Lennvor Archive

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1	I'm never going to break my misogyny I haven't online dated in forever, it seems I used to have thought-out opinions about openers but I'm not really in that space anymore so I'm not sure I can give your question a useful answer. One thing I'll note is that my comment was explaining why the specific openers listed might put people off, and the "give something of myself" line was mentioned in that context: those openers were asking people to tell the questioner something about themselves, but why would they do that? This doesn't mea…	/r/ExRedPill	07/01/23 11:40 AM
2	Giant Heads Calories aren't the only thing metabolism needs. Those calories need to be burned, and they're burned using... ? (hint: it's a thing born babies get on their own and unborn fetuses do not. Getting it is traditionally one of the first thing a baby does on birth, and an interruption of the supply is one of the big things that can go wrong during said birth)	/r/TheRedPill	24/11/19 02:20 PM
5	Redpill since HS. Stopped about a year ago, life is turning to crap. And the worst part is that my family is suffering. Like others I'm confused as to what happened here. I'm not sure why you'd switch from freelance to a firm if you were making so much as a freelancer that even with your wife's new wages you end up making 30% less than before, and I'm not seeing the link between that specific decision and the red pill. I guess you didn't know in advance how much less you'd be making ? Or you accepted the lower pay in order to have fewer work hours than you did as a freelancer, but then how do you end up with havi…	/r/ExRedPill	24/02/15 04:40 PM
1	I'm never going to break my misogyny If that's true then he's begging the question. He's made the hypothesis that no man gets responses, only the most very attractive, because women are shallow bitHHHhypergamous. When given an example of a man who's getting a high response rate it's normal for him to wonder how attractive that person is (since he apparently thinks the very most attractive people do get high response rates) but it's wrong to immediately assume that person is an 8 and dismiss the response on that basis. That's just m…	/r/ExRedPill	15/12/14 11:26 AM
3	I'm never going to break my misogyny I literally just said that an agent's intrinsic value isn't the value they attribute to themselves. It isn't attributed by anything, it's intrinsic to them being an agent. Even if we only look at attributed value however, even there the only value that exists is that attributed by agents; there isn't "absolute value", there's only "value to agent X". There is no ultimate reason to privilege one of those values over another. We can choose some values by convention, like market value, but even mar…	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/14 02:24 PM
1	I'm never going to break my misogyny Toys don't think. It's a pretty fundamental difference between objects and agents, in that agents attribute value to objects, and that's the only value objects have, while agents have intrinsic value and no value can be attributed to them that outweighs it. In practice that's not quite how humans work, because humans are social animals and thus do take other agents' opinions in how they value themselves. One can say an agent's intrinsic value isn't the value they attribute themselves (after all …	/r/ExRedPill	09/12/14 11:28 PM
1	I'm never going to break my misogyny What does "lackluster personality" mean? If you really do think you have a lackluster personality and that this is a reason why you're lonely, why are you rejecting my comments about your OKC lines? I could understand if you disagreed with my analysis of why they're unappealing, and thought they're actually scintillating conversation. But you don't; you've defended them as being "just small talk" that "nobody enjoys". And now you say you have a "lackluster personality". I could also understand i…	/r/ExRedPill	09/12/14 11:09 PM
1	I'm never going to break my misogyny I don't know how you're able to surmise that people "have nothing going on in their lives" just from them asking a single question. I said "conversation", not single question. Though that question turned out to be a harbinger of things to come, since said conversations were just a series of similar questions. I also didn't surmise anything, I'm talking about how they came across, which is what your comment feminaza replied to was about. Besides, if you didn't like option A then there's always op…	/r/ExRedPill	09/12/14 10:40 PM
0	I'm never going to break my misogyny Given the example messages kekeek gave I'd tend to agree. I've had conversations (in chats and IRL) that started with things like the "You like show X. What's your favorite character?" line, and those people did NOT come off well. To a first approximation it seemed they must really have nothing going on in their lives that they'd be interested in the answers to such trivial questions about me. And to a second approximation it suggested that they actually weren't interested in anything I had to s…	/r/ExRedPill	09/12/14 08:38 PM
2	I'm never going to break my misogyny But those vague openers don't show you have some mutual interests. They show you read one line of her profile. Would you open with that to a guy you wanted to be friends with? Do you actually want to know what her favorite character is? What kind of conversation could that opener possibly lead to? I find this "open up more" phrasing interesting. I reminds me of the first episode of Bones that I rewatched recently, where Bones asks Booth about his sniper days and he replies that if you want peopl…	/r/ExRedPill	09/12/14 08:09 PM
4	I'm never going to break my misogyny The implication being that these things are impossible with women, which makes sense since you said you are a misogynist. It's a bit of a problem for you since most people don't enjoy spending time with someone who doesn't think they can have interesting ideas, doesn't find them worthy of laughing with and considers them undependendable. I'm reminded of your examples of OK Cupid messages that didn't get many responses: Hey, you said you liked show X. What's your favorite character? Hi. You menti…	/r/ExRedPill	09/12/14 06:36 PM
2	I'm never going to break my misogyny Thank you for the reply, though it doesn't really answer my questions. For example you talk about women being treated like children, but that doesn't obviously relate to their humanity. If someone said "I see children as human" or "I don't see children as human" I'd also want to know what specific characteristics they're talking about, because on its own such a sentence is rather unclear. You've given one sense in which you think women are human (the biological one), but I still don't know in wh…	/r/ExRedPill	09/12/14 04:31 PM
4	I'm never going to break my misogyny I am intrigued by your point of view. You say many different things about women and your attitude to them. You say you're jealous of them because it seems to you women have a very easy time having sex if they want to and you don't. That's pretty consistent with everything you've said here, and I can certainly understand feeling jealousy under such perceived circumstances. So I'm wondering about this bit in the OP: I really wish I could start seeing women as human and my equal, but I just can't m…	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/14 05:19 PM