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I was already married. I have no interest in ever being married again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 03:01 PM
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No, I don't think it means you're unattractive. I'm 35. I get looks and compliments a lot. I get asked out regularly. It happens just as often as it did in my early 20's. I don't appreciate male attention so I wear really baggy clothes, very minimal make up, and my hair in a messy bun most days. I also dyed my hair back to it's natural color and let my greys grow in (it's a single white streak in the front of nearly black hair). Nothing stops it. I wore a pretty sundress yesterday and got so man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:56 AM
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AMEN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:17 PM
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I'm pro snoop! Anytime I've felt the need to look I've been right. I also leave my phone unlocked and any person I'm involved with is welcome to access my phone if they were to ever feel the need to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:46 PM
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Love this piece! The message is very strong, with her lifting her shirt, her eyes are covered, her breasts are exposed, she is vulnerable. the message is so clear literally written on her shirt,what so many of us are blinded to ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:59 PM
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I tried OLD once and I received A LOT of messages asking if I was real. Some of the guys would message me horrible things if i didn't reply quickly enough. One guy found my facebook profile and sent a message being like "so you are real. But you can't be that great if you're on tinder. Whore." Like what the fuckkk?!? I deleted my account that day and I will never use OLD again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:19 PM
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Absolutely horrible. I'm so sorry for everything you've been through, and I'm sad to say I've been there myself. During the course of my relationship, I lost touch with my friends and my family had never really been there. I know first hand how difficult it is when you're completely alone and how easy it is to slip. What you need to do is go HARD on the self love. Delve into your hobbies. Build a support network of other women (NO MEN) and heal yourself. You need to discover your worth. Eat well…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:59 PM
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Ended things this morning 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:59 PM
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Thank you! I don't have a good support network. No family. He doesn't interact with the children aside from playing with them. All childcare is 100% my responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:59 PM
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I ended things this morning. He said hes moving out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:57 PM
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Eww fuck no!!! Divorce!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:48 AM
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I'm so sorry for hijacking your post with my bs! I just think my experience is a huge what not to do and I'm so committed to protecting younger women and girls so the7 don't fall victim to this shit. We deserve better. My daughters deserve better. I will fight tooth and nail against these outdated beliefs. Hold your head high. You ARE a queen. Your 20's are going to be amazing girl, just do you and fucking rock it without a single apology. You're amazing! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:26 AM
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Girl I'm telling you I'm weighing the pros and cons and it ain't looking good for him! It is just one thing after another. I probably need to make a post for my sisters to lift me up and give me the final boost of confidence I need. This dude worked out of town and I took care of everything alone. And it was fucking EASY. Now he's back and it's so much work. He literally throws his garbage on the ground instead of putting it in the garbage can. My 1 year old doesn't do that. This is insane. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:07 AM
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My friends Mom convinced her to do this when she was 18. The pictures are stunning! I only wish I had the foresight to do that before kids! I've had 4 of them now, and I can barely remember what I used to look like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:58 AM
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LMFAO omg 😂 and he is representing himself? This is comedy GOLD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:55 AM
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Wow sorry for the rant. 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:48 AM
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You're amazing 😍 when a woman discovers her self worth it is the most beautiful thing! I only wish that I had figured it out earlier. I'm 35 now and just finally finding this sub and getting the reality check I need to be me. I did the whole marriage thing, I did the kid thing, but I've been held down and held back my entire life. I'm so fucking done with it. I always did well in school, but wasn't allowed to pursue higher education. I wasn't allowed to have opinions that differed from the men i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:47 AM
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Girl...I relate to this with every fiber of my being. I dealt with this exact situation. I asked and asked for the gutters to be cleaned. Leaking in the basement. Finally told him I hired my (female) friend to do it and he SNAPPED. Finally did it and threw the gunk all over the lawn for me to clean up. I feel myself reaching the breaking point you speak of. I feeeeeeeel it. I'm gonna lose my shit! I'm so glad he is your ex. I'm so done with doing adulting for 2. I've got enough to deal with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:29 AM
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That's what I've been asking myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:15 AM
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I felt this in my soulllllll I've been on the fence about leaving my partner because of this exact shit. I started doing less and he had the audacity to tell me I'm lazy and pushing my responsibilities on to him. What responsibilities you might ask? Expecting him to get our baby away from the stove (I was in another room and he said "the baby is playing with the stove. Could start a fire" expecting me to come running. Another one was when he suggested ordering some food and I told him he should …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:19 PM
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Omg it happened to me one time. I was sleeping on the couch just dozing away and accidentally farted and woke myself up. I never fart in front of people so I was just like "oops" and everyone was laughing at me so hard. I was mortified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:57 PM
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It is ALWAYS right. Anytime I've doubted it I've regretted it. I trust myself now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:00 PM
