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Question For MenLegitimate_Author289/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:34 PM
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$7 iced latte and a weekly fresh bread from a nearby bakery
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:59 AM
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7-12 depending on how sedentary Just my type
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:49 AM
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It’s a figure of speech friend. You’re not meant to take it literally
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:44 AM
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Yeah but if I moved they’d cut my salary by like 40% Works out so far
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:25 AM
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Because not every single time does the sex one fit. For example, if I go on a date with a guy and he expects me to kiss him at the end of the night “women don’t owe you anything” would be more appropriate there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:06 AM
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It didn’t change. They came about simultaneously while being interchangeable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:24 AM
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Original intention was regards to sex and companionship. “Women don’t owe you sex” being popular for example
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:24 AM
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Exactly. The sooner both genders can figure this out the better. You want someone to commit to you? Well you better be someone worth committing to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:17 AM
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I live alone in a major city. Doing just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:15 AM
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And look, the world is still spinning even with scores of single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:13 AM
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Yeah and that woman is an asshole. I’m speaking generally and about the original intention
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:12 AM
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The women don’t owe you anything refers to sex and companionship. But yeah I can get how that’s vague as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:47 AM
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Ooo hard disagree there. I’ve been rejected by men for not being sexually experienced. Highly dependent on culture
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:19 PM
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I disagree strongly that men are more similar in most countries. Take a man in Indonesia, Argentina, UK, Japan, and South Africa. Each will likely have very different expectations and needs for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:19 PM
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Depends on the enhancements. Most of them would not though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:46 AM
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Only when it’s done poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:23 AM
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Mid twenties. I’ll got 10 years older max and 2 years younger. I think it’s important for them to be out of college for at least a few years
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:49 PM
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No strip clubs is a big one for me that a few people have had problems with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:46 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:06 AM
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Why does she have to be a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:21 AM
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The most lonely I’ve ever been was in a relationship. I’d much rather be single than with someone who does not meet my standards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:46 AM
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Combined is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:31 AM
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We just take turns paying for stuff and it all evens out. I’d rather just pay for everything than do a whole song and dance of splitting it all down the middle for
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:08 PM
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No way that's my type
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:53 AM
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I'm my dad’s favorite. My sister used to be my mom’s favorite. But then she moved across the country so now it's my brother
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:32 AM
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No way. Give me the accountant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:28 AM
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They usually end up dating each other
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:55 PM
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I disagree on the likely effect. If anything I’d expect an increase in the number of children born into homes that are unable to support them financially due to a large portion of men automatically opting out of having any financial responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:04 AM
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If you are putting on a front in order to sleep with or date a woman then you are the bad guy. You are removing her ability to accurately consent to dating you by deceiving her Say you met the perfect girl but she’s Christian and only dates religious guys. You then faking being Christian in order to be with her is wrong and it makes you a bad person. Do what you want but if I ever caught one of my friends behaving this way I’d cut them out of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:00 AM
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You said yourself that results are more a priority than being a good guy. Sorry. That makes you a bad person It’s easier to get ahead in life and get “results” by lying, cheating, and stealing. Still makes you a bad person to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:01 PM
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Expecting people to be good people isn’t idealistic. But hey good to know that according to you all men are bad people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:22 PM
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There’s a difference between changing yourself for the better and outright deceiving someone in order to hide who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:50 PM
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Because deceiving people into a relationship is just morally wrong. Full stop. Of course pretending to be something you’re not gets results. You’re tricking someone into liking you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:30 PM
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Love your hypothetical. Let me give you a real life example: I make a lot more money than my bf. I know I could definitely get someone who makes a lot more than myself as I have dated that in the past and continue to get interest from those men. I actively choose to be with my bf because of his other qualities I find attractive. By your logic I am going against some innate biological need to only date men with more money or greater social standing than myself. Plenty of women out earn their part…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:12 PM
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When women are actively choosing partners that are below them in whatever metric, that doesn’t mean they couldn’t get someone higher. Women have more opportunities to take care of themselves so marrying up is less of a requirement for survival. Basically I’m saying it’s primarily culture/society influenced while you say it’s biological. The only biological component is women having more to lose when it comes to sex and child rearing As societies become more equal, men and women start to converge…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:47 AM
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There is a wealth of data that says otherwise. I encourage you to look into it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:26 AM
