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Our wives see us as teammates, not competitors. Any woman who feels in competition with men just can't have a healthy relationship with one, in principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:12 AM
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Now it's getting confusing. Thanks for the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:56 AM
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You called her fat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:37 AM
1

But is it abuse or is it rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:32 AM
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Not only that, rape culture by deduction means that there are cultural factors influencing people to rape instead of individuals deciding, on their own accord to rape. To tell me there's a rape culture is to tell me men shouldn't be accountable for their own auctions because they got influenced by external factors. So which one is it going to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:48 AM
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You're correct. Is that evidence of rape culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:43 AM
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Your link doesn't back what you said. Your link gives sources to national surveys that indicate the prevalence of spousal violence over the lifetime of the woman. Not murder, not sexual assault as criminally defined. In the surveys abused women are over represented in lower socioeconomic strata: again, poverty and economic hardship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:22 AM
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We tend to joke about this in our friend group on WhatsApp. Of all us men there, 8 people, we know that one of us has been abusive towards their partner at some point. We all know our life histories since we were teenagers. But we have ALL experienced abuse from our girlfriends at some point. Two of us received physical abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:13 AM
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No. I'm center right. My wife is left. She says "I'm a feminist, but a real egalitarian one. Not like those crazy women on the internet" She also mocks herself "I'm an independent woman that needs no-FUCK IT I NEED MY HUSBAND!!!!!" and we have feminist friends. They are all chronically single sort of waiting for a guy to come and tell them everythings ok, that they were right all along and that we men will do better. Nope. No one gives a fuck. The main problem with them is that they really have …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:08 AM
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Just go to any dating sub. The amount of women posting how the catch feelings will the guy fades is vastly larger than men posting about this. I'm also a romantic and a monogamist, but let's be real here. On average, men fade more after sex. The reason is simple: men are hornier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:59 AM
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It really isn't. Taking the example of Spain, where we are reminded daily about rape culture and male on female violence (but never female on male), the probability of getting sexually assaulted is, statistically, 1 in 500.000. The probability of getting murdered by your partner is 1 in 1.000.000. Cases of assault and violence tend to be associated with alcohol, past history of abuse/violence, poverty, etc. We also know perpetrators are very few, but each of them commit most of the crimes. That'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:52 AM
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I thought the sexual revolution was all about free love from both MEN AND WOMEN. So now you wanna play it like women don't have to deal with the consequences of slutting around KNOWING that men tend to lose interest after sex if they don't like the girl enough? Aight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:32 PM
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Mentally stable people can't stay with mentally unstable people for long. Is that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:31 AM
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The only ones complaining are those who can't meet the standard. Which also tend to be the people with an external locus of control that doesn't let them take action to become better people. It's the male version of HAES and typical stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:28 AM
5

If the goal is to survive, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:14 PM
0

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:10 PM
71

The unfuckables, neurotics and mentally unstable will continue to come to the internet to bitch and moan and everyone else will just mature and pair up normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:49 PM
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I have many types :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:29 PM
2

Yes. It is. If you think it isn't, fine. Don't come crying when they find someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:57 PM
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Depends how black they are 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:07 PM
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are you saying that talking about these topics make women angry or bitter? Yes In your opinion are these things like overblown or what? Most are. The loss of reproductive rights in the US is inexcusable, but also expected from these wackos. And when you say can’t stop talking about what you’ve listed, are they being brought up in a way that you feel is irrelevant to the topic at hand? They are mostly irrelevant and oftentimes based on false premises. And a follow up, you said most girls you know…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:27 AM
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The typical angry bitter lady that can't stop talking about the patriarchy, oppression, rape statistics, weaponized incompetence, emotional labor, women under 25 are children but doing onlyfans is empowering, men are pornsick
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:35 AM
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Meh I just see internet feminists being annoying but tbh most girls I know in real life don't fit the stereotype. I guess I wouldn't make sense to try to make friends with man haters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:18 AM
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Seems this is all gone in our modern era. Princess treatment; simping, getting flown out, only fans; “I need a man who will support me when I step away from work to be with kids” That's just zoomer brain rot shit from TikTok. No regular woman is getting flown out and getting rich on onlyfans or having a rich dude supporting her lazy lifestyle.c Most women are studying hard and working harder asking themselves if they will ever be able to start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:37 PM
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Depends on the woman. Some are completely sane, logical and mature. Some are childish, some are fucking nuts. Like guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:16 PM
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Just ignore and get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:57 AM
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Never used one, never will. I don't know why people still fall for that scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:15 AM
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/r/thepassportbros is that way 👉🏼 But yeah Europe is the best place to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:14 AM
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But prostitute use is really not as widespread
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:44 AM
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Ye
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:26 PM
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Not my fault either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:52 PM
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I haven't seen it. Super cool channel Feels gud being attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:26 AM
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I have seen all cases. Happens that first guy was a deadbeat, loser, abusive, etc. So she has to leave. It also happens that she's stressed and overworked while she feels the partner is not pulling his weight. I'm seeing a marriage falling apart right now because of this. The guy works how he has always worked, and is chill as he has always has been. She is the one that made a decision to change jobs and the new one is tearing her a new asshole. Instead of reflecting and making a move, she's sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:45 AM
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I know this post is bait, but I love bait. I would never consider a single mom. I have seen too many men get fucked and betrayed by them, for a very simple reason: they were never going to be first place. Not even share first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:58 AM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:28 AM
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Just scroll through 1000 thots on Reddit. It gets to the point you have seen so many tits and ass and stale onlyfans bait that you become numb to random women and you can just go back to enjoying the uniqueness and warmth of your girlfriend/wife. Before the internet people bought playboy and sports illustrated and penthouse and no one was losing their collective shit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:24 AM
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They work perfectly well
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:20 AM
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This is nothing new. It's always been like this. Young guys will get to date younger girls in a few years, with ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:18 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:50 AM
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1) mental stability 2) loving family with a present father 3) university education 4) no tattoos 5) no promiscuous past 6) no social media obsession That's my bar for a long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:31 PM
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Indeed. that's why we are planning all kids asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:11 PM
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Seeing my own family members being raised by single moms, I lean B. But it's not the mom's fault alone. Those father's that never showed up are also to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:29 PM
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Oh no it's not a personal attack I'm just speculating here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:53 AM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:52 AM
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🤷🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:45 AM
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There's also no guarantee that someone wishing to marry isn't going to divorce your ass 3 years in. My partner and I took it slow for 8 years before marrying. We're having our first baby in two months. We were all in for living life together, but marriage wasn't in the plans. We had other things to do first. She found me early and it worked for her. I helped her with her career advancement to the point where she was satisfied and now baby time. I don't know maybe you aren't wife material 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:36 AM
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There's a reason why they are. These ladies have undergone procedures and treatments to get to where they are. Good to have the technology carry these babies to term.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:25 AM
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It's perfectly possible, but if it takes you 5 years to find the right person, you don't have a lot of time left at 30 when most people are already married or divorced with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:20 AM
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ARE YOU OKAY?!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:15 AM
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Good. It's been s shit show for us
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:15 AM
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My wife is pregnant at 32 and all the courses we go to are full of pregnant women in their 40's. They are all high risk pregnancies except ours ....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:09 AM
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I totally agree that hurrying up will lead to disaster. I married the wrong woman because of that. Then I divorced her at 28 when she wanted to start having kids. However, I don't agree that women are fully aware. What we seem to forget or be unaware of is how much time it takes to find the right person. Edit: and the fact that by 30, a lot of people are already married or have divorced, many with kids. See how common it is here on Reddit for women and men to say "I stopped dating to focus on my…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:35 AM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:53 PM
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🍿 pass it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:36 PM
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Listen to this guy, men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:11 PM
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I haven't approached a woman in decades. Most of the times I read the room, interacted with everyone, saw who was giving me signals, interact a bit, retreat and have them show extra interest and do a little of the flirting. Worked very well for me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:52 PM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:14 AM
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Yeah ok but it's probably daddy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:10 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:09 AM
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🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:09 AM
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People imitate porn like 🐒
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:07 AM
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Then by the time they are 30 they will leave you for someone else, typically younger, as they develop and realise they can do better. My advice instead is to go for a guy that has already, at least partially, discovered himself and is ready to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:06 AM
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But less attractive people don't cultivate their lives around their looks. By the time looks fade, they are ahead in other facets of life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:42 AM
3

Ask people here that went through that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:37 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:06 PM
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Most ultra attractive people I know are dumb as rocks. Life hits them hard when looks fade.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:59 PM
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If everything is misogyny then nothing is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:38 PM
2

Just get a career and hobbies bruh touch some grass
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:13 PM
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Take showers wash your ass dress nicely and clean your house bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:10 PM
1

Yeah. Turbos have no chance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:47 PM
1

Yeah you're absolutely right. Thing is, most men are men that had regular sustained dating blahblah so the statement holds true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:22 PM
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This is it. Fucking NOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:50 AM
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Totally
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:58 AM
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Whatever, dude. Make your own poll here on Reddit to find out how guys have it better later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:43 AM
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Redpill belief? Go to datingoverthirty and datingoverforty lmao it's all right there to see
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:29 AM
2

You came posting with a chip on your shoulder so you get a politician's answer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:21 AM
1

I would not say anything that isn't worth saying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:33 AM
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To the better if they keep themselves fit and advance in their career
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:25 AM
1

That's it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:04 AM
1

Can confirm. My wife is French.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:16 AM
2

