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6

You don't deserve to be courted just for having a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:58 AM
9

It's weird you think this is a uniquely female experience as if men are living in a jolly utopia where women never say outlandish shit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:58 AM
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Sounds like no one is happy then because men also fear that women are only with them for husband qualities and don't have sexual attraction for them like they did with younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:47 AM
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Most men are good people and they will value the growth you've experienced together over "trading you for a newer model". You're being paranoid about a stupid thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:12 AM
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Jfc stop being so dramatic. Anything these men say about women also applies to men. Older men are also less attractive. Men also become less attractive with age. Lighten tf up. You're a woman. You will always be inherently much more valuable than your counterpart looksmatch man at every age. I'm sorry but I just have little empthy left for the adversity women face in dating compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:07 AM
1

Nope. I'm glad I don't have a womanchild.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:28 PM
15

They have the freedom to simp. I also have the freedom to ridicule them for simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:38 PM
1

Men are much more likely to be called losers than women even though there's probably an equal amount of both. Both sexes have some terms that are used against them more than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:36 PM
6

They can also be attention seeking narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:35 PM
7

Better to be led than having a womanchildren to take care of. "I'm just a girl" mentality is toxic asf.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:34 PM
9

Likewise about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:48 PM
4

Well the difference seems to be men should just suck it up and let women complain but women will rightfully take offense and call it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:13 PM
-2

Well that does bother me even after a life time of trying to cope with that but that's just because I did the cardinal sin of being born a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:19 AM
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No it's not. Get over your fragile ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:02 AM
3

Get over yourself. Filtering is important but vetting needs to be done continously in a healthy relationship where both parties are honest with each other and don't have to deal with their insecurities alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:58 AM
7

Only a fragile ego would equate an accusation of cheating to a man wanting to know with the same certianty as a woman that the child is his. Men overwhelmingly don't throw fits when women take measures of safety from them. I'm not going to shout that how dare you accuse me of being a predator just because you take your drink with you. That's because I don't have a fragile ego and I have the empathy to recognize that your safety measures are not an accusation of my character. Seems some of these …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:54 AM
4

That makes no sense. She could divorce for any bullshit reason. How about this, if the paternity test comes out that he's the father, and he cheats on her ever, then he needs to pay alimony forever and kiss the ground she walks on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:50 AM
7

I wouldn't be offended to take an STD test unless she's a hypocrite and refuses to take one herself. None of that rules for me not for you bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:48 AM
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Paternity test is not an accusation of cheating any more than hospital staff asking routine questions to the woman is not an accusation of domestic abuse. If a paternity test destroys the foundation of a relationship, that woman is an egostical self centered idiot. A secret paternity test is not an option for any man who isn't cucked/afraid of his partner and also values honesty in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:46 AM
1

Based egalitarian woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:45 AM
18

I have trust in my driving skills. I still wear a seatbelt. Women may have trust in men to not abandon them after knocking them up, but we still have many protections for women such as child support and alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:44 AM
10

I am once again asking why it's such a big deal for women to not take offense to a simple test that literally does no harm to you but brings peace of mind to your partner. Aren't you suppose to care about your partner? I know it would bring me joy to comfort any insecurities my partner has.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:41 AM
4

Why does it cause you to hold such resentment? It should make you feel great knowing your husband is at peace of mind. I know I would love to alleviate any concerns a woman I'm with has about her safety around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:39 AM
1

Anti-feminism is not about taking away women's rights or whatever demonization the feminists have indoctrinated on you. It's about confronting the rampant misandry in society and it starts with dismantling feminism's position as the egalitarian movement responsible for the morals of society. I am an anti-feminist because male advocacy won't be taken seriously as long as feminism is demonizing it at every turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:26 AM
2

They are if they make that decision beforehand. I have long decided that even if I find someone who I trust 100% with my heart would never cheat, I would still paternity test my child with her because I want to have the same absolute certainty that she has.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:21 AM
1

Mate I'll do whatever tf I want. I just find it very odd women get so triggered about a simple test like stop being so sensitive lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:09 AM
3

Every man has this fear. It's not an uncommon or specific experience. Similarly, every woman has the fear of rape despite most not being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:06 AM
4

No offense but I see this problem exactly the opposite way in that it's often women who want to have their cake and eat it too. Men are constantly hammered with the message that a woman's safety means she can do whatever she wants regardless of the man's feelings. Men listened. Most are already fine with things like their wives being interrogated by hospital staff for domestic abuse. It's women who seem to have such a huge problem with men having the same certainty of knowing their child is thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:05 AM
1

Aren't women the ones bitching that men are commiting state treason for doing a simple paternity test?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:01 AM
2

Okay so this is just a pedantic argument. So you're complaint is that the man should tell the woman after the test is done that he did it and not just tell her he's doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:00 AM
3

Just remember that women have an insanely skewed in group bias with other women while men have no in group bias and are even biased towards women. Also remember that women percieve egalitarian treatment as sexism and benevolent sexism as misogyny. These are backed by studies easily accessible if you want. Ignore all the virtual signaling they'll do in the comments. They won't admit this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:54 PM
8

Sure. Both partners keep hidden money. Men can have paternity tests. Both men and women can demand regular STD tests. All of this is completely fine with me in a relationship and only sissy babies have a problem with them. If it costs next to nothing to alleviate an insecurity my partner has, why wouldn't I do it for someone I love?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:37 PM
3

The male experience of not knowing with 100% certainty your child is yours. Even if false paternity was very rare which I disagree is the case, it's still such a life ruining thing to happen to a man that any empathetic woman would do what is right to satisfy that burden at no cost to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:35 PM
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You don't need to tell the woman that you're getting a paternity test but I would like to be completely honest with the person I am in love with for the rest of my life. Also, it's a good measure of her character if she has a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:34 PM
2

Exactly my point. Imagine being so cucked you have to tip toe around your wife just to know with certainty that your child is yours. A certainty every man has the right to know. Any woman who has a problem with that can go fuck themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:32 PM
5

For the immediate short term, but it's doing them no favors for the long term. This neglect is misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:58 PM
4

No. There is no need to do it secret. Men need to stand up for themselves and not have to tip toe around hurting a woman's feelings. It says a lot about her empathy if she can't see why men would want a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:54 PM
5

It's a good shit test men should use. Any woman who throws a fit about paternity tests is obviously egostical and incapable of empathizing with the male experience, which is important for any woman to have in a relationship. No man wants to have a misandrist woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:52 PM
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Could say the same about women. No one knows if they'll change and become unfaithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:48 PM
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"Boys will be boys" is a misandrist attitude that demonizes boys as stupid and reckless to justify neglecting them to not be equipped for mature socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:56 PM
2

Well men tend to have much higher libidos than woman so try to solve the problem here which is the sexual frustration men feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:45 PM
2

No one said a woman is, but if you're going to be a controlling bitch and not even allow someone else to have bodily autonomy, then you don't deserve respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:44 PM
1

Why would a man agree to not watch porn if he's not fulfilling his libido through her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:40 PM
2

Either he nuts into you or into a sock. That's just the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:38 PM
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No they portray men as soulless. Only a robot can be completely unselfish and sacrificial.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:37 PM
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Can you not be misandrist please, "if men had any brains at all". The OP is wrong but this wording is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:35 PM
0

Then you better suck and swallow if you don't want his sexual energy diverted. It has to go somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:23 PM
1

So you're completely against masturbation?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:22 PM
9

Do romance novels spread terrible ideas about sex and men to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:20 PM
2

Just because she objects does not mean you are being unfaithful. If he objects to her wearing a slutty outfit, does that mean she's being unfaithful? You don't get to control people. All you can do is voice what you're willing to put up with and what you're not and let your partner decide what to do about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:17 PM
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Watching porn does not make someone unfaithful. You can argue about slippery slope all you want idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:12 PM
0

Can men have it all either? Can I work 60 hours while also being full time around my kids and develop a very loving connection? Of course not. Everyone has to compromise. You're not any more entitled to having it all than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:57 PM
0

Your employer doesn't give a shit about your kids. They like men because men will devote their lives to the employer. Women's priorities change.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:53 PM
-2

No one likes dealing with pregnant women in the workplace. No one likes post partum women either. They're just leeches holding everyone back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:51 PM
-16

Well no shit. Pregnancy takes you months out of commission. Then their career is no longer their priority over their kid. Employers don't like that. You're trying to make this out to be some great oppression when it's just shifting of priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:50 AM
1

Yes it does. Women are everywhere spreading their evil feminism. We must save our girls and raise them to be respectful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:07 AM
3

Women aren't held accountable for misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:06 AM
1

I can find many women who say stupid shit about men too. Hillary fanously said women are the real victims of war.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:05 AM
3

Women know too many stories of husbands being abusive so they keep their own money. Same logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:57 AM
-1

A lot of men get offended by women having their own money. Controlling abusive people get offended like that. These women who get offended by paternity tests are selfish and controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:55 AM
4

Is it also an accusation that I'm an abuser if I open the closet and find a bag prepared with supplies so she can make a quick escape? Is it also an accusation when they ask her routine questions at the hospital to try to guage if I'm abusing her? No. You know why? Because I care about her safety more than any small feelings I may have. A good woman would care about eliminating a strong fear and insecurity her man might have without any cost to her but a little hurt feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:54 AM
1

Such as? I'm probably way more egalitarian than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:48 AM
-4

If you expect masculine competence, you should never complain about your role as a woman. Learn your place and suck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:45 AM
5

Women don’t hold shareholder meetings and collude to price gouge. They do. It's called feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:38 AM
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mensrightsmatter #fightfeminism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:20 AM
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So you're against boss babe behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:32 PM
0

Statistics don't care about feelings. Men's feelings matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:44 PM
1

I do. Men are the real victims in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:42 PM
0

Which men already live in fear of. Also, it's not a competition. Have some empathy for men's issues you misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:42 PM
7

That's another thing women love besides pre-selection. It's mystery. Never reveal your cards too early. Honesty breaks the fantasy she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:17 AM
1

Doesn't need to be common. Men living in fear that it can happen to them is not right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:15 AM
3

More often than women do. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:15 AM
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Women are hypergamous and operate under pre-selection. No matter how little inexperience you have, you must project the image that you're a stud that many women desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:34 AM
3

Doesn't matter. Feelings are what matter. I fear women more than men. #believeallmen #menlivesmatter
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:15 PM
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Yeah but it's still not fair for them to hold people hostage in their ramblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:06 PM
3

Yes? Men already live in a world where we aren't noticed unless our complaints are voiced.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:56 PM
7

Some of these women want a daddy not a partner I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:29 PM
7

