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| 2 | Is it crazy to move gyms because there are nearly no women at my gym?Lmao, when did anyone question you being “locked in”? | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Is it crazy to move gyms because there are nearly no women at my gym?Yes, what are you actually going to the gym for? Priorities all fucked up with this one lol | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 10:58 PM |
| 2 | "Never Chase Women" doesn’t mean "ignore them and hope they notice you"Basically a focused man vs an incel type | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 10:44 PM |
| 1 | How much likes is normal to get on dating apps?A lot of variables. Your profile for one, your location & age as well & how much & how you swipe The algorithms are wacky to really give an average number but on bad weeks, I get 3 to 5. Most I’ve gotten on a good week is from 8 to 9. TLDR; there is no set standard number & the variables make it too hard to answer for you. Just use the app & build your elo with thoughtful, consistent swiping | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 10:11 PM |
| 8 | “I don’t sleep with guys on the first date” *proceeds to sleep with me on the first date*Women enjoy sex too, they’re human at the end of the day lol. It’s not so much about “lying” as it is saving face. Just how most women are conditioned. Most won’t sleep with every guy on the first date but some will make an exception. You’re sleeping around just like they are so not a big deal really | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 02:00 AM |
| 15 | It's mind-blowing the amount of double standards many women have—solutions?Ignore everything they say & watch what they do. The whole idea that “they’ll do this or that for the right one” is just guys reading/sending the wrong signals I legit don’t believe anything a woman says beyond just having a conversation but 100% believe in their actions. Fuck a balance, I know what my mind/body wants, either she’s with it or she’s not & it’s fine either way TLDR: stop listening to women & start watching them. Don’t give a fuck about a standard you didn’t set | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 04:59 AM |
| 2 | It’s easier to pull a hot girl who is way out of your league in in a big city than a smaller oneI’d probably burst into flames if I did /s Hopeful that relocating to a larger city in the fall for work helps | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 08:10 PM |
| 2 | It’s easier to pull a hot girl who is way out of your league in in a big city than a smaller one100% proximity based. All I’ve got around me is single mothers looking for step dads & single women who don’t leave the house lol | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 05:02 PM |
| 2 | First Date - Girl wants to bring her friend with her??I mean, you already said no so I’d stick with that but if you want to give it a shot, go for a chill vibe & just don’t stay too long Be a good host, show them around the city, hit up a spot you like to visit or restaurant, hang out & get to know her better & make friends with the friend. Just don’t make it your whole day & dip out after a couple hours You might’ve sold already tho with how she responded, mind you idk how old you are but she’s a woman traveling to a city that’s almost 2 hours fro… | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?🧢 unless you’re only trying to date city girls or women off the internet | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 11:29 PM |
| 9 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?You’d probably do better if you stopped using rating scales/numbers to define yourself & others It’s counterproductive, will have you either putting women on pedestals or looking down on them & same goes for yourself Apply the basic improvements to yourself & then enhance your strengths. Basics being a skin care routine, good haircuts regularly, workout a bit, eat better, improve your style. Get those basics down & then make that your baseline, & improve on where you standout 🔥 no chance in hell… | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Sex anxiety is real how do i get over it?Without disclosing too much, the grass only seems greener quote applies here. It’s not an orgasms & porn sex, there’s a literal sub about the issues that stem from being well endowed. It’s also not every woman’s preference & is a deviation from the “norm” aka not what majority of women actually experience on the regular Sounds like you’re performing well so I’d say embrace/let your ego flourish a bit & tell yourself you’re the best in the world, your girl already lowkey is telling you this 🤷🏽♂️… | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 03:12 PM |
| 22 | The Real Battle Every Man Must FightThis is a lil dramatic for my tastes lol To some guy out there, it’s a battlefield, for me? It was just Tuesday | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 01:11 PM |
| 4 | Tinder hookup failJust use a bar of soap brother… | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 05:33 PM |
| -1 | Blunt Truth: You Might Have Undiagnosed Autism (And That's Okay)Yeah, no. Autism is the new diabetes, over diagnosed & often incorrectly diagnosed | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 04:50 AM |
| 7 | Why do women look at me like I'm creepy when I'm just buying food? How should I handle this?By chance, are your orders complicated or specialized? If so, they probably just don’t like you for that which isn’t a you problem | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Does bodybuilding really increase my chances twentyfold?Being in shape helps. Bodybuilding will attract more dudes than women tbh lol Doesn’t matter if you’re skinny/fat/in between as much as being in shape, fit for your frame really. Women have different types they like too | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 02:51 PM |
