Legaladesgensheu Archive

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-4	What hard proof can I look at that disproves the black pill. Not OP (and also not black-pilled), but I have been raised as a feminist and grew up in feminist spaces and my experience with feminist women is what lead me to red pill content. I saw most of them choose terrible partners and also my own ex turned out to have cheated on me with a stereotypical toxic masculine guy. I can even back this up with my post history, 7-9 years back I was taking pro-feminist positions on this side (including the purple pill subreddit, even ShitRedditSays), but life expe…	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/24 08:45 AM
12	Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young. It is shocking how many men are woefully incompetent fathers, who are too lazy and selfish to change a diaper, or get up to feed during the night, or sacrifice any of their leisure time to play with their children. I completely agree with that. But isn't it also shocking how many women choose partners where it's painfully obvious that this will be the case? Women are contributing to the problem by preferring assertiveness in men over caring qualities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 07:49 AM
1	Should we just raise the consenting age to 25? How old are you, if I might ask?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/23 08:31 AM
0	Should we just raise the consenting age to 25? Age of consent is only 14 in germany when the partners is younger than 21. Else it is 16, but you will be punished hardly if you are found guilty in exploiting the teenager. When it comes to ONS and such the age of consent is effectively 18. The other rules are just to not make teen relationsships illegal. At least that's how I always understood them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/23 08:28 AM
1	RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to seriously date? You are right. That is why I think that men should be aiming for LTRs in their 20s too, especially if they want children. But many women pursue short term relationships in their 20s and they also pursue relationships with older guys too, in some cases. So as a guy in your early twenties you aren't able to easily find women willing to commit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 09:45 PM
0	RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to seriously date? I disagree. The reason why age matters is precisely that there are many things to consider, so young age gives you a lot of time to figure things out in a relationship. With a 20 year old gf you can wait 8-10 years before having children, with a 30 year old not so much. And this time before having children is very important, at least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 01:52 PM
0	RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to seriously date? It depends if you want to have children. If you do not want to have children, yes there is nothing wrong with a 30+ woman. But if you want to have children the time frame for doing that is very limited, compared to let's say a 20 year old. And I think most men that want to have a family find it highly preferable to have a long relationship before having children, because having children will put the relationship under enormous stress in many cases. So it's good to establish a strong foundation b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 10:53 AM
1	RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to seriously date? I'm blue pill on most issues, but red pill when it comes to the age thing. I am 26 years old and would still be willing to date women my age. But even as I grow older I would only date "post wall woman" if they are childfree and want to remain childfree, at least generally speaking. I don't want to start a family with a woman I only had 2-3 years relationship with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 10:48 AM
1	Besides sex, do you even like women? Do you deep down see women as equals? Yes. I think there are some differences between the sexes on average, but that doesn't make one of the sexes inferior or superior. Especially since you can't really say much on an individual level about a person only knowing their sex. Do you think women and men can connect intellectually and that such a connection is the basis for a relationship? Yes. But I agree with the Red Pill in that online dating creates an unhealthy dynamic which leads many women to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 05:00 PM
2	Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHING So how did being a wage slave protect the men in Ukraine?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/23 04:55 AM
7	There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of Pennsylvania Anecdotal evidence, but my father got a child in his 60s with his new wife in the 30s. Don't think that scenario would work with the sexes reversed (excluding extreme outlier cases).	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 11:07 PM
4	Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movement What sick fuckers shame women for prefering partners that are romantic and doting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 07:08 AM
1	I asked Chat GPT how a short man can be more attractive to the opposite sex, and this is what it said. No matter what gender you tell the AI you are, it will always focus on confidence as the key factor to attractiveness. I personally think that's delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 12:50 PM
1	I asked Chat GPT how a short man can be more attractive to the opposite sex, and this is what it said. Query: I am an ugly woman. How can I increase my attractiveness to men? Reply: The most important thing to remember is that beauty lies within. That being said, there are some things that you can do to increase your attractiveness to men. Work on improving your confidence. Confidence is incredibly attractive, and it’s the first thing people notice. So make sure to take care of yourself, develop a positive attitude, and remind yourself that you are beautiful. Enhance your physical appearance. Inv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 12:49 PM
3	Men need to give up on western women and go overseas Getting strong anti-social personality disorder vibes from OP	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 05:15 PM
1	Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn't I agree and I think that is true for men too. Our current society doesn't really create an incentive structure to focus on creating a family. Instead, it incentives both genders to focus on careers. If that is a good thing is up for debate though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 04:26 PM
0	Why bother dating in the west? I want a real partner, not a sex doll.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 10:06 AM
6	Sisters, I want you to explain this graph to me.. I personally know plenty of women in their 20s who have relationships with 30 and even 40 year old guys. I don't know a single guy who has dated a 10 year older woman. That being said, age gap relationships are the exception, not the rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 10:38 PM
2	Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is important I just looked up the data from the Australian Bureau of Statistics. They count who filed for divorce. Anyways, the absolute numbers for divorce applicants by sex in 2021 are listed: Male: 14,396 Female: 14,106 Joint: 27,739 So where did you get your 80% from again?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 01:00 PM
1	Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is important What stat are you referring to then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 11:25 AM
2	Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is important No, my father was the one who said he wanted the divorce, my mother did not want it. My mother could have been the one contacting the lawyer to file for divorce - I don't know that. My point is that the person initiating the divorce and filing for divorce are not always the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 10:38 AM
1	Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is important Yes. My mother for example was glad she had a job when she and my father divorced. And that one was initiated by my father (even though it might still have been my mother actually filing for the divorce, which would influence the statistic in your favor). It doesn't matter anyways who initiates the divorce. It is very likely that a marriage will not last nowadays, so you need to be prepared for that scenario.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 09:40 AM
9	Women being loyal and contributing to the war effort The top interest of the country is the safety and wealth of the political and financial elites ruling the country. Which are not the ones dying in the wars, usually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 09:05 AM