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Hypergamy for example. Though I expect that as society becomes more equal this will dissipate as it has been. Looks matter being another “duh” red pill take
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:30 AM
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Because though red pill has some good bits, most is pseudoscience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:38 AM
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Most of my friends have met their partners through online dating including myself. His friends say he’s punching but he’s good looking and I think we are pretty well matched
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:33 AM
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Cool that’s not possible under OP’s proposal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:37 PM
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Because the kids need to be provided for. Not to mention kids who grow up in poverty are then much more likely to become criminals and cause all sorts of societal damage
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:28 PM
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And everyone else’s taxes go up to pay for your kids. Great 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:23 PM
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Lol this is true from my very limited experience
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:13 AM
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I mean he was pretty upfront about everything so I don’t think so. But live your life man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:54 AM
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No they were fellow residents. Two in his program. Never mentioned hooking up with a nurse. Always other doctors. I went to one conference with him and he gave me a heads up that he had previously dated 3 other girls there who were also neurosurgeons/researchers. I noped out of that relationship pretty soon after that Seems lots of hooking up with coworkers happens in that profession
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:36 AM
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I dated a guy who was a neurosurgeon for a short period. He had hooked up with a lot of people in his residency and fellowship. Made me super uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:25 AM
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Makes sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:18 AM
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But physical aspects associated with higher testosterone at least facially don’t seem to have an impact on attraction https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1691166/#:~:text=Our%20data%20indicate%20that%20high,attractiveness%20to%20the%20opposite%20sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:04 AM
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No. Single women don’t want to get into a relationship because the relationship available is worse than being single. It’s basic incentives. If we can incentive marriage so that it’s preferable to being single, more people would choose marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:23 AM
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I mean I don’t understand what you’re saying. If single people are bad for society then marriage should be incentivized. You can’t blame the individual for not wanting to enter into a contract that’s bad for them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:06 AM
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Sorry you’re going to have to rephrase
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:34 AM
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I think youre right in terms of filtering. But I don’t think it’s just a height or looks thing all the time. Don’t get me wrong, looks are important. But most of the guys I’ve gone out with and then declined a second date have been due to us not fitting well for other reasons. Some examples: Guy says he isn’t sure if he wants kids Guy views all religion as evil (I’m not religious but my family is and I’m close to them so this would cause problems) Guys favorite thing is partying and going out to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:12 PM
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The quality of the relationship matters
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:00 PM
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It the choices are be single or be in a relationship that makes you feel unsatisfied and lonely, most women will likely choose to be single
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:59 PM
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Depends if I trusted my partner or not. If I didn’t then I’d probably get the test
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:07 PM
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May I ask how tall you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:21 PM
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Again, paint me as whatever you like, but you’re just wasting your life doing so. Hope it makes you feel better though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:51 AM
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Why 0?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:49 AM
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Painting me as some wealthy leech isn’t going to fix your life. I’m sorry your life is shitty but nothing will change unless you take accountability for it and make different choices. I’m very privileged to have parents that love me, but I started my life relying of food stamps and worked my way to where I’m at. I’m not going to pretend to know your financial situation, but your world view is clear and you’re just setting yourself up for failure and disappointment unless something changes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:14 AM
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And you’re definitely not a chronically online doom scroller who has convinced themselves the world is ending in order to avoid accountability for their own shitty life decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:14 AM
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Like what? People are generally doing pretty damn good and there isn’t really any evidence of widespread crisis besides potential wars but that’s always been there Everyone is just chronically online in some doomsday echo chamber convincing them that the world is ending so therefore it’s ok for you to give up on your life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:48 AM
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I’m of the opinion that the world (though imperfect) is is just about the best it’s ever been in terms of quality of life The incoming crisis is overblown
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:45 AM
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And how many accepted/rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:05 AM
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Haha fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:09 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:57 AM
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Happy it’s worked out. How did you get a relationship without ever asking her out?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:55 PM
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Why 0?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:55 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:33 PM
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And you wonder why most women don’t like most men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:29 PM
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Which is what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:24 PM
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I’ve done this with my bf. Not smoking but other stuff and didn’t just spring it on him. From the beginning I said I wanted to be in a relationship with someone that does x or doesn’t do x and if that’s not something he’s cool with we should end this here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:23 PM
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What do you expect them to get back in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:21 PM
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Lots of miserable billionaires out there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:13 PM
