Nah I realized the slow and steady path is the only way forwards. I decided on eating out + sugar-sweetened foods for what I will give up next. I will attain perfection just u wait.
A guy messaged me and said i was pretty. His body is literally perfect. He is the first one that meets my criteria after like 1k grinder dms. It's like I finally farmed a shiny Pokémon.
I literally hate public sector workers. Going on strike every other year and shit cuz they don't make 40 dollars an hour. FUCK YOU CANADA POST WORKERS. YOU DESERVE NOTHING.
obviously looks good but has a very feminine boyish face. Looks kinda silly all around. There are much more beautiful faces/bodies out there. Not attracted to him at all personally.
the standard method is to try to recall your dreams when you wake up and dream journal. The more minimalist method (which I invented) is to trace backwards through your dreams upon waking using only your mind. Just set the intention to remember every morning even if you can't remember anything. Evetually you will be able to remember 3-4 different dreams a night. Setting intentions the night before is also a big help. The thing is that you are ACTUALLY dreaming it's just that you don't remember. …
There is this Chad at my work. Looks about 6'6 with a filled out frame. God I wish I was him. Im just a meager 6 flat and skinny I feel like being 6 flat doesn't generate attraction it's just the bar to get in there, but above 6'2 it starts to work in your favour.
i live in canada and a woman of that girth is rare. even if 99% of women were as fat as her it still wouldn't be average because you literally don't have to do anything to not be fat. it's like saying someone that huffs glue is of average intelligence.
Kinda wild that SSRIs can kill someone's sexuality permanently (genital numbness, can't reach orgasm) (even when you come off) and they are handed out like candies. This shit is evil. I was lucky enough that my sexuality came back, but some aren't so lucky.
I remember when my friend was venting to me about his frustration with the immigration/TFW situation in Canada. I tried to console him by saying at least they weren't muslim and he agreed. We had a good laugh about that.
I agree. I think being old and wealthy is an attainable goal for most people though. I'm planning on investing 50k with my initial retirement number being 75 (in case I live that long) before I move onto the next phase of my life. It's crazy how much you gain over a time horizon of 45 years+.
it's healthy. You're moving around constantly but not exerting yourself to the point of causing musculoskeletal injury like in construction. Talking to people is a smaller part of the job. And u get eyed up by all the cute servers.
idk i really really would like a boyfriend but rarely do gay guys meet my standard or are interested in a relationship to begin with. I just said that because I am in zero contact with women.
Does anyone have success stories of coming off your medication and not falling back into another depressive/psychotic episode? I am bipolar for context.
im tired of being a mediocre meditator. I want to push to the next level as soon as possible. I'm right on the cusp of where things start to open up. I made a post about it yesterday.
Found a fresh pack of cigs on the ground today, and when I'm on day 5 of no nicotine of all times! I think it's a sign from God to start smoking again. OOH BOY they are nice.
26 y/o looking back... after doing a 180 I realize my life went wrong not because a lack of opportunities, but due to ignorance and a lacking in my heart. I am on the right path now but I still need to turn inwards. I have a newfound temperance, but now I need consistent, rock-solid fortitude. If I can have that then the sky is the limit for me.
My mind stays on the object continuously and without effort. Even after a year of not meditating I can still attain this state - like it is hardwired into my brain.
i think the path for me is to give up all entertainment and just meditate with 80-90% of my free time. It's the only way my angst/dread goes away. I did 3 hours of meditation last night but caved in this morning. It's so hard to be consistent.
i can't believe i signed up for full time construction. it's finally time for my twink ass to nut up and be a man. if i fail i will dishonour my entire familly and myself good news is that you will hear less from me
I don't care that I'm behind in life. I'm still going to achieve everything that I've ever wanted and then some. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xaqdK6JPpcg
No not really. My family doesn't really have much to offer. I'm the only one who went onto/is going into higher education. I don't talk to my dad anymore and he is kinda clueless about most things to begin with. The closest thing I have is my best friend but he is heavily into tech and is constantly telling me to start some tech business which I'm not interested in. We always have converations about our plans and how we're going to make it. When I was younger I idolized an author and tried to fo…
I remember I read a post on reddit claiming communists were the economic version of incels, then drew all the parallels between them and communists. It literally blew my mind.
I feel like most people have a base visceral reaction to anything political, then they try to reverse-engineer their logic/beliefs to support it. They just larp like they do it the other way around. It's how I form my opinions at least.
I get called handsome a lot/get complemented on my eyes... Last time was a week ago. I typically enjoy it unless it's a gay guy hitting on me. Good for my self-esteem.