They hold the almighty pussy that so many men enslave themselves to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:10 PM
-2

Sorry you dealt with that. Doesn't matter what the statisticd are to the belief that women are like poison now. If 1 m&m in a jar was poison, would you eat one? That's how men feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:50 PM
2

So for this hypothetical girl, would you be more wary of her and less forgiving towards certain behaviors. It's hilarious how women will deny the elephant in the room that men are much more demonized and less likely to be emphasized with than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:53 PM
4

That's just how society works for men. It's a much more grim and cruel world than for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:45 PM
0

I support being understanding and supportive of people who claim to be victims without harming the accused until proven to be guilty. This applies to both men and women, yet women seem to think only women should have this support. Hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:45 PM
-1

People who are falsely accused are victims. Yes they could be lieing and potentially the perpetrator like you said, but you could sau the same of people who say they are SAed. They could be lieing because of manipulative reasons. You're assuming the worst of people who say they are falsely accused probably because of your unconfronted misandry as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:41 PM
1

Because they live in a fantasy. They don't want relationships with humans. They want relationships with androids that only dispense positive emotions that show just how much he loves her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:39 PM
10

I say it all the time and get called misogynistic, incel, whatever. Most women aren't good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:22 PM
0

I would assess her character. Aren't women the ones telling everyone to #believeallwomen?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:43 PM
1

Do you think he's a bad person or a misogynist or whatever for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:40 PM
0

Wait so you wouldn't #believeallmen? Why does him revealing this make you MORE wary of him?? Would a girl friend admitting she was SAed make you wary of her? Male victims should be believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:39 PM
23

It's sad that women can't even admit how fucked up it is that men can be arrested and thrown into a cell just if a woman points to him. Especially without deflecting or diminishing this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:36 PM
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So he is completely fine with his own woman thinking he's unattractive to 90% of women? Men want to be desired for their bodies just like women. This guy either didn't realize what you said, or he's internalized the misandry so much to accept this is the best he'll get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:33 PM
0

Men in EU. Men in Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:28 PM
5

I don't shit on women. I support women's rights because it's the right thing to do. I shit on feminists because of their misandry and diminishing men's rights like you just did here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:27 PM
1

999999999% more often than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:24 PM
0

Why do you see paper abortions as a compromise? You don't support men's rights just because it means men exercising their rights could hurt women. I support abortions because of women's rights even though I know sometimes it means they exercise their rights to the detriment of men. Why do men's rights matter so little?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:24 PM
0

Go admit this to him if you think there is nothing wrong with this. You won't though because you know it would hurt his self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:17 PM
-1

ls it possible that the woman doesn’t desire her partner because of something that is her fault? Or did you only list examples such as the man-child stereotype because you're a misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:14 PM
1

This is such a feminist line of thinking. If you just go through this one more hoop, we'll finally support you. You can't even give one good reason why women would support paper abortions. Men's rights don't matter to women. Especially when men exercising their rights could potentially harm women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:52 PM
4

Feminists conveniently change the definition to suit their purpose, like the false claim that feminism is egalitarianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:46 PM
0

So feminism is about equality? That must explain all the men's issues that feminism addresses. That must explain why feminists never tell men to go form their own groups. Why would they need male advocacy movements when they have the brilliance that is feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:45 PM
0

Are women conscripted as often as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:42 PM
1

Do you support paper abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:41 PM
0

If medical abortions are legal and easily accessible, what reason do women have to support financial abortions? What do women gain from financial abortions being an option for men? Men's rights don't matter if they could possibly harm women. That's why financial abortion laws should be included in the same breath as medical abortion laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:38 PM
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It's just an opportunity for women to lie like they usually do for their agenda of protecting their status as the morally righteous over us dirty males. Women can't just say they're attracted to muscly, broad shouldered, dominant, egotistical, men. Women are better than men. Their sexuality is much more profound and deep than men. That's why they're attracted to how good of a person you are!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:10 PM
-4

Feminism is misandry and perptuating the oppression of men at the expense of women. Stop with this feminism is equality bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:58 AM
4

Because you didn't live that experience. Why do you claim the suffering of your ancestors as if you were wronged? What does a great grandma's suffering have to do with the 20 something white woman enjoying the greatest privileges an average socioeconomic person has ever had?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:57 AM
-1

This is some redpill shit hahaha. So I could say the same of women. Women love the ego boost of men's sexual desires towards them. That's what gives them the, "I am the table attitude." Men should never give any indication of sexual interest in women unless they recognize they are giving away power to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:41 PM
0

How does withholding affection protect your reputation?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:24 PM
4

The Emmett Till treatment is still alive they just be concealing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:02 AM
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My life would have been way easier as a GenZ white woman in California. Throughout the entirety of human history, no person of average socioeconomic class has had it easier in life. Maybe in another life I'll have the power of a western white woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:54 PM
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You missed the point which is that both blue and red pillers agree that struggling men basically need to accept their 20s will have to be a grind of self improvement just for the chance in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:40 PM
7

What if I want the safety of knowing my child is mine with the same certainty the mother has?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:28 PM
-1

I respectfully disagree because I see a lot of (what I believe to be) fearmongering such as the original post. Also look at things like this. https://np.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/comments/1fe2g9a/elon_musk_responds_to_taylor_swifts_endorsement/lmkykg6/ Why should I have anything besides basic human decency to people who hate me? Feel free to drop that famous bar, "men are afraid women will laugh at them while women are afraid men will kill them."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:23 AM
0

This is your right to believe this, but it gave me a thought. I wonder why so many men seek the approval of women when most of them think men are disgusting abhorrent violent pigs. I think they still have hope of an egalitarian future or something. It's so much easier for me to just not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:51 AM
1

If most men are cheaters and eventually will, then I wish you luck finding an extremely rare one that won't. Men are such pigs!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:41 AM
2

I think they feel you aren't owed basic human decency because of their fear of safety. I could argue that fear is very illegitimate derived from the demonization of men that feminism has indoctrinated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:38 AM
3

It's sad that men aren't good enough for women unless they are providing her whole lifestyle. Makes me doubt that women love men, at least much as men love women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:36 AM
2

Men* not human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:31 AM
0

You're better off ignoring 90% of men and only pursuing the top 10% that have options like women do. You won't have to fear this behavior from these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:28 AM
0

What makes you think the lesser options men have are of higher quality?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:20 AM
0

I could say the same of nagging women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:00 PM
1

You've never heard the stereotype that men are violent, angry, thugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:00 PM
-1

This is why women have no accountability. Any time any women doesn't give in to the in-group bias, she's a pick me. It's how the sisterhood maintains itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:19 AM
-9

Which sex is known for being angry? Why is he angry? Because she ignored everything he said with a pleasant tone 20 years ago and he adjusted his tone until it got results.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:17 AM
2

All the time. I won't belittle a male victim like most men and women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:23 PM
-4

No they are not. The numbers are a lie because men's numbers are vastly underreported due to gynocracy indoctrination that the "oppressors" can't be victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:08 AM
-5

Women don't take men's sexual assault seriously either. I will blame feminists too as they're included in this group as they continue to insist that sexual assault is a women's issue primarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:57 AM
-8

Bullshit gaslighting and you know it. Metoo is about women towards men. Women aren't taught consent like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:51 AM
2

It means I'm a progressive and a leftist but without the discrimination towards certain groups just because it's seen as, "punching up" It means I support women's advocacy but without misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:40 AM
-3

Happens to a lot of men too. Feminists love to make sexual assaultna women's issue to maintain their position as the oppressed group and win the victim olympics. I don't give a fuck about the numbers. Men's sexual assault numbers are severely underreported due to feminist indoctrination that the "oppressors" can't be victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:37 AM
1

I remember bringing up the fact that men sometimes don't even know they we're sexually assaulted and how women can more easily get away with it. The feminists I was arguing with basically said that it's not women's faults because they're taught that men always want it. So if women are never taught consent, why is the message only geared towards controlling boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:33 AM
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Women expect men to be better than them. Women rarely want a true 50/50 relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:29 AM
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So discrimination isn't possible unless it's in the letter of the law? Also, nice job reducing all men's issues to they're just lazy. This is why feminists deserve no empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:04 AM
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Why shouldn't they lie if women are bigoted and disgusted by men loving on men? Straight women are so homophobic. It's weird how they ridicule men for slutshaming but they clearly share the exact same views as straight men. Penis is evil. When penis enters a man or a woman, that person has become slightly more ruined. This is what ya'll believe and it's fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:46 PM
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Why would bi men lie about being lie? The fuck are you even on about? What situation did you invent?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:29 PM
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Or black people. Or any group that is seen as punching down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:22 PM
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Misandry. Patriarchy theory. Fearmongering.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:21 PM
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This is that victim complex I was talking about. Getting your rights stripped left and right? Hahahaha. Men are left behind in education. Men are outearned by women under 30. Men are demonized in our culture. Men make up the majority of suicides. Men make up the majority of the homeless populations. Yet feminists think women are the ones who are oppressed. It is men who are oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:38 PM
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Men aren't a monolith just like women aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:08 PM
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That's just misogyny. That's not anti-feminism. Anti-feminism is about egalitarianism and fighting misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:25 PM
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Misogyny is not anti-feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:15 PM
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We need women allies to fight the gynocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:14 PM
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Want to help?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:46 PM
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Anti-feminism doesn't exist outside corners of the internet. Feminism is the dominant culture. Feminism controls the media, academia, and politics. Feminists continue to insist that feminism is some small undergroum group to try to maintain their position as the oppressed. It's simply not true. Misogyny is constantly under criticism. Misandry is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:46 PM
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Straight women won't outright state their disgust with male homosexuality. It just becomes abundantly clear in their dating standards. Or how they'll keep a gay man around as a fun clown and for social credit points.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:27 PM
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Bait used to be believable. Either that or too much feminist brainrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:24 PM
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Homophobic attitudes towards bisexual men from straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:20 PM
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Our feminist culture places women into the positions of victims and oppressed. Liberal media says that the victims and oppressed can't be bigoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:20 PM
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It starts with denouncing feminism as the arbitrar of morality and cultural values. Then dismantling the women are wonderful affect. Then bringing women down to v be viewed as the same disgusting rotten filth that men are. No more gynocracy and the egalitarian utopia is achieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:12 PM
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I don't think women are any more or less bigoted than men but I will point out that feminism encourages bigotry by teaching girls to hate and demonize men through fearmongering that women are an oppressed group. This victim mentality leads to righteous bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:07 PM
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Misandry imo because it's rarely criticized like misogyny is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:04 PM
1