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If he gets in touch with the kid he should have to pay back missed child support as well at least partially
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:15 PM
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Here’s the thing. If you hide something from your wife that would potentially end the relationship, then you’re the asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:09 PM
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Damn well good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:23 PM
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So you haven’t asked out anyone since April?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:01 PM
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Simply a sign of health and virility
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:50 AM
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Depends on who is home first. Both my parents work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:09 PM
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I was absolutely terrified in NYC for an internship when a massive guy stood above me on the train and made intense eye contact for the entire ride. He was 4 feet away just staring down at me. I remember panicking that he would follow me or something. It was bizarre and uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:13 PM
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My bf does all of this and it’s great. My dad still opens the car door for my mom and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:44 PM
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Not in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:42 PM
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The actors who play Gale and Peeta in the hunger games. Neither of them are attractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:52 AM
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Then it’s your personality :P
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:17 PM
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Looks maxing inspo for you guys: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C0NzUWwL6fM/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:54 PM
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Can’t just immediately up and leave if kids are involved
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:46 AM
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Immediate no if we are dating. If we are married with kids that gets more complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:28 AM
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Had an invite to a party the guy I was dating was throwing but completely forgot about it and when he texted me to confirm it was too late to make it. I could tell that it hurt him. I apologized and took him to dinner as a sorry. Another time was at a job. It was only two weeks in and basically I approved some code that I shouldn’t have and my teammate had to work late to fix my mistake. I apologized to him, made sure my boss knew how he had stepped up, and was careful not to make the mistake ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:59 PM
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You pay taxes because you have to. You’re not some saint for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:19 PM
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You should 100% filtered dates to women who agree with you or are cool with your political opinions. I think you’d be surprised by the number of women that likely share some of your views Although I’m finding that the more corporate career-focused women lean more conservative/libertarian than say a girl working at a coffee shop but that’s my limited experience in a coastal city
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:31 AM
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Are people just telling you guys that the opposite sex is perfect growing up?? Opposite sex is still people. People generally suck
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:23 AM
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What do you mean by more data points?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:03 AM
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I thought I saw something that the more partners you have the more likely to divorce generally. But the likelihood of divorce actually goes down if you have 2ish partners instead of just one. So based on that, should men avoid virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:43 AM
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As is most of the stuff people complain about on here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:45 PM
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I’m mid twenties and have been asked a few times what high school I go to. I find it has a lot to do with what I’m wearing and if I do my makeup that day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:59 PM
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I think there’s a big difference between a healthy relationship with a parent and being completely dependent on them or them on you. For example, I dated a guy in college who was close to his mom. All seemed great until he wanted to come visit my family in another city before Christmas. (Not over Christmas, but a few days before and he’d be back home by the 22nd). His mom threw a fit. Called him multiple times while we were driving to my family’s house. Eventually he just told her he’d come home…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:41 PM
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My boyfriend picks my clothes a ton and I like it. He’s done it plenty in front of my friends and family and nobody bats an eye. It’s not a big deal. He tends to dress up more than I do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:52 PM
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No. I don’t think I generally care but 100 is concerning
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:21 AM
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You can value financial status without the relationship being transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:36 PM
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Standard after years of marriage? You don’t see the implication?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:34 PM
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I’ve never cheated and never will. But if I’m married to a man for several years and then suddenly he asks for a paternity test, the trust is gone and the relationship takes a major hit. It’s like if I suddenly out of the blue asked him to take an STD test after several years of marriage just to be sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:28 AM
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I love planning dinner parties. But then by the end of it I’m mentally ready for bed and just want my friends to gtfo of my house
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:32 AM
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I’m not arguing about that. Just pointing out that easier access to sex from randos isn’t really a privilege to most women as it’s more likely to be painful than pleasurable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:30 AM
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I don’t think men understand that sex with a random person is more likely to be painful than pleasurable for a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:07 AM
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Dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:58 AM
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Of course. that’s a given
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:56 PM
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Not always. I do think it’s probably a bad thing most of the time though. It’s important to me to feel secure in whatever relationship I’m in or pursuing. If he’s entertaining other girls at that stage then I’d rather not waste his time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:20 AM
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Had a guy I was really into tell me he was also seeing someone else. We had been going out for a few months and I was starting to consider a serious relationship. Idk I just lost interest immediately and the next day said we should probably call it. Surprisingly he then tried to ask to be exclusive but I declined I’m not bothered by people dating others especially in the early stages of getting to know someone. But when I realized that maybe I was much more invested it was a good sign to move on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:13 PM
