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Field ReportLeoTheFirst/r/seduction01/07/14 01:18 PM
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Not everyone is going to be smooth. Play to your own strengths. I'm an average looking guy and I've had good results. I'm chatty, pretty confident, a bit flirty, short and unthreatening and this all bundles into something I like to call "Awkward-Charm". You'll find your own way. Try some thnigs out and it'll come to you.
/r/seduction24/10/14 01:52 PM
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I've gotten some barmaids numbers and hooked up in the past during the day. All I did was make conversation when I was ordering food. Plus, if you go there a lot (which I presume you do at this gym), she'll recognise you anyway. Build some comfort. Have small chats everytime you go in and see where it takes you.
/r/seduction17/08/14 03:08 AM
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A smile can do wonders when you're meeting a lovely lady. It can change your conversation dramatically. I know I've been in clubs, been taking the piss out of a girl hard with a totally straight face, but the smile at the end builds up a lot of comfort. Props to him. It may not be the most exciting but I know that's what I was like/probably still am. It's going out there and doing it that counts.
/r/seduction17/08/14 03:05 AM
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'The Game' is brilliant. A bit of tongue-in-cheek action biographical action mixed with actual advice. It's definitely dated when you read some of the things people would do in order to attract the opposite sex, but the foundations are much the same. Plus, it's extremely well written and takes you on an amazing journey. Everything may not be relevant anymore but you can still find good value and motivation inside. I also suggest reading 'Get Laid or Die Trying'. It's more of a set of field repor…
/r/seduction13/07/14 12:48 AM
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Be the guy you are when you are most in tune with your own being. Remember that moment when you've been relaxed, cool and confident and apply that feeling to your night.
/r/seduction13/07/14 12:44 AM
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Things I have learned: Your impression of rude and my impression of rude are very different. I think confronting her about it was a needy move, even in your writing it sounds like it came from a needy place. If you want to see her again, do so on your terms. Don't let this experience ruin it if you genuinely do want to meet her again. Sidenote: Tinder will never be a replacement for meeting girls in real life. You can quickly scroll through girls and amass a large collection of probable flakes a…
/r/seduction13/07/14 12:41 AM
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One thing is taking the action with women since I presume that is one of your goals. Do the approach that makes you feel nervous and horrible. If you've never done it, you don't know what type of person you are in that kind of situation. Also, I agree with bl1y. Too many people that complain about women usually say they're a "nice guy". It's ridiculous to use that as something to strive for as everyone thinks they're a nice guy. Nobody ever walks around thinking "Wow, it's really great being hor…
/r/seduction13/07/14 12:28 AM
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Here, here! I never met my girlfriend from daygame. I met her at night. I remember it well and it was one of my best pulls. She's an awesome person that I went out with after about two years of going out 3-4 times a week so in that time I managed to figure out what I wanted in a girl. Keep going out and you will eventually know what you're looking for and be ready when the times comes to burn it to the ground.
/r/seduction12/07/14 10:47 PM
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Best plan is to get a wingman (not meant to rhyme but I like it) When I originally split with my ex, I found wingmen in my city and went daygaming. Not the most successful as it would usually be about an hour of talking and then approaching sometimes as little as one person a day. However, we did make sure when we approached we were not asking for the time, we were not wanting to be friends. We were both going in there to get successful with women. It was a 'FUCK ME OR FUCK OFF' situation. It ta…
/r/seduction10/07/14 11:43 PM
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Everyone gets it. Don't worry about it. I did find that the more people you date at one time, the feeling is dampened a lot. I still think about my ex sometimes and I haven't been with her for three years! It's not because I want her, it's just a natural thing that happens. Same with people I've met and fucked, the nostalgia hits you and you wonder 'what if'. It goes away rather quickly though.
/r/seduction10/07/14 11:39 PM
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Nice one, bru. I remember my first daygame approach and it was horrible. Once I did it, I got a date from it and (although nothing happened) had someone in my life that introduced me to other cool people. Happy days. I've got a girlfriend now for the past 5-6 months but I still go out and try new things at night when I've time to keep me level. For sure, I'm not progressing as fast as I was but it's making a difference. Do you think I should go back to doing daygame? I kind of gave up when I was…
/r/seduction10/07/14 11:37 PM
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Best thing I ever learned was to enjoy failure rather than regret inaction. With time, most people will learn when it is appropriate for to escalate but whn you're starting, it's often better to go way over the top and tone it down from there.