Is it rational to be naturally racist then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:57 PM
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Despite claiming to be progressives, most women still operate under misandrist ideas like just keep his balls empty and belly full.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:47 PM
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If I have to do the entire logistics of our plans while she just shows up, that's her being pampered even if I had a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:45 PM
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Men deal with lots of internalized misandry pressuring then into male disposability ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:39 PM
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You forgot to add disgusting, disposable, demon under men which explains why you think men are still getting the better end of the deal when they have to provide for grown women like they're children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:38 PM
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Remove systemstic discrimination against men like the Duluth model which assumes men are the perpetrators. Remove the ability for women to lie about men and be believed just because she's a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:15 PM
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No it's not. Anti-feminism is about bashing misandry and patriarchy theory. It has nothing to do with bashing women or misogyny or whatever other lies you want to spread to protect feminism's image.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:09 AM
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Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:03 PM
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It is unhinged but so is feminists thinking they are some oppressed little underground group as if they don't run politics, academia, and culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:02 PM
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An even bigger loser. It goes coupled women > coupled men > single women > single men. Thanks to feminism, soon single women will have higher value than coupled men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:39 PM
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It's sad that women's only option is to be single or part of chad's harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:37 PM
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Who works more and pays more taxes? Men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:35 PM
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Those aren't real anti-feminists. Anti-feminism is about hostility towards misandry, not bullying childfree women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:34 PM
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It does but it's especially hard with feminist indoctrination gaslighting men from birth and then demonizing male spaces. You want to be helpful? Tell your fellow feminists to stfu the next time they pull that feminism is about equality crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:30 PM
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Unhinged feminists are the victims mentality is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:27 PM
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Do it to yourselves. Stop demonizing men existing around children. Stop demonizing men in general. When men feel welcomed to do domestic labor, they'll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:26 PM
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Then don't let strange penis in you and you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:33 PM
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Why di you regret donating blood?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:18 PM
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Stop fearmongering. Women run the world. Average women have much more social power than average men. Feminism is so focused on the top 1% of men while ignoring everyone else. Women make up the majority of voters. Whatever problems you have are caused by women. Stop blaming men and take some accountability. Meanwhile, millions of men are gaslighted by women because they don't have financial abortion rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:12 PM
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You're missing my point. You're talking about women with women relationships. Women respect other women so of course they'll treat each other fairly. All women hold some degree of misandry so they don't have an incentive to be romantic in relationships with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:09 PM
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They did it for you because they had to if they wanted to keep you around. Women go into relationships with men thinking they're owed something. What incentive does a woman have to be romantic to her man?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:00 PM
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Women can be romantic to women, but I have a hard time seeing women be romantic to men besides thinking making someone a meal is romantic. Women just don't put in the effort to be romantic like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:51 PM
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Remind me is it women's or men's issues that are front and center the focus of the mainstream media and society at large. Remind me is it not feminism that rules our politics, academia, and cultural norms?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:49 PM
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Women run the world. The fact that the top 0.0001% are men is a convenient figurehead exactly as women want it. Women and men are both susceptible to manipulation but men more so because cultural norms are female coded. We're more likely to say men's behaviors are wrong. Also, those women willfully engage into being part of chad's harem. I don't have sympathy for women who complain about misogyny while filtering for everything but that in men. Women don't have added dangers. Men are the ones the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:49 PM
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Yes but irrelevant. I've noticed this in other people's relationships. Romance is something men do to women. Then they bitch about emotional labor or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:10 PM
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Being physically weaker isn't the only thing that makes you more vulnerable. Men are a lot more susceptible to manipulation in a society where culture is female coded. The bar is much higher for men because of hypergamy. It is a fact that women are only attracted to a very small percentage of men. Do you really think men desiring women a lot more than women desire men doesn't create an imbalanced power dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:49 PM
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Then why the fuck is feminism constantly pushed into men? Why is the mainstream societal message about women's issues and the big bad patriarchy? Feminism required women to place pressure on men to change for the betterment of women. You can't have it both ways. Why are women entitled to men caring about them but men aren't entitled to women caring about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:46 PM
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Relationships are easier for women too. Men have to do the majority of the effort in courting. The initial dating scene is basically a job interview for men to meet the laundry list of women's standards. It's not more dangerous for women than men. That's just what feminism teaches you so you develop a victim complex and hate men. I'm not denying that women have issues in dating but you're completely ignoring how much harder it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:30 PM
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That means most women shouldn't date then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:20 PM
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Men are just as capable of nurturing as women are. Women are just as capable of providing security as men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:19 PM
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What I want is for men's issues to be placed front and center in society right next to women's. For women to stop gaslighting men's issues. For feminism to be denounced for the rampant misandry and indoctrinating young girld into a false ideology that teached them to hate men because of the patriarchy boogeyman. Men's voices won't be heard until we're no longer demonized by feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:16 PM
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I sincerely doubt you call out misandry. No woman who cares about misandry would endorse feminism. Don't have a second account, I just like trolling feminists. Ever been called a pick me for calling out misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:13 PM
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No they don't need to care about men's issues more than women's. I just want the bare minimum. I want women to acknowledge men's issues without diminishing them because of patriarchy or whatever. Men are constantly bombarded with women's issues and pressured to care about them. Where is the equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:47 PM
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When do women call out the women that oppress men? When do women call out misandry? Women have an in-group bias much stronger than men. Feminism's victim complex is too strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:44 PM
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See can't even admit your privilege. Why should men even acknowledge women's issues much less care about them if this is the response?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:40 PM
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Rarely do women acknowledge men's issues. Even when they do, they see men's issues as less important. Feminism teaches women that they are oppressed by the big bad patriarchy and men. Why would they care about men's issues if that's the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:39 PM
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You're right queen. There is no misandry in feminism. These disgusting men just need to man up harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:12 PM
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These men? There are no exceptions. All men are misogynists. They watch and do nothing while women are oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:10 PM
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It's sad how deranged feminism has made women that what I said is something you wouldn't be surprised to see a woman say at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:09 PM
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Yikes with the misogyny. This is why women choose the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:08 PM
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Men aren't entitled to empathy or anything really. When men are whining online, they are just being misogynists. You explained the situation perfectly here. These disgusting misogynists just want women to handle all their problems. It's not right. I'm really scared for the future for our little girls having the share the same streets as these manosphere consumed gremlins.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:36 PM
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Why can't we do both? Recognize the issue is feminism but also recognize that it's not possible to remove feminist indoctrination as it's too entrenched. Control what you can control. Coping/emotional resilience is the only move men can play.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:20 PM
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This know your worth crap only works for women. Explain to me what incentive do women have to not uphold gender roles on men at their own detirement? This only works when you have any leverage to pressure your oppressors to change. That's why feminism worked. This dynamic doesn't exist the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:14 PM
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It'a funny you insist redpill teaches men that they are oppressed in a gynocracy meanwhile feminism does the same thing in teaching women they are oppressed in a patriarchy. Two sides of the same coin used to manipulate young men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:25 PM
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Seems pretty easy and quite clear. Now on the other side...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:14 PM
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That's interesting. So maybe women can't smell the misogyny off single men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:04 PM
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The victim complex that women have from feminism is so hilarious to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:45 PM
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Women don't want to give up the domestic labor. If they did, men around children wouldn't be demonized, paternity leave would be a reality, men being providers would not be the expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:49 AM
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Men are not a monolith. Don't speak to me that way. Keep talking about men's ego and ignoring their emotions. This is why I believe relationships don't work unless the man is better than the woman in every way. He has to be better to be willing to endure all her emotional labor while receiving none in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:41 AM
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It is baseless tho??? Lmfao misandry is punching DOWN not up Young women earn more and are more educated. I'm tired of misandrists using the patriarchy boogeyman to justify their misandry. fuck feminism! You are not victims
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:22 AM
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I couldn't forgive him after feeding an ATM a cat and stomping that dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:44 PM
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What is the man gaining for handling all this emotional labor of a woman that isn't self reliant? Sex? Not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:41 PM
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So what? The majority of men are also sexually harassed. Feminism.has convinced women that SA is something that only happens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:12 PM
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Please stop destroying me with your emotional Intelligence!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:05 PM
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Please I'm sorry. You have to forgive me I'm just a misogynistic MAN with a big ego and violent tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:58 PM
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Fight back against the patriarchy by beating up homeless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:51 PM
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Yes men are awful. Go off queen!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:49 PM
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Because it's the lies they tell. Women know damm well how embarrassing risk taking is and leads to being ostracized.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:43 PM
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Feminist studies where kindness is female coded shows women are nicer. Shocking!! Why di you even bother with this pointless crap. You don't need to tell you that mem are the big bad evil oppressors of precious delicate kind women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:41 PM
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I prefer honesty over kindness. I don't believe women's agreeablity makes them more selfless. Men are conditioned into selflessness through male disposability.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:08 PM
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You also need to accept that men deal with things women never even think of. Women are never hammered with men's issues like women are. Also, we may live in a patriarchy but we also live in a gynocracy. I'd rather be an average woman than an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:06 PM
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Men don't hate women. Feminine traits are praised, just not in men. That's because men hate when other men embrace feminine traits that place these men who are supposed to be worth garbage in the same tier as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:05 PM
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Some of us have to interact with these humans and don't just sit at home so we're forced to deal with these biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:04 PM
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That's just not true. Women's sexual violence is severely underreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:38 AM
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Nice sentiment but society is different. Women are considered more valuable and precious by everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:37 AM
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Homophobia is mostly rooted in misandry anyway. Men sex is disgusting. Lesbian sex is beautiful. At least that's the conservative view. Also the feminist view as well as most progressive women are very against the idea of dating bisexual men because men having sex is disgusting to them. Anyways, it's internalized misandry because men view themselves as disposable servants compared to women. So men look down on other men who behave in feminine ways that indicate they have value. They're acting ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:36 AM
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Emotional labor. Women aren't children. You be self reliant and not rely on your partner for your self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:17 AM
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No. That would be sexist. Women are just as likely and as capable to be awful people as men are. They're not innocent creatures with no agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:16 AM
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I don't see that changing any time soon for as long feminism continues to teach girls that men are their oppressors under a big bad patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:07 AM
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Damn so you understand the logic of why men don't want to settle down with a woman that would've turned him down when they were both in their 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:05 AM
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Then don't bitch about misogyny if you're a misandrist. You get what you pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:09 PM
