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DiscussionLegitimate_Poem_6634/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:41 PM
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Sounds like paradise
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:07 PM
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I've seen some dumb takes in this subreddit but this might be the absolute dumbest. Wearing a ring gets attention. A lot of attention. Non-platonic attention. Source: Me and every married friend I've ever had
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:13 AM
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Men in the top 10% are doing better in every way, and it's not close.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:14 PM
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They're all left-swipe worthy. 1 is simultaneously generic and disingenuous. By and large, women do NOT want to see their man express vulnerability. Outgoing? Almost all women want their man to be charming and extroverted. And EQ simply equates to "silently listen to me complain about Karen from accounting." 2 is a contradiction. That vulnerable, high-EQ listener from Point 1 isn't going to turn around and be dominant and take what he wants. She's building a walking contradiction in her head alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:56 PM
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Dude your post was clearly written, or at least cowritten, by AI. I'll be generous and say that this paragraph was only halfway ChatGPT.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:54 PM
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I was basically excised from a couple of Meetup groups because I approached a woman in each group. No one officially booted me, but after the women turned me down, the vibe was quiet and cringe. No outward hostilities from anyone, but the social awkwardness was too much. I got the hint and stopped showing up. Like most men, I've been openly mocked by women who perceived themselves to be "above" me in terms of social rank or attractiveness or whatever too. This happens more in group settings; wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:59 PM
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Dehumanizing - literally dehumanizing - half of the population on earth - by saying that we are all bloodthirsty savages. More violent than the most dangerous carnivores in North America. So filled with lust and rage and hatred that we can't be trusted for a minute. All men, the "exercise" went, are ready and willing to SA and murder random women on sight. Sounds trivial enough to me /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:39 AM
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I'd make myself bi to leave some variety, but hell yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:39 PM
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Smart men just vent our frustrations to our bros or to a therapist. It's not that complicated. (But don't ever let your woman hear that you're talking to a therapist.)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:37 PM
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The extent of dating training that I received by my single mother (dad was never in the picture): 1: Be nice 2: ?????? 3: Make sure to use protection
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:20 PM
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Women: We're just more intuitive, emotionally intelligent, and aware. Also women: WE ARE CONSTANTLY EXPLOITED BY TOXIC MEN BURN THE PATRIARCHY
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:31 PM
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I read "akshually sweaty" in Sean Connery's voice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:07 PM
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Truth. Anglosphere men have been indoctrinated since birth to believe that women are superior to them. More beautiful, smarter, more virtuous, etc. Men are clumsy, stupid, and/or violent, or sometimes pitiably likable. You don't see this dynamic in other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:05 PM
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It's not that complicated, hon. And yes I am. Well observed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:26 PM
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I've followed all of the standard advice (Meetups, hobbies, make women friends, etc.), and those strategies have the same fatal flaw: The women there, by and large, don't want to be approached. Or if they do, they don't want to be approached by me. I'm ugly and there's no cheat code for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:50 PM
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Don't tell them that. They know everything they need to know about dating. And that one thing is that men are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:46 PM
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Just visit 2X or the Women Dating Over 40 subreddits and you'll get the real deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:15 AM
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It's an overused term and you'll never get a consistent definition in the manosphere. The common sense version is a dude who's overly nice to a woman - she could be either a "friend" or a romantic partner - because he thinks that being submissive to her will advance his sexual goals. The simp is reviled because he supposedly inflates the egos of women, therefore making it more difficult for other men to secure dates and sex. I don't necessarily agree. I'm seeing levels of delusion and overconfid…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:05 AM
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Gen Xer here and you're wrong. When apps were websites, people matched and hooked up on Match, OKC etc. all the time. 80/20 didn't happen until swipe culture took over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:39 PM
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I've thought about what I'd do if I had the same choices as modern women and I'd likely make the same dumb mistakes. I'd wait for the best deal, fall into the green grass conundrum, and let comparisons steal my joy. Then I'd hit 45, get burned out, take my ball and go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:16 PM
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Ask women what they want, they'll hand you the Magna Carta. Ask them what they offer in return, they can't fit it on a postage stamp.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:07 PM
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These dudes dodged a bullet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:16 AM
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Are you sure it was your dates' fault? You seem insanely self-involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:15 AM
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This is a classic marketing paradox. Ask consumers what they want to snack on, and they'll answer, quite honestly in their minds, fresh fruits and vegetables. Check those same consumer's shopping carts on the way out of the store and researchers find ice cream and Doritos. I'll give women credit and say that they aren't lying. They want to believe that they want emotional intelligence and kindness and vulnerability. But they're buying the sizzlin' hot Cheetos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:12 AM
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That thread was the nail in the coffin for Blue Pill. Women protested that the men matches weren't equally looksmatched to the woman in the profile (they were), unwittingly conceding the 80/20 rule. Then they got squirmy and made all kinds of bad-faith suppositions about the men's future bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:05 AM
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I was hardcore blue-pilled at the time, so playing the field wasn't even on my radar. I wanted love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:54 AM
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Not really. I was very inexperienced with dating and just figured why not. Neither of us overthought it. I wish I was still like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:28 PM
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I married my first match on Hinge. I figured she was the best I could get and vice versa. We were together for about ten years, so it wasn't all bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:13 PM
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Her preference
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:26 PM
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Single mom
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:25 PM
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I have a very sweet FWB who earns north of $500k a year. She's down-to-earth and sweet and doesn't brag about her career. I also have a neighbor who earns in the $200k range. She dresses in extravagant clothes, carries luxury accessories, is sassy and sarcastic and takes no s**t. Both are single moms. Both are conventionally attractive. Guess which one has a successful dating life, and which one is home every night watching TV? Intimidation has nothing to do with it. Unless they're trying to exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:47 AM
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Teenager I get. Once a woman is past 25, she knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:29 PM
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I have a couple of platonic women friends, but they're as ugly as I am and none of us wants to fuck the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:56 PM
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It's terrible advice. You might, if you're lucky, you may get a token introduction to someone's unattractive/alcoholic/dysfunctional acquaintance. You're far more valuable as "one of the girls."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:52 PM
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Pure cope. Women are far more intuitive and emotionally engaged than men are, and they know damn well when a male friend is sexually attracted to them. Unless, she's neurodivergent in a very specific way, the male friend's revelation of romantic attraction is never a shock. Any woman who tells you otherwise is virtue signaling. Women pass out on their social media fainting couch for sympathy points, but everyone knows the deal. A male "friend" making his intentions explicit takes away plausible …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:41 PM
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Agree on the "make friends with women" advice. I've always had a good number of women friends, and it's never helped me connect romantically. My women friends often didn't get along with each other, so there was always some drama happening. And one or two of them feasted on having a non-threatening man to hang out with (I was cool with that too, but they were wary of losing me and would subtly sabotage my romantic prospects). At this point, I've cut most of these women friends loose for a variet…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:08 AM
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