1	Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is important Getting careers for women is not important to get a partner, it is important to be able to be financially independent from their partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 08:54 AM
0	More female hypocrisy. More female hypocrisy - proven by a meme you yourself created. Why do mods allow this shit while banning interesting discussions?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 09:16 PM
4	Female will never stop being hypocrisy. It's a 2pac quote	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 10:44 AM
5	Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children? I think it's age dependent. I think that most 20 year old women are fine with waiting 8-10 years before having children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 07:42 AM
2	Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children? The more years you have, the more time you have to live through a few crises, which is when you really get to know the other person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 07:40 AM
0	Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children? If they don't accept it, tough luck. I know what my preferences are. I would rather have no children than children with a woman I don't know for that long. I am 26, so at the moment, I would currently still date women my age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 10:54 PM
5	Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children? No, I don't want to have 10 years to decide. I commit from the start, but I want to have 10 years of having fun & travelling and developing a deep relationship. I just don't want to jump into having kids with a woman I barely know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 10:40 PM
2	Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children? I am 26. So I would still be open to date women my age, but I know that I am not going to date women over 30, even as I grow older. But to be clear: I would 100% prefer to have a girlfriend my age now, since I am not a fan of age gap relationships. My father got a child at the age of 60 (with a wife in her 30s) so I think I will manage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 10:38 PM
5	Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children? As a bluepill guy with the opposite view: It's not about attractiveness. It's about the ability to have children after 8-10 years of a LTR (which is what I personally would wish for).	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 04:57 PM
2	Debating with people who literally deny the “harsh” realities of behaviour that TRP let’s men know about is a waste of your time Some people like me were raised by feminist mothers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 06:34 AM
1	When you know a women has a high N count do you think their man is seen as desirable or...? It wouldn't really influence my judgement of the man I think. There are guys that are fine with partners having a high n count (there were times in my life where I would have been okay with it, too). I don't really judge women because of their N count either. It only influences my personal judgement of them as a potential partner, but besides that I really do not care how many guys you have slept with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 12:26 PM
1	Their is no incentive to date as a man No, I agree with that completely. I have never used dating apps and I have been content with being single most of my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 04:36 PM
1	Q4W: Why can't you make guys wait for sex? I was raised with feminist values by my mother and I think it contributed to me being not successful with women. It didn't teach me how women actually want to be approached. Most women like assertive men and being overtly respectful of boundaries isn't a sign of assertiveness. Most women do not like the guy that asks "would you be fine with us kissing now?" but prefer the guy who just moves in for the kiss (of course given that they find the guy attractive all things considered). The fact that m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 09:03 AM
1	Their is no incentive to date as a man It is very much like dating. You need to have a good resume that show experience and skills. And that will decide if you get invited to present yourself. And then personality becomes very important. If you are a socially awkward looser you will have a harder time with a bad resume then a charismatic person with a bad resume.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 08:24 AM
1	Their is no incentive to date as a man Yeah, so what is your point here? This only means that hunting for a job will even take a greater toll at finances and emotional well being if you suck at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/22 09:51 PM
1	Their is no incentive to date as a man I didn't mean to attack you. My point was more about the fact that if you suck at job-hunting it will take a toll at your finances and emotional well being too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/22 07:34 PM
3	Social awkwardness is the biggest death sentence for men Same, glad to see I am not the only one. Maybe it's what growing up with the internet made of us?? Not sure. But I am extremely socially inept as well and I constantly feel like an alien in social situations. I can perform well in situations like delivering lectures (or other business situations) where the roles are clear cut. So it's not like it's social anxiety either. It's just social situations without clear rules (like going to a bar or parties) which I really do not understand at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/22 03:40 PM
5	Their is no incentive to date as a man That's probably because you are a failure at dating and not a failure at job-hunting. (I say that as a man in that very position)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/22 10:59 AM
1	CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards. Not girl btw, unless you're a pedo So you're telling me the Temptations were pedos when they were singing about "My Girl"? And I guess Mariah Carey is a pedo too, since she has the song "Boy (I Need You)"??	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 03:59 PM
2	CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards. Well yeah, if you want to have a dependent girl you at least need to bring in the resources so she can be able to depend on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 06:24 PM
1	Why makes someone undateable? I would say I am undateable. I have always been somewhat socially awkward, which usually is not really desirable to women. My first and only girlfriend cheated on me three years ago and told all my friends about it behind my back, which all came out one year ago. I lost basically all my friends because I felt betrayed by them too. So now I am in a situation of having no friends and being socially awkward and also jaded as a person and having trust issues, which basically kills my romantic prospe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 12:30 PM
14	CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards. Nah, I would take a girl that can't provide for herself financially for sure, if she's a good partner otherwise. I think a lot of men would agree, also some because they like the dependency it introduces to the relationship (which is morally questionable for sure, but let's be honest).	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 09:52 AM
2	CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards. Why do you think he should do it? I think there are multiple reasons why it's better to stay away from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 09:49 AM
1	The Myth of Men’s Time Vs Women’s Time I am perfectly capable of cleaning after myself and cooking for myself and never expected my ex to do any of those things. I never moved in with her though. When I was a child my parents were always fighting because my dad would not do much in the household which made my mom very mad and this influenced me a lot as a child. And it made it very important to me to learn household skills, because I didn't want this to happen in my relationships. But to be honest, my experience is that women do not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 10:27 PM
1	What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person? Can you explain to me how leftists use the same rhetoric concerning abortions and vaccinations? Because I really do not see it and I don't think you have explained that (nor do I think this was even what your own joke was about).	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 06:25 PM
1	What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person? So how exactly is this leftists opposing and supporting something with the exact same reasoning? What you just showed in your comment that conservatives and leftists use similar reasoning when arguing against choice in the respective topics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 06:12 PM