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It's so hard to unite men. Men don't unite for the good of each other. Only when there is a extrinistic common goal. There's also so much demonization of male advocacy under this gynocracy that insists on viewing us as the oppressors. It's still up to us though. Also, not sure about moms with boys caring about men. The sentiment I see is they just want to make her boy one of the good ones. It's sick. Imagine if men were constantly talking about how to make their daughters one of the good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:08 PM
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Men want everything from women. That's why women have much better relationship options. Men are desperate for women's affection that they don't get from their same sex relationships like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:03 PM
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Nope. I'm not a woman. If I could go back in time though and change nothing about my socioeconomic status, I'd choose to be born a white woman in California. The easiest life you could have as an average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:00 PM
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Someone in a deadbedroom situation is trapped. Someome going months between sex still have the freedom of single life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:55 PM
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You know he's trolling you right using the same logic that people use to blame men for deadbedrooms. 'Oh he must not do enough chores around the house."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:49 PM
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I think women are more agreeable but this is not a good thing because it leads to dishonesty, poor communication, and poor conflict resolution. I don't believe women are more or less bigoted than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:45 PM
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Yes, internalized misandry exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:42 PM
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That just means their misandry is even stronger than their in-group bias. Insert a man into the picture and They'll suddenly go right back to the women are wonderful logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:42 AM
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You're one of those coping that I'm talking about. Women don't just have much better sexual options than men. Women also have better relationship options than men. Men are the ones settling into relationships with women where she decides all the terms and because he's so desperate to be in that relationship, he'll put on a mask to try to be what she wants but eventually he's not good enough and it's just a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:32 AM
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That's good to hear. Sorry for any infantilizing, coddling, or belittlement you may have faced due to your sex, something you've had no control over. That's an experience I can't relate to as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:14 AM
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Don't you have control over your vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:10 AM
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So women have no agency in deciding if a man can cum in her or not? Her legs are forced open against her will?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:06 AM
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That's fine but you should know that you're a lot more likely to be treated poorly if your being misandrist. If everyone around you is an asshole, maybe you are the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:05 AM
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The bar is so much higher for men. I wish I was a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:56 AM
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It honestly feels like I live in a sick joke sometimes. How is it that they're all so insistent on keeping up this lie and gaslighting us? I really just want to understand this so badly. My initial thought is that they're not doing this purposely, but it's just that feminism teaches them that they're the victims of the big bad oppressors.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:52 AM
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So why are women incapable of being fair to men? I know the answer but I'd like women to answer. Okay fine the answer is all women are misandrists and have a massive in group bias for other women at the expense of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:49 AM
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Women are the problem too. Women have a massive in-group bias towards other women at the expense of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:47 AM
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Men hate each other. Misandry is rampant. There is no in-group bias between men like there is between women. So yes, it's much harder to receive any empathy as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:46 AM
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You deserve no empathy when you spread misandry imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:42 AM
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Please don't say males. It's dehumanizing. Women don't like being called females and men deserve the same respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:38 AM
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Yet women act like they are an oppressed group living in a patriarchy with big bad evil men when the reality is men are just as much victimized as women are and men's issues deserve to be treated with the same respect, empathy, and awareness that women's issues are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:32 AM
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Except for rape, women have full control what gametes enter them to avoid abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:27 AM
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Your applying how we treat young women to young men and that won't work because of the male hyperagency fallacy. You'll have a hard time ever convincing anyone that a full grown adult man is ever manipulated or the victim or not an omnipotent god in control of everything that happens around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:16 AM
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It's just a hard pill for men to swallow that women will always be more valuable than them. A lot of men like to cope that women hit a wall and they'll finally have their revenge or something like that but it's stupid. Men are better served to admit the truth to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:11 AM
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No, feminists have decided we call that toxic masculinity, because of the male hyperagency fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:07 AM
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You know how women can be viewed to have agency? Only if women lose the ivory tower image like being so morally superior and more emotionally intelligent than men. Come roll down in the dirt with us. The more we acknowledge when women are being toxic, when they're behaving corrupt, the more agency each individual woman will be perceived to have. Most women don't seem urgent for this to happen though because the freedom of agency seems less important than the benefits of being catered to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:06 AM
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most compassionate ppd woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:54 PM
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The enemy is different. Men aren't in a struggle to fight back against their testorone urges. They're in a struggle to fight back against the gynocentric society we live in. The distinction is important because it means we may live in a world one day where men won't have to be in this fight, although this likely won't be the case for even our grandchildren. The gynocracy took thousands of years to develop. It will take some time to dismantle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:32 AM
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Ah yes feminist patriarchy theory logic. Men are all born with an original sin and are indebted to women. Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:16 AM
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Testorone is not the affect. This behavior is not ingrained in men. It's the gynocentric society that we must dismantle and that starts with fighting back against feminism. Men are not dysfunctional women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:11 AM
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Lmao you actually think what you replied to him was coherent and not just wah wah wah? lol hahhahaaha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:05 AM
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I'm rubber you're glue. Whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to you. Also, hey you started it. Don't be mad at me for playing dumb at your level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:50 AM
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Your problem with menslib is misogyny? This is why I hate feminists. They see misogyny in their ceiling. Menslib is a feminist hellhole disguised as a male advocacy group. If you want a male advocacy group that doesn't hold back from punching at feminism, look at r/leftwingmaleadvocates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:46 AM
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Men need women a lot more than women need men. That's the leverage that women's suffrage needed to work. Men don't have any leverage over women for male advocacy to really work on a large societal scale and not just the corners and shadows of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:36 AM
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Yes that's how a gynocentric society works. Men can't function without women. Women can't function without women. Women are the almighty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:34 AM
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I don't believe the cause is testosterone. It's the culture that teaches men to hate each other and care about women above themselves .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:33 AM
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What does accepting this even mean? So we accept that men are disposable? We accept that we just can't care about each other like women can? I find that hard to accept. I admit I'm very female-biased in my actions but I beat myself over this because I can't control it. I just can't accept that this is the way we're wired. I think it's the gynocentric society with a culture that, at every turn, shows men to be disposable and women to be cared for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:30 AM
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That's the problem right there. Every male advocacy has to come with a big fat disclaimer of misogyny. Men are so demonized that we have to walk on eggshells in this feminist hellhole. The greatest weapon that women possess is shame and boy are they good at using it to crush male advocacy. Feminism is never held to the standard that their activists should police themselves from misandry. Feminists have free reign to act as they please because they've taken over politics, academics, and culture. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:21 AM
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Mfer that doesn't happen. So an innocent little women just says I'm sad no one showed up on my birthday and then a big evil man comes talking about suicide rates. If you could argue in good faith, you would be deserving of less hate and some meaningful conversations could take place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:17 AM
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A lot of the problems in dating can be stemmed from the unfortunate reality that to women, only a small percentage of men are physically appealing and even then, only mildly. Only homosexual men seem to appreciate the male body as strongly as heteresexual men appreciate the female body. I'm not blaming women. It's not their fault that they're wired that way, but men are human too and want to be desired sexually as well. When your partner is attracted to you, your worth to them becomes a lot less…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:00 AM
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You're clearly irrational. There's nothing to discuss. You should examine why their comment triggered you so much though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:50 PM
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You sound very unhinged and defensive. Why so butthurt? Who cares how that study would make men feel? It's a study that would never exist and makes no sense to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:39 PM
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You know it's a lot more respectable to admit you're misandrist than these mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:24 PM
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Lmfao no one takes the cat ladies thing seriously. Women are empowered in the big 2024 where feminism has a strong hold on our politics and culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:26 PM
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No to the first. Yes to the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:17 AM
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You probably did it to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:16 AM
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Why should a man treat women to high effort expensive dates? That's an invitation for women who are not attracted to him to just exploit him. A woman who is attracted to him will want an equitable relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:12 AM
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This is also why men shouldn't listen to women's standards. Those standards will drop if you she finds you attractive. If her standard is expensive dinner and wine, she's not going to say shit if she wants you and you take her to a coffee date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:04 AM
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This place is shit. Between people like that simp and that one misandrist mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:59 AM
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From my experience, many straight women are subtlety homophobic and view homosexual sex between men as disgusting. They still appreciate the social virtue tokens of keeping a gay man around. He's like an entertaining clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:51 AM
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If men did that, they would still lose. Single men are invisible at best and shamed at worst. It's socially acceptable to be a single woman. Single men have the lowest value of life on the totem pole. This is women's fault not just men. Explains why women love to virgin shame with any man they disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:48 AM
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The go to tactic for women is virgin shaming lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:44 AM
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I can't get an orgasm any other way than ruthless skullfucking. Women need to not be selfish. This isn't entitlement. I just want an orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:44 AM
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Not infant no. Toddler/preschooler yes. After they're potty trained, they're easy. I see moms constantly baby them and then whine that it's so hard. Give the leash some slack and you'll find you just need to be vigilant for when they really need you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:24 AM
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Patriarchy theory conveniently ignores all the power that women have to maintain their position as the oppressed sex. When you view men as your oppressors, it's very easy to be misandrist. Why have any sympathy for your oppressors?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:27 PM
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Teachers babysit 20+ kids at a time while trying to teach them. I'm sorry but a stay at home parent has a much easier job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:21 PM
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All feminists hate men by believing in patriarchy theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:09 PM
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Yeah and I'm just joking when I say all women should die or something okay right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:08 PM
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They have to worry about the consequences of that abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:03 PM
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The male disposability that society perpetuates isn't limited to just the scenario of risking your life for a stranger in imminent danger. It's everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:48 PM
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I'm a man. I'm also single which means I have no family that I'm being useful for. A single man has the lowest of low in human value. I'm as irrelevant as the ant on the sidewalk. So just like no one expects anything from that ant, you can't expect anything from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:28 PM
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Does this not anger you? I've been there too, but then I'm spiteful and thought why should I continue to perpetuate the male disposability that society demands of us?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:25 PM
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It is a big deal. Everyone is grading men on this. Men are under the societal pressure of male disposability. This is enforced by both women and men. Don't undermine male issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:21 PM
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So victims who are men deserve less care if their perpetrator is a man? Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:16 PM
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I'm serious. I'm scared of pregnant women. Not only are they a high risk for abuse/violence, but they're else the group of people you're least likely to be allowed to criticize.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:31 PM
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It's best to treat them all with suspicion that they're crazy then. There's no way of vetting a woman to know if she's going to turn insane on you when she gets pregnant or possibly even abusive. As a man with a pregnant woman, you're also much less likely to receive any empathy while the pregnant woman gets all of it. We really need to limit the damage that pregnant women can inflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:28 PM
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So you admit that pregnant women are mentally ill? Then we should treat them accordingly. It's not their fault that they're mentally ill, but we need to get them the help they need. Any man with a pregnant woman needs to be able to handle hysteric behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:05 PM
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Women are not oppressed. Women ARE the oppressors.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:54 PM
