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I told you I wouldn’t date someone who had a FWB. What’s wrong with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:26 PM
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I’m kinda curious how my comments made it harder for you to sympathize with women. Any reasoning?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:04 PM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:01 PM
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I think it’s pretty rude in a social setting, like a work event, a party, or a meetup. It’s more understandable if it happens in a bar, on the street, or on a bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:00 PM
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He got decent replies to his other comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:47 PM
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Got it. It’s very heavily tied to socioeconomic level, but you should specify you’re talking about your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:46 PM
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This post pretends as if all women do exactly what you’re describing. Not all of us have had casual in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:45 PM
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I need some time to get to know him and build trust and a connection. If he doesn’t have the same mindset, we’re not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:29 PM
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They aren’t dating long-term, but they’re dating casually. It’s not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:27 PM
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Some of them have to be put on meds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:40 PM
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If we’re friends, we stay friends. If we’re dating, we’re dating. If he doesn’t like it, he can go and date someone else, what’s the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:40 PM
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Men over 50 are the worst offenders.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:32 PM
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I’ve never been into casual dating, so no. If they want to sleep around, that’s not something I want to deal with. If he can’t wait for a few weeks, we aren’t compatible. If he wants to sleep around, we aren’t compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:31 PM
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Doesn’t change the idea that flirting with service workers put them in an awkward position.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:30 PM
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The past matters. I wouldn’t date a guy who has a history of being abusive, violent, or who has cheated on his ex partner, or someone who used to pay for sex. They might say they’ve changed, but I wouldn’t take that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:29 PM
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You’re either much better at reading cues than most guys hitting on service workers or you’re delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:24 PM
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Sure, it doesn’t mean there’s no requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:23 PM
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I was around 18 working as a waitress when a guy who could’ve been my grandpa started hitting on me. It got really creepy, he waited for me after my shift, and I had to frantically call my dad to come pick me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:22 PM
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You’re supposed to be polite and friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:17 PM
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Service workers have to be nice, it’s literally part of the job. Small talk is one thing, but flirting with someone who can’t easily disengage gets uncomfortable fast especially if you suck at reading social cues…which is very common among men struggling with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:10 PM
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If I’ve never had anything casual, does that mean I’ve never felt real desire or been genuinely desired? That sounds like total bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:02 PM
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I’ve never been into casual dating, so no. If they want to sleep around, that’s not something I want to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:59 PM
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I don’t think this is a helpful way to think about it. None of us chose to be born, at least not with the information we have. You are a human dealing with very human problems, and you are not alone in this. Do you think you could reconnect with some friends? Or talk with a doctor about trying different medications? There are also other options like TMS or ketamine therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:57 PM
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My comment didn’t mean “be chad”, but that attraction is a result of multiple traits. You can’t find one gimmick for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:31 PM
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Probably when you’re getting one-word replies and keep pushing. Or if you see that the other person doesn’t want to talk about a particular topic, but again you keep pushing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:29 PM
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Most men over 30 are partnered.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:55 AM
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I agree, and I’m not saying otherwise. There’s no magic trick that fixes it. You either keep trying or you quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:50 AM
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I met my husband when I was 25. What “Chad in prison” are you even talking about? Not everything you see online is true or applies to everyone, but being raised on TikTok slop seriously messes with people’s brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:49 AM
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No amount of advice will turn a nerd into a womanizer unless he actually goes out and practices socializing and flirting. Being realistic, a lot of men aren’t going to get the same results as naturally charismatic guys whatever they do. They can still have some success, just not drowning in pussy levels, and that’s fine. Inability to deal with it is just immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:48 AM
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I’m fine with being criticized, but I don’t put much weight on the opinions of internet strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:43 AM
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Being part of a niche subculture only really works if you’re actually involved. I’m not just talking about listening to K-pop, this guy had an entire group performing dance routines from popular K-pop tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:40 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:37 AM
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Honestly, I don’t think there’s any one thing that makes someone universally more desirable on its own. There’s no formula or shortcut that would work for everyone. I’ve met guys who kill it with women, but it’s never just one thing, it’s always a mix. One guy was into a k-pop subculture, so he was around lots of women with shared interest. He was good at dancing and performing. Another was a gym rat, super extroverted, genuinely caring, and hilarious. Another was smart, well-read, could banter,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:13 AM
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There’s no magic trick. You’re either trying until it works or you give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:03 AM
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I don’t think it’s that rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:01 AM
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Dating advice isn’t complicated. Lift, get better photos, go outside, meet people, and don’t be miserable to be around. Flirt where it actually makes sense. If you’ve got a specific look or vibe, aim for a niche that’s into it. Dating is about doing, not overthinking, and asking for advice nonstop is pointless if you never act on it. I agree that online spaces should be less toxic, but people also need to be smarter about which communities they participate in. I could complain that PPD is toxic …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:57 AM