1	What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person? Are you on drugs? This was never about "opposing and supporting something with the exact same reasoning". It was about the irony of being pro-choice in once case and anti-choice in another. Or alternatively, being anti-patriarchy in one case and pro-patriarchy in another. And me pointing out that the conservatives are doing the same, but just the other way around. Leftists don't oppose free choice concerning vaccinations and support choice concerning abortions with the exact same reasoning. Wher…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 04:01 PM
1	What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person? You: "Look at these dumb lefties saying choice good and choice bad in these two topics" Me: "But don't the conservatives just do the opposite: say choice bad and choice good on these two topics?" You: "Well yeah see the two choices are actually different when I talk about them. When the leftists talk about them they are actually the same and the leftists are hypocrites."	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 03:00 PM
1	What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person? In the one case we are talking about the choice of putting ones own bodily autonomy above the life of a fetus, which is strictly dependent to that very body, compared to the choice of putting ones own bodily autonomy above the hypothetical death of potentially multiple persons, which exist independent to ones own body. These are two different issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 12:16 PM
1	What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person? Yes, I am glad you noticed that those are false equivalences, because you were the one who equated them in the first place. You equated the choice of getting an abortion to the choice of getting a vaccine. These choices are not the same thing, for the exact same reasons you stated. Arguing that there is a contradiction of being pro-choice in one case and against choice in the other is simply a bad argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 11:23 AM
1	What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person? You know that these contradictions always go both ways though? Conservatives don't care about "my body, my choice" when it comes to pregnancy, but suddenly care about it when it comes to vaccinations. Conservatives don't care about feminism, but suddenly do when it can be used against muslims.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 09:52 AM
1	What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person? Yes, because I regret getting vaccinated three times. I don't think it was necessary for young, healthy men like me to get vaccinated. I don't really buy into the conspiracy theories either, so I don't think the vaccines are necessarily harmful (my health has not deteriorated or anything), but the evidence in favor of the vaccines to me is not satisfactory at all. And I think they have negative side effects in rare cases, especially for older folks. My mother personally knows three people that "…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 09:45 AM
1	There is zero reason as a man to get married I am not married, but my plan is as follows: Don't marry before five years into the relationship, sign a prenup (that you both agree on) and always take responsibility and care concerning your own well being (including mental health and physical fitness), even whilst in the marriage. I would not marry because my girl wants it. I marry because I want it. I want a partner that is commited on spending her life with me and marriage is a sign of that commitment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 11:01 AM
1	Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from? One reason that is often overlooked in this discussion: I want to have kids. But I also want to have a relationship of 5-10 years before having kids. I am 26 years now and would date girls my age, but I don't think I will date girls older than maybe 28 in the future even as I grow older. I would love to find my partner now, but so far I had no success (1 girlfriend for 4 years that cheated on me). Also, a few girls my age are dating older guys in the 30s or 40s which makes me think that maybe it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 09:57 AM
3	Q4M: Would you wife up a slut who you're REALLY connected to? There are many people who think that it is inherently wrong to be a slut. So I just wanted to say that I am not one of them. I don't judge women for it, just like I wouldn't judge a guy for being 5'4'', as you said. I could easily be friends with a slut, but I would not date them in most cases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 07:41 AM
2	Q4M: Would you wife up a slut who you're REALLY connected to? In this very hypothetical scenario I would surely do it. I don't think there is anything inherently wrong with being a slut. The only reason I wouldn't date one is that I do not want to be cheated on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 06:28 AM
7	The "female gaze" vs "male gaze" and why as a guy I get so annoyed at the explanations Man, I am really envious of your story. I would wished to have that life. Sadly my first and only girlfriend (who I wished to spend my life with) cheated on me ;-(. I am happy to hear that what is the dream of every hopeless romantic worked out for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 06:09 PM
3	What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy? I believe that the fetus is human, but that the bodily autonomy of the woman is a human right and that it is the higher level right compared to the right to live of the fetus. Correct me please, but as I understand you your argument is that the fetus has the higher level right, because it is there with no fault at its own. Just like I am justified in killing in self-defense if I am brought in that situation with no fault on my own. Am I getting you right there? So let me check your philosophical…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 01:00 PM
6	What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy? Arguing that abortion isn't murder because the unborn is not human is a strawman though, at least when it comes to my own position. I do think that the unborn is human. My line of reasoning would more be along the lines of that I think that every person has authority over their own body, which means a woman is not obliged to provide her own body to the survival of a fetus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 09:52 PM
15	What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy? Again, you are confusing morality and legality. I think abortions should be legal, generally. I don't think abortions are morally right or wrong (or "OK") per se. It really depends on the case, but I think it should be legal in all cases, even the ones I disapprove of morally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 08:20 PM
19	What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy? Just because I want abortions to be legal doesn't mean I think all reasons for abortion are morally right. I think aborting a child because of their race or gender is clearly morally wrong, but I don't really think there is a way to outlaw that, besides either banning abortion completely or banning screening for the sex of the fetus before birth - both bad solutions in my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 07:51 PM
2	Q4W: Have you ever caught yourself or a female friend doing something that seems to confirm RP beliefs? I think most women, even here, have not deeply engaged with red pill theory and thus only have a rough & wrong idea what it is. But why would they engage with it? Most red pill content is clearly targeted at men and very often very misogynist. There really isn't much into it for women to engage with it, for the most part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 05:49 AM
6	Q4W: Have you ever caught yourself or a female friend doing something that seems to confirm RP beliefs? The few comments here that concede that the red pill made predictions all seem to conflate the Red Pill with traditionalism. I do not think that the two are the same, really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 08:38 PM
2	There are two types of men that women hate the most: men with options and men with self control. As someone with great self-control I don't think women hate me. To hate me, in the way you described, they would have find me to be desirable in the first place, which they don't (apparently). Also; I rarely use porn. I don't see why you think that's something men with self control would do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 08:27 PM
2	Is there double standard when it comes to watching pornography while in a relationship? I really do not get this debate. If you are not fine with your partner watching porn, tell them and if they do not care to respect your preference than you are free to react to that. Why is this so difficult?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 11:19 AM