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Women really are the benevolent sex compared to us disgusting males. Will you please forgive us for being such terrible monsters?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:40 PM
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At what point in a woman's life is she responsible for her actions according to reddit? 18-25 well her brain hasn't fully matured yet. Then comes the years of pregnancy hormones and of course every woman has PPD which lasts years for every woman. Then there's premenopause. Then menopause. When can I start throwing violent fits and blaming it on my testorone btw?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:14 PM
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There are more considerations for a woman to be willing to chase a man to have sex than just if she's capable of an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:39 PM
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Most women can orgasm just fine. If you have had multiple male partners and still struggle to orgasm, the problem is you. Men are not responsible for your orgasm past a reasonable effort. Just like women are not responsible for a man who can't get it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:27 PM
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Which is just not true. Men don't hold the majority of power. It's easy to convince yourself this so that men are seen as your oppressors and then you can justify all your misandry. It's the perfect conspiracy to manipulate young women. Show me in what western country does a middle class average man have more power than his equivalent woman? There are none.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:06 PM
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Sheep mah mah mahhh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:02 PM
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It is a conspiracy. Academia has been tainted by feminists. Resources are very limited for any studies that don't paint men as the oppressors and women as the victims. You just don't understand feminism. There is no world where feminists believe patriarchy no longer exists. The goalposts will always move. Women under 30 have higher incomes, are more educated, and hold more home ownership than men. Women in these countries have won. Misogyny is limited and controlled while misandry is rampant and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:55 PM
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Yep. Wake up you sheep.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:40 PM
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Yes it is. Feminists believe in patriarchy theory. Anyone who subscribes to this conspiracy can easily convince themselves to be misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:31 PM
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So if a woman is insecure, he must have given her a good reason to be that way. If a man is insecure, he's paranoid and needs therapy. Do you mfers even realize the hypocrisy? Also, these men don't even realize they're cucked. They're just listening to feminism which is telling them that they should tolerate anything women do. Women being the sheep they are, they'll happily support their fellow women stomping on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:03 AM
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Let's say a woman has other women in her ear telling her to prepare for in case her husband is abusive. Is a wife then having a bag ready in the garage with clothes, money, and other supplies to be an accusation that her husband is cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:47 AM
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They would be but they're made to be fine with it because they have to tolerate so much bullshit in the name of feminism. These cucks can't stand up for themselves. Tragic really.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:45 AM
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Not giving you numbers. It's more than 0%. That's all that matters. Women already say they treat all men with an abundance of caution until proven otherwise. I've used the same logic that women do. It's not a specific man's fault that women do this, but it's other mens fault. So do you agree with the feminist logic or not? Don't be a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:05 AM
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Often enough for it be a legitimate fear for men to have. As long as it happens, it's all women doing it. Don't take it personally. It's not an indictment of you. It's not your fault. It's other women making this bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:01 AM
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It's not any more paranoid than a woman wanting to make sure the man she's seeing is safe before seeing him or having a bag ready with some clothes and supplies in case her spouse becomes abusive. A woman's safety is more important than a man's feelings. Likewise, a man's safety that he's not being fucked over in paternity fraud is more important than your feelings. Get over yourself. This is a reasonable fear that men have before commiting their heart and soul and 18 years of their life into a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:01 AM
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Women orgasm less but this is balanced by them having much more pleasurable orgasms. A man should orgasm about 3 times for every time a woman does for both to have roughly equal pleasure. Men can't birth kids and breast feed. This is correct which is why men should bare the majority of the provider role during pregnancy and the infant stage. After that, it should be back to 50/50 once the mother has recovered.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:37 AM
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Women already tell men that. So are you a hypocrite or not? If you think women's safety is more important than men's hurt feelings, why be a hypocrite now and think women's feelings are more important than men's safety? You expect, "trust me" behavior only from men towards men. You realize women are every bit as much scum pieces of shit as men are right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:25 AM
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Alright but if the woman actually goes through it and prepares her things, should the man just suck it up or he is right to feel that this is an accusation of him being an abuser? I don't see how it can be anything but that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:23 AM
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???? How is it not cruel to force men to become isolated slaves? You realize these men would be born and have the same consciousness and feelings that you do right? Mass male abortion is a lot more humane.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:22 AM
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Lmao therapy? You realize how often paternity fraud is commited? There is no crazy or irrational about the fear that men have about paternity fraud. Trying to invalidate this fear is like men trying to invalidate women's fear of SA. Your logic is like telling women they are deranged and believing feminist fearmongering that all men are out to rape them. It's not paranoia. It's about safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:20 AM
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Being mad at sexism doesn't make you soft. Being mad because your partner values their safety over your hurt feelings makes you soft. I would say the same to any man who gets hurt feelings over a woman wanting to ensure she feels safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:17 AM
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It is sexist. Men should have no expectations on being a man. There is nothing that prevents a man from being a man besides having xy chromosomes and a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:08 AM
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It's like the n word. I can forgive my fellow men perptuating bigotry a lot easier than my oppressors (women).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:06 AM
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As long as 3% of women are commiting paternity fraud, then it's all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:58 AM
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Some people want to be completely honest with their spouse and not have to do things behind their back to spare their feelings. If I can't be honest with you, I can't be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:49 AM
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If a man finds out his wife has a bag prepared with money, clothes, and other accessories just in case he ever gets abusive, is that an accusation that he's an abuser or is it just about safety?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:48 AM
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Imagine being so triggered by your husband wanting to know with the same certainty you do that his child is his, triggers you so much. Women are soft.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:43 AM
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Lmao did you really expect men to disagree with this? We're all good with this. Why tf would any decent man not want rapists to be outed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:42 AM
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The solution is mass male abortion. Lower the male population to a third of that of women. Then men's value rises to be equal that of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:30 PM
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It helps to realize they don't do it intentionally. They're just parroting their feminist upbringing. All women are raised to have this deep seated resentment for men through believing they're the oppressors. They're convinced that men are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:26 PM
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But if a woman suggests to another woman to have a go bag prepared in case the husband is abusive, is that just preparation or is that an accusation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:13 AM
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It doesn't deserve sympathy when the bigger issue is how this seen as the fault of the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:10 AM
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Anything longer than 30 minutes is crazy considering men routinely can in 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:24 PM
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Why do women even talk about the orgasm gap as if they should as many orgasms as men? It takes a lot more work to make a woman orgasm. Also, the fenale orgasm is a lot more pleasurable than the male orgasm. If both people orgasm the same amount, the women has a lot more pleasure. That's not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:19 PM
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That's fair for the 2nd point. However, I see all the time people advise women to hide money or keep a "go bag" in case he's abusive. If a paternity test is an accusation of cheating, then that is an accusation of being an abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:13 PM
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Do you maintain this same position elsewhere or are you a hypocrite? Women should never hide money from their husband in case he becomes abusive. That's showing she doesn't trust him. Nurses/doctors should never ask women if they are being abused if they show up to the hospital with a bruise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:43 PM
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That's just cope young men tell themselves. The truth is, women are more valuable at every age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:35 AM
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I doubt that. Men cared a lot more about feminism than women care about male advocacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:10 AM
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The feminist answer to all men's issues is to gaslight that it's not real. If it's undeniably real, they'l say the problem is with men and the patriarchy. If it's undeniable that women contribute to the issue, they'll say men have to solve it. Oh but don't forget feminism is about equality!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:07 AM
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Well then she should have to pay child support to the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:20 PM
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Feminists are hypocrites. Not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:20 PM
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That's not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:36 PM
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So your solution is more male teachers. Even male teachers are biased against boys. The, "women are wonderful" effect is ingrained into this gynocentric society. Dismantling that is the best thing we can do to help boys. It has nothing to do with demonizing femininity. You want to believe the issue is misogyny because nothing can stand in the way of being the poor little harmless victims of patriarchy. Maybe men don't want to be teachers because men around children are much more likely to be vie…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:35 PM
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Ah so the struggle of men is entirely their own fault. How very convenient to avoid addressing the rampant misandry. These are little boys by the way. How do you explain how both male and female teachers have a grading bias towards girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:19 PM
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That's true. Men don't have an in-group bias. Men treat strange men neutrally. Women have an in-group bias Feminists make no effort to distance themselves from misandrists. Male advocacy is held to a much higher standard. Thanks to the demonization of men from feminism, male advocacy has to preface everything with a gentle reminder than women are a real the victims or else their message will be labeled as misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:16 PM
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Then men should receive more healthcare resources since they're so disadvantaged. It's about equity, not equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:00 PM
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Women earn more than men under 30. Young men need equitable advantages at the expense of young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:57 PM
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Men today are further behind in education than women were in the 70s. Men are the majority of homeless population. Men the majority of workplace deaths. Men under 30 earn less than women. Men under 30 have less home ownership than women. If you support equity, then you would support advantages that specifically target men even at the expense of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:56 PM
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I guess slaves had it real good since masters clothed and housed them. No way did you unironically support the US prison system that preys on young black men especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:53 PM
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Those are not necessities. You aren't entitled to free tampons. Pay for them or use an old fashion method.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:52 PM
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"Feminist" It's about equality though remember? Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:46 PM
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Feminism would have never succeeded without the support of men. I don't know how you convince women to really support male advocacy when they have feminism in their ear telling them the patriarchy is a real thing and men are their oppressors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:53 PM
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Certified delulu hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:44 AM
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Women are much more likely to poison their children against the other parent. This is from my experience but I observe in some conflicts, men just want to leave the situation. Women will use manipulation to enlist their social group against the man. Shame is the greatest tool in their arsenal. It's exhausting. I'm much more adept at recognizing and staying clear of violence. It happens regularly that I fail to read people's intentions and I've noticed men are more honest with me if they have a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:43 AM
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Thinking misandry doesn't exist is misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:32 AM
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That's made up for by men being a lot more vulnerable to manipulation and ostracization in social situations. It's a lot easier to protect yourself from violence imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:24 AM
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Victim blaming. Violence is very easy to come by for men even when you're not looking for it. I accidentally bump shoulders with a man at a busy airport, he's much more likely to take offense and fight me to prove his dominance or for whatever pointless male competitiveness reason. That same man bumping shoulders with a woman isn't going to have a reaction out of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:21 AM
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Likewise, people sexualising you will only be a problem if you let it. You can just ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:18 AM
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I don't see the issue of men struggling in education to be improving, do you? I doubt it would for as long feminists continue to push their hate that men are just flawed girls, entitled, rowdy. It's much easier to claim this to be true about boys then admit that maybe there are systemic issues and misandry holding them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:14 AM
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If you see the majority of men as weak, you are a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:06 AM
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Men experience sexual harassment just as much as women but also are invalidated for it much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:05 AM
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In the USA in 2024, parents want daughters more than sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:13 PM
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No one on one time? A man you're seeing can't even have a coffee with a female friend without you freaking out? Yikes controlling much. m
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:26 PM
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I wouldn't be able to look at that kid the same way ever again. They would always be a painful reminder of the malicious cunt that their mother is. Also, women are much more likely to poison their children against their spouses than men are. It's just a very hard situation to be in and not worth it to stick around. The kid deserves a father, but from someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:21 PM