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Tell us when you succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:46 AM
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If you had an inexperience partner and were having sex with them regularly, you’d see the how sex was getting better over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:43 AM
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I’ll just copy my comment for you here. I can’t complain much about my husband or my exes, but strangers? Oh yeah. And I have even more ridiculous stories about guys I know or used to know but never dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:35 AM
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I can’t complain much about my husband or my exes, but strangers? Oh yeah. And I have even more ridiculous stories about guys I know or used to know but never dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:34 AM
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Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:31 AM
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Strangers can’t know you any better than your friends. Dating isn’t about some magic tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:31 AM
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You didn’t answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:56 AM
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If even your friends can’t help you, what do you expect from strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:57 AM
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I can criticize you without trying to solve your issue. The problem with seeking advice online is that we don’t really know you. You should ask your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:55 AM
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Who said you should?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:45 AM
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Financial aspect was even more important in the past. If women married out of necessity, do you think they were all attracted to their husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:35 AM
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Rude doesn’t mean it’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:34 AM
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It’s rude, but it’s also not narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:28 AM
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I recently posted about blocking a long-forgotten ex who popped back up. I a bit was curious how he was doing, but I wouldn’t want my husband talking to his ex for no reason. So I ignored the requests and blocked the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:13 AM
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Friend, this sounds like depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:08 AM
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Exactly. This bar isn’t meant to bankroll me or you, it’s just to keep the place running. NEETs claiming there’s “no financial bar” are especially ironic. Would support their girlfriend with their parents’ money?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:45 PM
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Says a person with no or little experience. Dick size does matter, but so does the skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:45 PM
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Being able to read your partner’s cues and adjust. Knowing how to please them in different ways and what turns them on. For guys, not finishing too quickly is important, and that can be a common issue with less experience. Understanding your partner’s preferred positions, pace, and having the stamina to keep up all matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:44 PM
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Some people mistake their nostalgia for “simpler times” as real history. They focus on a few positive examples, how things were supposed to be, and assume that’s the whole story, while ignoring the negative reality and the reasons women fought for the right to choose in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:40 PM
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Do you think it was much different historically?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:37 PM
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NEET are considered losers unless we’re talking about rich people who can afford not to work. It is rude, but it isn’t narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:37 PM
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40k is barely making it for a lot of places. Most guys saying they’re fine with a woman making zero are kind of delusional. The cost of living is going up everywhere, so it just makes sense to date someone who can support themselves. Either they don’t realize they’d be fully providing, or they’re not thinking long-term. Unless they do make a bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:35 PM
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You probably could do it now. Make money and settle with a woman who’s in it for the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:32 PM
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No, this is not the way. You won’t put it in - you’ll tear her apart, she’ll bleed, and you two won’t be having sex for weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:30 PM
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What about your standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:12 PM
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Enough to be independent. Around here, that’s realistically over $40k, and even living on $40k means having roommates and being really good with money. I could deal with him making less if he didn’t have debt and had some plans for the future. I don’t need a guy to subsidize my lifestyle, but I wouldn’t want to deal with an adult dependent unless he was great at being a SAHF.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:06 PM
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Saying that someone calling themselves a loser is a loser doesn’t necessarily mean you do it to feel better about yourself. They basically agree with these guys’ self-evaluation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:57 PM
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Peasants probably had pretty functional lives, unless famine, plagues, or wars got to them. But “functional” doesn’t mean good, nor does it imply an active sex life or romantic life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:51 PM
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So some guys do stay single by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:48 PM
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What is narcissistic about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:49 PM
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But?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:47 PM
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What do you miss about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:44 PM
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Sounds like you have a dining issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:43 PM
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Does it mean only fat single mothers are on your level?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:42 PM
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You think that there was a place for everyone, but the poverty was horrible at certain times of our history. Men also used to die at higher numbers. Capitalism clearly isn’t working, but it doesn’t mean it used to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:39 PM
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If a woman values a man only for his money, that’s objectification too, and men don’t have to accept it. Gold diggers are usually criticized for a reason. In real relationships, you value each other as whole people. Liking what your partner does for you doesn’t mean you reduce them to a role. If I like my husband’s cooking, it doesn’t make him a kitchen appliance, and him praising my blowjobs doesn’t make me a sex doll. You have to look at the relationship itself, not one trait or one random vid…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:37 PM