| 0 | Those who slept with married or taken women, what patterns did you recognise?Constantly coming back even after you definitely end things. She is literally texting me now after like 4 months of radio silence Also the constant “I’m gonna change my life/get a divorce soon” talk. As for if you’re unaware of her marital status; she’ll have a curfew/excuse to need to be home fairly often | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Went to the gym and some weird shit happened.This shit took a full turn at the end that I was not expecting 💀 Stop paying for sex, that temporary satisfaction can leave you with a permanent issue & I use the word satisfaction super loosely | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 04:51 AM |
| 1 | MARRIEDBeen there; best to cut it off sooner than later. Too many available women in the world to be fucking someone’s wife God forgot you or her catch actual feelings, it’s GG 🙅🏽♂️ | /r/seduction | 08/03/25 11:07 AM |
| 1 | How do answer this question: what would I get after we have amazing sex tonight?I’m gonna say what no one else is really saying; just lie & keep it light. Since it sounds like you just want a FWB situation for now at least, set that expectation. Complete the mission & if you want more, then convey that thru action. Just ask yourself what do YOU want after sex & work off that, not off of her | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 07:02 PM |
| 33 | Using money to upgrade my dating lifeTop comment 😂 but for real tho 👀 | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Using money to upgrade my dating lifeTherapy for sure, if it’s for you & helps. Doesn’t hurt to try it Aside from that, all the cosmetic changes seem like a waste? Majority of this stuff you can teach/learn yourself for free & have fun along the way if your heart is really in it. If you’re just “improving” to attract the hoes, you’re not really improving at all imo Best investment you can make is time here, try learning these things on your own. Dating can be rough but it ain’t that hard. Women’s standards are honestly not as high … | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 01:50 AM |
| 1 | What age do y'all wanna settle down with a partner/have kids?34 is the ideal age for me but after my last self evaluation, I don’t want kids. Could change my mind but as of now, no kids | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 09:31 PM |
| 13 | What does it mean "I like you a lot but I can't sleep with you"Yeah… you gotta cut that off asap. You’re getting stringed along & high chance after you get her worked up & go your separate ways, she’s calling up the guy who gets to come in & clap those cheeks Would 100% ghost after the first, maybe second turn from hot to cold depending on the type of woman she is | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Worst first date ever on Valentine’s DayMy bad, didn’t realize it was your first ever date. Just know, they don’t always go like that, some women are just really uptight/don’t know how to have fun so don’t take it personal You’ll have your second date in no time; just don’t forget your worth & create some standards to keep the disappointment low 👍🏾 | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Worst first date ever on Valentine’s DayMainly laughing at her immature behavior but also because you think you got played! My guy, you clearly knew you were aiming for an easy target, a 6/10 in your book, she had no respect for your time & can’t even take a joke… & somehow you feel down? You dodged a bullet & saved some self respect up until you made this post. You seem to know your worth but one bad “date” threw you off your game, so maybe it’s better to laugh & learn than be upset over someone you consider a 6/10 | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Worst first date ever on Valentine’s Day😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 10:43 AM |
| 18 | How can I initiate car sex?You’d have to build some kind of sexual tension thru text/call first & then when you pick her up, work off the tension you built If built right, you’ll be able to tell when to escalate/draw the conversation towards something sexual Unsolicited tip: unless you have a SUV or are just trying to get head, car sex is so uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 14/02/25 04:09 AM |
| 5 | Women put no effortBest advice I can give is stop seeking. Wait until a woman shows you genuine interest & work with that. If the women who seem to be attracted to you aren’t your type, back to the drawing board to figure out what’s causing that “Don’t go for the woman you like, go for the woman who likes you”; makes a world of a difference. & if that’s not okay for you, it is okay to be single lol In my experience, 95% of the women who are local to me all have kids & that’s an instant no for me, so I don’t date t… | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 02:42 PM |
| 75 | What is the gym equivalent for females?💀 who the hell wants to date single moms tho? | /r/seduction | 29/01/25 11:32 PM |
| 214 | What is the gym equivalent for females?Probably Pilates/yoga from my experience or just regular gym | /r/seduction | 29/01/25 11:04 PM |
| 29 | Stop listening to women for dating/relationship adviceComes a time when you realize everything your mother told you growing up was wrong It’s usually when you start dating & realize most women’s words shouldn’t be taken seriously, their actions are the true info | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Forehead KissAre you trying to friendzone her? That’s the message you’re sending, lol. I used to do this thing after a date if I was thinking “friends” instead of more, where I’d go for the end of date hug, & lift her up like a little sister/child 😭 Terrible times & I don’t do it anymore but same energy. Easy way to kill the whole vibe if that’s your intent. If not? Nothing is better than something in this case | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 11:44 AM |