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Are you heterosexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:04 PM
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Of course pick me behavior has always been present in men. Ask yourselves when in the entirety of humankind has there been a time where boys were not starved of basic affection? Where boys were not instilled with the idea that they should be disposable and servant to others and only then will they be a, "real man"? It's so hard to get through to men to love each other. I could say men are amazing and no one would listen. They only want to hear it from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:52 PM
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This pick me behavior does not originate from nowhere. Men are deprived of many things such as basic human affection and told they can only earn these things from women by pleasing them. It's why men care so much about receiving compliments from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:30 PM
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The patriarchy doesn't exist. The world would be no different if the top 0.0001% were women. The Bezos and Musks of the world should not even be considered human. Patriarchy is the boogeyman that feminists use to justify all problems in society stemming from men. It's just male apex fallacy and male hyperagency fallacy rolled into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:25 PM
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I agree with everything you said. There are many studies that show that women have a much larger in-group bias than men. Also that both men and women favor women. Men have so much internalized misandry. Men need to love each other. It would be nice if men also supported men loving each other, or at least didn't stand in the way of that with hostile misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:19 PM
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Men are way more resilient. Men live in a gynocentric society that hates them. It takes guts to succeed despite those odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:08 PM
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Who tf said anything about women walking past you? We're talking about men expressing grievances, complaints, frustrations. There is no way to do so that would garner empathy from women. Why would there be? What incentive do women have to show empathy for men when they're raised to believe they live in a patriarchy and men are evil who oppress them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:04 PM
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That attitude doesn't come from nowhere. It's true. Haha all these worthless stupid men just have so much resentment and entitlement and misogyny. It's far less effort to just assume this than have any empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:56 PM
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That's true that misandry is only criticized by leftists, but certainly not from any of the feminist varieties. And they certainly don't at anywhere near the rate that misogyny is. I can see why. When you convince yourself that patriarchy theory is true and men are the oppressors of poor little harmless women, why would you criticize misandry? Women are not more materially disadvantaged than men. Take the USA for an example. Women live in a culture that celebrates them. Women under 30 earn more,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:54 PM
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There is literally no empathy at all in the first place, much less it drying up. No matter what is done there will always be more hoops to go through. It's a fools errand to expect empathy as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:48 PM
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You don't have to be insulting to not receive empathy. You just have to be a man. Feminists will assume all sorts of misogyny where there is none. It explains why any frustrations of men are met with claims that they're entitled even if there is no indication of that being the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:33 PM
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I agree but there is a difference. Men turn to misogyny from living in gynocentric western societies that hates them. Women turn to misandry because that same gynocentric western society encourages them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:32 PM
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Conservatives endorse misandry with gender roles. They are not advocating for men. The mainstream is liberal/progressive. Ask yourself what liberal spaces punish misandry? If anything, the mainstream endorses misandry when it benefits women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:28 PM
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Being capable of something doesn't mean you're willing to do it. You could easily not even try to emphasize with someone if you believe they are your oppressors and don't have any real problems because patriarchy or whatever blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:19 PM
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Chicken and egg situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:18 PM
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Gynocentric society. Misogyny is under constant criticism. Misandry isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:17 PM
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That's funny if you're joking but I can never tell with redpill mfers because they do reinforce gender roles heavily.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:04 AM
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Can't. They force themselves upon you with their drama. You're forced to play their game otherwise you'll be put at the bottom of the social ladder your whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:58 AM
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I feel the same way about women who are so obsessed with makeup or nails. It doesn't harm me in anyway but yet it still is such an ick. The difference is I would be ridiculed for this opinion out loud and called a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:57 AM
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Simp. Some women clearly just hate to see men having any fun in life so they hate any man who plays video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:36 AM
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Femcel ragebait. Go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:35 AM
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Well you probably share some fault yourself. How often do you ignore him to do some stupid shit like scroll on your phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:34 AM
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Which of those four criteria does painting your nails or scrolling TikTok satisfy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:32 AM
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A lot of women off OLD apps have no hobbies unless you consider scrolling TikTok and online shopping to be hobbies. That's still no reason for me to hate all women who have social media or occasionally buy something online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:31 AM
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How tf is he guaranteed a mother? She could put the kid up for adoption. She could commit child abuse which is very likely considering almost all child abuse is commited by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:24 AM
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Why do women always do this shit where they only think about women? Your first thought isn't how crippling men financially harms them, but how it could possibly harm women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:23 AM
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It's not just the apex fallacy, it's also the entirety of patriarchy theory. Once someone accepts that to be true, they can justify any misandry they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:49 PM
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Feminist is female supremacy. I can be a lot of things and not a feminist at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:40 PM
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That reason being they are misandrists and homophobes. For all the progressivism that the modern feminist women demands, it's only a one sided affair. They're not interested in equality or egalitarianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:47 AM
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All you did is repeat what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:15 AM
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Feminism isn't liberalism. I believe in egalitarianism, not female supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:04 AM
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Did a women just admit the truth lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:49 PM
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So you're going to ignore that thread yesterday where women admit they only find a very small percentage of men sexually attractive and even then, only after getting to know them first? Women aren'tvvery visual people like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:42 PM
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Imagine being such a fucking dunce you don't even look down before sitting somewhere? Couldn't be me. L
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:09 AM
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We're basically muscle slaves now. Wow we men are really winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:52 AM
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So you admit women are turned off by effeminate behavior and have to work hard to ignore their misandrist instincts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:20 AM
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Women are wonderful effect in action right here. You deny that there are many selfish women out there who will lie and say whatever benefits them the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:47 PM
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But awalt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:40 PM
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But can you just smell the misogyny off him? Or so we're told.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:38 PM
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Except the difference is no one believes him. You think abyone would see a MAN as a victim? Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:26 PM
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Women are less attracted to men than men are to women. Women will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:20 PM
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No you don't because men will go for average women all the time after failing to secure the top women and they'll actually still be happy because average women are still attractive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:38 PM
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He has to be so much better at other characteristics while women can just coast on genetics. Also, believe it or not, men actually want to be sexually desired by their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:36 PM
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I myself enjoy throwing rocks at old couples at the park. Try that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:11 PM
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That's not very feminist of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:07 PM
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So basically, women settle for the 80% of men they don't find attractive, which means as a man, you have to work so much harder at every aspect of life to make up for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:00 PM
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Women hold men to a standard of being a provider and a protector that men don't hold women to. It makes sense as women are in a fragile state during pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:01 AM
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Because it then justifies you to be wary and paranoid of any so called passport bro and demonize them for something they haven't even done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:00 AM
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What an incoherent lot of nonsense. It's like you short circuited or something?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/24 01:58 AM
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Are these central beliefs to those ideologies though? You can't be a feminist without accepting patriarchy theory into your heart and founding all your reasoning around that belief.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/24 01:55 AM
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I was alluding to how women do the same thing as passport bros but no one sees their sexual partners as victims. Also, you have nothing to worry about. Men are already demonized for everything they do for their own benefit. They're already demonized for what they could possibly do without even doing it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:51 AM
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Try being a man seeing feminist rhetoric and seeing the majority of women agree with its misandrist ideas. Except the difference is that the redpill is some fringe internet thing while feminism controls the politics, academics, and culture of western society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:45 AM
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Ding ding ding. Men and women are both shallow and selfish scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:36 AM
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That's good of you to want to provide for your family. You deserve a man who is just as involved in domestic responsibilities and child rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:35 AM
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Men deserve to be protected just as much as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:31 AM
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The most powerful tool women use to control men for their benefit is shame. Financial freedom is the only hope for men to escape their shackles and truly not give a fuck what women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:29 AM
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Is this even noteworthy? Abuse is rampant everywhere. Seems weird to fixate on men finding foreign relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:26 AM
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These men are still human, meaning they come in a mixed bag of good and bad. Let me ask you this. Do you believe, "passport bros" are any more likely to mistreat the opposite sex than the female equivalent of backpacking through foreign countries to be dicked down by mactumbo?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:24 AM
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I pick lean and natural. Why tf would I want to be big. People would get intimidated by many slight movements I'd make. I would also lose lots of agility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:51 PM
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No but just pointing outbthat hyper individualism doesn't work in relationships with children, which most relationships are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:28 PM
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I'd include child rearing for up until the child is no longer breastfeeding and the mother has mostly recovered from the pregnancy. I emphasize mostly because no one recovers 100%. She also ideally shouldn't be too long out of the workforce to sacrifice her career earnings. The problem with all this is women select for men that are providers and expect them to be that even beyond this timeframe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:21 PM
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Honestly idfk I just use that verbiage because it's shorthand and funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:17 PM
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I agree a man should support his pregnant wife. This is a biological aspect that we can't avoid unfortunately. It does lead to problems though because women select for the provider man even outside of this timeframe. A true girlboss goes back to work after the time when their child needs breastfeeding to allow for the father to have equal time for emotional bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:15 PM
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This is why happy relationships with kids should have both parents working the same amount of hours after the child's first birthday. It avoids resentment from either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:07 PM
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That's all nice and well except when you introduce children into the relationship, then suddenly you're no longer this girlboss individual and need the man to provide for you while you endure pregnancy, childbirth, and infant rearing. I don't see how you equalize this aspect while still maintaining a 50/50 transcational relationship that doesn't harm one side too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:04 PM
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The difference is no one especially feminists takes toxic feminity seriously. It's always called internalized misogyny and the blame is put on their favorite boogeyman, the patriarchy, to justify their infantilization of women. Likewise, internalized misandry is not accepted in the mainstream feminism world because of the male hyperagency fallacy that asserts all men are gods of their own being.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:35 PM
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Is that why the majority of unreciprocated domestic violence is caused by women against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:10 PM
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Toxic masculinity isn't real. It's internalized misandry. Please show some basic empathy to 50% of the world population by not perpetuating the harmful male hyperagency fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:09 PM
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That's balanced by women being held to much lower standards regarding being a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:25 PM
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I disagree. I'm also not misandrist. It would better for the world if men only consisted of about 10-20% of the world population. Maybe then, men would be appreciated for more than what they can provide. Maybe then, the lives of men would be valued next to that of women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:42 PM
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It's only natural that if you eere guaranteed to not recieve a response witth 95% of the people you swipe with, you would start spamming and then go from there. Why should men invest so much energy into options that will in all likelihood ignore them? You're like an employer complaining that candidates refuse to do 2 hour questionnaires for their one specific company.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:26 PM