Are there any less retarded subs that acutally give good advice and are filled with smart people? After reading rollo tomassi I have exhausted the golden nugget supply of pill shit. It seems like half the red pill people here haven't even read rollo tomassi. I need more golden nuggets. Everywhere else I look it's just hurr durr buy etfs. Like I know that already.
I only need 40% on my final exam. Just need to hit a layup and this misery can end. I feel like I'm gonna fuck it up anyways. In other news my investment is up 4%, but I only made $13... I literally can't stand being out of the market for so long. I'm gonna get a real job as soon as my exam is over.
yes I talk "gay" when I'm not on guard or I slip up/with other gay people. The personality I have 99% of the time is a mask. You probably don't have this issue because you talk like a woman and are a woman too lol.
google it b*tch! it is very interesting. he travelled to isolated tribes in south america or something to try to find universal body language nonverbals. 🧠🧠🧠
sup homies, how are u (i don't care) i accidentally talked to someone like such a f*g yesterday. I also said some awkward shit that caused him to flash a paul ekman disgust microexpression. I really wish I wasn't so cringe, but it can't be helped. i am developing an irrational fear that ppl irl know me on this subreddit and all the fucked up stuff ive admitted since I showed my face. (still haven't deleted)
So they can throw me in the looney bin, take away my freedom, monitor me 24/7, and make me even more depressed? it's what i did. turns out i was undiagnosed bipolar. now im on medication and actually feel like a normal person. tbh i actually liked my little community of crazy people in the hospital.
What? Even if he raped people or whatever his message is totally out there. Most people dont care anyways cuz he's fkn hilarious. if diddy said the moon is made of cheese 10000x then that's gonna be on people's minds.
fuuck what is there to do on a Sunday other than refresh reddit every 10 seconds and annoy people/be cringe? i am waiting for my open mat (i train bro)
being 160lbs, im realizing literally anyone can kick my ass. I'm kinda insecure about it. I'm like half between a woman and a real man. At least I height mog everyone. maybe I should become obese because putting on muscle doesn't work... I will miss my perfect abs though.
I'm always browsing reddit for the nugget of gold that upgrades my life, but it never comes. It's all just the same shit. I already know what to do but it's so slooooow.
is there some sort of degree in intersexual dynamics I'm not aware of? What 'educational experience' is better than lived experience in this area? Also you know that reading a book does not preclude you from going outside and talking to women? The reason TRP resonates is because it is reflected in people's lived experience.
So when James Clear writes "Atomic Habits" does all of the advice in that book become invalid since he obviously cares about making money? How is that any different other than "I just don't like Rollo and I personally think he's wrong". You see how your argument doesn't make sense? I'm not sure what the point of linking that timeline was but when I used to watch his podcast he was pretty open about all of this. You should look up the "argument from hypocrisy fallacy".
it's a mixed bag for me. I think virtue is the highest good and living according to reason is probably a good idea but but I don't think their cognitive reframing ideals are attainable or very useful. Seneca's letters are a pleasure to read though.
i literally hate how feminine I am. I've had people guess that I'm gay. My dad literally forced me into construction because he said I wasn't masculine enough.
I can probably save up to 100k before 30 if I work this next year non stop. But I don't want too. I am far too lazy. Should I get 100k or just not work? First world conundrums.
I'm pretty liberal when it comes to the right to die/MAID. I'd like it if it were offered without needing to demonstrate a grievous and irremidable disease too. At least in america you have guns. Over here we need to risk some debilitating injury if we fail.
It leads me to be mentally diffuse. Rather than reading I just listen to music and click around because it's easier. I'm an all or nothing person. Either something is in my life or it's not.
Because the thread is about a 'male loneliness epidemic' and you pile massive shit on the kids here daily. It literally went "male loneliness epidemic > let me explain"
Thinking the lonely young men on this sub are in their predicament because they are selfish thus push people away, or whatever other victim blamey thing you cook up on the day.
omg im jooooking im joooooooooooking but srsly tho since u asked... temperance, asceticism, frugality, minimalism, honesty, kindness, and industry are all virtues I work on daily.
Addiction is such a weird thing. I got through the first 24 hours of nicotine withdrawals easily and even though the second day was like 50% easier my brain was like "let's get another nicotine vape wouldn't that be awesome?"
I think I felt love for the first time this year. It was just the beginnings... it's clear that he didn't care about me like that though. I don't really talk to him much anymore... it would be nice to share that with someone eventually. I want to cry.
Insults always seem unsavoury irrispective of the context. They can be satisfying in the moment but looking back I always regret it. I think I will make the rule "never insult someone, even if they insult me first".