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Do you understand how prevalent the poverty used to be? Some people were starving and selling their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:30 PM
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That’s not a NEET.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:29 PM
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It sounds like you have a pretty romanticized view of the past. For most of history, people didn’t marry for love but out of necessity. Marriage based on love and attraction is a fairly recent idea, and in many cultures some men never married at all simply because they couldn’t afford a dowry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:28 PM
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Breaks are good for your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:29 AM
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You’re comparing being a decent match back then to a “Chad” now. Naturally charismatic and extremely attractive people were rare back then too. Unless you were a pariah. Modern NEETs wouldn’t be considered as a match back then either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:29 AM
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Do you think the poor just didn’t want to get richer or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:26 AM
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It’s naive to think getting rich was easier in the past. Social mobility is a fairly recent development, and for most people, discrimination and class barriers severely limited their chances. Try courting a woman if her parents think of you as a lesser being due to your skin, background or religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:04 AM
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It was unequal back then too. If you had money and status, you could marry easily. If you didn’t have anything, you had hard times trying to impress her parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:55 AM
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I can, but I also can call them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:50 AM
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He posts it daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:24 AM
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Sure, and I’m allowed to call this stuff out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:18 AM
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Insecurity isn’t the same thing as posting your fetish content daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:18 AM
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You’re also allowed not to validated others. This whole subreddit is for debates not mental health help.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:15 AM
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Your fetish isn’t something others have to entertain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:12 AM
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Others are allowed not to validate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:10 AM
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Don’t push your fetish on everyone here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:07 AM
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Self-flagellation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:44 PM
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Why are you pushing your humiliation fetish on everyone here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:43 PM
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Men are still getting something out of those relationships, otherwise they wouldn’t stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:35 PM
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I’d leave him over hitting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:25 PM
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Honestly, I think this is just one of the many things that come with online dating. When you’re going on multiple first dates or just chatting with different people at the same time, it’s really hard to form a real connection with anyone. It starts to feel like an interview process, and from what I’ve seen, neither guys nor girls really enjoy that. That’s just not how human connections are meant to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:16 PM
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We have an unreliable narrator here. Everyone can claim they’re kind and good, but there’s no real way to check it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:43 PM
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They think they’re a catch in every way because they’d date a woman with the same traits in a heartbeat, without considering that those traits don’t carry the same value across genders. A virgin, religious woman has far more options than a man with the same traits like it or not. And on top of that, a virgin, religious woman looking for a religious man is likely aiming to be a SAHM, and this guy can’t provide that. For a lot of secular women, religion is a dealbreaker. Dating apps also prioritiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:32 PM
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When we were apart for a few weeks, we tried phone sex. We’d just talk about what we wanted to do to each other. Listening to your partner say it out loud is way hotter than texting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:26 PM
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See, you’re making sense here! It isn’t much different for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:31 AM
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Where do we factor in that the guy might have issues? A woman can be totally into him, but if he’s insecure, he’ll always find something to be insecure about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:25 AM
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Putting hookups away, what about exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:23 AM
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This sounds really depressing. That’s not how human relationships are supposed to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:22 AM
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Money, addictions, mental health issues, a share of them is trafficked or have a pimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:21 AM
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Do a lot of people treat dating like it’s some kind of dating sim, where you’re managing traits and perks and point totals with your partner? I don’t think I’ve ever approached it that way. I’ve always just dated people I liked and could see a future with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:27 AM
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Why do you think it’s different for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:11 AM
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A lot of them can’t. Lots of people hate their work, but keep doing it, and sex work involves all kinds of trauma and issues making things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:11 AM
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Gender roles stereotypes formed long before women could be relaxing lol. Femininity is passive because women didn’t have much choice. Online comeback of “feminine energy” bullshit is exhausting, but it’s not something I actually see much among educated, working women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:47 PM
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That sucks for them. Plenty of couples don’t work like that. I get the gender role pressure, but men should pick compatible partners. My husband and I split responsibilities, I can’t imagine just dumping everything on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:43 PM
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Do men love their wives less than their exes or casual hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:40 PM
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I wonder what the ratio is between men who are like that and men who just shoulder everything because they have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:39 PM
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Wouldn’t their partners also want not to be stressed all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:35 PM
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If we’re both adults, why does one of us have to carry the load for both?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:30 PM
