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Ha, funnily enough I was in a similar situation. Virgin till I was 24, my first real work a girl got very interested in me and she was very straight about it, it all happened without effort. Then something clicked inside me that I REFUSED to get back to the state I was before, so I started to use Tinder like there was no tomorrow. Banged two dozen times and realised sex was kinda overrated, what I wanted was a relationship. Since then, I have sex now and then, but what I mostly look for is someo…
/r/seduction29/05/20 07:53 PM
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I was in a similar situation and I'd say you need to start building a legacy. I never really had something other than looks and a little wit to go along, but after building independence I had something solid to my value. "I made this". Work on something you can be proud of and your self-esteem will rise because of it.
/r/seduction30/04/20 02:34 AM
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You can break the cycle by moving your focus to something else. Most guys stay needy because for them sex is the most gratifying experience they can imagine. Meanwhile, they don't grow as a person, financially and emotionally. Once you start focusing on other things and start growing as a person, you start to add value to yourself, which in turn gets women's attention. The hard part is breaking the cycle and start focusing on yourself instead of acceptance of others.
/r/seduction21/04/20 05:40 PM
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Todd gives really nice tips, but watching him in action is kinda cringe. His laugh sounds really forced and fake during interactions.
/r/seduction29/03/20 09:12 PM
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Like any addiction, it is a habit. Pay attention to where you are, what you're doing and you were thinking right before the desire comes. That way you'll identify what triggers your masturbation. For me it was sitting in front of the computer. Then, you need to try and rewrite the habit. When you feel the trigger, immediately do something else. Over time, the old masturbation trigger will become an ___ trigger. Read the book The Power of Habit, it will help with that and much more.
/r/seduction29/03/20 07:54 PM
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You should think of women not as an end goal, but as a consequence of increasing your value. Start working out, focus on your passions, increase your financial power. You'll notice that when you increase your perceived value by not focusing on women, but what is really important, yourself, things will get easier. You see all the time athletic, hot, rich, interesting guys getting the girls, I highly doubt all of them studied seduction. What they have in common is they have value. Value brings mon…
/r/seduction29/03/20 07:02 PM
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I'd say, having depression in the past, that you're not ready for a relationship and it will only be frustrating. You should first focus on yourself, learn to be more positive, start being more active and feeling pride of yourself. When you learn to love yourself and see your own value, you can start looking outwards.
/r/seduction29/03/20 06:48 PM
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Ahh, so you're selling a product. That's why you're so..."passionate" about it. Yeah, you can make some desperate guy believe he can get the women of his dreams with your in-depth guide, but the reality is you have to have something of value to become attractive. Game will only help later. In your case, since you told me you had jack shit, you probably were a good looking dude, and that made it easier to become popular and develop social skills, hence your success with women. Now, if you are ugl…
/r/seduction26/03/20 08:28 PM
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Exactly! You need to be attractive in the first place for something to happen. Where the attraction comes from depends, but that is essential. That's why I said in my original post that first you need to have something of value before trying to focus on seduction, otherwise it won't work. But geese wouldn't want that, since now I know that is actually where his income comes from, teaching ugly dudes game. Thought something was wrong with the way he was reacting.
/r/seduction26/03/20 08:18 PM
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Agreed, although I have seen pretty women with ugly guys, then the attraction is for something other than physical. Geese here doesn't seem to grasp this. You need to have value to get women, game won't work without it.
/r/seduction26/03/20 08:07 PM
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I'm not even interested in that kind of attention. I mean, look at the type I got following me now...
/r/seduction26/03/20 07:57 PM
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With women? I'd like to consider that I do, but not to the level I want. But I'm far from having a problem getting them. I simply don't know all the steps yet. That's why I come here. Still, wouldn't be focusing on seduction if I didn't have anything else going on in my life. Building a good life is more important.
/r/seduction26/03/20 07:54 PM
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Yeah, you are searching my post history, sending huge messages and is very chill about all this. Gotcha haha
/r/seduction26/03/20 07:49 PM
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lmao you're really mad
/r/seduction26/03/20 07:45 PM
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Wow, that's an amount of anger I wasn't expecting. I think I wasn't clear enough that I'm NOT having a problem with women, I have my contacts, but like everything in life, I always want to get better. That's why I'm around here. And I got my success with women by focusing on my physical health, my financial independence, and my social skills because I knew that lacking those would not get me the things I wanted: freedom, pride, power, and women. ​ What I tried to tell in the first message is tha…
/r/seduction26/03/20 07:43 PM
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I'd like you to show an ugly guy, with terrible social skills and no financial power that is getting the women he desires. I know what is attractive and I focus on that, and it works. Being athletic, having financial security and knowing how to hold a conversation all come from focusing on developing yourself, and knowing you can be better than what you are. And as a result, you become attractive.
/r/seduction26/03/20 07:08 PM
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That's absurd, you can't believe you are awesome without something to back it up. If you don't have an attractive body, nor social or financial power, you are not going to attract women. Confidence doesn't come from self-esteem, it comes from the pride in your abilities. This is how you build what they call here "Inner game".Of course, you have to create a positive attitude, but you need to have value. ugly guys that aren't rich nor popular don't get women. It doesn't matter if he thinks he is t…
/r/seduction26/03/20 06:58 PM
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The one question that comes to mind reading this is that if a guy is having a hard time with one girl, how do you expect him to find 10 others to seduce? To be honest, I think you shouldn't go after women before you have some proud in yourself, the building block of confidence. If you have nothing going on in your life, no plan to become more physically or financially or academically apt, you shouldn't focus on women until you have something to be proud of.
/r/seduction26/03/20 06:13 PM
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