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I've also seen it mentioned that Swedish women and many European women prefer Latinos, theres a ton of European women doing Latino dances and listening to their music. In cases like this im sure most prefer Swedish men and its most likely a vocal minority (no pun intended) that are into non Swedish men.
/r/seduction21/05/26 04:49 PM
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I understand your point, im just saying labeling them as positive is not correct since they're actually negative. But I get the wording is tricky, we ultimately agree.
/r/seduction21/01/26 05:55 PM
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Yeah the black community really weaponizes racism to the point that they take it too far. That combined with a pervasive victim mentality leads to very hypocritical and toxic behavior surrounding racism. In general of course, as not all are the same.
/r/seduction21/01/26 03:27 PM
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Tell that to society
/r/seduction21/01/26 03:03 PM
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Very good points. I will say I dont think the whole "black stereotype" is a positive thing though, even if it gets them more dates they're still just viewed as nothing more than a glorified dildo or sexual experience. They are sought after for very animalistic/primal traits that is dehumanizing at the end of the day. I think one side of the coin that OP isn't considering maybe, is that there are absolutely white or non brown women out there who fetishize Latinos and go for "Latin Lovers", who ar…
/r/seduction21/01/26 03:02 PM
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You're 100% right and theres your answer. The reason why its harder for you as a Latino to date a non Latina, than it is for white men and to a certain degree black men is because of that: representation. The media has been glorifying black culture ever since George Floyd and the blm movements. They are more visible in the media and society so that's what most people/women see. It's a false hierarchy based on nothing and a social construct that actually supports racism instead of criticizing it.…
/r/seduction21/01/26 02:58 PM
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Not to jump in here but I think the main point is black history/culture gets told to disproportionate level in the media. When you consider Native Americans/Latinos have dealt with all the same things first and even to a worse degree it doesn't make sense that they would continue to be excluded from mainstream media. There is an over representation and disproportionate level of black culture being shown in the media to the point where the buzz words diversity, minority, poc, color, etc. all defa…
/r/seduction21/01/26 02:51 PM
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That's.....thats literally what happened to Latinos and why they are now called Latinos instead of Native Americans or more specifically Inca, Aztec, Maya, etc. You're actually proving OP right because you probably didn't know that due to tbe blatant race propaganda of black history/culture and the exclusion of Native American and Latino history/culture.
/r/seduction21/01/26 02:48 PM
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I've heard of yoga nidra too. Consistency is key I agree. And yeah meditation probably shouldn't be the primary focus, getting out there and talking to people is ultimately how you get better. I appreciate the advice it makes perfect sense.
/r/seduction21/01/26 02:41 PM
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Thanks for the detailed answer. This all makes sense to me and I have also seen firsthand the effects of not treating a pretty girl special, it's like they automatically become fascinated by you. Like you said, it's rare to them. My question was focused on presence cause I believe its the first step to getting into that right space, and its so powerful in terms of social impact. If you dont mind what type of meditation do you do? Just focusing on breath? I've read body scan meditations are good …
/r/seduction20/01/26 07:41 PM
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Can you expand on how your presence in the moment changed? Either how you felt in your body or what you started doing differently with people.
/r/seduction19/01/26 02:16 PM
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I like some of your points. I do think women are taught not to value honesty or integrity as much as men, we are surely held to a higher standard. That being said we also place a huge value on a woman's appearance and that can be detrimental to mental health. They're already more emotional than men, add to that the lack of instilling core values and just hammering beauty beauty beauty into them, its no wonder many women are childlike. These are just thoughts, at the end of the day men and women …
/r/seduction13/12/25 03:10 PM
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Curiosity with no attachment to the outcome will do wonders for you.
/r/seduction07/12/25 02:24 AM
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You keep saying worthless. That's unnecessary and taking it too far. She's a person she has value just like you.
/r/seduction17/11/25 10:45 PM
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Just be more interested in your own personal and lived experience than any other person's and you'll be on the path. You gotta be a little selfish. And curious about yourself, your emotions, why you do what you do, etc.