| 2 | When you think “I don’t want to fuck this up with a girl”, that’s the fastest way to fail with her.“Bars” is basically a phrase/hip hop term that is summed up as “you said something really true/really accurate” | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Paying for datesIf it goes well, I’ll pay. If I know I’m not going to go for a second date, we’re splitting the bill | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps, what's the point?There isn’t much of a point to them. Go outside & approach women you’re attracted to, a lot easier than swiping thru 100’s of profiles all day | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 09:43 PM |
| 5 | When you think “I don’t want to fuck this up with a girl”, that’s the fastest way to fail with her.BARS! | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 04:03 PM |
| 19 | Can women really sense thirstyness/desperation?10/10 answer 🔥 | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 04:52 AM |
| 6 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?Nah, still stuck on the friend I lost if I’m being totally honest That ended at the start of ‘24, I’ve gotten numbers/been on a handful of first dates this year but not many seconds | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?Yeah. A part of it is surely internal for me, & I need to work on that more since I think the only way to truly get past this way of thinking is to be vulnerable/build something & not fear the loss of it This last attempt just stung more because of it being someone I’ve known since 6th grade & in that year, we had become best friends | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 11:14 PM |
| 28 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?You don’t have to hate to say it, there are actual studies on this stuff I forget the exact study but it’s said that being in better shape as a man, gives you the edge in many situations from relationships to job opportunities, because it shows you actually can dedicate & build something or something to that extent | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 10:40 PM |
| 76 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?31m, own place, career job, in shape/gym routine, good looking & live healthy… I’ve let it be where I don’t approach but I’ll entertain a woman who tries to get my attention. So unless she shows interest first, I’m just going about my day enjoying myself Reasoning; I don’t really have the energy for it. Last two women I dated seriously ended up being a year of investment each (separate years) & the latter one felt like we invested so much just to end up nowhere in the end. Ended up losing a life… | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOIDropped a gem ☝🏾 | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Your Dad is the reason you are single.What dad? | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Are black girls underrated?Bro what? 🤦🏽♂️ Everyone is different, try it out & have fun. But holy, idk if you really should 💀 | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Super challenging for me: Gym approach when she's with a male gym buddy.I can’t tell if you’re agreeing with me or contradicting yourself? | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 10:52 PM |
| 9 | Super challenging for me: Gym approach when she's with a male gym buddy.Self rule: Never approach a woman who is with a guy already, even if they’re just friends, which you wouldn’t know until you ask. It’s not about “chickening out”, it’s just a respect thing, lowkey proper bro code | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 08:10 PM |
| 0 | What do you have on your music playlist for inviting a girl back?I use Apple Music unfortunately; a choice I find myself questioning too often lately lol | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 02:43 PM |
| 1 | What do you have on your music playlist for inviting a girl back?RnB is usually a go to, or some of these younger girls & city girls really seem to like the hood shit like Lil Durk, Gunna, Young Thug for whatever reason Plenty of 1/2 hour long playlists on YT that you can vibe to | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 02:11 PM |
| 6 | What do you have on your music playlist for inviting a girl back?& I hate that they do cause I can’t stand that shit 😭 | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 02:09 PM |
| -1 | Should I accept girls as friends?Tbf, you can be friends without seeking to gain something & still go on a 2man with your homegirl at some point lol. Kind of an unnecessary statement | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Should I accept girls as friends?I’m 50/50 on this. My best friend is a women but we’ve known each other since we were in middle school; consider her my sister in every way & when I really sit down & think about it, the only other women I’ve got as a friend is a women I friendzoned/intentionally killed the attraction to, mainly because we’re coworkers & I don’t shit where I eat. She’s cool as hell tho Actively seeking out women as friends tho? Nah, at most associates. But I also think people throw the word friend around way too… | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 03:56 PM |
| 10 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Unless she’s genuinely busy, once. I enjoy my own company over anything so I’m not pressed to link or go on a date Persistence is fine if there’s some kind of reciprocity, like her trying to legit reschedule if plans don’t work out but if she’s on weird timing, I’m not hitting her back & im not around for her once she decides she’s got time. Gotta have standards & hold them regardless of what she looks like. Don’t be a dick but don’t be a doormat | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 06:49 AM |
