Leninasince1986 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	What does the community think of age flairs?	DISCUSSION	Leninasince1986	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/21 01:04 PM

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21	Are beauty pageants empowering or are they a pick-me tournament? In the recent Gail Dines ep on the podcast they talk about the difference between female liberation and empowerment. In my opinion beauty pageants are regressive and hinder liberation, but they can be empowering for the particular women who participate, even if not for women as a whole. A woman that competes in this, that is good looking and charismatic, if she’s disciplined and savvy can build a successful career in media and it can be empowering for her. Likewise, it can also give her upward m…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/21 02:21 PM
12	Can't even shop in peace I don’t remember exactly but something like FUCK OFF! Or GET THE FUCK AWAY!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/21 12:53 PM
3	Bare Minimum vs High Value I think the distinction between bare minimum and high value is of course very important but the most important test is if he’s acting high value to get what he wants from you. Some men may know that the entry price is high so they do hv things to gain your trust. The true test of high value is (1) what he does consistently in time and (2) what he does even when he’s upset at you or already has you. What I’m saying is: decent, thoughtful, respectful adoring behavior in the beginning (first year?)…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/21 01:08 AM
37	Can't even shop in peace I did this once. A man once catcalled me but straight to my face as he walked in the opposite direction of me in the sidewalk. Like he said someshit to me as he was walking right next to me and kinda leaned in towards me to whisper some nasty shit. I was in a bad mood already and (he was about 4 inches shorter than me) I just turned and SCREAMED into his face like a banshee! It was wild! Idk what overcame me but I remember the scrote paralyzed in fear and his arms stiff next to his body like wtf…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/21 01:02 AM
104	It's 2021 why is it still on women mostly to take birth control? 79% of men think it should be a "shared responsibility" its msyogynisyic that we still have to carry the burden as women The problem is we shouldn’t trust men to be on birth control ever. The solution is for women to have less systemic forms of birth control, and maybe not tell the guy you’re on it so he gets his BC implant or whatever and you have yours as a back up. Personally I would never ever trust a man that’s he’s on birth control. A lot of sickos won’t even want to have a baby with you, they’ll just want to knock you up to make you go through an abortion. It’s abuse all the way down. Never ever put your bi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/21 11:19 PM
267	"Exclusive" is not a relationship status. You are either in a committed relationship or single I am 35 and I expect a man to ask me to be his girlfriend. We don’t assume exclusivity or even use this word. He asks, I agree, that’s our anniversary. Idc if to some the words boyfriend and girlfriend sound juvenile, I think it’s respectable and a concept everyone understands. Imagine going to a social work function, introducing your boss to your significant other, are you gonna say “Hey Boss, this is Lenina, we are exclusive”. Get outta here with that nonsense. Everyone from middle schoolers t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/21 01:17 PM
3	Bare Minimum vs High Value I would say a lot of these things could be signs of love bombing so watch out for that. Also waiting and paying for your Uber is bare minimum to me? If for whatever reason he can’t take you home himself, it’s the equivalent of him spending his own gas and driving you. I understand where you’re coming from but to me a lot of these are bare minimum. Others are just like someone else said making assumptions of time and money, for example the guy that fixed the flooded basement. That’s great of him,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/21 12:04 PM