LeluAdo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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9	Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetup It's scary when you have to ask for help from strangers/staff or when they try to follow you when you leave. There's a reason bars and restaurants have started posting code words in women's bathrooms so they can communicate discreetly with their waitstaff or bartender.	/r/seduction	23/09/18 06:48 PM
1	Constanly being asked " So what's your job? " right away... Why can't I ask about both? If you don't want me to know what you spend 8+ hours doing five days a week, I might wonder why. I ask women what they do, too. It can also be a quick way to find something we have in common or find out about general interests. A mechanic and a lawyer are almost always going to have different personalities. Plus, I've always found myself more compatible with blue collar guys than white collar guys or salesmen. I want a guy who has different strengths than I have. Did …	/r/seduction	26/08/18 02:30 AM
4	Constanly being asked " So what's your job? " right away... Because it's a very basic, "standard" question to ask and most women probably have no idea you don't like it when they ask, like "where did you grow up?" and "do you have siblings?" "How's work?" is often one of the first questions I get asked by friends, parents, aunts, uncles, and grandparents, too. On top of that, it tells us a lot about you, and not just your financial status, and can be a conversation starter to get to know you better. Did you need some kind of apprenticeship/education, wha…	/r/seduction	26/08/18 01:56 AM
4	I want to say how positively surprised I'm with this subreddit Your problem in this example isn't your sample size, it's selection bias. Sure, you can find 100 girls who will sleep with you in 20 minutes, but you're not counting the thousands of others you meet day-to-day who wouldn't give you a second glance. If you chose a selection of 100 truly random girls, not just the 100 you chose to pursue who were responsive, I doubt you'd have the same success.	/r/seduction	27/01/18 12:22 AM
3	Be careful nailing drunk chicks Alcohol can cause impaired encoding of memory, causing the memories to not be stored properly in the first place, which means that, yes, people can forget the night. I used to be a heavy drinker. Am female. There are plenty of nights that I did nothing regrettable and did things I wanted to remember, but still could not remember large chunks. But I still knew exactly what I was doing while I was doing it, despite not remembering it.	/r/seduction	09/07/17 02:44 PM
12	The ''nice guy'' status. This is the right answer. There is a difference between being a nice guy and being a pushover. A woman will choose a bad boy over a push over, but what's even more attractive than a bad boy is a nice guy, who also is also confident, assertive, and sets boundaries with others.	/r/seduction	10/11/15 09:19 PM
3	Should i ignore her entirely? Oh, I absolutely agree with you, but the tone is key. Also, oftentimes when a woman retells a story to her best friends, she will be honest about what was said, but will embellish the tone to portray herself better. Then her memory of the event will be more in line with the story than with what actually happened, which may create awkwardness when he sees her again at the gym.	/r/seduction	07/11/15 07:54 PM
7	Should i ignore her entirely? Exactly. I feel like OP needs to approach this like he's "in on the joke." She didn't respond. He knows what that means and he finds it amusing that she gets away with this from other guys. OP isn't broken hearted, and better yet, he isn't even phased. She then becomes just some girl he has a nice chat with at the gym once. Then any future interaction can be whatever he wants it to be.	/r/seduction	07/11/15 06:12 PM
61	Should i ignore her entirely? As a woman, I agree with every part of this, except saying "your loss." If you said that to me, it would be really easy to interpret as "bitter," especially if your tone wasn't perfect and then you went on to ignore me after. Do exactly this. Prepare for the flake, smile and say, "okay, see you around." Walk away unphased. Then you can still acknowledge her or make small talk if you see her, but don't approach her or spend any time conversing with her in the future.	/r/seduction	07/11/15 04:43 PM
6	What would be the point of not telling me she has a boyfriend? This happens. A lot of men don't have the confidence to take the rejection and admit they were flirting, so when the boyfriend is mentioned, they backtrack to make the woman feel like she's conceited for thinking he was being more than just friendly.	/r/seduction	14/03/15 01:15 PM