| 7 | Best general places to approach girls?Depends where you frequent. The grocery store is my go to. Kill two birds with one stone, no pun intended | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Routines / games that can increase sexual tensionWell firstly, this post had nothing to do with picking up, at least from how it’s worded, this would be post approach/after you’ve gotten to know her a bit? But even if you do look at it from an approach standpoint, after you’ve approached, that’s where personality comes in & you set the tone from there As far as if she’s attracted to you; her response will tell you that. It’s a numbers game after all so no one will ever be everyone’s type but if you carry yourself well & are an attractive guy, … | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 07:48 PM |
| 10 | Routines / games that can increase sexual tensionEscalate naturally. Build some tension throughout a date or while you’re chilling. I prefer organic vibes vs coming in with a canned idea, no offense Corny analogy time; escalation is a one way street & your partner is the crossing guard Meaning, as you build tension, she’ll respond in obvious enough ways to let you know to proceed/she’s comfortable with things moving forward. There’s always room for error or being a dumbass if shes really attracted to you but escalate accordingly & you’re good. | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 06:00 PM |
| 13 | Routines / games that can increase sexual tensionThis is for 16 year olds? A grown woman might play along if the vibe is there but you’re most likely getting no play with any of this lol | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 05:26 PM |
| 2 | I set up a date with someone 2 hours away, never even been in that area, but I have lead?I used to date in the city & travel from CT but I knew the girl already. If it’s a major city, just search up a cuisine you like & be down to walk & explore or drive to. 2 hours is crazy for someone you don’t know yet imo but good luck. Would lowkey like an update on this one afterward | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 05:15 PM |
| 23 | Can you actually find FWB hookups on reddit?I’ve come across 2 real women on Reddit back when I was in my “lazy” era. Met with one & it was absolutely not worth. Other one wanted me to drive 1.5 hours to pick her up, pay for the hotel “not too close to home”, bring her back, not worth the stress & there was no excitement over finding a Reddit link. Unless you live in a major city, it’s a waste of time. & even if you do, high chance you’re talking to some weirdo guy role playing as a chick 💀 | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only one tired of "sad" women?Bro, OP I feel you! It’s to the point where I’ve made it a “standard” that she’s gotta be happy before/without me Any woman who thinks all her relationship issues are never their fault, or think I need to prove myself to not be what they’ve dealt with already, gets the instant cancel for me Had a beautiful woman I was dating, vibe was good & all, I was down for something long term but when she would get “upset”, her go to comments were bashing men right in front of me but in a passive aggressive… | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Should I hook up with girls I don’t find attractive just to gain experience/wins?💀 as someone who’s been where you are, I would say nah. 9 times outta 10, sex with those types is terrible because they lack mobility so you’ll be doing most of the work Unless you have actually caught a vibe & like her, post nut clarity will hit you like a truck & probably still will if you really are that repulsed by her Could maybe just ask for head? create an eater situation tho, glass half full ☝🏾 | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Any tips for women?It could be your lack of true confidence. It’s okay to spend time alone but you should be able to be happy alone. It sounds like your insecurity makes you “need” a boyfriend & that will push a lot of guys away. If you really want a FWB, set that boundary early so the guy doesn’t think it’s deeper than that for you But before a relationship or seduction, learn to enjoy your literal self. Confidence will come from that. Faking it til you make it is okay but not when trying to connect with someone,… | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Have good posture or mirror her's?Good posture, why mimic someone else? You should be as comfortable as you prefer to be & she’ll follow suit or, continue doing her own thing The nuance is, be yourself, at least in regards to how you choose to posture YOUR body lol | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 09:14 PM |
| 9 | Girls who talk about sex in their dating profilesThe quote “never 100% believe what a woman says, watch what she does” comes to mind | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | For fast sex you need to be escalating fastTook some time off dating a few years ago & since getting back out there the last few years, this became apparent so fast 💀 But like his previous post said, if you can find a woman who isn’t jaded &/or emotionally a wreck, you can be normal but until you find that needle in a haystack, IIWII edit: this is based on women who are in their late 20’s/early 30’s | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Girls, what makes sex with a guy literaly the best for you?Second this. Although, when you come across a true SQ, you forget about all the BDP’s 😭 | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Average Girl - Wanting DatesTrust me when I say there are men who would genuinely appreciate the straightforwardness. Dating apps can be rough, especially if you live in a major/large city. Just be patient & be sure to maintain your true self. Nothing is gained from putting on a facade to fit an image | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 09:40 PM |
| 2 | If you see her struggling? Would you hold her purse?Is there a story behind this? Like how did you guys meet? Sucker for a good “opposites attract” story if you are comfortable sharing | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 11:56 PM |
