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Hey, Vin Diesel might be old now, but he was great in triple X
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:19 AM
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So "friendzone yourself" is your advice? I thought we learned that friendzone is disingenuous to both of parties involved. I can see getting to know someone, maybe in a wider social gathering, and then having a series of meetings where attraction (mutual) grows, where both of you didn't think much of each other at the start (I guess you could call this "friends" even though I don't know why, since neither of you know anything about each other at that point). But what you suggest is nothing but a…
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:23 PM
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Of course, you ask for 1 loaf of bread, 2kg of apples and 1 phone number
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:45 PM
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Your hobo analogy is spot on. But like, I try. But I cannot deny that I approach with intent of intimacy. Like, no matter how good-spirited I may be in the moment, no matter how much I try to forget about it and generally just have a conversation, I cannot deny that it's always in the back of my mind somewhere.
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:18 PM
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I mean I know the boundaries in theory and I think I respect them. The basic "no means no, have respect, don't invade personal space etc.". But then I read so much about "making a move on someone in gym is practically harassment, in a park women want to chill, in public transport they might have no "out", in bars they are with their friends" etc. and I...don't know.
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:16 PM
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That's the thing. I can talk (and try to) in other situations. Hot girl in waiting room? I'll ask her how long she's been waiting for. Old man in public transport? I can talk for 20 mins, np. But in this narrow context of romantic intent, I am blocked 100%.
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:14 PM
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What if one doesn't really have IRL social circle?
/r/seduction30/09/20 08:33 PM
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Agreed, no is no and seduction is a two way street. If you are comfortable being on your own, you move on.
/r/seduction16/07/20 01:41 PM
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What do you do to make money as a creative outlet? Not looking for any tips or whatever, just to see someone else's mindset (I started learning about market, stocks, bonds, technical terms, history and trends etc.)
/r/seduction16/07/20 01:30 PM
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I know. I know all that and if I were to take a "conversation with girls you are interested in" theory exam, I'd score a 100%. Yet that shit is super hard. I'd basically have to be just past corona lockdown with effective vaccine discovered, just having done my first muscle up, made $1k on hobbies during past week, all while having slept well that day. I remember tough things I did before and it took my family or friends convincing me and encouraging me for like couple dozen minutes/couple hours…
/r/seduction07/07/20 08:19 PM
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How did you start approaching? Like had social circles in high school or practiced some easier methods (like asking for time) or something else?
/r/seduction07/07/20 06:21 PM
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In open spaces, 6 feet apart
/r/seduction30/06/20 02:00 PM
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I am like 10% confident heh, just stipulated that I realize it's all about confidence. I guess jeah if the lady doesn't like my no beard, I wouldn't grow one to please her (unless it's like a real long term relationship).
/r/seduction29/06/20 02:55 PM
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I only have 1 rule I'll never change in my life: never give up. I suggest you do the same. It's all that really matters, really. But you have to realize it yourself, me telling it to you won't do you any good on its own.
/r/seduction24/06/20 10:55 PM
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Kenny Rogers right again
/r/seduction17/06/20 04:50 PM
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I guess you can make friends with people doing hobbies/things you like and then ask them to be your wingmen?
/r/seduction17/06/20 04:43 PM
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What do you mean Ancient Greek weren't bad boys-I can see Socrates coming in hot with "I know that I know nothing; except that you are hot""
/r/seduction17/06/20 04:37 PM
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I hear you. But my problem is actually approaching-I don't want to be picking up randoms at clubs or events I have no real interest in. But even if I build a great life for myself and am happy, nobody will come "automatically" - I need to "advertise" and "show interest". And IDK how to do that in ways that are clear and attractive/interesting. I mean even if I saw the hottest girl I can think of in front of me, and she thought I was attractive but didn't say anything, nothing would happen as it …
/r/seduction05/05/20 07:26 AM
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I have the same problem. And I realized, it's no perfectionism. It's simple fear, of taking any action. I've yet to overcome it, but I know of a method that works-start with something extremely small, like cleaning your room, and work from there. Start with small action and work from there. And if you fail, start again with small action.
