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| 2 | What do other girls think when they see you approach?I guess with enough exp talking to new people you get an idea which types of people like you and who dont and who are more open and approachable and who is more closed. Asians and Indians are more closed people so you'd expect them to reciprocate less. Just try to pick the types who you had past good responses | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US.Ashoka and Punani Slayer, Master of all New Delhi! | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 11:09 AM |
| 2 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2)Very Nice!!👍I slept with 2 girls...😵and im 28 | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 04:18 AM |
| 8 | I feel like as soon as I started getting good with women, I started hating most men out there.I'm guessing you are tall and strong, cuz you didnt mention guys messing with you, making fun of you, or intercepting you because they observe your success with women | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Should I pursue girl with a BF?If she really has a boyfriend, I wouldnt do it, out of fear doing a wrong thing and also from honor. But she may also say it for image, so never ask, just do | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 10:38 AM |
| 0 | I keep attracting what I don't want.Uh oh 🚓🚓🚓 | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 01:44 AM |
| 5 | I keep attracting what I don't want.You never directly say what you wanna be, just go thru the motions, see what you can get, do it, and search and get the next thing you want | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else have a sex bucket list?Conqueror of the world! | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 09:57 AM |
| 3 | how do you approach women at the bar?5 guys to 1 girl is way over saturated. Also depends on the people, insecure people with either give you trouble or reject you. Sometimes the guys are nice and will make talk even if the girls initially reject you. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 09:43 AM |
| 5 | how do you approach women at the bar?It's more difficult with guys there because they see you as competition, if they are insecure, they'll cause problems in your advancement. So just do all girls, if one girl likes you, theyll all like you, but if one girl likes you, a guy can dislike you | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 01:13 AM |
| 0 | succes > looksUsually younger girls like financial success and competence more, but also looks and older women like looks more and care less about finances cuz most are married | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 10:57 PM |
| 0 | succes > looksTrue bro | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 10:54 PM |
| 2 | The genius of cold approach (and why dating apps and social media will destroy humanity)Girl, if it was 1 in 10k guys, I'd be a Sultan | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 11:44 PM |
| 14 | The genius of cold approach (and why dating apps and social media will destroy humanity)It's experience, I was overthinking when I first started, looking like a statue and thinking of the best excuse to talk to a girl, but now I know it's not weird and I cannot feel the fear or embarrassment as before cuz I know more, so there's less brake and more acceleration | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | can you rate my dating profile picture 1-10I think 6-7 is accurate presently, but if you get in better shape, probably a 8-9 because you have a young face | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Approached a lot of girls in the club this weekendShe has to like you and be interested in you, usually be similar to you, best if you can teach her something she is into and if your friends support you guys together | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 10:03 AM |
| 1 | I hate my brother because of his successWow, your brother seems super successful, 2 dates a week, I got 1 date in a year | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Former Chub Bros, What Weight Was Your Turning point?150-160lbs at 9-10% bodyfat, but Im 5'7" | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to approach a topless girl?Much success!!👍 | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 06:32 AM |
| 1 | how do I bring value to conversationCompliment them! Initiate something that leads into interacting with them in the present moment! | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Do women categorize men into different groups?Harsh bro, the bottom 40% should die... | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 10:48 PM |
| 10 | If you are attractive, how much effort should put in?You gotta have both character and looks to get double attraction | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 07:07 PM |
| 2 | If you are attractive, how much effort should put in?Yea it's true, but you should compliment her, cuz she'll drop her guard, but don't be flattered by her presence, cuz it'll make her assume you are less valuable | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | my goal is to go out every weekend for 3 months periodYea I do like 80% girls, but I always just shot gun it. I approach any and everyone, all the time, everywhere, when I feel like it. But I don't reject people, I'd reply to anyone too | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:30 PM |
| 2 | my goal is to go out every weekend for 3 months periodHonestly, approach girls any and everywhere. Free places like malls are good, but just the environment of the club makes sexual interactions easier, it's dark too, so more private | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Do women who smile at you want you to approach them?Yes, they want you to say hi and compliment them | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 11:40 PM |
