LemonIcedTeaArizona Archive

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2	This Is Why You Get Ghosted & Ignored In what world do you live in where other people just directly "ask" for sex? There's always a ritual/game involved, unless you're seeing a prostitute. This is a constant in all human culture since the dawn of time. Also, a lot of your comments are indirectly reinforcing my own point...1) "he doesn't care one bit if the answer is no" = he doesn't care about losing her; 2) "he doesn't care what others think" = dominance; 3) "he's exciting and adventurous" = he'll escalate easily. These traits are …	/r/seduction	30/09/18 03:58 PM
3	This Is Why You Get Ghosted & Ignored We aren't contradicting each other, we're saying the same thing. If you literally treat a woman like an object you will get nowhere. The point is that their sexual excitement comes from being an object in bed (the only place that counts). That's why the bad boy wins, not because he's some virtuous egalitarian that treats women like human beings. The woman might believe the nice guy can't deliver that. And by object, I'm not saying "literal object like a dog" or a masochist. "If you're giving som…	/r/seduction	30/09/18 08:10 AM
-7	This Is Why You Get Ghosted & Ignored Men don't try to be objects. The idea is repulsive to hetero men. Women picture themselves as objects in a way that hetero men don't and can never. Think about it: what does a woman see in a man? Why are "confidence, assertiveness, dominance, etc" such important traits? Not because they're inherently the greatest virtues on earth. The reason is so they can feel they are being sexually "taken". This is part of women's fantasy in the same way that a hot schoolteacher banging you as a high school s…	/r/seduction	30/09/18 08:01 AM
-5	This Is Why You Get Ghosted & Ignored Yes. Female sexuality revolves around being an object. To go back to your point about "lack", women in infancy ask themselves "what is a man missing?" and they try to fill that lack by becoming the object. There's actually a complex psychoanalytic theory about this.	/r/seduction	30/09/18 07:26 AM
0	This Is Why You Get Ghosted & Ignored "Bad boys on the other hand just treat her like a person, as you said, which is really the most honest thing to do. And it generally results in the most favorable outcome anyway." i disagree. I think it's actually the OPPOSITE. Women get turned on by being treated a little bit like objects and submitting to a male. Someone treating her like a full individual and trying to connect with her like you would "anyone else" is what's a turn off. The "bad boy" isn't some virtuous egalitarian in secret; …	/r/seduction	30/09/18 07:08 AM
13	This Is Why You Get Ghosted & Ignored Good advice in general, but... The problem is that the hypothetical "perfect 10" you mention, for example, isn't necessarily going to straight up tell you what her lack is. Furthermore, most people don't even know their own lack. They just feel an inward void they need to fill without really thinking about why and the dynamics of it. The girl that goes for the asshole isn't going to say, "Hey, I need you to be a jerk because I had a horrible father growing up and kinda want to identify you with …	/r/seduction	30/09/18 06:52 AM
1	PUA at university, worried I'll be labeled the school slut and become known for the wrong thing... Have you heard weird things in the news lately about "safe spaces" and how feminism is huge in college? If you try a PUA thing on a bunch of women at a college campus, it could backfire pretty badly. Not because you did something wrong necessarily, but because you might try it on someone that misinterprets you, or worse, is actually looking to stir up some drama/trouble.	/r/seduction	30/09/18 06:45 AM
9	PUA at university, worried I'll be labeled the school slut and become known for the wrong thing... It might not be a good idea to do this at a college. If a woman feels unsafe you could get in big trouble. Also like you said, if you become 'known' for this, that's an even worse problem for you. Lastly, don't try the "PUA" thing and do it cold on strangers. Women tend to not sleep with people they meet absolutely out of nowhere. There's always an awkward tension because you both realize you're perfect strangers. UNLESS you're extremely handsome or rich, in which case it won't matter.	/r/seduction	30/09/18 02:04 AM