/r/seduction03/05/20 10:02 AM
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Really? I always thought (and read somewhere) that it's more like "getting control over someone". Like when someone is constantly saying your name in conversation, they get a some "power" over you since your name means something to you.
/r/seduction03/05/20 09:59 AM
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Jeah it's obvious when you see them smoke beforehand. But what if you meet them, talk to them, get along nicely and suddenly she pulls a pack out of her purse?
/r/seduction30/03/20 01:17 PM
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probably just bots
/r/seduction26/03/20 12:05 PM
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She told you she has FWB and you kept going? Maybe I'm too old fashioned, but to me, unless you agree to be poly- AFTER you establish some relationship and only AFTER that, you are a cuck.
/r/seduction24/03/20 05:14 PM
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I guess I'll have to practice it more then, thanks
/r/seduction19/03/20 11:14 PM
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Thanks. I think I've experienced the eye contact before, not as intense as you describe it though. So would you say that root of sexual attraction lies beyond pure "hot body/smart mind" and more in "souls connecting/interacting" (as cheesy as that may sound)?
/r/seduction19/03/20 10:04 PM
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How to internalize the fact that women can be sexually attracted to me? Like I've improved a lot over the years, yet the thought of some woman finding me sexually attractive is foreign to me. Good looking and smart, that's easy-I've been told those things. But actually sexually attractive?
/r/seduction19/03/20 01:37 PM
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There is only one maxim I found true so far in my life-never give up. Like ever. The only difference between success and failure is whether you give up or not. Sure you might not succeed, but if you didn't give up, you didn't really fail either.
/r/seduction18/03/20 07:59 PM
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Touche
/r/seduction06/03/20 08:16 PM
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And then you wake up
/r/seduction05/03/20 04:14 PM
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Jeah, he could sue her for that, IDK about the legal term though
/r/seduction05/03/20 04:10 PM
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Make sure to work out and meditate - it's no substitute for meds but can help.
/r/seduction03/03/20 10:08 PM
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Thanks again! I'll try meditating, hardest thing to do it consistently, I meditate like 5 mins every other month for 2 days and then I forget until someone on reddit reminds me of it.
/r/seduction17/02/20 05:33 PM
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Thanks, any activity that helped you do that? Like meditation or something?
/r/seduction13/02/20 05:51 PM
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Assuming you're telling the truth, what did you change? Besides presumably the fat
/r/seduction13/02/20 04:58 PM
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Bloodline might end here as things currently stand lol IDK, maybe it's because I was always the nerdy>weird>creepy>nice guy and I internalized "dating is not for people like me" thoughts, or that I am above the need for human contact. I was sometimes put down by others, but it was mostly my inner thought snowballing to where I am now. It took me a lot of willpower to even visit this sub and even accept that there is a "game" and that I might have a chance .
/r/seduction08/01/20 09:08 PM
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Nice tip on meditating on getting rejected-that's like bushido meditation in a way right? IDK where to get rejected. Only place I could see myself being comfortable enough ATM is a nightclub really. I don't even know any other situations where there is a good "vibe" to be asking women out, maybe some late night music event/gala night or whatever. I know it's possible to date women you e.g. ask randomly on the street, but I don't want to annoy people like that and that would make me extremely unc…
/r/seduction08/01/20 09:03 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/bodyweightfitness/ Read the sidebar FAQ. Bodyweight usually doesn't get you buffed (though it can if you bulk), but you can get insanely ripped. Plus you can learn a ton of tricks, like going to handstand, human flag etc.
/r/seduction25/12/19 11:06 PM
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I am not fromthe718, but I can give some advice on that front. Don't suddenly go 0-100, "I'll do X Y Z W" be better, everything at once. You'll burn out. Start small and do something small every day. Start going to the gym 3 times a week. You may be baby faced, but with enough chicken and training, you can get pretty solidly buffed. And if those dudes invite you, don't think about it. Go in there with the goal to just observe these people you perceive as "players" and "hot chicks" and see what t…
/r/seduction25/12/19 10:49 PM
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