I was reading through the tipitaka and there was a line in there that said to abandon all thoughts of cruelty, due to them causing vexation. I'm trying it out and it feels like an upgrade; like I have a forcefield around me. I think I will add a new rule "eliminate all thoughts of physical or verbal cruelty".
nicotine vaping and energy drinks <- the last two consumables i use i think i will quit porn first, then I will quit energy drinks. then nicotine, then I will be freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee alcohol was the hardest to quit by far
Reading career women only wanting someone "on their level" even in the face of loneliness/desparation is wild to me. Like they spent their life becoming a doctor and since women only date sideways and up their dating pool shrank to zero and they physically can't date someone who aren't as successful as them. Daily reminder personality/chemistry counts for nothing if u don't already have all the superficial shit locked in.
If you're passionate about it then you will do fine for yourself. Just don't expect to get a degree and be able to find work like nurses. That's not how it works. You need to want it. Also don't listen to random retards on what to do with your life or what will/won't work, including me. 😊
what is your bf% if u can see your abs but it's covered in a layer of fat? I want to reduce my bf% so I can have hollow cheekbones again and so I don't have to eat as much.
Maybe use some of your free time to study investing so you are able to retain your massive wealth and make your money work for you. That's just what I'd do in your situation.
I had a mushroom trip yesterday. Now I'm convinced I need to be a vegan or at least only eat whole foods, also that the point of life is other people. It's such a difficult substance but it always ends up giving me insight.
Why doesn't it? It worked for me and I can barely talk to people. I think u aren't giving yourself enough credit. If you are having good conversations with people you would be surprised how open people are to hanging out with you. Maybe it hasn't happened naturally but if you want lasting connection then you need to be vulnerable and ask people.
When you join a club the point is to see the same people over and over until you eventually bond over a shared interest. It's scary to ask people to hang out outside of the thing but it's just something you need to do.
sex just doesn't do it for me anymore. I can barely get aroused. Idk what is wrong with me. I'm gonna see a trans girl soon and I know she is gonna want sex. I wish we could just cuddle or something. Now I need to spend 80 dollars on dick pills.
something you may not know about me: i am literally cracked at Melee. I can beat 95% of people. Yet still no girlfriend -; -- tell me how that makes sense?
I slept 16hrs straight last night. I think that is a new record. Idk how I am going to function in my life needing to sleep this much. It makes me want to give up.
You realize having a sexuality and being able to love someone aren't mutually exclusive. Why do women on here see men as chimps that just want to fuck things?
I mean I will still have basic respect for others but I won't be intending to get anything out of anyone like for them to like me or to get in a relationship. Put me in any social group consistently I am already a social outcast
just completely disassociating, using one word answers, etc. I mean I already do that but I still want people to like me. Like what if I found a way to not care.
idk when I think of someone as masculine they just do their own thing without paying attention to what others think about it. Plugging into the hive is for women.
Q4M If suddenly women stopped existing and humans could only reproduce with other men then would you at least try to fuck men? Like just to try it out.
I am 3 days sober from alcohol and cigarettes. Life kinda sucks without them. They are the only antidote to this agony that comes up in my chest every day. Without them I just need to sit there and take it.
having sex for the first time (idc what sex act) and losing your virginity are two different things and none of you unwholesome degenerate motherfuckers can convince me otherwise.
My solution to despairing about not being able to have a family is to browse r/regretfulparents every day. I don't feel so bad about it anymore. I don't even want a relationship that much. My only goal right now is to minmaxx my rogue in world of warcraft (I got to lvl 30 in a week 🥰). Fully cooked.
does anyone get insecure about asking to see their partner too much? Like I try to limit asking to only once a week but I would see him 2-3 times a week but I'm scared I would annoy him. I always wait for him to ask me first if I see him more.
idk I feel like It's a problem in my entire life not just during sex. I'm too shy/insecure to ask what I want and am 100% focused on what the other person wants in every situation to where I don't even know what I want.
I wonder if u completely ignored your health if there was some drug combination to make a womans titties as big as possible. Like something that increases their prolactin levels or something.
Do you ever think about the probability of being alive? Divide the human lifespan by the years between the big bang and the last black hole decaying. What does that work out to? To me this is evidence of humans being a component of some higher metaphysical process.
its hard for my mind to come up with responses. I tend to ask/follow up with dry logistical questions they don't care about because I can't think of anything.
I'm going to another social club again today (nobody talks and it is very awkward). I am also the oldest guy there and it's like 90% women. Idk what I should talk about with them.
idk bro I think you can be a 5'9 line cook and still do well with women if you are an extroverted personality and fun to be around. The ultimate cope is the self improvement journey redpillers push in order to avoid connecting with others.