If you're a guy in college, don't mix alcohol and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:09 AM
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If you were the popular athlete yes. For every 4-6/10 guy that was semi ignored in college, the 30's and maybe even 40's feel like an entirely new reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:07 AM
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The great mother can devour my phallus
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:04 AM
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Yes that's exactly what I'm doing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:48 AM
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You forgot the most important one: you're horny as fuck and you don't really like her but during war times every hole can become a trench. Bonus points if drunk. You're willing to lie about your intentions just to get laid, and you do. Then the next day you get a massive moral hungover and you need to gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:03 PM
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I can. Feeling unsafe, harassment, confronting men on the streets, men being assholes. Go spend time in a dangerous South American country (where men kill men but not so much women) and you will see what it feels like. I can empathize with lonely women and insecure women. And I can empathize about the feeling you're just being used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:26 AM
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We're not hypocrites in this topic. We men don't like each other by default and we can slap each other as a form of communication
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:48 PM
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I think the bulk of us aren't prepared to deal with those levels of mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:31 PM
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Nah both genders meet to stop bitching
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:16 PM
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Yeah. Some of us can simp that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:17 AM
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I'm convinced of that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:08 AM
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If everything is racist, then nothing is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:06 AM
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There's no "privilege", makeup exists and that's it. We know it makes women beautiful, it's been like that for thousands of years. What is there to downplay? We all know what's fake and what isn't and if you want to find out by yourself just go bed a girl and see how she looks like the morning after. And if you know they are 4's why do you care if they believe they are 7's you're not going to date them anyway.... They can deal with their own delusions themselves Zendaya would be your typical 4/1…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:08 AM
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If everything is misogyny, then nothing is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:18 AM
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Have you been married to an amazing woman coming from an amazing family? Have you been in a relationship where the honeymoon phase lasts for many years? Have you been in a relationship where you can be 100% yourself without her busting your balls? No? Then shut the fuck up you don't that you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:03 PM
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I heal talking to 4 friends, 3 family members, my wife and if needed, a therapist. I love having a group of people to rely on and that love me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:11 PM
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In a system voted by men and women, with both men and women in power, which is fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:25 AM
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Women are more likely to do household work even when the women earn more in comparison to their male counterparts. This also extends to degree holders and both of the genders earning the same. The question is why is that so? They are more bothered by the mess than we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:36 AM
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I hate being alone. I have been in relationships most of my life since I was like 12. That doesn't mean I settle. I monkeybranch. I simply have a girlfriend until a better candidate comes in. Been doing that all my life. Last time I monkeybranched was 9 years ago when I left a girlfriend (who I left my wife for) for a younger girl. I married her and we have a baby on the way. This one is the one. There's no right one: you get to know people and you live with them for some time until you find out…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:04 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:35 AM
2

I people could just ditch online media
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:33 AM
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Good question.... I think I would end up being like those born again virgins that try to hide their 100-cock past because it's not fun anymore and settling down actually could be better. Because even though we do put a lot of effort to obtain and maintain access to sex, eventually a solid relationship is one of the best things that can happen in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:17 PM
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They do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:34 PM
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It's very simple. Get shit done. Don't take your partner for granted. Show your partner you care and you are willing to do uncomfortable things that must be done anyway. Get off the couch and do it. Plan time for it if you need to. If you see it, you own it. Dirty dishes? Clean them. Dirty laundry? Start the machine. Clean laundry? Fold it. If both approach chores with the same attitude, you both feel you work as a team and you will hopefully gravitate towards tasks you prefer while she does oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:32 PM
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"I can change him"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:37 AM
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Telegony is pseudoscience. What is proven to be real is epigenetics. That means the baby will be yours, but his phenotype will be affected by the environment the mother went through. For example, it is hypothesized that even if you and your partner are chill people, traumatic or stressful events during pregnancy may lead to the kid being more aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:35 AM
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Reddit won't eat this one. The insecure ones can't cope with the fact they can't get someone to go crazy for them. The vapid ones believe they need fireworks in their junk otherwise love doesn't fly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:26 PM
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I saaaaaid Thaaaaaaat The manosphere May be [cue in trump] WRONG
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:58 PM
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The manosphere May be wrong or these women just fancy BBC. As for my friends, it's more of a passport bro thing: they love the exotic places and why not get some dick on top ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:08 PM
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I haven't been to Jamaica but I have been other parts of the Caribbean. I have a couple of female friends who have been to Gambia. One of them traveled to Martinique for a month and got plenty of dick there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:00 PM
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There's thousands of white whales renting dick in Gambia and Jamaica and no one gives a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:37 PM
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I don't see a solution other than some sort of cultural change we just can't see coming right now. We don't know what we don't know. But I don't think women are delusional, they are very logical in their reasoning: I want to have fun, I want opportunities, I want the freedom to decide what to do with my life, I want it all and I might as well try. Who doesn't want that? Where the "dilusion" is, socioeconomically speaking, on what BOTH men and women have decided what's important: family and child…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:25 PM
1

Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:46 PM
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Of course 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:55 PM
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Yay more paranoia
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:47 PM
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Yea I stay single thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:10 PM
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Op, have you considered this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:04 AM
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I get it. I also get that people are far less empathic these days, more individualistic and less willing to deal with inconveniences. We cannot change that. I also agree mental illness is hard to change. Game seems locked. However, there's almost always a way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:02 AM
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a possible solution? What? To what? There is no "solution" for these people. A possible solution to people like you, with mental illness, being lonely. You provide something below: by not being selfish. My mental illness affects me, no one else. It's ridiculous that people are bothered by someone's debilitating, life threatening illnesses they can't change. It's like saying "ugh my boyfriend has cancer, how am I supposed to retain my SANITY?? How do we convince people to not be selfish when thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:24 AM
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If I understand correctly, people with mental health issues should focus on finding people with mental health issues? Or at least be open to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:18 AM
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I'm not going to entertain your questions until you answer mine. Ok. Answering your questions. No. I don't think people should be left alone. No one should be left alone in an ideal world. But the world is not ideal. And you are horribly mistaken playing your mental illness as some sort of mild inconvenience that the other person just needs to tolerate. People unprepared to deal with mentally ill people can suffer horribly. And most people are unprepared. Hell, even doctors can get wrecked by so…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:14 AM
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What do you think is a possible solution? How can someone without mental health issues deal, unprepared, with a mentally ill one in a romantic relationship AND maintain sanity in the long term? What do you think your ideal partner should look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:48 AM
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Well that makes sense because they are nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:29 AM
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Good you didn't stick your dick in crazy my man holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:27 AM
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They downplay it because they can't fully empathize because they aren't men. Try to not downplay the aches of pregnancy as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:03 AM
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Lmao I was waiting for a post like this to come up at any minute. The bombarding of OF thots on YouTube wearing transparent stuff is unavoidable. There are more and more videos being uploaded every day. The disclaimers are hilarious. They aren't fooling anyone. We're not being fooled by them. We all know what's going on here. And I'm ok with it. There's so much tits and ass on the internet where just going to become desensitized about women and sex. Forget about trying hard to date a girl to fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:42 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:59 PM
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Tldr it is the dominance/submission polarity. You can't stop being dominant. Being dominant doesn't mean being a bully or being aggressive or imposing or angry all the time. But it does mean taking control of situations, being assertive, not being swayed without a good reason and now bending over pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:38 PM
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This all sounds super trailer park 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:14 PM
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To me, it's about life stages. If we both graduated from uni and are working, it doesn't matter if the age gap is 1 or 15 years, we're both adults doing the same. Experience at this point matters less than vision and life outlook. When I met my now wife she was fresh out of her master's looking to do PhD while I was already 6-7 after master's and almost a decade after graduation. We both knew school was over, both knew it was time to get to work and develop professionally (for her). We were both…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:31 PM
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Which is why you shouldn't care what people on the internet say
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:15 PM
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You're being empathic, which is something we should all strive for. You don't have to agree with women, but you can understand their point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:10 AM
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Lmfao 😂 I love the mom's reactions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:59 AM
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That's a classic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:27 AM
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I have been an excellent salsa dancer my whole life. My cousins taught me because they needed a reliable partner to go dance with and most boys wouldn't do it. Guess what, girls were literally queueing to dance with me in clubs. I would go to clubs with 4-5 girls and just dance all night. Does that mean they were all into me? Of course not, they just wanted a nice dance partner because dancing is fun. Did that increase my attractiveness and chances to find someone? Absofuckinglutely, all my life…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:14 AM
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Good stuff. We're living in a world riddled with anxiety. Everyone is too scared of a drastically negative consequence for something that is in reality inconsequential. And we LOVE scaring each other out online. You'll be alone! You're potentially a predator! Spinster! Creep! Saggy old hag! Dusty old dude. Haven't we had enough? Better to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission. And take like a little less seriously. If you know yourself and you well you're not a creep/murderer/rapist/wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:05 AM
3

/r/gonewild18 That's a lot predatory shit going on there apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:07 AM
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Ah! I was wrong then. There ARE girls that aren't aligned with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:46 AM
3

I need someone at my intellectual level, for which you need to have ambition. What I don't need is someone who is confrontational and entitled. You can reach high while still being kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:45 AM
3

Go on the dating over 30,40 subs and casually comment about a preference for younger women. You get downvoted to hell in minutes 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:42 AM
2

You don't have to wait until the future, con can already see this in western cultures with high levels of inequality. You can also look at the past in your own culture, where men used to be sole providers. In these instances, a cheating man is tolerated more sometimes. Better to have a cheater with money than being alone if being alone means abject poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:38 AM
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I haven't heard women saying it's unfair that our preferences are the way they are. Some might not like it, some might even snark at us, but unfair? I think we're all in the same line with preferences being something we're all entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:33 AM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:43 PM
-1

How fucking basic do you have to be to reduce such a complex topic down to a song
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:22 PM
1

Oldest trope in the book. Women like dominant men. Women now are becoming dominant and men are becoming submissive. Thus, women can't find men that gets them horny and men can't make women horny. That's why they don't lead. That's why they expect us to lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:19 PM
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This is a perfectly viable strategy. But everyone's fat and on antidepressants
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:37 PM
4

I will answer these questions if you invite me to your podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:32 AM
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Then I have to be hot as fuck without realizing it because I have been a poor manlet most of a my life and I thought that my intelligence and salsa moves was what it was getting me girls. Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:10 AM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:07 AM
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It kinda does. Yes, there are women who shoot their shot and go for the men they want, but I have heard countless times women saying "I want him to ask me out" or "I want to be picked". In fact, "pick me" as an insult is used by women against women, never by men and against men. To me, thing about women hoping for their prince charming to finally show up could be solved yesterday, if women became more direct in approaching. I guess this hasn't happened because it's not in most women's nature to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:33 AM
0

I just have a big dick and I know how to eat pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:47 PM
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Ignore the internet fatties. Labours of love don't need money. You see it all the time. The researcher that works extra time without extra pay for his passion project, the chef that works for free to prove himself to some Michelin star chef, volunteers, people with hobies so complex and time consuming they could be second jobs. When people really WANT something, money is not an issue. Women that really want marriage and children and want to be devoted to her family are not going to crawl out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:45 PM
4

I'd simp for Annie
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:42 PM
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I have become the quantum Chad. My commitment to women is a probability cloud.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:10 PM
3

The emotionally stable person is a blessing in disguise
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:51 PM
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Male unsatisfied horniness hurts like a bitch. Probably more than what hurts men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:50 PM
1