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Many of them struggle with addiction, trauma from abuse, or mental health issues. It’s not exactly a job you can just walk away from.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:25 PM
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Different ratio and different demands. I doubt you were letting your customers fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:22 PM
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I’m against misandry, but I also see how sex work leads to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:18 PM
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They deal with men who buy sex and treat women like objects. They see married men cheating and they have much higher rates of sexual violence, it obviously shapes how they view men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:18 PM
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Not my thing. I’ve never needed to feel “feminine”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:09 PM
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Why is that confusing? They’ve seen some of the worst guys out there. Of course they hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:09 PM
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My husband and I met in our mid 20s, and we both had some relationship experience by then. I honestly love him more than I ever loved my previous partners. Growing up, getting some experience, and going to therapy helped me learn how to love better and be a better partner myself. My first boyfriend was in high school - it was sweet, naive, and cute, but nothing life-changing. He actually tried to reconnect recently, and I had zero interest in responding. He’s just part of my past, and that’s whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:07 PM
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No. I had a boyfriend in high school for about a year, and we broke up because I was leaving for college. We held hands, kissed, messed around a bit, but didn’t have sex. It was naive and kind of silly. I missed him at first, but college was busy and stressful, and I moved on. I met my husband after college, when I was 25. We were still young, but more experienced and a lot more mature than teenagers. I really enjoyed adult dating, date nights, good sex, and open communication. Dating as an adul…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:22 PM
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This is an extremely naive take. A person who wants more will pursue it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:13 PM
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What are you even talking about? About half of married couples don’t have a male breadwinner making over 60% of the income. Single men and women spend about the same. Married women usually handle most of the necessary family shopping, so yeah, they end up making more spending decisions. Men do have something to gain under the guise of traditionalism when women do all the chores and then also work. Women aren’t interested in this role for a good reason. I didn’t have student debt, but I helped pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:12 PM
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Good one! I’m not a fan of icing, so naked cakes hit the spot for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:43 PM
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If their desire for sexual release is higher, it does sho they have higher libido. You ignored parts of my original comment. There are studies showing that men think and desire sex more often than women do. Sex isn’t a bargain chip, but different libido levels do lead to different behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:42 PM
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Naked cakes are perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:43 PM
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We have to compare the frequency of masturbation between the sexes, porn use, and buying sex services. Men have higher rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:41 PM
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No, you will not stretch her by ripping. You’ll just rip her and that’s it, game over. You won’t be having any sex until she heals, and when she heals she still will be as tight as she is now if not tighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:40 PM
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Not really into gray hair on guys. Maybe it’ll change as I get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:25 PM
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If men need their workaround more than women do, men do have higher desire for sexual release.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:51 PM
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I’m a woman in my early 30s, and my husband and I have been together for seven years. For me, sex is something enjoyable to share with my partner. It’s an important part of a relationship, but it’s not a need. I see it kind of like romance or date nights. They’re fun, they help keep the relationship strong, but when I was single, I honestly didn’t really miss them. I don’t believe in “duty sex”; I think that’s a great way to kill your libido. That said, I don’t mind helping my husband out in oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:46 PM
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If we both work and bring the cash, we both should do the easy job of keeping the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:39 PM
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Not gonna lie, I’m glad my husband doesn’t have gray hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:35 PM
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I think there are studies showing that, on average, men think about sex more and want it more often than women. “On average” doesn’t mean every guy, but in a lot of couples, the man is more likely to want sex more frequently than his partner. I also think men being “thirstier” comes from a mix of biology and social factors. Sure, men tend to have higher libidos, but they also often have less emotional support and fewer close connections. A lot of men tie their self-worth to sexual success or bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:32 PM
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This is not the way at all. You’ll rip her, it’ll heal and it’ll be just more painful next time. The more pain you inflict on her, the more tense she will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:17 PM
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I’m married. Have no interest in AI androids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:45 AM
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By 2045 I’ll be in my early 50s, hopefully still married to my husband. Maybe we’ll even have an android helping out around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:25 AM
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Can you find the comments you find unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:42 AM
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Children are a part of family, and they have to be considerate of other family members. The older they get, the more responsibilities they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:41 AM
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What? I haven’t deleted any of my comments. You aren’t the first one to say that, I wonder if it’s a bot doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:41 AM
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If he’s old enough to eat whole family’s dinner, he’s old enough to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:07 AM
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I’m sure there are unreasonable comments, but do you have an issue with the whole idea of sharing food instead of gobbling it like a cave troll? I’m curious to see the batshit crazy comments. Can you post some?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:04 AM
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I don’t get why you think it’s repugnant that women are upset about this. When you live with other people and share food, you’re supposed to think about each other. If someone cooks a pie and you eat the whole thing, that’s extremely inconsiderate. Doing that regularly is fucking rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:22 AM