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Girl has her head on straight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:18 PM
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I literally gagged.🤢 Excuse me fucking what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:15 PM
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GOOD LORD 😦 My phone won't allow me to see for some reason, but.. Fuck he sucks. If someone killed my houseplants I would die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 01:53 AM
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Wtf did I just read? Report this motherfucker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:06 PM
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I'm getting chat requests from the MGTOW crowd now. Get a life boys I'm not engaging with any of you scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 04:01 PM
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Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:20 PM
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I didn't even bother to look, just replied and blocked. What a winner! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:07 PM
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Oops I tried to hide his name but I forgot part apparently. Let me know if I need to delete this and I will!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:01 PM
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Very interesting article! I had often wondered why male babies seemed to get sicker than female babies, and more often as well. I had always figured it was lifestyle choices that led to men statistically dying younger than women, but couldn't understand this phenomenon among infants until now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 04:37 AM
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Good for you! Women sticking together! My old bf...I caught him messaging a girl doing a snoop lol. I found her on facebook and messaged her. We got to talking, I explained the situation, and she ended up coming over for drinks. We took a bunch of fun pictures and posted them on Facebook. We got along so well we actually barely talked about him at all! He was PISSED and blocked us both. We are still great friends today and it's been years! Thank god for that cheating pos for bringing her into my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:11 PM
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Goddam ain't this the truth! The vast majority of men are completely useless. Can't cook for themselves, don't care to clean or maintain a safe hygienic environment, barely maintain hygiene on their own selves, won't put away laundry, slack on taking proper care of their pets if they have any. Don't pay child support if they have kids, and are very uninvolved in child rearing (will only play. No discipline. No baths. No diaper changes. No homework help. Etc) Hell I've even met guys who need thei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:04 AM
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No thanks mr guilt trip. NEXT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 11:43 PM
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I've honestly been really lucky in that regard. I only lived with roommates for a few months in my early 20's and that was too much for me. I decided in would never have roommates again at 22 and I'm 35 now. My only bad experience was coming home (pretty drunk) one time to find a couple of random guys I didn't know sleeping in my bed. I flipped out (being young and drunk...and ridiculously cocky) and physically kicked them out of my bed calling them names. That could've been a dangerous situatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 12:28 AM
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This is what we do with my teenaged daughters hair! She goes between icy pink, platinum blonde, and super light purple. I think it looks so fun! My hair is way too dark and could never handle the bleaching process but I love the way it looks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:19 AM
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My friend was recently diagnosed with HIV. I am absolutely terrified of casual sex and I will never partake in it again. People think it will never happen to them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 06:15 PM
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You focus on yourself and level up! Honestly it doesn't sound like now is a good time for a relationship for you. Learning how to be strong and happy and fulfilled alone is imperative to knowing your worth and not falling back in with another LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:47 PM
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Oh girl he tried to portray himself as this victim forced into this marriage and how he wanted to be with me for the night soooo bad. Absolutely pathetic. I wonder how many other girls he did that to. Oof. I hope his wife found out about his philandering ways and left him. I hope he didn't get any from anyone. He made a lot of money and was very good looking, but absolutely pathetic. Why waste people's time if you know you want a certain race? Just date within that if that's your end game. So we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:09 AM
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Haha amazing!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:50 AM
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Damn rights girl! I met a guy who I thought was really cool but we were a different race/religion too. I found out he had a gf before who was Italian ancestry and his family was very disapproving, and it ended their relationship because although he loved her deeply, he wanted to get married and have kids and he couldn't let his family down. I hung out with him a couple more times in a group setting as just friends but cut things off after that. He ended up getting married to a beautiful Lebanese…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:46 AM
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Oooh thank you for the link! I'm really into it and teaching my daughters as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:31 AM
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This is literally what I've been studying the past year. Has really inspired me to step into my own power. Amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:15 AM
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You've become the victim of a narcisstic smear campaign. You're doing the right thing shutting down social media. Block any and all communication with him, his friends, family, and mutual acquaintances. These games are awful and the only way to win is to not play. If you're feeling particularly depressed and it sounds to me like you're definitely suffering with social anxiety, don't be afraid to reach out for professional help. Taking time for yourself to heal is very important. Rediscover yours…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:05 PM
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Girl this happened to me. The most giant mess maker. I would leave it sometimes and one time when he was drunk he was like "oh no. I see the mess. I just assume you must be to tired to take care of it." Divorced that fuck years later. At least our kids help with chores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:30 AM
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What man anywhere does more than an hour of unpaid labor per day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:58 AM
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