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Feminism is deeply entrenched into our politics, academics, and every facet of western society. They won the game. There is no reason for them to change as there is nothing they need from the ones they oppress.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:19 PM
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The idea that patriarchy exists is what hurts men. Not that patriarchy actually exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:32 AM
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"Personally I feel a true feminist takes into consideration the struggles and disenfranchisement of all genders, not just women" You can't do that if you also believe in patriarchy theory as that will cause you to have little empathy to view men as victims. It becomes very difficult to have empathy for the "oppressors". The condescending, "patriarchy hurts men too!" rhetoric only serves to keep male feminists successfully gaslighted. It allows feminists to play a causation game where all male is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:55 AM
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Someone can identify as whatever label they want, but I'd argue that a feminist who supports male advocacy is unaware of the damage that patriarchy theory does to men. I consider myself one of those men who believe in equal rights and equity for women. I consider those men to be egalitarians. The distinction is male feminists believe in patriarchy theory. Anti-feminism I think is necessary. There are women's issues that I find important as I find any issue that disaffects certain groups to be im…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:02 AM
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I wouldn't consider any movement with the goal of equality between all individuals to be feminism. Male rights advocacy is not feminism. The fundamental belief between all of feminism is patriarchy theory. Even if not directly tasked with dismantling patriarchy, all these groups fighting for equality are doing so under the critical thought of the patriarchy. I support women's rights advocacy but I consider myself anti-feminist due to my belief that patriarchy theory is not only false, but is mis…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:35 AM
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I choose gay so Nothing wrong being gay but also he'd have a much easier time finding happiness in a relationship. He'd start off on equal ground with his dating market. Compared to if he was heterosexual and had to deal with working 10x harder for his equivalent woman. If I had a thot daughter, I'd be questioning where I went so wrong in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:17 PM
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Mfer is lost in the sauce
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:14 PM
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Depends on who you ask. IMO, I despise male feminists the most as any man who believes in patriarchy theory is lost. Then simps because they create crazy women. Then whipped men the least because I see them as victims of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:12 PM
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Oh so now ya'll can appreciate men providing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:08 PM
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Oh I know which is why it's funny that women still insist on getting one. Isn't it infantilizing that it's assuming you can't provide for yourself and have to have something given to you in case your man is no longer around? Personally, if I ever get married, there's no engagement rings. Wedding rings sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:03 PM
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It's the slippery slope you can be lead to when you can justify all the failings of men because of their biology. Men are further behind in education. If we assume it's because of their biology, we don't have to question what is about the way we raise boys that has lead to this. We don't have to examine the rampant misandry in the educational system. Such as how male and female teachers both grade girls more favorably.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:51 PM
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Funny how insinuating that men are biologically inferior because of testorone is considered civil in this piece of shit misandrist sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:43 PM
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Good. We need much more of that. The bar should be much higher for woman than man as they have privileges and advantages that men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:33 PM
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If the man has to pay the woman for the time she spent in childbirth and child rearing, should the woman have to pay the man in someway for all the time lost with the child due to work? You're acting like women gain nothing from child rearing. They gain a much closer bond to their children than the person who isn't home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:28 PM
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Women still expect engagement rings even though that practice comes from a time where women were seen as property.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:19 PM
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Feminists love to justify their misandry because it's "punching up" but when you point out that their discrimination would be racism if done to black people, it's wrong because black people are a protected group. Demonizing men is justified since the majority of violent perpetrators are men. If I were to start quoting FBI crime statistics, then it's not okay. Then we can start talking about the social causes of those statistics. That same empathy is never offered towards men as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:14 PM
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That's because it's a perfect way to call out the hypocrisy in people. Discriminating against black people is a big no no because they're a oppressed group. Punching up is bad but punching up is good in feminist logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:19 AM
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If I'm extra vigilant and paranoid around black people, I'm not racist right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:06 PM
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Why would a black person be offended by racism? Why would a man be offended by misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:00 PM
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I agree. They're usually pathetic simps. Any man who believes in patriarchy theory is. But I don't have to be a feminist to be empathic to female issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:45 PM
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Do you think feminism is about equality? Should men be feminists? Should men care about issues specific to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:28 PM
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The best thing parents can do is stop neglecting their boys because 'boys are easier than girls." They're not easier. You're just not raising them to be well equipped adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:16 PM
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If men as a majority don't, maybe it's worth examining what causes them to be reluctant to accept help.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:12 PM
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It's wild to me how rigid women's expectations are of men and masculinity while men are a lot more forgiving and women are much more free from their gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:51 AM
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Am I allowed to complain how unfair it is how much easier women have it in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:35 AM
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Patriarchy isn't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:54 PM
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What's all that talk about feminist allies then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:31 AM
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I see. I was just mad sorry because this issue matters to me a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:14 AM
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Men aren't wrong to have that fear. Women are attracted to a very small percent of men. When women come across these men, they don't know how to discipline themselves since it's a rare occurance. A man who is loyal at heart is much less likely to be swayed to cheat than a woman who is loyal at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:12 AM
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You're acting like it's some big problem if the woman I'm with is attracted to most men. She's chosen me. I'm more to her than just her sexual attraction to me. Men are attracted to about 40% of women. Does that make it a problem for women that their man is attracted to almost half of every single woman he sees? Of course not because loyal men are disciplined in how they deal with their attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:05 AM
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Do you think all men are cheaters?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:00 AM
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Women get away with bad behavior a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:52 AM
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All you did was demonize men to justify the lack of empathy towards their emotions. Keep telling yourself this rather than confronting your misandry towards men in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:47 AM
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You don't think psychology being a field dominated by women leads to bias against men's problems? Also, you're welcome to volunteer for case studies. Men are the majority of test subjects because women don't want to. Btw it's so ridiculous how men's issues always have to be about how women have it worse. "They're not allowed to be girly omg society hates femininity."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:45 AM
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Okay so stfu about telling men to be provuders, protectors, and feminists. Worry about yourselves. Strong and independent yet still begging for men like they're your tools.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:41 AM
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They are way more advantaged which is why they are more likely to be bad people. Most of them don't have that character arc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:40 PM
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"I really wish they’d focus on the system - not women - as the source of a lot of these issues." I really wish feminists would do that too but everything is patriarchy and men are at fault for everything in their misandrist views.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:21 PM
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I'll give you my physical strength if it means I take 7 years from your life and add it to mine. Also, I can exist in public by myself around children without being considered a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:18 PM
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Mrw women minimize all men's issues using the male hyperagency fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:15 PM
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Men are less likely to seek therapy because the field is very biased against treating men's issues given its dominated by women. Men are also less likely to receive help in anything in life, so they're discouraged from seeking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:14 PM
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Don't women do the same shit? Girl power! The future is female! Woe is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:04 PM
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The difference is that the most risk a woman will experience in her life comes from her partners. A man not only has that risk, but also from literally everything else. The majority of violent crime is done to men. The risk of dying is a lot worse for men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:02 PM
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The majority of unreciprocated spousal domestic violence is done by women. The majority of child abuse is done by women. Women being physically weaker does nothing to prevent them from being vicious cunts. If anything, it helps them do that easier because they get overlooked. Women can always play that, "woe is me" card. Manipulative bastards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:56 PM
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Anyone who thinks like that is a POS who should die.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:44 PM
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Because MRAs believe they actually have any power. I wish they did so men's rights could be taken seriously but women being who they are would never change without pressure from power.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:43 PM
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Therapy itself. The majority of therapists are women. The majority of patients are women. The study of therapy is primarily focused on women. The bias in therapy towards women discourages its appeal to men. Find me studies of therapists attempting to combat this bias. There is no attempt from this field to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:50 PM
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Diminish, deny, blame men. Classic feminist mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:46 PM
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Exactly. So why should we give a shit about women if it's not reciprocated?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:43 PM
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Because feminists run the world and MRAs have no power. You think MRAs can fight to push women to do anything? What incentive do the oppressors have to listen to MRAs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:38 PM
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It's disgusting how you minimize male victims of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:35 PM
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Lmfao men are the only ones who are taught consent. Women never get this lesson and feel they are entitled to touch people whenever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:33 PM
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I agree with your second point which is why feminism is so successful while men's rights activism isn't. Misandry is appealing to the general public. Misogyny is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:30 PM
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I think the same as you which is why I really hope I have a girl. I wouldn't want to bring a boy into this world that will hate him and he will have to work twice as hard for the same academic, economic, and relationship opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:17 PM
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Not like there is any proof of a patriarchy. No one can even give a solid definition. The definition changes to suit whatever narrative necessary. It's just a boogeyman and as long as it remains vague, it avoids criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:03 PM
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Men do not hold the majority of positions of power. It is true that the top 1% of the top 1% are men, but these people are barely even human. They are disgusting creatures that would oppress everyone else regardless if they were considered men or women. You're ignoring everything in between to focus on the top. Women decide culture so they possess societal power. An average woman has much more power than an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:01 PM
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The very existence of the idea that patriarchy is a thing is proof that feminists run the world. It's crazy how they've convinced society that men run the world when its women who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:58 PM
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It's not uncommon at all for women to touch men in ways that they would take offense if it was the other way around. It's just that more men are fine with it, but that's still no excuse for women to not be taught about consent. Men are more likely to be seen as a tool. Women are seen as more valuable just for being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:55 PM
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Sure, all men are misogynist to some degree, but at a less severe amount than women are misandrist because we live in a society ruled by feminism and critique of misogyny is constantly pushed against us. Women are rarely critiqued for their misandry so they aren't forced to reconcile their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:04 PM
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Patriarchy is not real. It is a feminist invention to justify their misandrist ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:59 PM
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Yes when I get a chance but you feel justified to do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:59 PM
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So why don't women care about promiscuous men then? Ya'll more than happy to share a dick that's been in every hole in the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:58 PM
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It perfectly describes feminists a lot more than red pill. Feminists literally run the world. Red pill is just some corner of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:57 PM
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Yeah and you let it happen. Why? It nade you feel good to have someone worship you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:53 PM
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I don't want to roll back women's rights but you'd probably think so because when you're privileged, equality feels like oppression. I'd like to see a male empowerment movement even if it costs women their privilidges. "The future is male" slogans included.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:52 PM
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Their lived experience is valid. So is mine though. I've seen the research and my lived experience backs it up so I feel justified in my view that all women are misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:01 AM
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Personally, what bothers me the most at the moment is being treated like a tool for the use of others rather than a human being. Also, I hate how women just touch me randomly. I know it's not with bad intentions most of the time but it's still uncomfortable sometimes and it's a double standard that I couldn't just randomly touch them without them thinking the worst. The male hyperagency fallacy is that all problems a male individual experiences are his own fault and any problems that men experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:58 AM
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This comment is unfathomably based.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:43 AM