/r/seduction17/11/25 10:30 PM
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These are good points. I'll just say though I don't think being funny is a PILLAR of attraction/seduction. I think it's part of being yourself ie confidence. I would say being %100 unashamedly yourself is akin to being super confident, and from that space a lot of playfulness can come which includes being funny but it doesn't necessarily have to. Plenty of guys do well with women without being funny or even extroverted. "The silent type" "mysterious" "quiet confidence" etc.
/r/seduction27/10/25 03:53 PM
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What's gleam?
/r/seduction29/08/25 02:38 PM
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To put it simply; put yourself first. This can feel selfish at first if you're not used to it but make sure you're the priority. Cut out any actions and beliefs that make women the source of your happiness and center of your attention. When you stop being needy you start being attractive.
/r/seduction17/08/25 05:53 PM
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I think you're misunderstanding some of the core ideas in the book. There's a lot of over simplifications in your comment. For example, "Nice Guys avoid conflict". This isn't a statement about how we should be overly aggressive and seek out confrontation as men. This is about guys who avoid having difficult conversations with people in their lives that they need to have. It's about communication more than an attitude. If someone is being disrespectful to you and crossing your boundaries it's you…
/r/seduction17/08/25 05:51 PM
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There's probably some truth to that. I think the foundation for any sort of attraction even just platonic attraction is confidence and self love. If you love yourself to the point where you don't NEED someone else, that energy is very attractive and noticeable to the people around you.
/r/seduction11/08/25 03:06 PM
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Yes exactly and to further expand on "worth" and "status" it's all bs. Whoever the media promotes as high status is what most people will believe.
/r/seduction30/06/25 04:41 PM
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I guess the comments about OPs looks do hold some merit. But the point to take away is that not being needy is attractive. When someone can sense that you don't need them or aren't putting them on a pedestal in any way that shit is attractive af. Especially if you like yourself enough that you're typically in a genuinely good mood and have a nice vibe to you. It speaks volumes. We've all seen beautiful women with physically unattractive men before. Key is to have that authentic magnetism and con…
/r/seduction05/06/25 10:20 PM
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I was telling this to a friend but also I really have to tell myself this all the time. The less you need the more you will have. Not needing is such a powerful place to be in and most people haven't gotten there. You will attract more people, the more you are OK with the present moment and reality.
/r/seduction26/05/25 08:46 PM
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Yes. Excellent
/r/seduction26/05/25 08:43 PM
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I agree but also think there's more to it than that. Being a "nice guy" is often associated with meekness, shyness, people pleaser, lack of confidence, etc. It's the opposite of what creates that spark for women and also what inspires respect from men. I heard the term "kind man" and I like that better. I think it conveys intention and action more, as opposed to character or personality type like nice guy does.
/r/seduction22/05/25 02:38 PM
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There are two answers here. One is continuously approaching women and failing over and over until you start getting good and the nervousness starts to go away. The other is you do personal work on yourself and learn to love yourself first, so that you don't need to look for happiness or validation outside of yourself. You can still want what you want but you're no longer needy or desperate for sex or anyone else's company and you have a sort of inner peace inside your self. When you feel wholene…
/r/seduction19/05/25 08:17 PM
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You have to do personal work. It's very hard but you have to reflect on your life and who you have become as a person. Why do you want this girl? What does she represent to you? How do you feel when she doesn't reciprocate or respond well to you? You keep asking for what can you do to get her but the real question is what can you do for yourself- so that you don't feel like you need her.
/r/seduction21/04/25 10:11 PM
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This is insane for me to read because it's the exact thing that I'm dealing with right now. OP needs to figure out the underlying reasons why he wants this girl so bad. It's very likely it has nothing to do with her at all.
/r/seduction21/04/25 10:08 PM
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Exactly. Reels you in with some unorthodox but logical and intriguing advice, then pulls that number out of his ass. Weird post.
/r/seduction30/03/25 03:38 PM
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All confidence is is acceptance.
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:42 PM
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Can you elaborate on club or bar status? I understand dressing nice that's a given, but do you mean like being friendly with the staff and owner? Building relationships with them? I don't go to clubs often so that wouldn't be an option for me but I'm just curious if there's something I'm missing.