1	Q for men only : Can you ever see a woman as an equal? I see women as equals. It would never occur to me to think of them otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 12:26 PM
6	The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative. I love individual freedom (I am a libertarian) and I agree with your propositon that the decline in quality relationsships is caused by freedom. But I fundamentally disagree with your conclusion: I don't think we should embrace all the negative changes that come with the rise of individual freedom. Look at the increasing obesity rates in the west - it is arguably caused by the rise of individual freedom too. But do you think we should embrace that? The sensible thing is to fight it, but not with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 08:18 PM
16	What's the appeal of the bad boy? Assertiveness is the better word, in my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 09:11 PM
1	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? Yes, but I don't buy into the Red Pill argument that women necessarily love assholes. Your average chad doesn't have to invest in personality, because his looks are enough. This is the same for women too - if you're beautiful enough you can afford to be a bitch. If you are the ugly duckling you need to invest in personality to get a partner. When it comes to men assholery also comes of as self-confidence and assertiveness which women desire in men. But I think the ideal partner that women desire…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 06:31 PM
1	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? That is why we recommend them to go to the gym ;-)	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 07:46 PM
2	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? Yeah, I agree this is a misconception that some RPers (and especially incels) have. They extrapolate from the fact that good looks help to find partners (especially short term partners) to the claim that looks are all that matters to women, which is false. If you are an ugly looking dude you still can have chances in the dating market if you put in tons of hard work (not just concerning your looks, but especially social status and personality). As a very ugly looking chick it's basically game ov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 07:33 PM
6	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? My point isn't that women are shallow. In fact, I claim they are less shallow than men. But women have usually more options in the dating market than men have, so for men to stand out they have to do more than just "be respectful". I personally think that from the perspective of most women it might look like "being respectful" is enough, because that's what is important to them after having already filtered out guys because of their low social status, low self-confidence and bad looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 07:20 PM
4	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? I agree that looks are not that important as some men make it up to be. As I said, I think men care more about physical appearance than women do. But social status is extremely important, just as is self-confidence. And working on your looks in terms of getting fit/working out help you to achieve that and will help you a lot on the dating market.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 06:57 PM
12	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? Even as a bluepill guy I disagree. As a man, if you want to make yourself attractive to women you need to stand out from other men in as many ways as possible. It is hard work. A good personality helps for sure, but good looks are important, physical health is important and social status is very important. And all of these are achieved with hard work and a nice personality alone will not make the cut. This is also because women look for many different things in men at the same time, while men ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 06:40 PM
23	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? Are you really sure that this has something to do with gender at all? I know a lot of women that are good friends with their exes. While me, personally, as a man, I think I am somewhat of a "light-switcher" myself. Dismissive-avoidant attachment style and all that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 06:28 PM
3	As a woman, I think gender roles are natural Ok, even if they did see me as a eunuch. Why the fuck would I care? Did not hurt me, did not feel mocked. Still seems like an insecure mindset to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 08:32 AM
6	As a woman, I think gender roles are natural lol, that is a delusional take. How insecure do you have to be to take being nice and kind as mocking? I mean even if their goal was to mock me, why would I care? What I got from it was that they were nice and kind to me. Did not hurt me a single bit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 05:55 PM
6	As a woman, I think gender roles are natural Well yeah, maybe. There is a reason why I decided to "man up" in the recent years. My point simply was that I never got mocked by women because of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 05:09 PM
5	As a woman, I think gender roles are natural What? They didn't pity me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 03:05 PM
8	As a woman, I think gender roles are natural I fully agree with your comment, but the economic and political situation nowadays are making having a traditional family very hard, even if you want to. Economically because you most often need two incomes. Politically because of things like divorce laws.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 07:24 AM
13	As a woman, I think gender roles are natural I don't think that's true. I used to be a very feminine men. To be honest, I think women were kinder to me because of it, even though it did not make me attractive as a partner at all. I think that more women support free gender expression than men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 07:16 AM
1	Q4W What are some physical & non-physical traits do you dislike in men? She literally said she doesn't like high energy in men, NGMI.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/22 06:30 AM
1	To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense? Hi, thank you so much. I don't want to get dragged into the RP rabbit hole. I know that RP teaches that real love is not possible and that's something I fundamentally don't agree with. I just think that there are some truths like that women on average value assertiveness in men above caring qualities, for example. But I also don't think it's okay to judge individuals because of averages either. I also don't believe that women are significantly more likely to cheat than men, even though I am open…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 04:32 PM
3	To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense? Unfortunately I am still broken by it. Happened one year ago 🙁. I don't generalize it on all women. If you go on infidelity subreddits you clearly see it happens to women too and they face very similar feelings/thoughts in reaction to it. But as I said, it made me realize that there is some truth to what RP is saying (ofc it's not only this experience but other oberservations too).	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 03:01 PM
2	To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense? Thanks for the kind words. Yeah, it sucks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 02:21 PM
7	To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense? My girlfriend of four years, who self-identified as feminist, cheated on me with the typical toxic-masculine chad. I only got to know about it two years after the fact. I still consider myself blue-pill because I don't have any resent against women whatsoever and hold egalitarian values. But this experience and others in the relationship made me realize that there is something to the points that RP makes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 01:54 PM
8	What do you think of evolutionary psychology, especially as it relates to sex? Most of the theories can't really be empirically tested, yet are treated by some as if there proven facts. It's important to keep these limitations in mind. In many cases ev-psych consists of post-hoc explanations. But I am positive there will be much progress in the sciences in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 09:54 AM
0	is there a term for involuntary celibates who do NOT hate the opposite gender (but are also not virgins)? What? I always thought being a virgin was a defining criteria of being an incel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 09:14 AM