| 2 | What can I do alone on a Friday night? Besides bars and clubI used to have a friend mentor me on how to cold approach in 2016, then I was working at clubs in 2017 and doing my thing 👍 | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 02:55 AM |
| 2 | just did my first approaches !!!!I live In Toronto, ever since corona virus started, it got harder. Cuz the city got more dangerous, now also the war, so girls are scared, but they also are more likely to do what they want now, more bold, so I just adapt 👍 I just let them do what they want to me | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 12:57 AM |
| 2 | just did my first approaches !!!!Wow that's good, 6 approaches and 2 numbers is better than me. I used to get rejected like 80% of the time and I don't even know how much of the girls that actually talked to me gave me their numbers, probably also like 20% of that small 20%. Then one time I went on a date and no sex. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 10:40 PM |
| 2 | just did my first approaches !!!!It only takes a few good experiences and support to get rid of social anxiety. Perhaps in 1-2 months of proactively seeking social interaction with girls | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 05:16 PM |
| 2 | 30 year old (M) advice for where to meet women.Thank you, my favourite club used to cost $15, now it's closed and another smaller one is $40 now. Corona regulations close businesses and the war cause inflation. But I try to do the "cold approach" every and anywhere too 👍 | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | 30 year old (M) advice for where to meet women.You're lucky cuz where I live, crime is soaring cuz of corona virus and the Russian-Ukraine war. But I have yet to be a target 😃 👍 | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | 30 year old (M) advice for where to meet women.You mean the journey back, can be dangerous walking at night for sure at 3am | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:46 AM |
| 3 | 30 year old (M) advice for where to meet women.Go alone, start talking to girls there, you can be more sexual and flirty, everyone is loose there. Your looks/fitness help in that environment, there is no skills to display except conversation skills. Get to know the girl, then flirt, then make male friends (guys will want to be your friend if you get girls to like you first) | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:37 AM |
| 2 | 30 year old (M) advice for where to meet women.Gym, fitness class, meetup events like Salsa, hobby like art class or french class at a community center. Nightclubs Public places (like parks, maybe popular parks work) are less ideal cuz girls are moving and the social norm is not to interact with new people | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:16 AM |
| 2 | just did my first approaches !!!!Yea I was scared when I first talked to girls too. When I first got rid of my anxiety, that's when I was the best because I was still polite and they like me. When I was working at a gym, I was scared to look at a girl when I signed her in. Girls are very shy, fearful and sensitive, so they like being approached, they respect the initiation by you and they are flattered too. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:09 AM |
| 2 | How do I unlock my inner flirt?Im 28 and I have the opposite problem, i say inappropriate things and ruin the set, they ignore me and leave and deal with me most of the time | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 12:37 AM |
| 33 | What's your go to opener for approaching a girl on the street?Me: "hey I like how your tits bounce" Girl: "go fuck yourself" True story tho | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 12:34 AM |
| 6 | Attractiveness EquationEverything matters, but the "soft" or social skills (initiation /escalation/flirting /keeping the relationship and helping out) and "activities attraction", or knowing which events and environments are likely to have female peers similar to you are more often overlooked, so I guess focus on that more | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Approaching a girl that might be into meJust usually when you are for the contact information, there may be awkwardness after, so do it as she's leaving, but in order for her to give it to you, she's gotta like you and find you of value, also the reason that you don't see her much works well | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Approaching a girl that might be into meNext time you see her, "hey sweetie, I like how your pupils are more blue than your necklace, it's true that they are cerulean blue, and I like you too" (drop humor value) Then when she leaves, "since we don't work together, I'm afraid I won't be able to keep in touch with you, what's your phone number?" (Then when you text her, drop more nuggets of value...) | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to approach a topless girl?Take off your shirt and say, "can I join you in the sun, I can make your day brighter" first | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet women in early 20s? Should I give up?And workout classes! | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet women in early 20s? Should I give up?Meetup.com has a bunch of events, also nightclubs, popular downtown parks, or just the street of your city's entertainment district (but strangers are moving), gyms are a good place if it is filled with people your age. It's really not just the place and the social