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Hope you’re feeling better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:11 AM
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You shouldn’t date long-term if that’s your attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:11 AM
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Surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:53 AM
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They probably wouldn’t be so angry if they weren’t the ones doing all the cooking. I’d be pissed too if I made a pie and my husband ate the whole thing without leaving me any. That’s just being inconsiderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:52 AM
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The best ones were always warm approaches. I met my husband at a friend’s birthday party. We chatted about the party, how we knew the birthday girl, and a bit about our hobbies. It was easy and fun. He asked for my number, and the next day he asked me out. That was it. The worst one was a guy who yelled that I had a nice ass and that he wanted to fuck me. He then followed me for three blocks while I was gripping my pepper spray.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:50 AM
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Yeah, I don’t get it. I get that it might be valuable for others, but nothing you’ve listed makes sense for me outside of actually dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:40 AM
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To be fair, I wouldn’t physical play games with strangers either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:39 AM
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To add to my previous comment, I honestly don’t really understand casual sex. If it’s just about physical release, I can take care of that myself. For me, sex is about connection, and I don’t see the point of connecting with someone I don’t want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:55 PM
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I prefer sex within a relationship. Casual sex isn’t something I’m into whether he wants to use his dick or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:52 PM
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You talk like you do have the preference or some experience with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:42 PM
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His early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:42 PM
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This is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:58 PM
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Men usually aren’t that picky with casual partners, so it’s not that surprising they’ll sleep with women they can’t picture a future with. Women do it too, but their standards tend to be higher, so the ratio’s probably different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:57 PM
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Honestly, a lot of dating mistakes aren’t really gendered. Both men and women can suck at communicating, can cheat, have crappy boundaries, or just not appreciate their partner. I’m guessing you want to hear about mistakes women tend to make more often than men, though. I’d say going after guys who aren’t emotionally available, letting anxiety mess with the relationship, not prioritizing sex in long-term relationships, and expecting a man to fully take care of them financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:54 PM
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8 inches might be a sweet spot for you, but for a lot of women it would be waaaay too big to handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:50 PM
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I told my coworker he should stop chasing a woman who had already said she wasn’t looking for a relationship. He ignored that, spent six more months pursuing her, then got mad she never put any efforts to date him and complained.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:23 PM
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Some people are just naturally charismatic. Dating comes easy to them, it barely feels like effort. They’re kind of outliers. I think most people have to figure it out through trial and error, and even then they never get that same natural ease. On the other end, not getting any dates at all or not being able to talk to the opposite sex is also an outlier. Most people fall somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:35 PM
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I don’t get women who think they need to be entertained, and I don’t get men who think they can stop putting in effort and still keep a relationship going.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:13 PM
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I live close to a college. I see all kinds of couples really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:10 PM
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Okay, I might have misread your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:09 PM
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Sounds like they just didn’t really want to be with you. It sucks, but it is what it is. There are women who reciprocate their partners’ efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:25 AM
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Therapy isn’t a magic fix, but when it comes to relationships, it can give you tools to communicate better and handle your emotions. You still have to actually use them. It’s not about someone just putting up with your friend. It’s about you actually learning the skills you’re missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:22 AM
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This. Most people I know don’t really have major dating problems. The singles I know are single by choice, I know a lot of couples who seem content enough, and while I do know a few people with messy dating lives or who struggle to get dates, they’re definitely the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:45 AM
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Shouldn’t it be obvious? Depression, cancer, some autoimmune diseases, all can lead to a low libido and negatively affect life expectancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:42 AM
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If you shove it in, you won’t stretch her, you’ll fucking rip her vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:19 AM
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You’re welcome to go join a tribe or start your own without any modern technology or industry. The rest of us will keep living in modern society. I’m happiest when my husband and I split the workload, including chores and cooking. I enjoy cooking, but doing it every day is exhausting. I do like my job and making a bank. If we both work, we both cook and do chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:14 AM
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I’m out of the dating market, so I prefer men not to hit on me. I don’t mind chatting, working together, being friends etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:09 AM
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I’m married. I have zero desire to be approached online or offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:10 AM
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To be fair, it was online.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:08 AM
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I’m in early 30s and still petite. The only times I was told my partner was a pedo it was from guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:15 PM
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When we met, we had some mutual friends, but I don’t think he was going after any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:14 PM
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Most people aren’t cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:12 PM
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I was more talking about situations where you ask someone out and get rejected, or she’s already taken and you’re just friends, coworkers, etc. I don’t think it’s on a woman for “leading a guy on” when he just chooses to ignore her rejection or her having a partner. Also, therapy can be expensive depending on the country, but even when people can afford it, some still just choose not to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:11 PM