1	What actually happens when women lower their standards and settle for men they don't find attractive: resentment and unhappiness Interesting, I would think that men appreciate fashion advice. I surely would! And I would also think that men are not as easily hurt by such comments, but I am sure you made your experiences. But the things you mentioned sound more like identities then fashion choices. I don't think I could really pull of any of the styles you mentioned, because it's just not who I am. So as I said, it helps to have knowledge of who you want to be and what you want to project on the outside. I was interested in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 11:42 AM
2	What actually happens when women lower their standards and settle for men they don't find attractive: resentment and unhappiness Hi, thanks for the lengthy reply. Did not expect you to tell me you lifestory, lol. I like your perspective though (I like to believe in the possibility of self-improvement) and I think your story is interesting. Your story also shows though that it is helpful to know what kind of person you want to be. I think most guys are a bit challenged when it comes to style because they don't really have a mental image of what kind of guy they want to be. At least that's kinda my problem when it comes to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 10:58 PM
2	What actually happens when women lower their standards and settle for men they don't find attractive: resentment and unhappiness Question @ OP: Do you think attractiveness is something that men can work on? Or, if you made that experience yourself, do you think your ex-bf could've done something to be more attractive? (Wear better clothes, put more effort into looks, work out, work on personality)? If yes, wouldn't it be the best option to communicate the lack of attraction or try to find ways to motivate the other person to change? If the answer is no it's of course a hopeless endeavour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 04:56 PM
1	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? lol, thanks for your replies. Honestly in that case, I don't care about the exact n-count so much as the fact if the girl is focused on LTRs, which seems to be the case in your case. Unlessss your n-count being higher than 2 is because of cheating. That of course would get a no from me aswell. If you had a two month period of sleeping around I honestly personally would not care, even if I knew about it. I just wouldn't want to have a gf that has a lengthy history of sleeping aroung. Last explana…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 02:55 PM
1	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? I think it's not that hard to figure out. Did you have a history of having long term relationsships? That speaks in your favor. Did you have a history of being single without hooking up (meaning without partying or using online dating)? That speaks also in your favor. Do you have a history of years of clubbing and/or online dating? I don't think we would be a good match. I think it's possible to find out. Latest when I'd meet your friends. Again, I don't think that having a high n count is bad p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 02:30 PM
1	Is being married to a person you do not love anymore really that bad? By all means don't break the marriage but try to bring love back. Ofc you can break up, but I would only do it after having tried everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 10:57 AM
1	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? I wouldn't directly ask about it directly, that would be pretty tone-deaf and inappropriate. But I still would piece together the pieces after some time. It's not something I would necessarily break up over either, but it would contribute to my idea of you as a person and as a potential partner in a negative way. And to all the people that recommend lying about it - I would definitely break up if I wound out that my girlfriend lied to me about it with the intention of deceiving me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 05:33 AM
–	Q4W why won't you give our fucking hoodies back after we break up???? I still have some houseplants that my ex gifted me and so does she. Even though our breakup was ugly (she cheated) and I have no contact to her, I still like to maintain the plant. And yeah, it reminds me of the relationship, but more of the better times. I think throwing away stuff is the worst option, honestly. That necklace could have been used by someone else, the painting could have been meaningful to someone else. Next time I would recommend you to give the things away for free, if you don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/22 07:48 AM
–	Q4W why won't you give our fucking hoodies back after we break up???? Clothing should be returned, but gifts should be kept, in my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/22 07:29 AM
1	Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof. The compensation is never easily quantifiable, but I think it is fair to give a huge compenation. Now if it was the other way around, she cheated on him, then she should get no money even if she is a housewife. That's just what I think would be right. As I stated otherwhere in the thread the best way to deal with this with a prenub. The best is to agree with your partner before marriage on the conditions when cheating happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 06:51 PM
19	Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof. Well, both arguments (having contributed to his wealth and being cheated on) are arguments in her favor. But I think even if he cheated on her as a housewife, after multiple years of marriage, she would deserve a lot of money. Housewifes too contribute to men success in ways that are not easily quantifiable and they too would deserve compensation for getting wronged, in my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 05:31 PM
6	Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof. As I stated otherwhere I think prenups with infidelity clause basically are the solution to this. You can find a legally binding with your partner before you get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 03:24 PM
1	Have you ever turned a woman down for her body count? Have you ever turned a woman down No, I took the one chance that I got	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 03:06 PM
4	Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof. You're not forced to marry. Also, the problem exists for men and women, as this case clearly shows. A prenup is not just for men, it can be good for both partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 03:05 PM
10	Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof. If they don't agree with cheating, why wouldn't they agree with it? He did not broke up with her, but he cheated and I think that deserves to have consequences and it makes sense that they are that high based on his wealth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 02:50 PM
2	Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof. You should sign a prenup with terms you both agree on. E.g. you get money if he cheats, but you don't get money if you cheat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 02:38 PM
-1	Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof. Source?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 02:37 PM
4	Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof. Prenuptial agreements are a thing and are a solution to the entire problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 01:18 PM
50	Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof. If the reason for the divorce is being cheated on you deserve the money, that's no question to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 01:14 PM
1	Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ? In my case it was A, but it also contributed that my ex won most of my own friends over (for example confiding to them that she cheated on me before telling it to me). I saw a similar pattern happen to other guys too. Girlfriend breaks up, she keeps the friends that once were friends of her bf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 04:51 PM
4	Men 30+, is it true that you prefer not to date 30 year old woman I have a different view on that and would consider myself 'sane'. I am currently 26 years old and would love to have a girlfriend my age. But if I was 35, I still think my ideal age would be younger than 30. The reason for this is, that I want to have children, but I want to have them with a partner that I had a long relationsship with. I can't have a 10 year relationship with a 35 old women and expect to start a family with her when she's 45. Again, I would ideally prefer this to happen now wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 03:30 PM
-1	Why shouldn’t women give up on dating if you guys act like a 25 year old is elderly? Personally speaking, I would like to have a 5-10 relationship with my girl before we get children/start a family. So that is the reason I would prefer my girlfriend to be younger, even though I would not say I fetishize age. I am 26 so now I would be fine dating someone my age. But if I get older and still don't have a gf, I would for sure prefer younger women. But I would love to grow old with someone together. Edit: Anyone wants to explain the downvotes? I am open to hearing others opinions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 02:26 AM