Thank you my man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:07 AM
1

We have been together 8 years before we decided to conceive. We are very much in love and we have worked hard together. If this marriage was supposed to crash, it should have happened already. I'm 40, she's 31. I don't really have any worries. We passed all tests. If this marriage fails in the future, I'll walk out of it with a smile and be thankful for everything I experienced. I see no point in living life with fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:49 AM
2

Matches mine, too. And it's not new. My sisters, 4 and 8 years older than me, were struggling with this in the 90's and still do so. I remember them in their teens complaining how there weren't good enough men, yet dating the slimiest pieces of shit you can imagine. One became an accomplished professional, started only going for the top guys. Landed a super tall, successful french guy. Married him and made a kid. Surprise, French guy was having a fling with her best friend. Super attractive guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:04 AM
4

Well, most women don't want to think of themselves as "for entertainment only". That hurts. No one likes to feel they aren't worthy of love and companionship. But, at the same time women still tend to ask for commitment in exchange for sex in one way or another and this is when we say that's ridiculous. The same way a man can't expect to access to a woman just because he is spending 💰 on her (but somehow many women expect the guy to pay for dates), women can't expect men will commit just because…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:33 AM
3

My friends and I open up. We talk about feelings, become vulnerable, advise each other bluntly. Tough love is needed. Reactions differ. Some go on introspection and then you see them change. Some get angry and disappear and come back 2 weeks later. Of course we need someone to talk to. Therapists are so widespread because people are just paying to have someone to listen to them. It's fundamental.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:04 AM
2

Withhold sex has funny, unintended consequences and tbh I highly recommend it. If you withhold sex they will hamster-wheel into thinking you're not that much into them or that you might be gay. Whatever. I recommend you withhold sex a bit because we all know what happens if you stick your dick in crazy. Find out if she's crazy before you stick it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:59 AM
0

In my experience, women. Both men and women suffer, but in different ways, in my experience. Men suffer from loneliness, lack of touch, liking someone and not being liked back. It's more of an immediate need. Women suffer from the above AND the existential problem of losing their fertility. For some reason, men are more aloof and ambivalent about kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:53 AM
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"80% of the crimes are done by black men".... Heheh.....looks familiar?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:42 PM
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I had no trouble with it. Ended up marrying one. Age gap has not been a factor so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:47 PM
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Shaven man, domesticated man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:36 PM
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What's the reason behind you trying to put words in my mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:07 PM
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All we need is a little bit of empathy. Empathy doesn't mean we have to agree with them. It just means we have to put ourselves in their shoes for a moment. You're a girl that attracts people, you can have your pick in casual sex, and most of the guys just see you as a piece of meat and aren't really deep and interesting. Why in the flying fuck would you give most guys a chance when you can just not do it? If you could have the cake and eat it, why wouldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:58 PM
9

I did
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:01 PM
2

Surround yourself with people who share your values and that are excited to ride the bus of life with you and everything will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:46 PM
8

🥂 to loving, beautiful women that deserve our loyalty and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:44 PM
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Tag. I cry in front of my wife as much as I need. She loves that I can express myself freely. In her yes based on her upbringing, men go through the same struggles as women and they deserve love and respect. My ex found it emasculating. In her eyes, based on her upbringing, macho men shouldn't cry. That's one of the reasons she's my ex. Both types of women exist. You know which one to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:39 PM
1

I exercise regularly and dress well/keep myself groomed. I'm married to a wonderful woman so I guess I'm successful with women. You last question has an obvious answer I don't think we need to discuss. They want to look good. For themselves, to impress men and to outcompete other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:29 PM
8

I see similar answers in both
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:55 AM
1

It felt like that many times. Feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:26 AM
5

Power is your capacity to control others while preventing others controlling you. To have power, you need to have means to motivate others to action. That motivation comes from them trusting you, fearing you or trading with you. Trust gives you long term benefits, trading as well, fear only works for a while. Masculinity has little to do with it. But masculine men that are competitive want to get into positions of power. Powerful people happen to be masculine, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:24 AM
0

What's wrong with Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:01 AM
1

I have no idea I just pulled it from Tenor
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:49 AM
1

So who are younger men supposed to date? As a former young man, the answer is, whoever you can, as you build yourself up to be someone more desirable. You're at the bottom of the pecking order for now. You don't get to choose much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:44 AM
0

You seem salty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:43 AM
2

The harpies on Reddit reading this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:43 AM
1

How do you see the influence internet has in cultural norms in China compared to the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:53 AM
2

My wife is 9 years younger than me and I agree. It's been perfect. She found in me someone that supported her through her career development. I found someone young enough to give me the time and peace of mind to figure out our life and finances as much as possible before deciding to have children. It's been a beautiful decade and I'm very thankful for it. I'm a happy man. None of this would have been possible with a woman my age. Edit: yes, guys her age crushing on her were seething. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:14 AM
1

No I don't think that half of all pregnancies should end in abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:43 AM
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Quite the opposite. After having dated many women in the past and having finally found what I believe is a unicorn, I feel in the best position to give the advice as OP requested. I have enough data points to draw my conclusion and in the end, OP is exactly looking for opinions, and opinions aren't 100% objective. You don't have to feel personally attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:28 PM
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That's fine. You have your opinions and I have mine. Strangers on the internet do whatever they want with them. I stand by mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:14 PM
2

I don't know man, my wife and I have been together for almost a decade and we look at each other in the eyes like it was our first night together. It's the day to day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:51 PM
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Present father is one of your top two criteria? It is, based on my experience. I'm sorry for your loss. Everyone gets judged on things they can't control, like their height these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:50 PM
2

I felt used a couple times tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:11 PM
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what percentage of pregnancies do you think are planned? 50%. sorry, are you saying women are obligated to get abortions if it is an unplanned pregnancy? No I did not say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:08 PM
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My wife is a total unicorn. She doesn't agree with me, but the more time I spend here, the more lucky I feel 1) Barely uses social media or doesn't use it at all. 2) no childhood trauma, Loving parents, present father who taught her valuable lessons 3) modest, not promiscuous. Sees sex as part of special intimacy. Loyal. 4) very intelligent but humble- my wife is an awarded researcher with impostor syndrome 5) educated and kind. Knows how to say please, thank you, open doors for others, give way…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:39 PM
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Stupid idiot now got baby trapped. It is clear this was an accidental pregnancy and she knows it, but she wants to keep it and destroy this guy's reputation in the process out of anger. Serves him right for being an idiot. This one is on him. But the girl is a trashy piece of shit for disclosing everything publicly. "Stand by me and help me protect other women" lfmao hypocritical bitch she doesn't care about other women in the slightest she cares about seeing him go down. I don't even know who t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:32 PM
1

Story of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:21 PM
1

No. Literally have you gone out and met a girl you danced all night with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:48 PM
2

Haven't you danced all night with a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:38 PM
2

No. Relationships in general are about trust versus fear. Love is driven by trust. Let's focus on power: People in power are looked after because they instill trust in people. If you are in power, that means many people trusted you enough for you to get there. But power without trust gives relationship very short legs. If you are a man, you have to do anything in your power to gain trust. Women need to feel relaxed and safe around you. Power and status is a guarantee of trust given by others. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:58 AM
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I can somewhat agree. My parents never really warned me or taught me hard lessons about the darker side of people. That said, early socialization is key. Whatever your parents don't teach you, you will learn if exposed enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:27 AM
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Whatever. If my decision of becoming a passport bro would result in local women ignoring me, that's EXACTLY the outcome I would be looking for in the first place!. Who gives a fuck why Susan from accounting doesn't like me, I already decided I wasn't going to entertain her the moment I booked that flight to Cartagena. Now, one thing is we agree not to interact with each other. Another one is damaging someone's reputation on purpose. That's potentially illegal. No one is going to go around in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:16 AM
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Prenup happens because either 1) there's no trust. Which indeed, this is a recipe for disaster. 2) both parties believe that they have to be protected somehow because a divorce is a possibility in the future that can't be predicted. So, prenups are troublesome if one in the couple is not fully onboard with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:09 AM
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Parents have been telling their sons and daughters about this all their lives. Sure then can be a double standard if you come from the angle that men and women are the same. But they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:41 PM
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Yep. Will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:06 PM
0

Except the pink haired ones with a chip on their shoulder
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:37 PM
1

A video of a guy deleting his Instagram account that follows over 9000 thots
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:25 PM
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It makes all the sense in the world. Losers tend to think they were given a bad hand, that the odds are stacked against them and somehow the system has failed them and thus only the thing that can resolve their misery is systemic change. Losers tend to have an external locus of control. Winners an internal one. This is why you don't see hot Instagram models complaining about the male gaze and the patriarchy. Why would they? This is why you don't see successful people too bothered about politics,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:23 PM
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Is it even possible to create porn that qualify as female gaze? If we go by what the twox fatties say, porn would be a guy that knows in which shelf in the fridge the mayo is, or that knows how to use TurboTax on his own. I'm going to start a porn podcast called "weaponized competence"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:00 PM
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Men want to have sex raw but don’t want to lose their paycheque to child support (right Walter?). Yeah. It's playing Russian roulette. The explanation is that horniness fogs judgement. That's why accidental pregnancies happen. You want a relationship so you aren’t lonely, but even in a relationship you want sex with other women. Hmmmmmm depends on the guy. But it's more of what I said above. You want a virgin who has only fucked you, but you also want a pornstar that knows how to 🤯 you to the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:57 PM
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I can see yeah. Many guys that feel they can't live their part may feel like giving up / not wanting responsibility or that the burden gets in the way of their progress Guys that are well off already made it. Why leave when you already got everything you wanted? And you make a very good point: successful people tend to be those that can delay gratification, grind for years and commit to projects without anxiety getting in the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:51 PM
3

Yes. It's the TikTok way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:43 PM
1

You speak for most guys(you said most of the men Whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:08 PM
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These scales have nothing to do with objectivity. The bar is at 6. Under six is ugly. 6-8 is relationship material and 9-10s is entertainment only. I speak for myself. But the hot crazy matrix is the perfect tool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:24 AM
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I can't speak for all men but most of my friends and I go for 6, 7 and 8s. Some of us have been with some 9's. No one keeps a 10. Pearl is at 5 at best. Probably a 4. The starker difference is when women rate themselves and other women higher than men would rate them. Many women aren't capable of having an objective look at themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:01 AM
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I think people with tattoos have some sort of mental trauma or don't process decision making normally. I have never seen a tattooed woman that is mentally stable, and I have them and befriended them throughout the years. It is that mental instability that drives promiscuous behavior and failure to keep relationships afloat. If I were to look for mentally stable woman to marry (and I already found one) I would not consider women with tattoos
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:40 AM
1

