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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Cake and eat it too? im wrong youre right	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 04:54 PM
1	If sex is water, women have to survive on the ocean, men in the desert. because it doesnt. hes making women look bad by saying our standards are too high as if were spoiled and refuse to drink fancy water in a bottle factory. But men are apparently the ones suffering.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 04:33 PM
-3	If sex is water, women have to survive on the ocean, men in the desert. Very poor example. The amount of good, attractive guys are tiny compared to what men find attractive. Women on average are starving in the desert probably more so than guys who will find anything with a pulse as attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 07:22 PM
2	Cake and eat it too? it is a slap in the face though. There shouldnt be any "automatic" paternal test, unless the man has reasonable evidence for cheating. proposing that paternal test should be the default is making women look like the less moral gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 07:20 PM
1	Cake and eat it too? no clue what you mean. if the woman takes a pay cut for the husband for the sake of the kids, he should pay extra if something goes wrong. doesnt matter what the CoL or wage stag is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 07:16 PM
4	Cake and eat it too? Except that a woman is giving up years of progress in her career to raise the kids. Even taking a few years off work is 6 figures worth of lost income. Alimony is insurance to protect the kids and for the woman who put herself at risk for the husband.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 02:18 AM
8	Cake and eat it too? What woman wouldnt be angry at a husband doing a paternity test on the child? Its an unwarranted slap in the face by saying I don't trust that you've been faithful. If that's men's approach or perspective in a marriage, just don't date or marry at all if you can't accept the risks. Men who demand paternity tests when the woman hasn't shown any hint of infidelity are just insecure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 02:15 AM
–	Hypergamy has made mostly made dating apps a tool for men to sleep with women they wouldn't date and women to chase after men out of their league who have no interest in anything serious most reasonable comment here	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 08:33 PM
–	Hypergamy has made mostly made dating apps a tool for men to sleep with women they wouldn't date and women to chase after men out of their league who have no interest in anything serious Dating up makes women more valuable. Men can't. Men are not on the same level.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 08:33 PM
–	Hypergamy has made mostly made dating apps a tool for men to sleep with women they wouldn't date and women to chase after men out of their league who have no interest in anything serious No my comment is as real as it gets. If avg men aren't wanted, they're less valuable. Not hard to understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 08:32 PM
–	Hypergamy has made mostly made dating apps a tool for men to sleep with women they wouldn't date and women to chase after men out of their league who have no interest in anything serious In what way? In relationships/dating. Youre on PPD dude. I'll say it again: avg women don't want avg men. Demand drops, value lowers. Those objective stats dont matter if these men still aren't being picked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 08:31 PM
–	Hypergamy has made mostly made dating apps a tool for men to sleep with women they wouldn't date and women to chase after men out of their league who have no interest in anything serious An average man isn't on the same level as the average woman. Men on this sub like OP need to stop thinking that the sexes are fair value, especially online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 09:09 AM
2	Women indulge in hyper-gamy even in today's age. They say so explicitly No, the solution was to become good enough to be worth being chosen as a partner, not to give sympathy because it didn't work out. It seems like you just want to hear what you want to hear rather than what would actually help you. But keep blaming hypergamy rather than working on yourselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 08:24 PM
1	Women indulge in hyper-gamy even in today's age. They say so explicitly Just giving possible reasons to explain why he wasn't successful when in most cases, it should have worked. Sorry if you don't like getting answers or solutions to your problem for free.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 08:10 PM
0	Women indulge in hyper-gamy even in today's age. They say so explicitly It's probably because you're not good enough or you weren't as close as you thought you were, or there weren't enough single people around. I don't know your age but everyone's already paired up by 30s, so it's no surprise that the boat has already sailed and left you behind even if you try to make up for lost time. . Otherwise your female mutual friend would have set you up with someone. Women love playing matchmaker; and if a girl wants a BF and asks her friend if she can set her up with a goo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 07:26 PM
0	Women indulge in hyper-gamy even in today's age. They say so explicitly Now you can argue and state that peronality matters more but how and where do you dislay your oh so ephemeral personality. men who have decent social circles will still have a chance because a woman might chose them by seeing who they are, bless them. Men who don't have that? They will need to max career or attractiveness and even then wll only get to be with the most hypergamous of women. If you're a guy in his mid 20s to late 30s with no social circle, you messed up and that's not women's faul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 06:47 PM
1	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. I'm curious to know where you got the idea that "I can't admit this harsh reality?" When I literally acknowledge it all the time. Like you don't know anything about me, You made the claim that patriarchy is all in my head. "No one is 'teaching' anything" according to you. And I'm arguing that patriarchy, masculine toxicity are very much real. But since you don't acknowledge any of it and seem to treat it as a myth rather than a reality, then I can only assume that you are too deep in RP that you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 11:21 AM
1	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. I think the obvious solution is bringing back common sense, which is socialize boys like men instead of women because when l observe male environments in real-life, the guys who struggle socializing with other men are usually because they put too much emotions towards it, like getting upset when guys give them shit for fun Yes I notice that too when men get overly upset when they're the butt of the joke among many other things. It's why I say toxic masculinity is the problem. Stoicism, bottling …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 10:02 AM
1	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. The reason why you don't notice it is because it has been subtle until recently when mainstream media has pushed RP ideas to more younger men. But know that the patriarchy exists and has always existed, and well studied in peer-reviewed academia. But regardless, I find it disingenuous of you to claim that you've never seen patriarchy being taught while subscribing to RP ideologies which goes hand in hand with toxic masculinity principles. When you see middle schoolers support Tate or see college…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 09:36 AM
2	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. It doesnt matter the forms of communication or whatever fancy terms you call it. Male-male friendships are on average less intimate than female-female because of social norms caused by toxic masculinity. Men cannot open up to male friends as easily as they can with a female friend. FWIW, the gay and bi-men that I know are far from lonely compared to the supposed straight men that this sub likes to discuss about. They're more close to friends and family and have better relationships because they'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 07:31 AM
1	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. i think you are sorely mistaken. If men learned to be more emotionally vulnerable, they simply would be more likely to be less lonely. the reason why men are so lonely, despite having friends/family, is that they cannot connect well enough to other men due to the patriarchy. Men have been taught by the patriarchy to be hyper competitive in all forms, ego, the number of woman they can pull into bed, and their paycheck. I'd even go on to say that most male-male friendships are more shallow than wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 04:24 AM