1	CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't. Men are worse in communicating their emotions compared to women. There are exceptions (I would say I am one of them), but a lot of men just really truly suck at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 11:29 AM
1	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun I agree with your premise. They do not need to justify their life choices to anyone and they should have fun. I would say the same for men aswell. BUT: women should be aware of the consequences of their life choices. Women age, their looks and attractiveness fades and some of them might regret putting "having fun" (which means having multiple partners /ONS) instead of focusing and investing in having a family. They will probably be able to settle down with some guy in their thirties, but wouldn'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 07:38 AM
5	What are true red flags in a potential spouse? But if none of them are Takers, who are they giving to?🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/22 10:14 AM
1	Abortion & consequences: the reason a man gets no say I am no expert on the topic, but I would assume there is a way, at least if a notary is involved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 03:49 PM
4	Abortion & consequences: the reason a man gets no say If you want to have a say as a man talk to your partner beforehand. If it really is that important to you make a contract that you both can agree on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 02:12 PM
8	Society needs a more widespread recognition of toxic femininity I would add "not being able to say no" to the list of things that are toxic feminine. I mean, it's a problem a lot of women claim to have. First of all, women hurt themselves with this. So it's literally toxic to themselves. But it's also bad on a societal level, because it benefits people that disrespect boundaries compared to people that do respect them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 01:30 PM
2	College men are increasingly shifting right, while college women are shifting left. Why do you think that is? Yeah, as I said I consider myself libertarian. I agree that the right has similar double standards, but I was speaking about my personal experiences. I was heavily involved in the left and never involved in the right. Also, I don't agree with the right politically on any of the things that you mentioned. I am pro-choice, pro-gay marriage, anti-military spending, pro-open borders and generally pro-individual freedom anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 07:52 AM
2	College men are increasingly shifting right, while college women are shifting left. Why do you think that is? I can only speak from personal experience as someone who migrated from the radical left towards libertarianism (I still hold egalitarian values). For me it had everything to do with personal experiences within the left. In my experience many people on the left are very envious and lazy people that would probably make the world worse if they themselves were in power. Also a lot of them have psychological struggles that they project unto society (or blame society for). When it comes to the topic o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 06:29 AM
1	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? My post was not intended to be offensive. My point was more about pointing to the general fact that when red pillers speak about women as a group and the benefits they seem to have, they often only mean women younger than 30. Many women older than 40 many will tell you of the experience of feeling "invisible" compared to their 20s. You don't think that's the case, or what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 04:35 AM
1	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? Do you think this is true for women of all ages? I think this is only true for women younger than 30 (of course there are some women who are still very hot in their 30s or 40s). Adding to this, in my experience the women who say "I stay single forever" are usually 30+.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 06:13 PM
15	Where did you get your opinions about women? I was raised a feminist and still think feminism is more good than bad. In the last few years I made some experiences that made me more skeptical about the things I was thaught. I still consider myself bluepill, in which I mean I still hold strong egalitarian values. But in the past few years I made a lot of experiences that showed me that Red Pill just... kinda has a point on some issues? Like the dating advantage that women have. Or the fact that women prefer aggressive/assertive men to agreea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 06:35 PM
5	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell Yeah, I definitely agree that RP/PP guys are not better for women. But I also think that RP guys try to adapt to what they perceive as women's mate choices to increase their chances: they try not to be nice and be more assertive/showing social status. Red Pill probably directly disengages men from partaking in mental load/emotional labor (because it makes you a beta in their view). "Pick better" obviously is a one-sided response. But again, in my experience, many women don't put much value into …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:55 PM
3	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell I agree with your position, but I want to add my own unpopular opinion about women adding to this: I think the complaint about emotional labor/mental load reflects upon women's mate choices. I would think that agreeable/sensitive men are probably better at sharing mental load. But most women prefer assertive men over those traits, which is not a good indicator of sharing mental load - quite the opposite. Assertive men are very often self-centered and won't do their share of relationship work. Ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 05:48 PM
3	The Red Pill’s biggest shortcoming and why men need to actually work on understanding women (and how to do it) As someone who has read a few of the books you mentioned: On the one hand, I think a lot of TRP men clearly lack empathy towards women and fundamentally don't understand their struggles. I think for those men reading books like this might be helpful. On the other hand there is an undeniable truth to the facts that TRP points to. Like the dating advantage that women have or that women for the most part choose assertive partners over non-assertive ones, even if the assertive ones are toxic/agressi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 06:57 PM
1	Are women just as cruel as men? I agree that it's been evoutionary beneficient for women to prefer males that show traits of aggressiveness/assertiveness. But that's precisely what I mean with the word "enable". It is a trait that they select for and which gets rewarded on a societal and individual level (to a certain extent). Is there an alternative? I mean, we could argue if that evolutionary inherited preference for aggressiveness is still necessary in todays society, but that argument is not gonna change the fact of hard-w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 11:48 AM
2	Are women just as cruel as men? If a guy is nice but dominant and assertive then they aren't eyeing the guys who are just purely dominant/aggressive. I agree with that. if we're being real the only choices we're giving them are the dude who's a dick but gives protecting vibes or the dude who's kind and caring but would probably get his ass kicked by her in a fight lol. I agree with that too. But both your statement point to the fact that women prefer assertiveness over other qualities like emotional maturity and many of them a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 11:07 AM
2	Are women just as cruel as men? Simple, but true answer. But I think there is a point to be made that women enable cruelty by men to some extent. For example by prefering aggressive & dominant men to the nice counterpart. In my personal experience, women that say they have trouble "saying no" (which is the case for most women I know) usually are able to "say no" to considerate/nice men, but are not able to stand up for themselves when it comes to demanding/dominant men. So these are two ways I see in which men get rewarded for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:51 AM
2	In general do men really get better with age and become more attractive to women? I think men's attractiveness improve somewhat, while women's attractiveness declines somewhat, but both should not be overstated. TRP overstates the positive effect of age for men, to some degree. Guys that are attractive when they are young will probably remain attractive when they get older. Guys that are unattractive when they are young will probably remain unattractive when they get older. Ugly guys have a change to become more attractive if they put in effort in their career or physique, bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:25 AM