Experience and theory are 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:37 AM
0

A male celebrity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:24 PM
5

Purple haired
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:37 PM
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Of course it's a myth only purple hair fatties from reddit come up with this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:44 PM
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I'm a dumper so I guess I never learned
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:58 AM
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I understand what you're saying based on your personal experience. My experience in a different societal setting is not like yours, which tells me how important status and trust in general, but trust and status don't mean the same across cultures. In the North of Europe, being an abusive asshole gets people to turn their back on you in an instant. Status and trust is achieved with more tact and intelligence. Women will find assertiveness sexy, but assholes are immediately rejected and regarded a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:16 AM
1

Stop watching tv personalities and go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:46 AM
1

Don't forget to like and subscribe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:08 AM
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It almost never is. Any good negotiator knows this. The best negotiators know it's about making the other side feel safe and with a sense of control and ownership so you can work together a solution, even if the solution is not what the other side wanted in the beginning. It's all about trust. Men have to be excellent negotiators, and only use bravado or violence in response to it when there's no other choice between that and losing status. No one likes a bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:40 AM
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It really is smoke and mirrors with many women. I think it's wired into them. Deception, diplomacy, backstabbing, pretending. Men have the physical strength and the testosterone to jump into physical conflict if it gets to that point, women can't do that, so they resort to always moving away from violence, but that doesn't make them less competitive. Here's the bottom line with female sexuality: if I want that guy, I can have him, but I need to make sure he's not going to kill me. It's not rocke…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:35 AM
2

💀🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:13 AM
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I'm going to bring the case of Spain. Spain is a country where hardcore feminists are in position of power and have the capacity to influence legislation, discourse etc. In Spain, gender violence is a hot topic. It is covered by the news daily. They stopped calling gender violence as such and started calling it male violence. That's right, female on male violence is practically ignored, even though 30% of the reported cases are female-on-male, and that we know men don't report it as much. Now, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:54 AM
3

Remember, it's a marketplace. If you cannot compete, others can and will win.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:22 AM
1

Could it be that the humble, loyal, low drama type of guy is frankly considered to be too boring by a large portion of the population considering what dopamine junkies everyone is these days? Mature, mentally stable women prefer this. Or do many women deep down desire a guy who's more emotionally volatile, brash, outspoken, unpredictable, spontaneous, dramatic etc in a way that a genuinely nice guy simply isn't? Immature, women with some trauma or poorly raised by their parents go for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:20 AM
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Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:36 PM
2

Woman B. Peace in my life is priceless and to be honest, looks fade and you can get tired of the most beautiful woman if she doesn't make you feel happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:24 AM
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I used to live in a poshy seaside city full of rich people. They were in every night club, party and popular beach. Now I live in another seaside city which is less poshy and tbh I don't see them as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:10 AM
2

I'll wait for an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:52 AM
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Why do you believe they're rare? Combination of experience and data. 1 in 5 women in the US are on antidepressants. In other Western countries, antidepressant use is skyrocketing. Depression and anxiety disorders are also on the rise along with social media use. Finding women that aren't depressed, aren't anxious, aren't traumatized and limit social media use heavily is rare. When you affirm that women are immature, and mentally unstable, why would the universe ever show you otherwise? The more …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:45 AM
1

Because she's got money my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:21 AM
1

I have seen several. Their main problem is that they are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:21 AM
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I'll rephrase it: Most men allow themselves to be used by women HOPING to get sex and validation in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:18 AM
0

You're really brave for having yours 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:50 AM
22

We both have onlyfans and we're subscribed to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:44 AM
1

Are you single 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:42 AM
1

She's not a plain Jane she's ugly. Her face looks like a close-up taken by a 360 ° camera and she's flat on all sides like a Jenga brick. I'm not dismissing your male hypergamy claim. That's no secret to anyone. We like what we like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:40 AM
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Women have to be mature and most importantly, mentally stable. That's rare these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:32 AM
48

My wife and I simp for each other
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:32 AM
1

If all women are equal/equally valuable all women can be confident and avoid the feeling of shame. No one can be made to "feel" lesser than. Whether or not it's true doesn't matter, because the psychological consequences of feeling lower status are perceived to be worse than the actual material conditions of lower status. "Feeling bad" about being fat, or promiscuous, or whatever is what they want women to be able to avoid. Their social campaigns and social pressure are remarkably effective. Fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:13 AM
3

Liberal and intersectional feminists just want to do damage control to protect young women from being punished too harshly for their mistakes. Young women attract a lot of attention so the shit they do is more heavily judged by society. No one cares if a 65 year old gambles their life savings away or buys a bunch of hookers or whatever. So why don't they just say so? "Cut us some slack we're dumb af". Instead we get all this bullshit about brain development and empowerment and the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:53 AM
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Pearl is ugly af
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:24 PM
2

Indeed. It was all worth it. Now we live together and I work fully remotely and I'm a happy man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:38 PM
1

Don't worry, I understand your point and I agree with it. But, I didn't make myself clear enough. My relationship was logistically difficult because we were long distance for a long time. So we traveled a lot and made a lot of sacrifices to be together. That's what was hard. All the driving, sleepless nights commuting, and having my team unhappy with how much remote work I was and still am doing. Together, it's been pure bliss, never had an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:24 PM
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And that's why I fight hard for my marriage. When my wife asks what I am doing on these types of subs on Reddit, my answer is to never lose awareness of how lucky we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:44 PM
1

I'd say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:20 PM
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Yep. I saw my wife 9 years ago how mentally stable and healthy she was and scooped her immediately. She always tells me she appreciates how hard I struggled to keep our relationship afloat, but she doesn't understand how motivated I was to not have to go try with some potential wacko.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:20 PM
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I have come across this. My conclusion is that we are bundling two types of women into one. There are women who have a small mental load battery. These women don't want to complicated their life with complex issues, are anxious, and their glass is always full. An extra mental load from someone overflows it. It's like they are in a constant state of burnout. Social media warps their view. The women complaining about emotionally unavailable men haven't made peace with the fact that they haven't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:34 AM
2

Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:50 AM
5

Dating is pretty much fucked tho. I do it for the company and the sex, but I don't expect honesty and love from anyone to be fair. A lonely existence
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:39 AM
3

Most of them just want to be loved and accepted. They aren't horrible people. The harpies can suck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:13 AM
4

We have been together 9 years and it has been amazing. We don't take each other for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:09 AM
13

I get it. I have divorced before I know what it is like to pick the wrong woman. We are 9 years in and we feel more in love now than ever before. In my eyes, I already won. And if it ends, it ends. I regret nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:07 AM
4

I don't know until when. It's been 9 years of pure bliss. I already got sick and recovered and she has seen my cry multiple times. I don't check her phone and she doesn't really use Instagram much. I don't care what she does with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:05 AM
165

I have done both. Being married to a wonderful woman with a baby on the way is 100X better than being the high powered career fuckboy Being married to the wrong woman is misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:24 PM
0

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:43 PM
3

Fack
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:28 PM
0

Consult a lawyer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:17 PM
-4

Stop fagging. We enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:15 PM
-2

Who gives a fuck what feminists say
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:14 PM
10

I think it dilutes the honor and the trust between all of us. But probably that trust has already been demolished so what gives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:14 PM
1

I know. But it's pointless to enter in conflict. Just leaving is enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:12 PM
1

I live in a bubble where myself, my brother my dad, and other relatives all have partners that are around a decade younger than them. It's pretty nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:53 AM
13

My man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:52 AM
15

I'm center, leaning right. I like moderate people. My wife is center left. But more on the ideological level and we don't get entrenched in politics or partisan stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:51 AM
4

Mixed bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:49 AM
2

Why do you think males and women have such different views of dating? Biology
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:49 AM
19

Fair and what's the point of that? I can create hypocritical scenarios for whatever the fuck I want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:48 AM
44

That only applies to women that rejected you when you were younger and now are coming back. Yeah nah. You can't hold against women you have never met in your life. But at population level, for the reasons you started and others, every other woman will be childless in the us in 7 years. We are witnessing the breakdown of society as we knew it until now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:27 AM
1

I could say younger than late 20's. But what's most important is not the beauty itself, which in some women can lad until their 50's and even beyond. If the relationship is healthy, the couple remains in love for decades, regardless of the wrinkles. The man knows his wife is worth a million times more than a younger girl. What's most important is that a good relationship take years to develop to a point where marriage and children are desired. Women run against the clock and men don't feel the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:22 AM
3

As a result, women end up perpetually unhappy and unfulfilled with well above average men who still seem like total losers compared to what the phone screen shows daily. Not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:37 PM
6

Do your thing. If you need to cast a wide net, do it. Don't mind them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:53 PM
61

The problem is the literal internet-fueled fuckfest we got into. Everyone now loves sex and to have a wild sexy life and every is about sex but no one wants to deal with the consequences that this fuckfest culture generates, such as: 1) The perceived loss of loyalty from both sides: all men are pigs all women are hoes. Women will leave you for the rich Chad or Tyrone because you're not rich enough or hot enough. Men will leave you for the hot secretary once you get saggy. 2) The perceived loss o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:55 PM
0

Exactly. Because as I said, young hot women are the most desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:09 PM
1

she looks somewhat sorta vaguely fuckable from a distance in foggy weather.... ...as you drive past her a 60mph half drunk 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:53 PM
11

The last thing I want when I come home is a disagreeable bitch complaining about shit. What you want is a woman who brings peace to your life and your household, respects you and doesn't emasculate you. Who doesn't want that? You can't buy that. You can't "provide" your way into that. You may have a financially dependent homemaker who can make your life miserable, as well as a hardworking career woman that knows how to love and honour her husband, while keeping the house THE place for you to esc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:47 PM
7

Women do care about other women looking hot. Beautiful fashion models that model fashion brands for women are there for a reason. The same reason why fat models didn't result in increased sales of products where they appear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:15 PM
8

The Patriarchy. Nah not really, everyone loves hot women that look young. It's biology and standards are an emerging phenomenon that the media capitalizes on. Not a conspiracy by the powerful. No one planned for Instagram models to have millions of followers. No one planned for every famous amateur on pornhub to look the same. No one planned Sydney Sweeney rising both to fame and men's dicks with her tits No one planned Margot Robbie having a doppelganger. They DID plan to put fat models everywh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:53 PM
13