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I might be going against the grain, but if a woman complains about all men being “shitty” while not meeting her own standards, she isn’t being honest with herself. High standards are fine if you’re cool being single, but if you’re always complaining, maybe it’s worth being a bit more realistic and working on yourself too. Another thing is hypocrisy. I don’t get why some women cling to patriarchal standards for men while enjoying all the freedoms of modern life. Or how someone can sleep around th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:39 PM
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This is not a fix for most couples, but some people are just kinky this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:32 PM
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A lot of people never grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:26 PM
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5’11 isn’t even average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:12 PM
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They have to grow up. So do men generalizing women in a similar way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:09 PM
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Do you really not see average height guys dating? I think I see teens and college-aged couples like that pretty often.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:03 PM
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He should have chosen a nice lady when he still had value!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:00 PM
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They can share a similar outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:07 PM
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If he stalked my social medias, he’d see I’ve got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:07 PM
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I have a feeling that if the roles were flipped, you’d say that after wasting his prime years, he’s ready to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:02 PM
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Okay, both options are just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:40 PM
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Why would he even want to reconnect with me? We haven’t talked in ages. We’re basically strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:33 PM
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Statistics is great, but it doesn’t explain your original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:10 PM
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You’re changing the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:05 PM
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After an unsuccessful attempt to reach out through Instagram, my high school ex somehow got my number and tried to call me. I haven’t seen or talked to him in over 15 years, I’ve been married for 5 years, and I have zero interest in reconnecting. I am kind of curious why he suddenly seems so desperate though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:46 PM
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Can you give some examples? It seems both genders are complaining about the other not being active or mature enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:57 PM
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I think there was a study showing no such connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:55 PM
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Of course. I don’t think I can really switch empathy off in the first place, and it isn’t gendered. There’s always some part of me trying to read how someone’s feeling. And the closer I am to a person, the more I think about their well-being, their motivations, how they’re doing, and why they feel the way they do. I think what you’re really asking about is sympathy, though. And yeah, I feel sympathy for men too. Men and women deal with a lot of the same issues, and the world’s been a mess for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:53 PM
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I think they’re talking about sexual concordance. Physical arousal and mental arousal are two different things, and they’re separated much more for women than for men. A woman might want sex, but don’t get wet and physically aroused, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:47 PM
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I think guys should stop chasing women who’ve already said no. Hanging around as a “friend” when you’re really just waiting for a chance and already were rejected is pathetic. Thinking the gym alone will fix everything. Dodging therapy and letting their issues wreck their relationships. Dating women with totally different values and then getting butthurt when it backfires. Going after women who are already taken. Treating relationships like they’re only about access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:49 AM
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If it’s a generational thing, it probably isn’t just about feminism. Dating issues are even more common in some Asian countries, and they’re still more traditional. And let’s be real, stated values don’t equal lived behavior. Someone can preach equality while tolerating a garbage partner or being garbage themselves. Kids learn from what they see, not what people claim to believe. Also, I’m not surprised boomers made a poor job raising kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:24 AM
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There are enough happily married women. Do you think they all have shitty husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:55 AM
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Are we gonna pretend that boys don’t get exposed to all sorts of fucked up stuff? Or that fathers or a lack of them have an influence too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:54 AM
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This, but also sometimes there’s no time to poop or eat without rushing. People don’t always have time for fun times. I imagine it’s even harder with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:12 AM
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Can you explain how it is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:31 PM
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You have to go to the doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:17 PM
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If you think of sex as something to get through in 20 minutes, then sure. But if you see it as a pleasurable experience with your partner, it naturally takes more time and it requires more than just time itself. It’s like the difference between swallowing a vitamin and enjoying a fruit salad. Sometimes I’m so busy I barely have time for basic necessities, let alone sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:15 PM
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That’s kinda sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:12 PM
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She brought the receipts. The court has to approve her videos. I really don’t understand why this is even considered defamation. If you can prove your partner cheated, calling them out publicly shouldn’t be against the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:10 PM
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I didn’t really follow this case while it was happening, so I can’t say much about it now. There was another defamation case in China. A woman was fined for calling out her cheating husband and ordered to post a public apology every day. She complied by apologizing daily while also re-telling the entire cheating story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:32 PM
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Is lying somehow better?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:28 PM
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Wrong comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:53 PM
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Not for women, but for social media. They’re editing everything, even stills from movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:53 PM
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Not from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:49 PM
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Sour grape thing, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:46 PM
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Why not just pay for sex then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:40 PM