1	How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right? Some important figures in the movement became disillusioned with Trump. Richard Spencer (who coined the term Alt-Right and is also known as the 'Hail Trump' guy) strongly supported Biden in the last election, for whatever reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 10:21 AM
1	Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in dating When men say they want a slim lightskin with a pretty smile and a “fatty”, they’re saying in no uncertain terms that they want a petite woman of a lightskin complexion with a pretty smile and a nice, soft, big, ass. Do men you know actually talk like this? I am surrounded by blue pill man and they all would never say that (even though this is probably what most of them are attracted to). They would probably talk about stuff like great personality too. And I mean it's not wrong. You can try to ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 09:27 AM
7	Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in dating I second that. Try to improve yourself though and positive/attractive traits might follow. A few hours at the gym might make you more assertive as a person. But if they don't, don't fake it. (It's good for your health anyways).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 09:19 AM
1	Women of PPD, if you had a son... Well yeah, when it comes to sex I would prefer a hot woman with bad personality too compared to a less hot woman with good personality. But, as a typical reddit user, the odds for getting a hot chick are somewhat stacked against me. And I also value long term relationsships above one night stands. So for that purpose I would prefer the good personality girl to the hot one. I would imagine for women that frequent reddit it will be a similar situation. They are more attracted to the physical attra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 09:14 PM
1	Women of PPD, if you had a son... Do you think it's true for the subset of women that actually answer this question? I don't know. Something makes me thing that women that frequent reddit are more likely to prefer hubby beta types to fuckboi types compared to average women to begin with, so that could skrew the results.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 08:43 PM
1	The average man has poor dating prospects in comparison to the average woman, what is something men can do to improve their SMV I don't think I agree. I know a lot of women that had guys in their 40s as bfs in their 20s. I don't know a single guy that had a women in their 40s as a gf in their 20s	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/22 04:46 AM
2	The average man has poor dating prospects in comparison to the average woman, what is something men can do to improve their SMV Are you sure that this claim is true for women and men across all ages? I think women over 40 have worse dating prospects compared to men over 40. I feel like when people talk about men and women like this, they always only think about people under 40. But maybe I am missing something there?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 09:09 AM
1	Bluepill people, do you agree with the redpill views on female attraction? Women shit test men to see if they stand for themselves, they ask questions they subconsciously want you to dismiss rather than answer, and they react positively to playful condescendence In my experience this happens, but it's an indicator of a bad relationsship. If you notice your girl shittesting you like this, better start working on your relationship or call it quits. Women like dominant men, men that know what they want, dont bend over for others, make physical contact and are rough im bed…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 08:17 AM
1	The argument of "just lower your standards" to undesirable men is misguided since they have no option that is being filtered out by their standards I am a man and I certainly have high standards. I only had one gf ever and it surely is contributing to me being single now (besides many other factors). I am not very attractive or desirable, but I am sure I would be able to get a gf if I lower my standards a lot. But I don't complain about it on the internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 05:01 PM
1	Men and Women - what makes you a throwback and why should someone not give you a chance? I am a huge introvert and currently don't have many friends. I dislike social activities in general and prefer to spend most of my time alone. It's not that someone should not give me a chance. At the moment, with my current lifestyle, it is almost completely impossible for others to even give me a chance. I don't put myself out there in any way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 03:03 PM
1	Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work? As a man, no. Sex with strangers is disgusting to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 06:23 AM
1	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? I agree that it tracks with what everybody already knows - namely, that people put a high value on physical appearance when choosing their partners. That's all this tinder experiment shows and it's not surprising at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 04:03 PM
0	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? I got that this is your claim. But the tinder experiment does not prove that claim. My initial question was what the tinder experiment is trying to prove. You have repeatedly not answered this question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 01:49 PM
0	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? Again, which of your claims was proven by the tinder experiment? It just shows that women want to date attractive men and you definitely would find the same if the sexes were reversed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 09:26 AM
0	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? Yes women and men are into different things. But if the woman is a 10/10 she will have no problem finding a partner for marriage, even if she has a criminal history. You are deluded if you think otherways. Also, the picture did not show marriages or marriage proposals, but tinder matches. My original argument stands in any case: you could replicate the same (meaning tinder matches) as a hot woman. So what of what you are saying now was proven by the tinder experiment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 05:53 PM
0	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? English is not my native language. But I'm glad you got the idea. No, men will try to fuck a criminal, hot woman. Not marry her. Women are not necessarily looking for marriage material on Tinder. And of course many men would marry a criminal, hot woman, if they got the possibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 05:08 PM
1	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? I'm not even asking in bad faith. I am not sure I really understand the argument here? To me it seems like they have a double standard when it comes to judging men and women, but maybe I am missing something here???	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 03:42 PM
2	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? A criminal 10/10 women will not have any problem getting married either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 03:41 PM
-2	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? I still honestly don't really get it. Again, I think this is kinda similar for both sexes? Most men want a beautiful woman, but also one that has a good personality (since that is what decides about the endurance of the LTR). But when it comes to choosing a partner, looks are more important than personality. Maybe the difference is that women lie about the fact, but I know men that are in denial of choosing their partner primarily based upon physical features aswell. So I am not even sure about …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 07:18 AM
-2	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? What is this trying to proof really, I am sure you could easily do that with the gender roles reversed? People of both sexes give high value to physical appearance. I don't see what's so controversial about this insight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 05:43 AM
2	What issues do you actually feel for women about? I care about most womens issues. I am what they call a blue pill man 😎	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/22 08:12 PM