A traditional woman hasn't been feasible since the 60's. A traditional woman was a woman that had to keep the house running because the husband was grinding his ass at the factory all day. She was playing support, ensuring the husband was relaxed, well fed and a clean house to back to. No one wants that these days. First, women aren't going to become financially dependent of a man (that earns fuck all) and they want to work. It's absolute nonsense to spend your days doing fuck all at home becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:44 AM
1

Oh well. Back to onlyfans
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:02 PM
1

Listen planthoe I just asked a question that follows the logic of the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:47 PM
2

I never said I was subscribed to of. I just asked a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:46 PM
1

What if I don't interact with the of model?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:33 PM
8

What if I have a girlfriend and I'm subscribed to of?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:04 PM
1

A bit yeah. But most guys in my family tend to end up with younger, beautiful women....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:23 PM
1

🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 I haven't really thought about that one. But now that you mention it. Progressives are just about questioning the establishment. If the establishment was about shaved bodies in women and moustaches in men, whelp, there you have it. Where many progressives miss the mark is on personal freedom. In their righteousness, they start gatekeeping their views. For example, feminists as a group can't decide if a woman wanting to stay at home mom is the result of the patriarchy influencing women or …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:47 AM
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Anecdote: two days ago I had to take my wife to the ER (she's fine now). We're in a European country heavy on campaigning against "gender violence". At the ER, there was an info sign to help women assess if they were in a potentially dangerous relationship. These were things like: 1) if he's constantly asking you where you are, who you are with and what you're doing. 2) if he controls, or tries to control how you spend your money 3) if he constantly talks down at you in front of his friends and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:46 AM
3

She's as gorgeous as always. In fact, I find her more attractive now. But we both take care of ourselves. We pacted that getting fat was not an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:20 AM
1

My wife is 9 years younger. She's gorgeous. I met her in my mid thirties. I'm average height. She's virtuous and I wasn't necessarily promiscuous to today's standards, but I wasn't a saint either. Maybe you're right, but I'm the exception to your rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:53 AM
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Nononoo you got it wrong. Men will go very fucking low as long as their are horny and that they can try to hide the shame that comes afterwards. Many horny guys would fuck lizzo. They will regret it afterwards, they will try to hide it and their friends would ridicule him if they found out. Most guys would never go introduce lizzo to their moms as their girlfriend. The low standards are for cheap, NSA sex. Everything else that requires commitment and social approval has an astronomically higher …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:10 PM
6

Women that are mentally strong don't do this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:20 PM
2

Yeah bro where's your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:39 PM
3

I do. I have a wonderful wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:22 PM
5

That gets you the foot in the door more often, but that's about it. Quality over quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:51 PM
5

Whelp, there's no other way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:59 AM
2

Spending time with anyone is the only way to connect and find things in common. Applies to friends, relationships, business, and work life. The only reason to stay in touch with a stranger is to continue spending time with that stranger to see how you both work together. It doesn't have to be a entertainment program, it doesn't have to be jumping through hoops or shit testing each other. Spending time and learning about each other is enough. I saw a thread yesterday about a girl looking to date …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:42 AM
2

🤣🤣🤣🤣 fuck, man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:16 AM
4

Who's helldiving?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:21 PM
2

Yeah u huh. Anyway, So guys, we just lost Ubanea. See you all online we gotta win this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:20 PM
3

It's not only bluepillers. There's been 20 years of questioning all value systems, all traditions, etc. Call it social progress. Social progress is a mixed bag. There's definitely been good things and bad things. But, we have also wasted a fuck load of time and energy trying to culturally change biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:45 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:15 PM
28

You can choose to be happy, but it's not just waking up one day and deciding. There's lots of introspection and letting go in order to get there. Happiness is letting go. It's caring less about things that don't matter, is killing fomo and the inner dialogue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:53 AM
2

That's the basics. The minimum standard. The entry ticket into the competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:57 PM
1

You're not guaranteed a waifu but if you are uneducated and unfit there no chance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:31 PM
2

No they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:11 PM
1

Keep slaying! You have your life grabbed by the balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:17 PM
2

I never heard that lol. I have always understood that either she just needs a quick lay or she actually likes me and either 1) will try to use sex to impress me or 2) will hope that I'd stay or come back after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:16 PM
0

I'm not the right person to discuss in more detail, sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:10 PM
4

How's that working for you, pretty boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:56 PM
3

What do you mean? If the girl wants dick the guy provides dick. What else is there to provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:53 PM
0

Yes. Male teachers are gone, male role models are gone, zero tolerance policies, rowdy behavior is discouraged and physical outlets are being diminished more and more. Typical boy behavior is not allowed anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:52 PM
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No. As I said, judgement gets cloudy. It's like when you get drunk and you make stupid decisions. You probably believe you can do better but if you're horny you're probably going to take the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:46 PM
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Because a quick fuck is cheap if we're horny enough. We can fuck fatties, uglies, drunkies, girls with daddy issues. Sure we get harrowing post nut pstd but if we're horny enough, our judgement and risk taking mechanisms get clouded. Women don't have the same wiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:34 PM
2

Well education is not subsidised in the US but I guess affirmative action and the feminization of the education system played a role in how things are now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:04 PM
2

If you want that, then start a political movement or renounce to your citizenship because at this point you're just waffling at the clouds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:53 AM
8

Women need men less when they have career development opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:13 AM
1

It's already happening
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:25 AM
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Women need men less. They also expect more from men as they want someone equal or higher in hierarchy. Men aren't keeping up. They are unfit, they aren't developing careers, and they are checking out of society. Therefore, women would rather be alone or, knowingly or unknowingly, share the fewer guys that are making it through. The rest of the men are left behind. We can argue that women aren't worth the squeeze and I agree with what. That's why men at the top have many partners and put off comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:31 AM
1

I know that man. It's me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:59 AM
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Yes. But who cares what feminists think? The solution is to ignore them and go date who you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:21 PM
1

That's fine. I won't risk doxxing myself with details.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:45 PM
1

She met me freshly divorced, having changed jobs, poor as fuck and when my business was just a shitty website and some ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:44 PM
0

No. The only thing the vast majority of men need to do is cut the crappy food, slow on weed and alcohol, slow on the videogames a bit, hit the gym 2-3 times a week, feed themselves properly, keep their house clean and embark on a career path that can be anything from stem to trades. That's it. No need to be millionaires, no six pack needed, no 6 foot needed. Be functional, be responsible, stand on your ground and make some money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:26 PM
0

I agree. Male loneliness is a documented phenomenon that arises when men are surveyed about their relationship status and sex life etc etc etc. It's up to you, entirely up to you, to do something about it. You can have an external locus of control, bitching about the system, the culture and wanking yourself raw imagining fantasies of social engineering where some invisible force ends up in you being assigned a big tiddy virgin waifu, or you can accept reality as it is, grab it by the pussy, take…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:53 PM
3

I'm claiming that on average guys will prefer to settle down and stop chasing ass
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:21 PM
2

I know, but you haven't answered my question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:11 PM
10

Then why aren't most normal guys not hitting the gym and chasing ass at 60?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:56 PM
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Makes perfect sense, tho. Weak men have it coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:30 PM
2

I'd give my life for my wife. I care about my mom, my sisters, in laws, and close female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:17 PM
4

Please consider this I have. I decided I can't care. I see how women empathize about men, and I feel it's only fair to empathize the same way back.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:14 PM
13

I think fear is a stronger feeling than jealousy. So I'm gonna go with disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:52 PM
7

I did
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:49 PM
11

I know a couple of forever young fossils who still get ass....but let's be honest they aren't getting those on looks alone Savage legends, tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:48 PM
7

Ten years would have meant a 20 year old relationship and if it ends and I keep myself healthy and successful, something else will come A life well lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:42 PM
9

I know a 76 year old Italian dude that still chases pussy. He is absolutely hilarious, and most women hate him. That guy will die choking on cocaine and ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:41 PM
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Sure I am, buddy. 9 years of bliss so far. If it ends, it ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:40 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:39 PM
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I don't hate women I'm just stating the facts, get over yourself. I don't have empathy for that person, tho. She's responsible for the decisions that brought her to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:39 PM
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Everyone hits the wall eventually. I'm going to guess that yes, many will regret way before they get too old. Only a few are horny and pervy enough to continue wanting women into the old age. Most men eventually get tired of the chase and want to relax. I'm ten times happier married with a baby on the way than chasing women. Testosterone is a stressful hormone. Being domesticated brings a lot of peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:31 PM
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I have to agree. I see younger women and I can absolutely admire their beauty and energy. Would I take the effort to even try? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:40 AM
1

Delulu 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:36 AM
2

I did, man. I don't have the craziest stories, but I could die tomorrow and I wouldn't regret a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:19 AM
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I just turned 40. This has been my experience since I started dating at 12. The school years were easy and nice. We're all too young to care about the bigger things in life. University years is where it got harder. I was in engineering school. 9 guys for every girl. Money and status starts to become important. The most attractive girls were being selective of the hot guys or the guys with fancy cars, etc. Early career years were an eye opener. Girls that would have never given me the time of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:25 AM
3

It's not a school competition
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:37 AM
2

Hopefully this post will cause some women pushing 30 to rethink their strategy in the dating market. Holding out for a top 1 percent man to marry you is like waiting to win the Powerball lottery. It's too late for that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:38 AM
2

My in-laws are fucking awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:35 AM
1

They aren't maturing faster. They aren't developing careers which leaves them with family creation as a form of securing their identity in society. You can see the opposite effect in societes where women have no access to opportunities: more of them just want to be moms because they have nothing else going for them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:20 PM
3

That's what takes living in a society. Doing things you may not agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:04 PM
6

I have been quite successful with women all my life. One of the keys to gaining people's trust is imitation. Aloofness and overconfidence especially works with women who try to play that game with you. Try to play that with someone that doesn't play that game and you're out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:23 PM
1

Because they don't like it and we have been dealing for decades with the two ends of the political spectrum that refuse to accept reality as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:19 AM
1

We're going to get fucked per scenario two and relearn how to society
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:18 AM
3

You do you, sister
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:37 AM
2

So the question for all men here is the following. What do you bring to the table that shows you will be good for making kids? Are you athletic, tall, strong, successful, powerful and authoritative? Are you in a leadership position or position of authority? What do you offer to a woman? If you can't offer financial gain, confidence or looks, what are we talking about here? I am athletic, average height, strong, successful and authoritative. I own my own business and I am a well reputed professio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:08 PM
4

To each their own to be honest. If women want to go mgtow to that's their choice. If men want to have a partner, they'll have to play around that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:01 PM
7

They don't like it because they don't like being judged for their sexual preferences and sexual activity. Who cares, really? No one gets to decide what to get judged for by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:43 AM
0