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Do you prefer to abstain?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:34 PM
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Size can make things better or worse, but without the skill and attention any dick is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:33 PM
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Aren’t you the guy who complained that sugar babies rejected you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:30 PM
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No one is born with the experience, and I’ve never implied it. You get experience by trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:32 PM
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You haven’t answered mine. How can you pump and dump when you aren’t getting any dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:53 PM
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Spaces like this attract people who can tolerate toxicity and dish out some themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:46 AM
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My point was that you can’t pump and dump unless you actually get a date first, but that doesn’t seem to be getting through.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:43 AM
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Okay, so you don’t have any practical knowledge here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:59 AM
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When was the last time you went on a date? Did it lead to “pump and dump”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:29 AM
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and date each other!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:23 AM
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Periods, pregnancy, giving birth, recovering from it. Having a penis seems much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:18 AM
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Dating isn’t compulsory, and plenty of men have options. If you choose to stay with someone who treats you like crap, that’s your call.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:15 AM
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To pump and dump you have to get a date first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:11 AM
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Men have agency. No one’s forcing them into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:54 PM
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Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:51 PM
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In some cases, yeah, but dating is always a gamble. You can’t really avoid risk unless you just opt out completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:51 PM
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Half the guys here are complaining they can’t get anything at all. Talking about pumping and dumping is kinda funny when they’ve got a long track record of no dates or matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:49 PM
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You talked to me under the other post. I don’t have an alt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:45 PM
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Here we go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:45 PM
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It doesn’t answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:45 PM
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It’s not that rare. Most people haven’t been cheated on or abused. Yeah, breakups happen, but a lot of folks stay cool with their exes. Drama isn’t the norm, it’s just what you hear about the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:44 PM
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How can you pump and dump when you can’t get a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:38 PM
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Are there no women with decent exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:35 PM
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Men hate hearing this point themselves. Somehow “choose better” falls flat when they’re complaining about dead bedrooms, cheating, or unsupportive partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:35 PM
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Are there no women with decent exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:17 PM
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I didn’t delete my comment. If people were honest, they ghost to avoid the confrontation. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:13 PM
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Maybe create safe spaces for you and your buddies to talk about hobbies and stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:12 PM
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You’re seeking content to feel bad about and validate your beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:56 PM
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I call this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:47 PM
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Honestly, it’d be nice if people were more honest. Is that gonna happen? Probably not. You can’t control an entire gender, but you can choose to stick to your own morals and values. I don’t mind giving feedback or advice if someone seems open to it, but it’s out of goodwill, not obligation. The second a guy gives me reason to think he won’t take it well, I’m done. And honestly, there are a lot of guys like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:47 PM
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It isn’t different - and it’s something lots and lots of men are actively doing. Most guys seeing casual aren’t exactly honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:39 PM
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Some people never grow up. Social medias have raised generations of men and women with emotional maturity of a toddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:38 PM
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Don’t date infantile or emotionally immature people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:34 PM
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I mean whatever reason you give, someone will get offended. It’s a way to argue their way into relationship/sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:33 PM
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No sex > shitty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:33 PM
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Not worth shitty sex in my opinion. They have very different priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:32 PM
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So doomed if you do, doomed if you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:38 PM
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Some couples have no chemistry, and it’s beyond me why women would intentionally stick themselves with men they aren’t into.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:10 PM
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In other words, if a woman didn’t tell you it’s your height, you might she thought better of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:08 PM
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Some guys here are adamant about knowing the reason for rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:48 PM
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Generic “not interested” leaves less room for arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:45 PM
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It’s basically the result of an “I don’t owe you anything” attitude, and it happens with both men and women. No one’s fully honest, and nobody wants to be the one trying harder. It’s also enough to get a few bad experiences to stop giving this kind of feedback, and rejecting people can lead to a bunch of it. A few bad experiences are enough to make people stop giving that kind of feedback, and rejecting someone can bring a lot of that on Just a few examples, I’ve had or seen myself. “You’re too …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:28 PM
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*by his appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:07 AM
