It's group think, fragile people look for the easiest way to be a part of something even if it's something harmful towards a person who isn't a certain type.
American divorce association for men. It's a male father centric organization, I heard about them and hope they can help. Don't ditch out on your kids, they have people and a network that can assist you.
I guess that means all women who declare this must be using misdirection to keep themselves viewed in a good light. My easy fix, after kids are born leave them to fend for themselves and we may actually catch babies who are pedos also... nobody is safe.