My wife matches your standards but she's taken
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:29 AM
1

The guys she dated in the past didn't know about chloroform
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:40 PM
1

4) that's her fault for not vetoing properly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:19 PM
3

Ooooooh another white boy with a podcast 🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:17 PM
3

Of course we do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:03 PM
59

Look at Japan, Korea, Italy, Spain...I don't have high hopes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:16 AM
1

Rated E for Everyone 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:15 AM
0

It's a fad. A trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:58 PM
2

Keep approaching because you'll get better at it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:00 AM
1

3/4 of the population are obese. 50% of women are on antidepressants 70% of men are chronically single 2/3 of graduates are women 50% of women will be childless in the next 6 years. Yeah I think there's a fuckton of fixing to do. And nothing in this world comes easy. Life is not videogames
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:00 AM
0

Women will always have options for casual sex. For committed relationships? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:44 AM
1

Prostitution doesn't work because it's not for everyone. Most men don't want prostitutes, they want to feel loved, appreciated and needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:48 PM
1

I know two guys like that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:47 PM
1

I mean go nuts and test it. I have a 8 year old relationship and I own a business with 8 employees. Attraction and value alignment are fundamental for a start, but personality mismatches and value misalignments end up eroding relationships at their core given enough time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:07 PM
1

So what do you think are our stronger points? What do you think you can do with eyes closed? Or that people say they know it's your strong traits? What gives you energy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:35 PM
0

The exception is that top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:33 PM
105

I agree. The juice is not worth the squeeze. Both men and women have decided that it is better being alone than being with a substandard partner. That breakdown comes of course with consequences such as the male loneliness epidemic and 50% of women being single and childless by 2030 blah blah. It's a technological problem and will continue to be. The washing machine, the pill, porn, now ai girlfriends, e girls pretending to care about your lonely ass. We are just transcending to another form of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:58 AM
2

I mean yes it worked
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:44 AM
1

Are you someone who can spend time looking into spreadsheets, organizing things, trying to put order, analyse things carefully?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:34 AM
1

I found someone I liked more 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:32 AM
1

Exactly. I have also realized how important personality matches are and how we are taught none of it in relationships, but we learn a lot about them in business. I have come to the realization this is why relationship flourish or fail. Some personalities go better with others and the mental proclivities of some people are more compatible with some others, but not everyone. You need to puzzle in personalities in the right way, align people on the same values, for working relationships to flourish…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:55 AM
3

It's not feeling vulnerable. It's the feeling they can let off the wheel and the car isn't going to jump down the cliff. Confident guys that have answers an that can control situations are sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:22 AM
1

I'm a dumper. I have been on a dozen relationships since I was 16 and have always been the one to leave. AMA'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:38 AM
26

Attention, physical contact and day to day enjoyment come first. Sex is a close second
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:28 AM
98

Of course. We shame male virgins for a reason. One of the pillars of the red pill is to teach men how to detach their self esteem from women, but the red pill is about relationships with women. Not even the mgtow guys can fully forget women. I have come to terms with that. Women make me happy and my self esteem is partly (only partly) affected by how others perceive me. I'm a social animal in the end. I derive pride from Having been successful with women and even more pride from Having an amazin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:03 AM
3

It's your time to SLAY
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:18 AM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:16 AM
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That's a twox chromosomes projection meme Men who aren't good at housework are just untrained or lazy or they just don't care. They aren't secretly pretending to be incompetent. Pretending is a female behavior, not a male one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:12 AM
5

I believe many men's disgust threshold towards sex is extremely low when they are horny. I know men that will fuck anything. I know men that only go for what they really like. Then, I believe men have much higher standards when choosing a partner for a relationship. The evidence is more than clear. Men desire for sex and women desire more commitment. On average of course. Save your personal stories and exceptions for another thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:29 PM
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I said a GOOD women in their sane mind. Read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:26 PM
2

Yep. Broken hearts produce assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:12 PM
9

Because men are hornier and have a lower standard to what they consider beautiful. Plus most of them are starved of love and affection. Mix all that and you have the typical friendzone puppy love that hurts like a fucking bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:47 PM
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Sup TikTok 🧠
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:46 PM
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You're not silly, but you're not 100% right either. I'm not gonna sugar coat it. If you're truly ugly, you're fucked. But, if you're hot and an asshole, you won't keep a good woman for long. No one in their sane mind can't stand the dismissiveness and abuse, no matter how hot the other person is. The fate of being settled for is not unavoidable, but finding someone that feels they won the lottery by having found you, is not easy. I have been on both sides. I know what it feels to be settled for.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:31 PM
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I think it's just a sign of immaturity. It's bad enough to put up with it. If she wants a man that fixes everything around the house and I'm not that kind of person, she's more than free to go find the right person for her. Women (and men) like this are people who can't let go and compromise. We all fall on that trap but some people have the proclivity. These are the women and men that want to control how you dress, how your haircut looks like, how you should be behaving. These are the people th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:31 AM
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It happens all the time. Men are always seen as perpetrators and women as victims. There's a thread going on at dating over thirty where the OP asks if she should keep dating this guy with toilet seat balding pattern (lmfao 💀💀💀💀) everyone's having a great time with the banter. But, just imagine for a second, just for a second, what would happen if a guy posts asking if he should keep dating this girl with torpedo 🚀 tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:52 AM
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Balding dudes are fucked 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:42 AM
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I don't think you will get dpwnvoted for saying that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:13 AM
1

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:54 AM
2

This is this month's meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:53 AM
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The wall is REAAALLY fucking real. Start showing signs of aging and most men will consider you for anything beyond casual. For every lady that claims they found love in their late 30's, 40's, there's dozens of them that can't get more than a pity fuck from some horny guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:37 AM
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I despise it when Redpillers are selective about when they want to apply their appeal to nature fallacy. If men desiring younger women is biological and shouldn’t be demonized then why are you bitching and moaning about hypergamy, if according to your ideology, it’s a natural feminine instinct? I’ve noticed that with these types that male biology = good and female biology = bad. Me too. Fucking losers forgot the second half of the memo: women are hypergamous, therefore you need to work your shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:34 AM
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Typical blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:25 AM
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Unpopular opinion on the dating subs: You got pumped and dumped, and you too, and you too and you too. The stories of "he faded after the 5th date what's wrong with me 😔😔😔" are posted DAILY. But if you tell them they just got pumped and dumped, you get downvoted of worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:24 AM
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Everyone on therapy and antidepressants. Bottom line is that women are happier alone than with the wrong person, but happier with the right person than alone. We also know how loneliness reduces life expectancy. That doesn't apply to men only.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:36 PM
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I have also been through tough shit. And most people have. On one hand, I agree that if you were not given the tools to succeed, then you are at a disadvantage. But on the other hand that's a rather weak excuse in the middle of the information age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:21 PM
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OP passportbroing his into young ass what a Chad lmao Anyway I do have a problem with age gap relationships between cougars and cubs I mean wtf dude why are you settling for the thinnin hair the saggy bits and the menopausal pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:56 AM
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Fuck. I find that being in that position for more than 10 minutes is dreadful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:19 AM
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Kindness > intelligence > confidence. Kindness is a non negotiable. I don't deal with assholes. Intelligence is important for me to connect. Confidence is not important, I tend to be over-confident so I can balance things out in the couple as long as there's trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:09 AM
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None of these losers will take accountability for their actions or at least come clean and accept that they just don't want to put in the effort. Yes the data is clear, yes the situation is fucked, yes you were given a shitty hand at life (a great hand compared to a starving child from a Calcutta slum). So what are you gonna do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:06 AM
1

Hmmmmmmm yes, that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:38 PM
1

I also thought it wasn't possible. She has proven me wrong over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:47 PM
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I don't know man. I am deeply in love with my wife after almost 9 years together. I thought like you but we have proven each other wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:30 AM
1

Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:29 AM
1

When I interact with a woman, I have zero expectation of anything. I'm not looking for a relationship or to sleep with women because I'm married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:58 AM
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Depends who you are with. Did she grow up with a loving father? Brothers? Did she see them cry or be vulnerable? Did she get to understand struggles men go through, through her father and siblings? Then you can open up. Did she grow up in an abusive household where everyone was on the defensive, kids were asked to shut the fuck up, adults would suck it up and fight and pride wouldn't allow anyone to recognize their mistakes resulting in eternal back and forth blaming? Then you're fucked, she eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:06 PM
3

I married a French girl. I'm over the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:54 PM
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The men that start complaining haven't understood shit. The men that understand hierarchies and status know perfectly well where they stand, who stands above them and what they do within their limitations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:28 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:24 PM
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I think it's pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:24 PM
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100%. Every piece of self improvement advice has this goal: climb up on the status hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:11 PM
1

Maybe. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:06 PM
0

Tell your feminist friend she can duck my curved, patriarchal, hairy otter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:02 PM
7

There we go ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:17 AM
9

Then read again
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:11 AM
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No. No it doesn't. It's bullshit. I completely agree that if the woman is exhausted and stressed of having to work both a job and in the house, of course cravings for sex will go away. But we're all more complex than that. Managing stress and mentally priming yourself to be horny come from within ourselves and many of us have to re-learn this. Do 50% of the chores and she will still fill that newly found gap with new stressful shit: new activities, more work, new projects. It's our minds that ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:52 AM
1

Yep. But doable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:44 PM
1

Understand the market and adapt. Either step up to be the man women want in your area, or emigrate to other markets where you are good enough. In any case, it always pays to try to be the best person you can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:34 AM
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I have been in those situations many times. Being the adored. Adoring them back makes it for a beautiful relationship. Using their adoration to get an upper hand makes it more toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:31 AM
0

Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:52 PM
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Nah. Fuck it. What do you bring to the table is the reply to women on the internet coming up with their laundry lists of requirements. That's all, really. If your entitled, cellulite ridden fat ass is going to ask me to be six foot tall and earn 100k, I'm going to ask the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:35 PM
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I have a sense of humor some women find hilarious and others find offensive. I always tweak the tone to adapt. I can make my feminist friends laugh at something they consider inappropriate, but I know where to stop. My wife has a very particular sense of humor and I adapt to her as well. So no, you can't have a perfect sense of humor because women aren't a monolith. But you can learn who is triggered by what and then you can push the right buttons
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:33 PM
5

This bluepilled as fuck: but enjoying my wife's pregnancy while we both are in love and taking care of her has been one of the most satisfying things I've done in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:16 PM
1