/r/seduction28/03/25 06:00 PM
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Damn that 2nd bitch was arrested for murder 😳
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:56 PM
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What did it say lol
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:51 PM
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Good post and great point about owning your shit. Confidence is and always will be king. Real confidence not the visual stuff that people fake. When you own who you are completely, it's like having a super power. You become unshakable and unphased. This comes from complete acceptance of yourself, your weaknesses, fears, the present moment, and ultimately acceptance of reality. That's a vibrating frequency that not a lot of people are on. On top of that, you mentioned some reactions you've gotten…
/r/seduction03/03/25 06:16 PM
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Interesting, specifically the part about women having this need or desire to fix men. "She will chase that 10% part of you to try to bring it out more". Hmm .. not sure if you're right about it but it's interesting to think about. Men are very mission oriented and need to have goals to strive for and achieve in order to feel fulfilled. Think of the Hero's Journey. That's men in simplistic terms. I'm wondering if the "Hero's Journey" for women is finding a man like that, a high quality man, and b…
/r/seduction24/02/25 07:13 PM
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The term "nice guy" has been hijacked in recent years and is now associated with weak timid men, even incels depending on who you talk to. There's nothing wrong with being "nice" as long as you are not also a doormat. That's why I prefer the distinction of being a kind man vs a nice guy. This is a great topic to discuss on this sub, because it ties into social dynamics and power plays so often. Being nice can be seen as weakness or strength depending on the situation. It would be very informativ…
/r/seduction24/02/25 06:47 PM
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Solid advice. And the number one way to end up doing all of these things naturally is to start putting yourself FIRST. Be more selfish, do things you want to do, indulge in your interests and hobbies, say NO when you don't want to do something. You'll end up cultivating a better relationship with yourself, gaining more self respect and in general liking yourself more, which will make you stop looking to other people for validation. So now instead of constantly trying to rock the boat in social s…
/r/seduction24/02/25 06:42 PM
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Would love to see that
/r/seduction23/02/25 07:31 PM
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I think this is a great post because it puts attention on the games that people play in social and dating situations. I think if someone isn't aware of how people position themselves to be higher status, and try to compete socially through body language, the way they speak, etc. then they are at a disadvantage and need to learn that. However, I think not enough attention is put on inner game and just working on oneself. You will naturally get to a place where you're more confident, less needy, n…
/r/seduction22/02/25 05:42 PM
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Great points
/r/seduction22/02/25 05:35 PM
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Maybe you're doing too much and it's coming across as needy or pushy. If you want it too much take a look inside yourself and see where that feeling is coming from. Neediness usually comes from insecurity of something. Never a bad thing to meditate on it.
/r/seduction06/11/24 05:35 PM
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I just spent the other night at a club where I was sitting at the bar for most of it. One of my friends I was with finally convinced me to go out on the dance floor and guess what happened?...I made a complete fool out of myself. My "moves" were awkward, cringe, bizarre, etc and I'm sure I looked like a complete fool. I was looking down at the floor with my eyes partially closed to try to better get in the zone and just feel the music, and when I looked up I see a whole wall of people laughing a…
/r/seduction06/11/24 12:18 AM
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Glad you're able to admit you could be the problem. In my experience it can take a lot of time to get to that perspective.
/r/seduction06/11/24 12:02 AM
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In other words be needless. Neediness is an instant attraction killer.
/r/seduction02/10/24 06:48 PM
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Damn not gonna lie this is some of the best straight forward advice I've ever heard from a woman and it mirrors my perspective on "game" as well. I don't spend too much time on this sub I just happened to open this post to see how OPs night went, but I'm familiar with the pickup scene since watching Mystery on VH1 when I was younger lol. Inner game is the end all be all in my opinion. It's cool to have some lines in your back pocket when you can't come up with anything to say which happens to ev…
/r/seduction29/09/24 10:00 PM
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Exactly I was going to comment this. OP is acting like the only fear comes from fear of animals or death/bodily injury. Social risks are very much valid reasons to feel fear. You are taking a risk by approaching women, your social status as well as attractiveness is up for review essentially and if they say no it's like confirmation that you are lesser status man. I know it's not that deep in today's day and age but like you said it's wired into us.
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:13 PM
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Life happens and while it's likely she's just not interested you don't really know what she's thinking until you get direct. Again, this depends on the connection and how you feel about her.