activity of the place, but also how the girl matches you | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Feel like I got here purely by my looksNo shame, just keep your good looks, beauty is not a sin, murder is | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | I know this question has been asked a 1000 times but let me ask it…..Women in this forum what’s your biggest turn off(no sugar coating)Just very hard to lead to sex, or flirt or do anything sensual with 'shy and pretty girls', think their standards of perfection are way too high. Just need to interact with an adventurous, social girl, and the better looking she is, the better, because looks give a girl confidence to initiate with you. And avoid those 'bad' insecure, 'not so pretty ladies', they can be bullies and it's hard cuz their girls, rather have an insecure guy start trouble with me, at least fighting back gives you respe… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:21 AM |
| 4 | Lost interest in chasing women, so I'm slowly trying to improve myselfGym is the perfect place to get fit and meet great girls, who are beautiful, nice and goal achieving. I worked in a gym, and the girls there are definitely nicer than clubs! But club girls will sometimes initiate sexually because of the environment | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Meaningless in getting girlsI honestly find meaning in getting the next good interaction with a girl and talk to know her a bit and move on. I don't really like to stay with a girl, (but they don't want to stay with me either) or a guy either | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | girl is blatantly sexualizing the convoYou just go along and reciprocate sexually: if she asks you to send your physique photos and compliments you, ask her for a beauty image and say something like "wow what a combo, a pretty face with a steamy body". Then go further by sending a more revealing image of yourself. Ask her what see is doing, then ask what she likes to do (maybe go on walks in the park), then ask when she is free, then "do you want to walk in the park with me on saturday and grab coffee next Saturday, when it is breezy… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Using the word "simp" to put men down is honestly a major sign of douchebagVery true bro, those are not good terminologies to use | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Why do some guys get seen in a sexual light immediately by most women whilst others don’t?All factors being equal, it's better to be sexual when friendly. I don't believe girls like true assholes, I've seen girls like a lot of confident and fearless guys, but they usually do not randomly just pick on you | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | what can I do to develop an abundance mindset?I have 80-90% rejections, but countless approaches so I'm always satisfied. I don't really bother going on dates, I just make an excuse to touch them on the spot and move on | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Want to ask out this barista. How often should I stop by?Every second of every day! Storm troop down to that coffee shop Impound on that lady! There is no such thing as 'cringe or creepy'! | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 01:13 AM |
| 3 | what can I do to develop an abundance mindset?Honestly, once you start to initiate interactions with girls, it immediately converts from none to alot. It's less of a methodical pursuit, but more of just doing it, the opposite of fighting | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 01:10 AM |
| 7 | If a girl takes off her top & removes her bra then lets you play with her big tits .. would you just think of her as a tease? or is she gf material?Wow, I never had that before. Depends if she is a good, responsible and disciplined person who won't harm you, but help you | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Sex on first date?YES! It depends on the girl! | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 04:21 PM |
| 2 | What should I do next?Talk about her appearance and beauty, hobbies, life, work, problems, ask to spot her in a set to smoothly transition to physicality | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Why has cold approaching such a bad reputition?Cold approach is doing hard selling on girls! | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean if a woman touches your thigh / knee?It means she finds you attractive, cute and friendly and she is comfortable with you. Just react naturally, show that you like it, sweep across her hair 👍 | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 04:21 AM |
| 1 | 😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches)No it works, but it's exaggerated, girls like joking, the remarks in brackets do not mention out loud. Doesnt work on sensitive girls tho. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | 😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches)Say "hi my name is ___", hold out your hand to shake it (excuse for physical contact, don't do anything too personal yet) talk about whichever comes to mind of her at first sight as a compliment and with respect, like "a pretty face deserves to be super comfortable on that bed", if shes responds positively, ask her what she likes. She says "I like to skateboard", reply "I used to longboard and I have a high appetite for girls who likes risk" (basically get her to want to let you know her, platon… | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Boys…give me some funny pick up lines/openersHey baby, I have beer, a body and a bedroom | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 08:04 AM |
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