/r/seduction07/07/14 11:08 AM
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Nice post. Daygame used to be a big part of my life. In fact, when I split up with my girlfriend, I tried daygaming before I tried approaching in clubs, oddly enough. I haven't done it for a while since I've been in a relationship but I feel like getting out there again and not letting my relationship get in the way. I'm not going to be cheating, just trying to get myself into a zone where confidence always exists.
/r/seduction07/07/14 11:05 AM
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Thanks, bro. When someone has repressed feelings I feel they stew into something that's utterly insane. I'm unsure how much of this FR contained great information but it's here for people to take away a couple of points and realise why they get into such a life.
/r/seduction01/07/14 01:34 PM
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Advice to you also. Don't think you can't do this becase you're not at your goal body. Your goal body will keep changing, as will your goal girl. Start now or you'll never find out what you really want. Example, when I went to the gym, I wanted to put on weight, it led me down a rabbit hole that taught me how important nutrition is (a part that I still struggle with), I then started speaking with people about Muay Thai and MMA and practiced both briefly (stopped since I moved to a different city…
/r/seduction01/07/14 01:03 PM
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I'll let it slide then. When I say diary, I'm not wanting you to write "Dear diary, today I did...". That's not what I mean. All you have to write is a quick overview of what you did. Unfortunately I don't have a camera to take a picture, but in my book I use to monitor what I am doing at the gym, I'll have something written down like: " Squat Weight: 80kg Sets: 4 Reps: 6" It's just something brief for you to look back on and see how you progress each way. It will help you ahcieve as you have th…
/r/seduction01/07/14 12:39 PM
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First off, I'm not looking for prize winning essays on Seddit, but my god man, learn how to type a full sentence. I'm a native English speaker and my writing is sub-par, but this is atrocious. On to the next point, you've acknowledged that you are not the guy girls want. Great, you're putting your ego to the side and realising you need to change. The hard part now is to implement that change. Start off with baby steps. Maybe you ask a stranger for directions, maybe the next person you say 'hello…
/r/seduction01/07/14 12:21 PM
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Don't conceal you are. Age is nothing to proud or ashamed of. It's a number and that's all. If you click with someone then age should not be a problem. Take this from someone that was 21 when he was dating a 28 year old and an 18 year old.
/r/seduction01/07/14 12:12 PM
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Hooah! Keep going and don't slow down, bru!
/r/seduction01/07/14 11:53 AM
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Practice. Everything you do in life is practice. I totally agree, with the pickup community a lot of things are still down to what mood the person is in but practice will definitely get you more comfortable with the uncomfortable situations. The guy who plays lead guitar in a band will still fuck up the solo now and again, or believe the show went bad for whatever reason. Sometimes external factors affect the outcome, you have to play through it. Remember, and I'm starting to think this is my ca…
/r/seduction01/07/14 11:51 AM
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I find it easier to approach at music festivals as everyone is up for a good time, plus you can bounce away quickly to someone if you feel it is not going anywhere. You'll always have something to talk about, which is good, and there's plenty of alcohol and other things going about so everyone feels a lot looser from a social standpoint. Personally, when I'm at a festival I'm there to enjoy myself and watch the music. I've paid good money to be there so hooking up or anything is a bonus if it ha…
/r/seduction30/06/14 04:25 PM
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Good to hear, OP! The baby steps are what get you further in life whether it's from a relationship standpoint, wealth or anything else that matters to people. I'm currently in a relationship but had a few years where I would go out consistently about 4 nights a week and maybe a year where I daygamed once a week. Not the best but it's what I could fit round work and other things. For anyone out there that is in a relationship, be completely honest with your other half the kind of person you are. …
/r/seduction30/06/14 04:23 PM
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I've only used that one a handful of times and every time it didn't work well. Even the times I stayed over, nothing happened as I didn't escalate sexually. I was floundering around and ended up staying by accident. My advice is not to use that line. During my time in the dating world, I've always went with something like "Where do you live?". Once I find that out, I'd say something along the lines of "You'll need to give me a tour of your house". Obviously, when someone has their own place it w…
/r/seduction30/06/14 04:15 PM
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I know exactly the type of girl you're talking about. One night I managed to hook a girl in about 10 minutes. About 5' 10" (taller than me), big tits, big round ass, and that nice level of chubby. Plus, taller girls can pull off carrying a little bit more. You've got to act how you would with every girl. Don't go in with lust in your eyes as she'll pick up on it. Be confident, know what you want and don't care about who she is. When I picked up the girl I met, I chatted to her like I would anyon…
/r/seduction28/06/14 01:39 PM
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