conferance related to my studies. But you make a good point! This is what it must feel like for a man. I know have a much better understanding of why some guys just shut down with dominant women like that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/25 09:56 PM
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HAHAAHA yeah amen. I'm glad I'm home again.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/25 09:55 PM
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Yes, it is sad. I am happy to hear of your positive experiences with men. The weird thing is that many of those women were in relationships aswell!
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 03:24 PM
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This is beatiuful. As a young woman this gives hope for finding that peace in a marriage that I haven't yet found in boyfriends.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 12:53 PM
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Uh, idk about that, but im sure most guy would be more understanding if that was your only experience. But most importantly, you cant judge it off wether or not you feel satisfaction or not... It can be a horrible lay and it would still count
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/25 08:51 AM
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Most people have said that you should look into divorce, but with your circumstances the chances of finding a partner is low. It would also suck for your child to be seperated from his father. Have you considered an open relationship? Your husband should understand with him ommitting this for years and all.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/25 12:44 PM
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Now I am not saying this from a mean place, but you seem like you still have some lies of feminism left in your perception of your weight. You have done a great job with the weight loss, so I know you recognize that being fat is not good, however what I am reacting to is you referring to this: “Situation: I’ve always been a “curvy girl”, my whole life since I was a kid, and was a US size ~16 when we got married.” US size 16 is not necessarily curvy. Curvy refers mostly to bone structure, and how…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/25 03:02 PM
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I'm sorry about the situation, that sucks. And don't compare your situation with mine, me and him were 18 and 17 years, complete horndogs. How about when you and him first got together? What was he like then? Did you have enthusiasthic sex, and was he watching less porn? Is the situation now one that has evolved over the course of many years (what are your ages?), or always been a fixed part of him?
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/25 11:23 AM
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I was not in this exact situation, and had a boyfriend who deeply desired me. However a couple months into our relationship I do remember discovering he watched porn from time to time, and as it was my first relationship and I had never experienced that, my perception of his habit was kind of skewed. In my head, discovering that was like discovering infidelity. I started crying and became angry at his "betrayal". While he didn't understand how I could think of it as cheating, he came to terms wi…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/25 10:52 AM
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19! Relationships are so daunting and new at this age. I just want to get married now T-T
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/25 08:55 PM
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Good luck, how old are you though? Just wondering for context, you sound young
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/25 04:37 PM
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Well that makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/25 09:10 PM
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This is a debate sub… im pretty sure i can make an assumption with an accompinying argument. Believe it or not, its ok to generelize when talking about big-in number things like gender and demographics. Of course there are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:00 PM
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I’m 19 years. I would choose to marry a 39 year Omd WITHOUT HESITATION rather than being single and childless the rest of my life. Companionship and family would be much more important to me than my preferance for a 20-25 year old guy. And I would argue most women actually agree with me, but don’t realize it due to the fact that we don’t experience a lack of options and are unfamiliar with how chrushing loneliness in the romantic sense can be. Also, this question kind of undermines how much a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:53 PM
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Why don’t you consider anal as a bodycount?
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/24 07:13 PM
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Yeah thats what I hope for!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/24 07:11 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/24 07:11 PM
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Yeah, I am leaning the same way as you. I would personally want to give every detail, and then be loved, rather than feel like im hiding something and i am potentially undeserving of a guys affection.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/24 09:24 PM
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I guess it should be private yeah, but I dont think its trashy to tell a potential partner if he wants to know.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/24 09:22 PM
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Thats a great angle, ill steal that. Thanks. Ive slept with one ex, but have had a boyfriend that ive done oral sex with, so i guess ill say "ive only had sex with my first boyfriend, but i was intimate with the next boyfriend"
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/24 09:22 PM
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Thank you. Yes he would be there, im completely sure, but im not sure if I want to marry him, so I will take your advice either way. Thanks a lot!
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/24 10:23 PM
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Yeah I know I maybe should have waited, but it really wasn't to get over my ex or anyhting, and that's why everything is moving so slowly now.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/24 02:11 PM
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Well two weeks ago we became gf and bf. I can see how that is confusing, as stuff like this may vary based on country and age group. Thank you for the advice anyhow, I'll reconsider wether or not the sleepovers are worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/24 11:35 PM
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I've seen that as well, and I'm painfully aware that having sex with him is something I HAVE TO be certain about.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/24 11:33 PM
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how did you girls get the relationship first and sex later? What were your tips to keeping them excited and making your romantic/intimate interest still clear? Well, I just made a post about my situation, and trying to not have sex with my boyfriend. I got the relationship first because we both had mutual feelings developed during our friendship. Going from friends to lovers is in my opinion much easier than meeting people with the intention of dating them such as happens in dating apps. The fri…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/24 11:32 PM
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We see each other little because his job only gives him free time in the weekends, which is temporary. Yes my goal is marriage, but the relationship is only two weeks along, and we have been dating for four months, so I'm trying to vet him before I sleep with him.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/24 11:26 PM
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My reasons are that the relationship is fairly new, and unless I am certain that it can lead to marriage (I vet him for maybe 6 months), then I don't want to get too attached as sex can lead too. I also do not want to risk pregnancy as I know I couldnt bring myself to take abortion.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/24 11:25 PM
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Im trying to wait to spare my feelings in case it goes wrong. As I've said we are REALLY new. Like two weeks yesterday, but dating four months. So I would like to wait mby around 6 motnhs
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/24 10:59 PM
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Thanks for the link, it helps remind me of the reasons why, which as you are saying plentiful.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/24 10:57 PM
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I live in Scandinavia... People here are so anti social! Which country are you in, and how long ago was this?
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/24 11:01 PM
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Hahaha I don't know why you think I'm from UK, but I'm not. I'm from Scandinavia, and people here are so unsocial!! In other countries I know it's normal for guys to approach women. But I have similar platforms here I can try.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/24 10:58 PM
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omg thats genuis!!! Thank you so much!!!!!!! Event boards is a GENIUS idea!! I'll update how it'll go!
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/24 10:53 PM
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Omg a few days after I posted this a 40 year old man texted me on reddit and offered to talk because of this post T-T. Thank you for the advice, videocallling is a smart move!
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/24 10:49 PM
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Ok! I'll do this if I decide to download one, but I don't think I'll do it until I'm more desperate
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/24 10:48 PM
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The dancing class is a good idea! Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/24 10:47 PM
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I am ideally looking at a man aged 22-25. And by established I mean has finished studying and has a full time job. I do really now a lot of what I want in a partner due to my previous relationship. So you are right, it’s a numbers game
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/24 02:45 PM
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I’m in Europe, so here the legal drinking age is 18 haha. And I know college is supposed to be a gold mine for partners but I just can’t seem to be attracted to anyone here. I’m in a pretty humanities heathy bachelor, and would more likely consider IT or a STEM guy, but since we are in different buildings it’s harder. Thank you for the advice though. I’ll try to wait before I use them.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/24 02:43 PM
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