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| 2 | My experience dating Instagram models: DO NOT BE FOOLEDI’m a little unsure about what you’re saying but I’ll try to address your points. I would tell women the same thing: if a guy is focused on documenting his life on Instagram for social validation, you shouldn’t date him. You legit think dating is easy because men harass us with this “attention” online and irl? Women can find a guy to date much easier than guys because it’s usually the guy making the first move. But the relationship itself still requires work on both parts. There are so many good… | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 09:23 PM |
| 6 | My experience dating Instagram models: DO NOT BE FOOLEDMen on average prefer females in the age range 18-25. That is an objective fact It’s funny you use examples of highly successful women who are all sex icons to show 30yo women can be attractive. You’re purposely selecting women known for their sex appeal, but if you took a random sample of 30yo women, men would find them less attractive. I’m not saying 30yo can’t be attractive, just that on average most men prefer woman in their low 20s. Just curious, do you think guys will hit on you the same a… | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:36 PM |
| -2 | What kind of men do highly confident women generally fall for?Correct. This or men they can control if they have narcissistic personality disorder | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 12:27 AM |
| 19 | My experience dating Instagram models: DO NOT BE FOOLEDThis is true however those girls are in for a rude awakening when they hit their late 20s early 30s. Girls between the ages of 18-25 right now have it easier than any group of people in all of human history. If they don't work on their personality they WILL be used by guys for their beauty. When they get older and realize they can't pull the kind of guys they used to, they will have an existential crisis. Many women at this stage panic and try to lock a guy down, but the damage is already done. … | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interestedThe fact that this has worked for you tells me the girls you’re after are in their teens. A girl in her 20s would laugh at you for doing this | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 01:18 PM |
| – | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Yes. The best advice I ever got was "Don't even focus on getting women. Become the best version of yourself and the women will come to you" As men we should focus on our life purpose. Everything else is secondary until you have kids. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 03:23 PM |
| – | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?Depends on the game. There are some games you can’t opt out of because everybody plays them (I.e. women want competent, resilient, masculine men and if you don’t play that game you won’t be able to get this women). Of course there are stupid games women play but a high value guy wouldn’t play those in the first place. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 08:56 PM |
| – | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?Life is a game and you're always playing it whether you want to or not. It's best to accept it because everybody else does. 'Conformity' is seen as a bad thing but there is a healthy level of conformity. For example you've probably conformed to certain the social conventions that allow you to have friends. You've learned those social 'rules' through trial and error when you were young. There are a different set of 'rules' for dating and we don't teach them, but if you learn them your relationshi… | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 04:32 PM |
| – | The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life.Has that ever backfired on you? I feel like that’s a risky play, if you guys have mutual friends/ in the same community she can easily leak the dick pic or start rumours about you sending nudes | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 07:45 PM |
| – | The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life.I can have sex once a week if I try but getting nudes is like pulling teeth. What’s your strategy for nudes? | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Thailand?How do you find party hostels? | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 09:37 PM |
| – | How to not fall into the cocaine trap....He was on quaaludes though. Cocaine would not impair you anywhere near that much. A couple bumps can make you deadly good at flirting, in the same way a beer can make you more open. Overdoing it will always end badly but a bit can improve your game. The best drug I’ve done for gaming girls though is by far ecstasy. I wish I could be in that state all the time, it honestly feels like cheating. But don’t get reliant on any substance though! Hell even caffeine | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 01:04 AM |
| – | Any time there’s a post about how a guy did NOT get laid, the guys that DO get laid should comment about what they would have done. Let’s help each other out!You said it yourself: you didn’t make any approaches. If you’re starting out YOU HAVE TO FAIL. Failures hurt which forces you to learn (as long as your open minded). Accept the fact that you’re not attractive to the women you want but know deep down that you can become the man you want to be. I’m not giving you false hope. You LITERALLY can become that ideal man, you have to truly believe this first and foremost. What I would do if I was alone at a club: be friendly with everyone. Go on the danc… | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 06:07 AM |
| 26 | [23M] How to make up for crucial social milestones I missed out on during my youth?If it makes you feel any better I did the opposite of you and I also feel hollow and empty. I partied and hooked up with lots of girls and have wild stories that I'm grateful for, however I now don't have any friends and I'm still doing a dead end minimum wage job stocking shelves (I'm 27). I still have sex with girls when I want but it feels like an addiction now to distract me from my meaningless existence as I get older. Any path you chose means lives you don't get to live. | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 01:00 AM |
| – | Personally, how do you balance seeing multiple women?honestly just telling them a story about you and your female friend. Just hearing the words 'her' and 'she' will be enough in my experience. Eventually all my girls say something like "wow you have a lot of female friends". But never explicitly state you're having sex with multiple women, that lowers your value. Let peoples' brains fill in the blanks | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Personally, how do you balance seeing multiple women?Call them once or twice every two weeks. Keep them at arms length, it'll save you time and also make you more attractive to them because they have to deal with your absence. If the text take a few hours or a day to reply. Don't go for more than 4-5 girls at once, you'll start to lose all of them as you try and juggle all the relationships. Be honest with them, don't lead them on. Don't explicitly tell them that you're seeing other girls. If they explicitly ask, tell them you're friends with lots… | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 08:35 PM |
| 8 | Anyone else feel resentful of how they were brought up to view sex?This is the first step to maturity. It’s not your fault that your upbringing made you this way, but the second you become conscious of it, it’s your responsibility to fix it. Getting angry at your parents is a regression to an infantile state. I struggle with this all the time. You have to suppress the anger, accept the cards you were dealt and take responsibility for your life. This is what it means to become a strong, competent, masculine man. Good luck brother | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 07:29 PM |
| – | What can we learn from Pete Davidson?Status is important but Kim Kardashian and Ariana Grande are way more famous than him so I don’t think it plays a big part. Ariana’s current bf is a real estate agent | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 04:34 AM |
| 93 | You ever say such a good flirty line that even you’re shocked by it?I forget the context but I pretended to shoot a girl (with my fingers not a real gun) and she said sassily "you didn't take the safety off" and I said "the safety's always off with me" without breaking eye contact. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 07:21 PM |
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