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My high school ex is trying to reconnect years later. Would you even reply? I’m a little curious, but I wouldn’t want my husband doing the same if the roles were reversed. I’ve blocked the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:05 AM
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His problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:02 AM
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Calling out leftist guys for saying women shouldn’t trust them, and then saying people shouldn’t blindly trust anyone anyway, feels kind of pointless to me. Unless leftist guys are actually claiming they’re more trustworthy, which I’m not sure they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:57 AM
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So just because she’s not into him, he should hate all women? Why not just break up and find someone who’s actually into him while working on himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:55 AM
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No reason to be a pick me if it’s not doing you any favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:54 AM
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Not triggered, was curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:48 AM
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How does it lead to misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:43 AM
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Odd gotcha about liberal men, especially after your last comment. Was there a need to talk specifically about liberal guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:42 AM
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Your point is moot then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:36 AM
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If he knows the truth and isn’t being fooled, what’s left to cause misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:35 AM
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You should judge people, not groups. You can’t just blindly trust every liberal or conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:33 AM
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In-group and out-group bias aren’t surprising if people generally have better experiences with women. Can’t speak for men, but as a woman I have much better experience with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:31 AM
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You can love sex and be monogamous. Fantasies are fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:54 AM
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I hate seeing people kill living beings just for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:52 AM
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A reasonable expectation is something you and your partner talk through and set together. For some couples, once a week is more than enough, while others would be miserable with anything less than once a day. Issues usually come up when there’s a big gap in libido and it’s hard to find a middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:52 AM
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And it doesn’t affect their attraction to their partners? Or is it the attitude “pussy is a pussy”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:49 AM
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It gives you a more productive way to deal with it, instead of buying into all the crap online. A lot of these guys aren’t even ugly. For some looks aren’t necessarily the issue, or at least not the main one. I’ve seen who my friends go out with - a lot of them are close to average for their age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:48 AM
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She managed to ruin good sex for both of them. Forcing yourself to have sex with someone you don’t want sounds insane to me. Yeah, libidos go up and down and nobody’s horny 24/7. But not wanting your partner at all is a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:27 PM
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If you can’t get dates, it’s because you’re not attractive enough, you don’t approach women, or your social skills suck. If you can’t keep a relationship, that’s a different problem. Therapy can help in both situations, but for different reasons. Not every struggling guy needs years of therapy, but plenty of them would benefit from getting help. That doesn’t mean they have to stop trying to date while they fix their issues. I know a guy in his 30s who’s desperate to get married, but he’s a mess.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:33 PM
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Average is good. I’ve never been with a guy over 6.5”, and 6.5” has to be very careful or I end up in pain. We have a few dildos and one is completely unusable because of its girth. I can fit it in, but it’s a painful experience. I have no idea how size queens are doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:12 PM
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Would men be okay with having shitty sex long-term? Teeth all over your dick during a blowjob, star fishing during sex, absolutely silent or some ridiculous moans. However hot a woman is, a guy would get fed up with bad sex eventually. Bad sex will lead to a loss of any attraction you have for this person and it isn’t gendered. This post is read as a pure excuse for being a bad lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:06 PM
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Some men are nice to look at and some guys are good people. Same thing with women. I like people, not their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:59 PM
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Testosterone won’t solve their fucked up childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:56 PM
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No, people in general are pain in the ass, and even having one boyfriend takes time and energy. I’d go for two boyfriends if it wasn’t so time consuming or they were just really into me and catering to my needs more than one guy can justifying the hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:51 AM
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If people were ideal and not pain in the ass to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:36 AM
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I think it should be an option, but it’s also not something critical to push for. We have other issues to deal with. I’m not interested in pursuing it in real life btw, I think dating two people is just too much hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:28 AM
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Being loved and treasured by two people, having two loved ones, having more helping hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:05 AM
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Only if they’re bi or low libido. I can’t take high libido of two guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:48 AM
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Social medias of 2010 and now are two different monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:41 AM
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Social medias were a mistake, but I don’t think that men and women ever really “loved” each other as genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:35 AM
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If jealousy wasn’t an issue, I’d prefer to have a husband and a wife. Or two bi husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:31 AM
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Sexism was always there. All the jokes and complaints about hating your wife, men being brutes, terrible stories of domestic abuse. It just used to be more concealed and far more tolerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:27 AM
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A lot of gender distrust is historical imv. Social medias made it much worse, but they had a fertile ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 11:26 PM
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Most people can’t really argue with ideas - they argue to reinstate their own views, that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 11:25 PM
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Men are allowed to be depressed, but not dating someone because they can’t really be a good partner right now is also totally allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:21 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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