| 4 | Embracing My Confidence, and Reminding You: It’s Okay Not to Be OkayOne thing I’ll add that helps; stop thinking you need to “fix” yourself. This push for self care has a way of getting people caught down a rabbit hole of “once I do this, I’ll be this” & that isn’t the case. You’re just chipping away at your true self Improve on things? Sure. Fix yourself? Nah, embrace you & move forward. Self care keeps you standing still or even worse, looking back | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 12:22 AM |
| 5 | Is ok feeling nervous before meeting with some girl?You’re fine. Just remember that you & her are equals & she’s just as nervous as you are. Few minutes in, those nerves usually fade | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How to have a good first date without alcohol?You could replace alcohol with Ashwganda capsules? Not the same feeling but gives you that relaxed mind frame & keeps you in the moment. | /r/seduction | 01/11/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!Excuse me?? Paid to pleasure her is crazy | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 08:47 PM |
| 4 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!Head & sex are far from the same thing. & that’s such a bot mindset | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 08:46 PM |
| 6 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!Damn, that’s reassuring cause ain’t no fucking way I’m paying $50 for some head 💀 | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 06:21 PM |
| 2 | The Most Underrated Way to Skyrocket Your Physical Attractiveness (Most Men Ignore This!)I’m hollering 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Regret hookup during actMy dick will think for me even if I’m too horny in that situation. The few times I’ve had that issue, it’s instant gummy worm. Had to fake 💥 & leave out with a fishy condom in my pocket once 😭 | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to ask my no contact situationship why he ghosted me?I’m not here to change your mind, & you aren’t about to change mine. Do what/think whatever you’d like | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Is it a bad idea to ask my no contact situationship why he ghosted me?This is true but that’s far from what OP is doing… you’re making it sound like she’s about to be on her knees begging the man for his time, when all she’s looking for is a conversation like any normal, proper functioning adult would lol | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 10:09 AM |
| 0 | Laughter being anti-seductiveIf you’re laughing at every single joke like a school girl, it comes off as weird/awkward & worst of all “nice guy-ish”. If something is funny, laugh sure. But if she’s just talking & the tone isn’t comedy, it’ll come off as trying to hard This also all depends on the type of woman, some are goofy, some are stonewalls; read the vibe & go from there | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Girl sleeping around in talking stage coupled with male best friend issues“If you go looking for something & find it, can you be mad that you got what you asked for?” Y’all are not exclusive & sound like you’re in the early stages of the relationship… if it’s really bothering you tho, just leave. But some accountability is required here because while she may have been untruthful, you did a bit much for someone who’s just getting to know someone. Personally, I’d just let it go & stay cause unless I’m told otherwise, I know I’m giving top tier 🍆 & we’re just catching a … | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Stranger girls give me attention only when I want to sleepWho said anything about alcohol? lol | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 04:19 PM |
| 25 | Stranger girls give me attention only when I want to sleepLack of sleep usually leads to a day of not giving a fuck for me. Like, too tired to code switch for work even. Pretty sure this is a thing because I’ve heard & seen others say the same in other subs. Basically a short term way to kill that internal anxiety/overthinking because you’re too tired to care lol | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 10:13 AM |
| 4 | How to avoid the friendzoneMy exact experience | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Girl problemsYou fucked up with the “I’m here to talk whenever”… if she wanted to actually talk to you about her problems/stress, she just would. Sounds like a test & you failed, right into the simp zone. Just stop texting her & if she actually likes you, she’ll reach out. Don’t be needy & ask why she isn’t texting or what’s going on | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 07:50 AM |
| 1 | dealing with the 'manly' manI got to that part & had to read it 3 times to make sure it wasn’t a typo 💀 | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Fake number continues to flirtIf you’re gonna say anything, don’t let it be that | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 07:13 PM |
| 2 | I always end up receiving the “Sorry, but I’m not looking for anything at the moment”Be more direct & stop blocking your natural desires. It’s ok to tease/make a move/escalate things when you & a girl are talking. She’s expecting you to & you should You can still be respectful while fully displaying your intentions. You know what you want, let her know but don’t just be blatant/seem like an asshole. Also, it is a numbers game so you won’t be for everyone | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Former insecure people when /how did you accept you are attractive?Went from 380 to 230, & became a gym goer who’s 6’3” so the shift from being “overlooked” to being a guy who’s been asked for his number (because I was too damn slow to make a move), I’ll tell you what helped me Best thing I learned thru all of this was that I was so misinformed on how women respond & why, & what comes with being considered