I mean I'm purple not red 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:13 PM
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Numbers are actually the opposite to a cold calculation. Instead, numbers is an attempt to make a simple rule out of intuition. But intuition is fuzzy and hard to fully describe to detail. There are many features that make someone a 7, but the 7 is the fuzzy sum of the parts, not a sum of a score from broken down pieces. Checklist are an attempt to profile someone as someone that is functional at the level we are. Because these tools are fuzzy you have to keep them at a shallow level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:17 PM
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You know what no one can go against? Honest intention and built trust. Whatever bullshit happens online, if you are honest, transparent and with some charisma, you can get anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:11 PM
3

Not everyone can win
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:13 AM
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I don't know what will happen. But, progress and economic growth happens in part because young people enter the workforce with new ideas. Young people are the ones doing the physically demanding jobs. There's going to be less and less of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:47 AM
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Tinder brains gonna tinder brain
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:45 AM
2

Imagine doing all that to be able to argue with some retards on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:40 PM
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I don't give a fuck what they believe, the ick is real
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:58 AM
1

It's pointless to discuss. The standards are what they are. Either meet them or stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:57 AM
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No one implied men have to be ok with that. These women are free to do whatever. You're free to veto. Go to dating subs, men also freely date multiple women. If you don't like women that date multiple men, ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:54 AM
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Lfmao absolutely fucking NOT. And the main reason is that I don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:43 PM
3

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:43 PM
5

Of course I do. Has worked well for me so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:51 PM
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I don't have to hold myself to the same standard. I can be as hypocritical as I want to be and still get away with it, because women don't care as much about promiscuous men as men care about promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:25 PM
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Nope. The ick is there. Attraction continues to be largely driven by instinct. That's why tall guys are more accepted, that's why status matters, that's why younger women are more desired, etc etc etc. It's all the same instinctual programming. We can't stomach promiscuous women and one of our worst fears is unknowingly raising children that aren't ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:22 PM
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Not in a world where condoms didn't exist and where most pregnancies were accidental. That's the world we used to live in thousands of years ago. Our monkey brains haven't adapted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:18 PM
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Lmao not a fucking chance I love my freedom and the freedom to built the capacity to get girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:17 PM
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Instinctual programming in our brains to counter the possibility we may be raising a kid that is not ours or we are at risk of getting cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:24 PM
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Of course is a viable strategy. Most of my friends and I are partnered with people from other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:34 AM
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I'd argue that these people are less common then we're lead to believe. They are, by they do a ton of damage and they repeat on it a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:58 PM
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There's a lot of victimization on either side. Men have to vet as much. Sorry guys, if you stuck your dick in crazy and she ran off with 50% of your shit, that's your fault, too. Sure, some are extremely good a hiding their intentions and most of us aren't equipped to deal with that. But, we used to have fathers and brothers advising their daughters and sisters of guys. You used to have to introduce your potential guy to your parents. We used to hear what they had to say - that's all patriarchy …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:35 PM
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See? That's that idiots fault and no one else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:46 AM
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Sad losers in my view. All the ones I know got taken advantage of. My aunt got pregnant by some drug addicted lowlife when she was young. Left him and married a good friend of my dad. He stepped up and raised my two cousins to be good women. When my cousins got married, they wanted her biological dad to walk them up the aisle, not the guy who busted his fucking balls to give them a future and WHO PAID FOR THE FUCKING WEDDINGS. Eventually he got cancer. My aunt left him and he died kind of alone.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:15 AM
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Nothing better than leaving them to their own luck wondering where are all the good men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:54 PM
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If no one is in control, then you are the sole responsible for your own outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:52 PM
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I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:50 PM
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That may be true, but bitching about this is like a dog barking at a tree. Men have to stop bitching about things they can't control.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:50 PM
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It's just jealous losers with a very externalized locus of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:51 PM
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No. The options women have is options to quick and dirty sex. Any woman can flash her tits and offer a blowjob and she will have 20 guys lined up. This seems like heaven from a man's perspective, but they are not men. They don't care about this and they don't want this. I sympathise when they say they can't find a man because they are looking for a committed relationship and honestly, we men aren't going to give commitment easily these days. I don't think men will settle for anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:48 AM
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"go for the super ugly girls"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:27 PM
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Yes. But nothing long term or serious. If she got in his claws, she's not the smartest person or she didn't really think things through.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 01:56 PM
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Who is forcing us to settle, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:58 AM
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Probably not. I don't think a woman full of plastic surgery has the mindset I would be looking for. And I dated several girls like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:54 AM
2

I mean I would be open to a gf but my wife wouldn't agree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:53 AM
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No. Women cheat as much as men but up until recently the benefit of the doubt was given to them more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:08 AM
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No. I don't even know who these people are and I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:07 AM
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Redpill is return to monke. Everyone was redpilled until millennials went to uni and decided to challenge the status quo on everything. Some things changed, some didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:38 PM
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Are you a rich man smart that has tried the options, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:37 PM
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I mean I had to quit dating because my wife wouldn't be happy if I was
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:56 AM
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All your suggestions work, but leg lengthening is gruesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:55 AM
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That's cool I watch big tiddy goth cows
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:50 PM
1

What do you mean that's hot as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:16 PM
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Come on. You would.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:30 PM
2

I mean sure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:30 PM
5

Hey but you're getting laid so what's the drama
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:03 AM
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Depends how twisted your moral compass is. You can be 100% upfront and you will face rejection because most women aren't looking for casual sex the same way we do. That is, unless you are a 10/10 adonis. So, endure the rejection. The upside is, if you really hit it up with someone looking for casual sex, then it's great because you can focus on that without the rest of the drama. But then, you can also omit and lie. You can keep using plausible deniability, "let's see where things go", etc or ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:29 AM
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We don't care and we aren't as insecure as you are on this topic. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:23 AM
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My gf has the biggest tiddies you can't imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:23 AM
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The insecure ones do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:33 AM
2

Yes. Groped many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:52 PM
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No. You're approaching. You're interrupting someone. You don't know if that someone wants to be interrupted or not. You aren't entitled to other people's positive reactions when you get in their way. Sorry dude. That's not the way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:48 PM
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Yes. 100%. Status is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:46 PM
1

It isn't. And you shouldn't. You should be making friends and knowing people through people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:45 PM
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Oh look a pussy gatekeeper
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:45 PM
1

They pick the wrong guys and they don't learn to stand their ground. They don't learn enough about themselves. They sleep with guys and then catch feelings. They become doormats. This is all their own responsibility because when will be what men will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:42 PM
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Three things: 1) look healthy and like your life is in order 2) put yourself in locations where there are more women than men 3) raise to 80% of the top LOCAL status hierarchy. Simple? Very. Easy? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:05 PM
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8 years happily married and counting. Never got too hurt by women. Learned lessons of life without too much damage. Had several fun, long term relationships. It worked pretty well so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:23 AM
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Whatever happened to the old days where men used to ask women to be their girlfriends? Exclusivity was requested because that was the only way to access to sex. You don't need to do that now. You can date, have sex, see if feelings develop and decide if exclusivity is worth it. Most of the times women attach sooner than men when good sex is on the table. This gives men who are good in bed an advantage on picking who to commit to. Which such as advantageous scenario, why try something else? Men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:40 AM
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There are many angry, frustrated women out there indeed. I understand why they are frustrated, but that's as much their fault as it is men's. Men just walk away and ghost without saying much in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:21 AM
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You're definitely picking the wrong ones. It's a maturity thing as well. We all chill when we age, which makes everything easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:01 AM
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It didn't make any difference to you. But it does make some difference to some women and they know it, so it takes no effort for them to shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:59 AM
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Be alpha still. Work as if you wanted to become the most successful manwhore on earth. Alpha is what gets you the foot in the door and allows you to have several candidates. Then, take your pick and take your time to cultivate something with someone. You can ditch those promiscuous ones with tinder brain. Go for the mature, calm, 5, 6 or 7s that grew up in a loving household with a present father. Don't pretend to find someone that's going to do your laundry and clean after your shit. Don't hope…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:57 AM
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It's the opposite. You want to filter out women with a chip on their shoulder, short temper, closed minds and a TikTok view of the world. You want open minded women which can have deep conversations and control their emotional impulses during uncomfortable conversations. Small talk away. Or big talk if you want, be the one that ditches them if they don't make the cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:52 AM
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If you are willing to wait for generational change, knock yourself out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:49 PM
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Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:03 PM
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Good I'm married. I deleted all that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:52 PM
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Yes, of course. Because the alternative will lead you absolutely nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:51 PM
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The system is an emerging phenomenon from the combined individual behaviours and actions of millions of people. You can't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:51 PM
1

According to what you say, they would if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:33 PM
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No. It's just that they don't care. They simply don't give sex the same urgent importance we men feel about it. Women get touch starved and lonely, but they don't suffer at same level as men. Don't take my word for it. Women marriage counselors that understand men know that, if wives want to destroy their husbands, they just need to withhold intimacy from them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:32 PM
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Women have always dictated the rules of the game because they have the pussy and tits. Women prefer to stay single because now they reach higher status than most men and they of course don't date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:12 PM
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There's a huge bias from both sides in this debate. Both sides often fail to recognize that the other side is taking actions based on sane logic. If men aren't putting effort, there's logic behind it. If women aren't putting up with low effort, there's also logic behind it. We somehow took the position of seeing both sides as antagonists of each other, and you can root this back to logic. There's also logic in each side simply to give up and not to see what the other side has to say. Why? Becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:52 PM
1

That's fine but you haven't answered my questions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:18 PM
1

How does it matter? What are the consequences for me? Am I going to lose my job? Get in trouble with the law? Get kicked out of my house?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:22 AM
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What happens if I don't care about those societal standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:48 AM
2

I think so. But it won't happen. Look at Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:54 AM
2

And? Did that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:51 AM
2

No one really cares much. It's just reddit being reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:10 PM
4

The market is the market. There are archetypes that are more desirable than others, whether you like it or not. So no, men cannot just be loved for who they are if what they are means fat, poor, uneducated and unwashed. Women cannot afford to be much different from the archetypes either. Fat? Only used for sex. Ugly? Ignored. Competitive and manly? Ignored. Wrinkly? Ignored. Single mom? Ignored. Purple hair? Ignored. Black? Certainly more ignored in comparison. Can women get sex easily? Yes. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:39 PM
2

It can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:57 PM
-1

Seems like you have a passport solution in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:16 PM
7

Where the fuck do you guys live lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:05 PM
1

Meh not acceptable by whom? If she consents and I consent Is no one's business
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:44 PM
2