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Probably the trad guy. HOWEVER the modern guy you described does much better with hypersexual women So basically depends on how you define dating success. Get a gf or get hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:15 PM
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I’m aware it’s above average. I’m mid-twenties and I’m only just a tad below myself in the same area though not a software engineer. I haven’t had any problem in the past dating others with that salary expectation, but I think it’s fairly dependent on what circles you run in
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:39 AM
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TC. Fairly reasonable for my area imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:10 AM
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I’m sorry that’s terrible. If it were it were me I would end it. I don’t think I’d ever be able to trust my significant other again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:55 AM
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I don’t give my friends any details or send screenshots of texts. But I do care what they think. If I bring a guy I’m seeing to meet my friends and they privately tell me they don’t like him or think we are a bad match, that’s probably enough for me to reconsider the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:53 AM
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I’m just a tad under that myself in my mid-twenties and expect to exceed that by 31 in my industry. I want a certain lifestyle for myself and future family that is really only attainable in a duel income household where we are both contributing excellent salaries Nice round number BF could be making more at a company but wanted to try his hand at starting something. I’m happy to pick up the slack in our relationship while he does so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:44 AM
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The vast majority of people have relationships. But those relationships are almost always within the same socioeconomic class. And that’s totally ok. You’re not going to have a chance with everyone. Nobody does. But you’re probably going to have a chance with plenty of others that match more closely to your own background and lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:24 AM
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No. He’s a much better dresser than I am though and I let him pick a lot of my outfits It’s controlling if you get demanding about it. Or there’s consequences. Like “if you don’t wear this then I’ll X”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:53 AM
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I’d expect at least $250k at 31 if in my same area and industry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:50 AM
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Yes it’s very important to me. The number depends on how old he is. For example, if I’m dating a guy a few years younger then I’m down to be making more. There are exceptions. Current bf is working on a startup so makes basically nothing and I cover most of our couple expenses That being said, I’m not interested in men making insane money. They tend to have issues from my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:22 AM
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I’ve actively sabotaged a red pill guy from dating my friend after I let her know he paid for hustler university and showed her what it was. Would never let any Andrew Tate fan anywhere near a hypothetical daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:54 PM
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Yeah but op is talking specifically about Hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:05 PM
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Yeah, but it’s not meant to be fair. Plus if they introduced weight preferences it would likely drive away at least some of their female user base. Bad for hinge as they already have significantly more men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:00 PM
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Reciprocate how? Say I go on a first date with someone, offer to pay for dinner and they decline. How then do you expect me to reciprocate that on the date? I don’t expect anyone to give me something in return when I do something nice for them. That sounds manipulative
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:38 PM
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You wouldn’t hold a woman who went out of her way to do something nice for you in higher regard than a woman who didn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:02 AM
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I picked that age range because OP is talking about single 30+ women. If you’re talking about single mothers who eventually marry others, you’re right that happens. But that’s not related to OP’s point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:01 AM
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0% or single mothers between 35 and 59 are married to the father of their kid. That’s what single mother means
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:22 AM
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I think they may be true for a subset of women. But it depends pretty heavily on their socioeconomic status imo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:18 AM
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Planning two dates for the same time sounds risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:35 AM
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100% of first dates I’ve offered. Only about 20% take me up on it including when I insist on paying. But why does that matter? If someone is doing a service to me, I’m going to hold them in a higher regard than someone who doesn’t do that service. Everything else held constant. Expectation/entitlement would be me not acknowledging the person paying for me. You’re saying that it doesn’t matter to you at all if somebody goes out of their way to do something nice for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:55 AM
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It’s not the expectation or entitlement. It’s a gift and it’s not for nothing. The man who pays did more for me than a man who didn’t. Just like a woman who buys you dinner did more for you than a woman who didn’t. All other things remaining equal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:36 AM
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Only 9% of women 35 to 59 in the U.S are single mothers. How are you getting this “most likely have a child or two from?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:01 AM
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The median age of first marriage is increasing over time. Currently over 30 for men and over 28 for women. I it will continue to be normal for people to wait to couple up until their thirties due to career, family, or other reasons and not necessarily because there is something wrong with them. I know plenty of great men and women who were focused on their careers, travel, and education in their twenties only to become more serious in their late twenties/early thirties. That being said these peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:53 AM
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I don’t think you understand what empathy means
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:29 PM
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I think men have less pressure to decide on kids and so they are more likely to put it off and thus come across that they care less about it than women. Many guys I know in their twenties will vaguely say they want kids or aren’t really thinking about it at all vs many women who have already made up their mind
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:11 PM
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I’ve always at least offered. If I’m positive I don’t want to go out again, I’ll insist on splitting or just covering all of it. Not going to lie though, a man does get extra points in my book if he pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:08 PM
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800k. I was 23 and he was 28
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:25 AM
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