an attractive man. One thing to remember is you’re the prize. Put yourself on a pedestal, but don’t inflate your ego. Just use that info to be more selective… | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Why are the prettier girls more receptive than the less attractive ones?It’s a part of the double edged sword that comes with being attractive for men & women. Being attractive can lead to a lot attention from less attractive women & same goes for women attracting a bunch of LQ men/simps. When you meet someone on your caliber & you actually approach, the attractive girls are just as attracted to you as the lesser ones, they just need to be approached appropriately. Handsome Man Game series by Danny Vera on YT puts a lot of this into perspective & makes it make sense | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Going to a singles event with about 100+ women in attendance (and 100+ men). Any tips on sticking out of the crowd?Until you arrive at a date to see it’s a dude who’s 3 inches taller & about 200 pounds heavier than you 💀 | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Any girls here? What are some tips on seducing men as an unattractive woman? 🤔If I had to give a woman advice, it’s similar to what I would tell/read as a guy; don’t try to act cool, be direct. The moment you force your energy in a way it isn’t on the norm, you’re already working uphill. That shit bleeds thru like blood on a white tshirt | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 01:08 AM |
| 5 | Need advice on sending the first text after getting numbers?Yikes 💀 | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Bitched out on approaching a girl I really like in person today.Never have serious conversations over texts. It almost never goes over well, although if you’re younger it might fly but even then, still a bad shot to take | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 03:48 AM |
| 2 | I entered my 30s and had one gf only and just got rejected againThis might seem like generic advice but what I will say is, don’t let anyone kill your confidence ☝🏾 you’re in control of how you react & respond. Try to look at it from a perspective that makes it something to learn from & not lose to Keep trying, you’re doing the heavy lifting already by putting yourself out there. & 1 relationship at 30 is fine | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 03:40 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up the best opportunity I've ever hadA whole timeline with this woman in my life opened before me, That pedestal is gonna ruin it every time. Sorry this happened for you, we all have these moments. If anything, learn from it. Just think of becoming friends to keep the pressure low & then once you’ve gotten past pleasantries, work up from there. Its like you’re going for a jog but instead of running down the street, you’re choosing to scale a mountain | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, when hooking up with a guy, what’re some tells/signs that he’s inexperienced?I mean, technically this helps both. Most condoms recommend putting on some lube before putting it on (makes a world of a difference) & it helps with women regardless of age or arousal | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 10:29 PM |
| 10 | Flirty smile when girls walk past youNot a fan of how relatable this is 🤦🏽♂️ lol | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Flirty smile when girls walk past you… that’s not the comparison. It’s either 100% a loss or you actually take a shot & have a 50% for it to go either way | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 06:29 PM |
| 2 | How to get laid with minimal conversationI think it depends on the situation. Over text? OP is wrong. In person or on the phone? He’s kinda right, women will do a majority of the talking, especially if it’s about themselves & they like you | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Video games are holding you backI’m gonna say no… a random Twitter post from an account made to draw people in & debate is about as far off base as possible. Never met a woman who was worth a damn that actually had an issue with a video game. Albeit, I’m a casual & barely play enough for it to be an issue, this (Twitter post) shit screams “get some real world experience” | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How to work on eye contact?Try to read their eyes instead of just staring into them. “Look”/read with intention | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 12:00 PM |
| 0 | Are people here actually having sex?I personally found this sub at random & figured it couldn’t hurt to stick around. But my issue is that I don’t have the time to really form a connection. I work 2 jobs, usually 6 days a week, live alone, gym daily & take care of myself alone. Basically read in here once in a while to see if anything is worthwhile advice for me personally & ignore the overly general stuff Whenever I do get a number, it usually fizzles out because I’m not consistent/didn’t reach out soon enough because I’m too bus… | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Are people here actually having sex?My life in a nutshell 💀 | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 12:23 AM |
| 2 | So what turns on women?Gonna say even with both of those qualities, it really doesn’t work. Maybe because I live in a smaller town & people are more reserved but it makes no real difference in my experience Although since I’m here, I’m probably not doing something right lol | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 11:54 PM |
| 11 | In case you ladies were in need of a good laughter on this lovely Sunday morningYour friend didn’t have any of his financial info/an idea of how he mismanaged his money & time before committing to a grown child ? Seems like a mess on both ends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:20 PM |
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