Good point. I have made Japanese friends abroad. They are hopeless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:11 PM
26

Dominance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:04 PM
5

I mean to get Japanese guys to travel
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:18 AM
4

Who wants to start a passport bro movement in Japan
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:35 AM
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Reddit is extremely allergic to cheating and infidelity. The good thing is, Reddit is not real life. In real life, everyone will either cheat or get cheated on at some point in life. As you say op, perfectly understandable. I was in a dead bedroom marriage. Cheated on her one night, came home, asked for a divorce. She never knew. I ended up with the other woman for a couple years. I found she cheated on me. So I cheated on her, left her for someone 8 years younger, and here I am, happily married…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:41 AM
-5

Nopes. I left her for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:46 AM
-2

I left her long ago. So yeah, I didn't get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:45 AM
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I didn't get caught
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:33 AM
0

I have gone through some extremely difficult situations in the past month. Having the courage to face the Issues and come out at the other side feels good and gives you confidence. We have all been losers at some point and we have as much info as ever to stop being losers. These are problems that can be solved. And as Chris says, the bar has never been this low.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:32 AM
1

We talk about our work, about the state of the world, about our families, about our mental struggles, about our plans and hopes, about chores, about our friends.... And we make a lot of fun of each other Often we are just together in silence. It's not our job to entertain each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:16 PM
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In titties
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:51 PM
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Lmao fatties won't live past 60 and colon cancer is showing up more and more in younger and younger people. Enjoy your Monster cans and your junk food.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:07 AM
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I am married with a baby on the way and I'm the happiest I have ever been. So to me, a good relationship is conducive to a good life. Have I been happy being single? Absolutely. I traveled, I met beautiful women, I partied hard, I enjoy my friendships, I developed professionally. I could die tomorrow and I wouldn't have missed a thing. Yet, even the hottest women lose luster, the casual sex becomes boring, there's so many night clubs and substances you can enjoy until you say enough is enough. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:14 AM
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People can call other people whatever they want. Freedom of expression exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:03 AM
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I need action, not a safe space to vent. Venting needs to lead to solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:21 PM
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Gossip, backstabbings, coercion.... I mean imagine mean girls but it's dudes that can also knock your teeth out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:40 PM
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Sometimes. But the drama of the gay community is 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:24 PM
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Me and most of my friends are partnered up with women from other countries. We're all having a great time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:29 PM
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Of course. The redpill is all about casual stuff because you can't risk it with hypergamous women and unicorns don't exist blahblah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:33 PM
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Wanting commitment and sacrificing self worth and values for it are two entirely different things, but I understand what you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:22 AM
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I believe in monogamy, I love my wife, she's my unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:33 AM
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It's a millennial generation thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:47 AM
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Because up until now, it's not an issue. Perhaps if we continue the trend of having babies at later stages in life, we will reach the point of this becoming relevant. But for now, we're all more concerned about women's fertility because it completely stops a decade sooner, while men's only declines, but doesn't reach zero. And of course everyone knows stories of old guys impregnating women so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:44 AM
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I may take it. Someone like that just hasn't found their calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:47 PM
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You can call me whatever you want I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:02 PM
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I'm not going to click on TikTok. But a broke woman with no ambition, no education and no intelligence is a no go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:01 PM
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But why would I want that? That sounds fucking exahusting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:32 AM
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The match group is being sued for creating apps that are addictive. Why do people keep using these? These are not designed with your best interests in mind. Fucking tinder brain women and men become mentally dysfunctional after years of use.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:08 AM
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I can't stand sugar babies and I prefer marriage so I go with 1
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:06 AM
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Right: what's happening is real. Wrong: women are our enemies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:18 AM
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And nothing of value was lost
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:11 PM
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Get off social media. Earn good money. Have a vision to become whoever you want to be and work on it. Be ready to walk away when the power balance is against you. Say no at least once a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:16 PM
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It's not all it takes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:52 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:29 AM
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I don't care if they like me or not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:28 AM
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That's not what prevents a man from cheating. The sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:48 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:12 PM
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Their infallible one: childhood trauma. My ex wife grew up with an absent, often abusive father. Her stories were horrendous. I brushed them up and thought she had managed to process and grow. Nope. I had to leave her. My brother's ex wife, same. Absent mother, brother with intellectual disability, Okaish father that didn't do much. She had to raise her own brother. My brother left her when she threw a heavy vase at him. What these women had in common: an obsession with living their lives in a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:25 AM
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If the girl was into the hookup life, she's only considered for entertainment only. Promiscuity changes people. I'm not dealing with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:16 AM
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It's because it's implied they are always a child 🥁
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:34 AM
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I can count TRULY happy, single women friends with one hand. The rest aren't happy being single. They just get by.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:20 AM
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🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:02 PM
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I don't compare myself to others too much. I have lived intensively enough to the point I could drop dead tomorrow and I wouldn't have regrets. I went through hard shit like everyone and I'm also successful. Might become a millionaire sooner than later. Not that I care much about it. Just wanna be able to not worry about money or depend on others. I never planned my life much, either never pressed myself against milestones and my main worry has always been how am I going to succeed to support my…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:13 PM
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Fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:25 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:24 PM
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To these men, as a 39 year old man, I tell them: DO IT. Go become a fit, successful silver fox. I PROMISE that you will have a lot more success than what you ever had in your 20's. Status is EVERYTHING. Even more important that looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:49 PM
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I don't know. My wife is 8 years younger than me, my dad is 10 years older than my mom, my brother constantly dates girls 10-12 years younger than him, my grandpa was 20 years older than his late wife. Seems to be working for us. And the data doesn't show about successful pairings it shows about who would men or men prefer to date. Women date across and above their status. Men across and down. It's proven by research.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:47 PM
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Why do you think we go to the gym and flex in front of the mirror?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:42 PM
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And being receptive will bring both the nice guys and the predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:12 PM
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1) "I can change her" 2) "this is what money is for" 3) "this is how it's supposed to work" Ooooorrrrr they just didn't know the woman enough and she turned on him. Oooooor, everything was fine, but marriage deteriorated and she sees an easy way to walk out with tons of cash so she takes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:12 AM
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Are you implying that something as consequential as partner selection is analyzed and decided upon with the same level of depth as some guy deciding to do some funny shit for 30 seconds for everyone to laugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:34 PM
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I'd say pretty hard. I'm not saying average height guys. I'm talking about shorter than average. Things only become impossible if you give up. I have seen most short friends ending up marrying someone, but they never stood a chance dating women with the same frequency as the taller guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:46 AM
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Absolutely they do, if their goal is to settle down. Not necessarily because they become unattractive, but because both them and men become more exigent. That happens at the same time the fertility window closes. Meanwhile, men's attractiveness doesn't dwindle as much while still being able to regain most of their fertility and cater to women +- 10 years. In simple terms, men aren't really in a hurry, and women are. That's the penalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:41 AM
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Small minority of men passing on the forbidden cocktail around 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:56 PM
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In poor countries we're too busy surviving and coping to focus on the bullshit rich people with too much time and too easy lives bring into their lives. I grew up lower middle class in South America and I'm now a top 20% in Northern Europe. I know what is to live both in one of the poorest, most corrupted and dangerous countries in the world and what is it to live in one of the world's most advanced economies. That's why these countries are redpilled as fuck: when you need to focus on what truly…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:50 AM
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I got banned and reported for harassment because I told someone who was complaining about being obese, to actually consider losing weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:23 PM
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Having children became uncool AND OPTIONAL. We want to spend our time and money doing other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:52 AM
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No. You aren't exploitative for just existing in a market that benefits you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:51 AM
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My opinion is that they are redpilled as fuck. They know what they want and they won't bulge. They know the risks and they have made their decision. They also haven't met the woman that could flip all of that upside down and I hope they never do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:49 AM
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Under the right conditions, yes. They can be loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:03 PM
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Of course they do. I mean they dress to outcompete other women in the status hierarchy, but outcompete for what????
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:56 PM
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Look at the market. Look at the guys that get laid the most, have many wives and kids, or overall have no trouble partnering, having sex, mating, etc. Those guys are considered high value in their own market. There are many markets. The university years is not the same market as the highschool one is not the same as a middle class suburban one, etc. But what's Universal is that the guys who get ignored by women aren't high value. A high value female on Instagram is not the same as a high value f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:37 AM
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There's no quality people crossing the border. They are generally uneducated, desperate, working class south Americans that will use you for your money and passport. They live their life in survival mode and they will do what it takes to succeed. They aren't traditional either. They are promiscuous, cheat a lot and will monkey branch to the guy with more money on a whim. They are also traumatized from the lifr they have been through and their upbringings haven't been healthy. Plenty of absent fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:07 AM
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I mean yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:43 PM
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Why can’t they make it abundantly clear so there isn’t all of this unnecessary stress and guesswork?? Because that's fucking boring and a test of your own resolution and confidence. Approach, ask, seduce, expose yourself to rejection, decide for yourself if she's worth the escalation and continue, or just never begin the process, look down and go back to your drink. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:15 PM
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Everyone's free todo whatever they want but a child growing with an absent father or mother will suffer. I personally decided I wouldn't have kids until I could give them the best start I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:21 AM
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Not GUARANTEED but a lot of guys have tried their luck with the easy fat girl at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:53 PM
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That would be awesome. My own Cortana holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:53 AM
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Time to get that passport.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:47 AM
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It is wrong to settle to an extent. Our core values define who we are, dictate most of our behavior and makes us feel when something is right or wrong. Betraying your values for a woman, for friends or for a business that gives you a job is a recipe for disaster. As long as your values are aligned, go wild. Doesn't matter if the woman doesn't fit more superficial criteria, you will make it work. An obese person and a fit person operate on different behaviours. Those behaviours are often driven b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:43 AM
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Obviously both. I look more like my dad but I have the outgoing personality of my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:33 AM
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Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:32 AM
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My wife is 9 years younger than me. She was 24 when we first met. My dad is 10 years older than my mom. My brother ONLY goes for women about 10 years younger than him, he is pretty successful. We are hard working, middle class, educated, fit men. I'm the most successful financially but that doesn't seem to have a big influence. Type of women? Any women. Nerds, gold diggers, good women, bad women, you name it. Granted, we're not in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:40 PM
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My dad was my mom's professor. I'm here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:37 PM
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Within those odds also lies the fact that many younger women like older men. Men are dating their age and younger. Women date their age and older. On average of course, let's never forget that, plus not all men not all women etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:55 PM
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They are totally worth it
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