2	Help me understand why you all feel hurt when a guy looks at porn/ Instagram models As a man, I do not use porn and would strongly prefer if my gf doesn't either. That's more because I think that it's psychologically unhealthy and a sign of a lack of conscientiousness (like smoking or being overweight). My ex explicitly told me she would have had no problem with me watching porn, so it's not like all women are hurt by it either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 06:13 AM
6	Young single women are checking out of dating/society more than single men. As a 26 year old anti-social male who checked out of dating (or actually never checked into dating): you don't see the anti-social men who give up on dating early. For example the guys wanting your attention at the party were obviously not anti-social to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 09:08 PM
1	Would you rather be rejected over your personality or your looks? What answer would you expect?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 03:04 PM
3	men have 100% control in whether or not a woman gets pregnant, overturning roe v wade gets rid of any responsibility a man has in these situations Even assuming you were right - how does overturning roe v wade gets man rid of any responsibility? If abortion is not an option, it is even mor his responsibility to not get his partner pregant, no? Or am I missing something here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/22 07:27 PM
1	Does anyone actually talk about having sex on this Sub? Yeah, but tbh I see myself using reddit in the foreseeable future🥲	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/22 06:47 PM
2	Does anyone actually talk about having sex on this Sub? Not having sex at the moment. As soon as I am having sex again, I will probably stop using reddit like I did for most of the past four years, lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/22 03:47 PM
1	Men want the most sexual partners possible and women want the best. That's where our problems come from. That's a different goal than wanting to have as many sex partners as possible	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 08:58 PM
4	Men want the most sexual partners possible and women want the best. That's where our problems come from. If it was just about getting sex, why not just pay for prostitutes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 11:07 AM
5	Reducing sexual attraction down to only physical appearance and hypergamy is oversimplified and cowardly. If it's false, why does anything else matter other than that it's false? A false belief that does harm is more in need of correction than a false belief that does no harm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 09:52 AM
17	Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for men Yeah, as a tall guy I am in the "lacking self-confidence" boat (when it comes to dating/social skills). There probably are ways to work on that, but for me it's not easy to figure out how.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/22 09:17 AM
4	Men and women are not equal. Nobody can deny it I think most western states are fairly close to equal rights when it comes to gender. If you are not in a western country chances are there will be quite a lot of rights men have and women do not. When it comes to western countries I think there are only really two issues that come to my mind: showing your nipples and abortion. Abortion is not a right that men have, but it is an infringement upon bodily freedom that does not exist for men in any way. Feminism is not just about women's rights tho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 09:36 PM
1	Is a women who cheats worse than a man who cheats? Even if it was true that men are more inclined to cheat - this does not make the situation better or worse. That's a naturalist fallacy right there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 06:25 PM
13	Is a women who cheats worse than a man who cheats? No, both are equally detestable	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 03:44 PM
6	Men and women are not equal. Nobody can deny it No two persons are equal. We are all different. This does not mean that people should not have equal rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 07:18 AM
1	Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men? I might be an outlier, but the physical act does not really matter to me. Instead it would be lying or not telling me about it. That being said I expect honesty and loyalty in a relationship and I am strictly monogamous. But if my partner had sex with another man once and would be honest about it, I could forgive her. But I would never forgive lies. Have been cheated on, so I know how it feels too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 05:26 AM
1	do men find penetration degrading ? And if so why would any woman agree to have sex w them I experimented with it when I was younger and found out I did not like it. So idea to do it now would feel degrading, since it would only be to please my partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 05:15 PM
1	Are there any legit ways for men to learn how to be better with women? talent/craft Do you have examples for talents/crafts?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 07:32 AM
2	CMV: Self-improvement and "loving yourself" are poor substitutes for romantic relationships Thanks! Making small talk with everyone sounds like going against my own nature for me. It might be necessary to gain new friends though. I will check your literature out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/22 09:42 AM
2	I don't blame women for my singleness I want society to change I want to be part of something that can bring about meaningful change. This too reminds me of my idealistic views when I was younger, lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/22 09:01 AM
3	CMV: FDS women are in no position to have the requirements that they do It's also the main difference between FDS and Incels. FDS (generally speaking) affects nobody else and is easy to ignore, while radical Incels have done harm to other people in many cases. Always makes me mad to see when these two groups are treated as equivalents by redditors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/22 08:54 AM
1	CMV: Self-improvement and "loving yourself" are poor substitutes for romantic relationships Hone your social skills. How?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/22 07:56 AM
2	if you're single but dont want to be, why? I broke up with my girlfriend of four years a few months ago and am still recovering from that. In direct relation to that break-up I lost a huge part of my social circle and want to establish new friendships first before getting into a relationship again. This is very hard for me, since I am very introverted. I am not interested in online-dating at all and honestly feel repulsed by it. Maybe in the future I will let go of my judgements and give it a try. But I think I am too romantic for it all…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 06:31 AM
4	Is Billy Beta happy? I would argue that the causality is the different way around. People that concern themselves with theories like that are more likely to be unhappy to begin with. Most people come to these theories, because they are looking for solutions to personal problems. While people that live in ignorance are likely able to do it, because they don't face any problems that prevents them doing so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 12:26 PM
1	is it important for men and women to share political beliefs while dating? I think this only matters for LTRs. When it comes to ONS most people don't really care about political beliefs. I scale high on openness and I like political debate (as do many people that frequent this sub) so I would date someone who has some opposing political beliefs, as long as they are open-minded and not dogmatic about them too. I mean, I don't think I know the perfect political answers to all political problems and I belief there are good arguments for both sides in most cases (I am very…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/21 05:58 PM
1	Q4Men: Would you rather marry a 21 year old who slept around between the ages of 16-20, or a 28 year old virgin? The amount of previous partners is not a factor for me when it comes to relationships. I could be a relationship with both, even though marriage is out of the question for me in all cases (since I'm not traditionalist, you know).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/18 01:52 PM
1	CMV: High casualty jobs being primarily occupied by men is not evidence that men have it unfair We know the statistic of a woman earning 77 cents for a man's dollar is true because men pursue more of a work/life balance skewed towards work than women do NOT because employers unfairly pay women Source? As far as I am aware the scientific consensus is that both factors contribute, but life choices are the bigger contributor compared to gender discrimination. But that doesn't change the fact that there is a small, but significant, gender gap between the payment of men and women which can be e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/18 11:40 AM