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You wouldn't mind being treated like you're invisible, all your problems are your own damn fault, any complaints are dismissed, not an ounce of empathy is given to you? Smiles are harder to come by. The world is a lot colder and lonelier when you experience it as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:41 AM
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It's a shit subreddit. If you want actual advocacy for men's issues that isn't coated with feminist drivel that all the world's problems are caused by men and the patriarchy, look at r/leftwingmaleadvocates. They actually critique feminism because without pressure on our oppressors, no real change can happen. The biggest issue preventing men's issues from being recognized is the male hyperagency fallacy. Only with critique of feminist zeitgiest can we dismantle that narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:38 AM
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This is not true. I am a man. I have internalized misandry. I catch myself all the time treating women better than men. I notice I'm more empathic and understanding to women. This is wrong for me to do but it's something ingrained into men thanks to the feminist indoctrination.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:35 AM
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That's women's fault. Women are free to start judging Promiscuity in men any time. Women would rather value a high status man who has several on the side than a normal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:28 AM
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Feminists rarely call out misandrists, especially if they're women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:14 AM
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The feminist zeitgiest runs the world. All men are expected to adhere to it. Men who don't are ostracized. Men are gaslighted to believe feminism is about equality. Any attempt to include men's suffrage is met with responses such as yours. In fairness, men should not be expected to be feminists if it has no benefit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:13 AM
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Your insistence that there must be a reasonable argument for why women see equality as misogyny is hilariously biased. You've already made up in your mind that there is no way feminists can be misandrists and you're just looking for reasons to justify their actions. The simplest explanation is that when you're used to privilege, equality feels like oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:10 AM
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I agree that women can choose their path in life but I don't call myself a feminist because I don't subscribe to a misandrist ideology or the idea of a patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:03 AM
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Which is why I hate feminists. I don't know how western women think they're in any way oppressed when the average woman under 30 compared to the average man is more educated and financially stable. Women also have the feminist zeitgiest running the world to empower them. Men are the real oppressed class.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:00 AM
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So basically, women hold more power. Is the power that men have really power if it's wielded to the benefit of women? Physical strength is largely irrelevant in civilized society, especially considering that women can just manipulate you into using that strength to their will.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:55 AM
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Stop talking about men as a monolith you misandrist bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:52 AM
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They do it to themselves. You can't place yourself in such a high pedestal without feeling the pressure that comes with that throne. You're welcome to come roll in the mud with men any time to lose that pressure, but then you'll lose all those privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:47 AM
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Women get called pick mes if tjey say literally anything positive about men or do anything for a man. The word has lost all meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:42 AM
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Can I apply that same logic to these bimbos that people call victims? Boo hoo she's getting paid. She agreed to sell her body with full agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:35 AM
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Well you aren't entitled to it. So work hard on yourself and you might get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:32 AM
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It's not an extremely small select of women. You are a woman and thus you are biased to diminish the effects of misandry since you don't experience the negative effects of it. Your lack of empathy to these issues is part of the problem. Every woman is misandrist to some extend. We live in a society where misandry is rarely pointed out. I experience it every day as a man and thanks to my education, I'm vigilant in noticing how people treat me worse because of my gender. Since misandry is not wide…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:29 AM
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I'm misognist because of misandry. Who are you to claim otherwise to my loved experience. I would love to be egalitarian, but I always have to remind myself of my internalized misandry which sometimes causes me to overcorrect to misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:24 AM
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I'm misogynist because women all are misandrist to some extent and I'm resentful of their contempt and mistreatment of me simply because of my gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:22 AM
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Your feminist indoctrination and gender bias leading you to believe women are any less scum than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:41 AM
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Different waves of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:58 PM
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Like I said, nobody cares because he's invisible. Men only exist once they have a woman with them. Both men and women place higher status on men that have women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:57 PM
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Yes it does. A man by something by himself is either invisible or to be cautious of. Take that same man with a woman and now he's a lot safer to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:55 PM
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women from pre-selection bias. Like kids playing with toys in a sandbox, women want what other women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:45 PM
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That's true my mistake. Although I'll add that feminism is just a puppet of capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:44 PM
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men are the king of shit flinging. women are too soft when it comes to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:42 PM
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Yes exactly. I'm glad you figured that out. Really proud of you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:40 PM
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You sound like a racist nustifying their prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:34 PM
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Same but with women. The way they talk online makes me resent not only them but this society that makes them act that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:26 PM
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whatever redpill content on the internet for men is lightwork compared to the indoctrination placed on boys from their teachers, parents, and society at larhe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:19 PM
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do simps realize how disgusting they are when they say things like this or is the internalized misandry too deep?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:17 PM
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Maybe they're right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:13 PM
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Yeah but she's empowered!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:12 PM
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lmao female suicides are a joke. they're just cries for help most of the time. that's why they rarely die from those "attempts." Also, if online bullying is such a self esteem killer, just go post some heavily filtered selfie and get endless yasss queen validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:52 PM
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bruh quit exaggerating. yall love to do that shit. these cats keep talking about I'm oppressed. you don't know what oppressed is. we getting shot in the streets daily violence while you cry because men say mean words sometimes. women's problems are so light I swear I have no sympathy for yall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:50 PM
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He married someone like you so obviously not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:41 PM
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Idgaf about your trash ass husband
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:38 PM
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COPE
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:37 PM
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On a good day, I'd have some sympathy for her. Most days, I wouldn't because I'd remind myself that having sympathy for women is bad since it's never reciprocated. Men get told to shut up and go to therapy. She should've gone to therapy instead of being promiscuous. Regardless of my personal views, having sympathy for someone doesn't mean they meet your standards and want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:35 PM
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You mean the same academia that would ostracize anyone who would present anything that goes against the gynocentric zeitgiest? Gee I wonder why that material doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:25 PM
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I won't engage with feminist gaslighting techniques. It's exactly the gynocentric society we live in that has deluded the masses into believing in a patriarchy boogeyman so that the oppression of men can be justified. Women have almost completely won. Women under 30 outpace men in education, home ownership, income while also being the deciders of cultural norms. Men are demonized with hyperagency fallacy so that we can continue to avoid addressing the societal problems that have led them to this…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:17 PM
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and you're a sheep baaaaaa
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:35 PM
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Exactly. Which is why men should not give a shit for all the shaming tactics women use to try to get them to do what they want. Men should follow their hearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:10 PM
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Misandry is under realized unlike misogyny so I'm fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:00 PM
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Women are more misandrist than men are misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:59 PM
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I like how you didn't even deny what they said hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:53 PM
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But how would women maintain their place in the ivory tower scoffing down at us in the dirt if they admit they're just as much tormented pigs as men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:46 PM
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I think it's very telling you think height for men changes their life experience so drastically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:42 PM
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men are under greater pressure. men are graded by the women they have around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:32 PM
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patriarchy isn't real. gynocentrism is. the majority of western society's problems are from feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:31 PM
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Idgaf mfer but maybe you'll tell a feminist bitch to shut her mouth the next time she says men should be feminists because it's about equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:17 PM
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We are gods compared to these sensitive mortals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:58 AM
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as if women treat men like humans and not subservient objects
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:48 AM
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average women settle for average men after reality hits that they won't be able to get chad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:47 AM
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Then stop saying feminism is about equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:23 AM
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You're really going to deny that male victims of SA and rape are less likely to be seen as such than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:12 AM
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Because we live in a society where men are raised to hate themselves and other men so that they become dependent on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:17 PM
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Not hypocritical at all. Feminism has never been about equality. Only about female superiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:47 PM
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Good answer. Damn good for you I hope your relationship stays strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:38 PM
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so these women got together in a group, lured him to a secluded room, got him drunk, and then raped him. women are really every bit as scumbag as men yet they'll never admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:24 PM
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After reality hits and they lose the delusion that feminism sold them that they can all have a 10/10 chad who cooks and cleans.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:17 PM
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Why not by force? You support men being forced to be weapons by force.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:13 PM
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That's nice that you're an exception. Do you think that he is a particularly sensitive man or is actually at a normal level of emotional regulation but appears sensitive in comparison to the robotic front that men are forced to put up every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:02 PM
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So in a catastrophe where birth rates are very low, you support forcing women against their will to be impregnated and darry out child labor? Nice. Well at least you're consistent. Women are baby ovens and men are utility knives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:58 AM
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Who typically has the control of money in a relationship? Women account for the majority of spending. The man is just the workhorse. Also, there's the saying that his money is our money and her money is her money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:56 AM
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That mfer is so programmed bruh it's not even funny anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:21 AM
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What power is that? Being the workhorse that works to bring home all the money for her to spend? That's not power. That's being a puppet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:11 AM
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Women actually outearn men under 30. So it would make sense that more women be open to outearning their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:10 AM
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Alright what if immigration wasn't an option? Would it be fine in your opinion to force women to become baby makers for the greater good?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:08 AM
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Lots of women would say what you say consciously and fully believe it. Same with how they'll say they're fine if a man were to cry. But you're still slaves to your biological urges that make you view any signs of weakness in men as unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:58 AM
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feminists have done nothing to criticize women who enforce gender roles on men yet constantly criticize men who want gender roles in women. A women wanting a dominant masculine man is fine. A man wanting a submissive feminine women is a predator or creepy or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:55 AM
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Well all women are misandrist to some degree especially considering we live in a society where they are never criticized or forced to self reflect on their misandry. So that one's example of how women are abusive and finding one that isn't is very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:52 AM
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Women's greatest power is their ability to weaponize shame to manipulate men into doing what they want. Break the shackles of their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:44 AM
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I'm not talking about sex trafficking. If it's okay to to treat men like meat shields to die in war just because it's stronger, that means there will be a severe shortage in population. So it would then be justified to force women into pregnancy to maintain the survival of our species. I know that doesn't sound fair, but women are capable of pregnancy so why not use that to our advantage just like we're going to exploit men's strength to our advantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:53 AM
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The majority of women have bitten this apple though? So it's reasonable for men to be bitter about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:16 PM
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So even though it's not fair, it's fine to force men to die in war while women work cushy jobs just because men are stronger? Following that logic, even though it's not fair, it should be fine to force women to carry out pregnancies if the goverment deems it necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:13 PM
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