/r/seduction19/09/24 11:04 PM
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You could just be honest and direct too. Call her out in a non emotional way tell her you're interested but if she isn't that's fine you just don't want to wait your time. Obviously depends on how long you've been talking or how invested y'all are, etc
/r/seduction19/09/24 10:22 PM
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Nope. Perfectly normal. Have you tried to date? Your results are directly influenced by your actions.
/r/seduction19/09/24 10:09 PM
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Could be you need to find that right girl, or could be you need to find yourself and stop looking for happiness in sex and instead look within. I like the idea of going celibate for awhile.
/r/seduction17/09/24 12:31 AM
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Nice. Whatever you're doing is obviously working. Sucks that things like that get harder as you age but that's life. Thanks for the info!
/r/seduction10/09/24 06:55 PM
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So you don't do much cardio then?
/r/seduction10/09/24 06:50 PM
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When you say train hard what kind of training are you doing specifically? I'm in the gym 5 x a week doing weight lifting for hypertrophy. The one thing I will say I didn't finish a lot of cardio cause I was warned it would take away muscle.
/r/seduction10/09/24 06:21 PM
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You're lucky af then. Just go off of feel? Actually just looked again 22 is a great age for getting in shape it's a lot easier than when you get older.
/r/seduction10/09/24 04:41 PM
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How long did it take to get that lean and how much of a caloric deficit were you doing?
/r/seduction10/09/24 03:44 PM
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SLAP!!
/r/seduction13/06/24 04:12 PM
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What did the mom say in response to your line?
/r/seduction10/06/24 11:17 PM
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Arrange a few $100 bills like a fan in your hand and fan yourself with it. Works everytime
/r/seduction08/06/24 04:03 AM
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Interesting. Yeah the retinol serums work but they can only do so much. I've been using them for years and eventually stopped because I felt the effects were diminishing. Or at least I couldn't see the difference anymore. Botox has me interested too just to see what the difference would be. I know there are other treatments too that may be newer or cheaper so they aren't promoted as much. I just gotta do more research. Thanks for replying.
/r/seduction07/06/24 11:22 PM
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What kind of laser skin treatments did you do? What did you feel was most effective and maybe what isn't worth it? I'm in my mid 30's and considering treatment for lines on my face.
/r/seduction07/06/24 09:35 PM
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It's not about what you're doing (studying and focusing on work). It's about your attitude and mentality. Not being needy is more like a state of mind than an actual action. You probably need to look within yourself and see what are the reasons you act insecure and needy when you talk to women. What makes you nervous about them? For a lot of guys it's because they place their value in women's hands. Loving yourself is hard I'm not saying it's easy, but just consider that you will never ever in y…
/r/seduction02/06/24 04:27 PM
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Yeah that's power. Women can sense it and love it. Nothing like meeting a man who doesn't need you when 90% of guys they've met are needy, desperate, and don't know themselves.
/r/seduction02/06/24 04:40 AM
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Not to get too deep but a lot of times when people seek attention from the opposite sex it's because they're trying to replace the love and affection that they didn't receive from their parent(s). It's stupidly common and was something I realized about myself when I felt like I needed validation and attention from women but not sex.
/r/seduction22/05/24 06:48 PM
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He's basically saying be the kind of guy(mindset) that isn't even phased by this. You come back and see that and you're automatically feeling defensive or uncomfortable because in your head this is a bad situation...but you're making it that in your mind. Try to be curious instead about this new person instead of feeling defensive. Confidence and spontaneity will come from there. You can't be genuinely curious/calm AND be defensive or feeling shutdown at the same time.
/r/seduction18/05/24 03:59 AM
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You gotta make sure he's just a friend first. Wouldn't be out of line to ask her if he's her bf when he's out of hearing range. You can make it a joke since he's acting pretty defensive so just make fun of him a bit. If she says no then by all means continue to pursue if you want. Just ignore him and don't let him affect your emotional state, literally refuse to feel down and just stay positive. She'll see that you're confident even around other guys in these situations and it'll make you look e…
/r/seduction13/05/24 03:37 PM
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Eh, it's not that serious in my opinion. "Rejection" is a huge tenet of this subreddit. It doesn't mean people hate themselves just because they use the term.
/r/seduction10/05/24 03:27 PM
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