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| 75 | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story? | Discussion | LessInformations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 05:03 PM |
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| 1 | You have three wishes, what dating behaviors in men/women would you change?- women are now sluttier - similar to gay men, hundreds of partners per year - men know how to take no for an answer - no more sexual assaults - ugly people are not allowed to date - as mandated by the rule of law | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Women, how would you or did you prepare your sons for dating?Ears can be pinned back, if you have dumbo ears. There is jaw surgery. There's a lot of stuff you can do. But only do it if it's really serious. Not things like "oh, I have a kinda big nose". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 08:41 PM |
| 4 | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?maybe he has a small dick or smth, women leave men for that after having sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?I guess this (or a variation of this) will be the most common response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 05:21 PM |
| 6 | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?Of course, talk about yourself. What's your problem? Do you work on yourself? Do you ask for help? Do you approach? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 05:19 PM |
| 6 | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?So the key to success is numbers' game. That's my opinion too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Women, how would you or did you prepare your sons for dating?Either through acceptance (ok, I have a problem, I have to accept it and move on) or through surgery. A mother could encourage her son to have nose surgery if it is really, really deformed. After all, it's her son's decision, but a mother should be supportive either way. This is true even if the son is older - 16, 17, 18, 19, and over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 04:58 PM |
| 15 | Women, how would you or did you prepare your sons for dating?This, but I would also add: make sure he has friends, both female and male, encourage him to join sports (preferably team sports), encourage him to solve any physical issues that may prevent him from dating (ugly nose, ears, crooked teeth, recessed jaw), learn to accept that some women will reject him no matter what. Eventually it will happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedYes, women age like men. That's why redpill is not true. Good women and good men age into something good. Bad women and bad men age into shit. There's no "omg you are a man, you will age like fine wine, while Becky will turn into a pile of shit". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 06:47 PM |
| 11 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedExactly. That's why I am bluepilled. I was redpilled, but noticed that there's always a men vs. women narrative. Men and women age the same. Good men and good women age into something good. Bad men and bad women age into shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedIt depends on where that man starts from. A 5'2'' bald Indian janitor with a unibrow and a recessed jaw will never age into a 6'2" fit attorney at his own law practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 05:24 PM |
| 22 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedIt's simple: 95 percent of wine ---> 20 years ---> disgusting vinegar, which cannot be used for anything (even cleaning toilets can turn into a disaster if you use that shit) 5 percent of wine ---> 20 years ---> excellent wine which sells at auctions, and many people buy it to store value, not to drink it The same happens for men: 95 percent of men ---> 20 years ---> fat, bald, depressed, resentful, full of regrets, hopeless, unfit, poor, lack of activity, agility, happiness 5 percent of men ---… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | If you had a son and he asked you how he can become a man, what advice would you give him ?Okay, but the guy asks "how to become a man?" not "how to become an adult?". What answer should be ok? Be a soldier? Be a womanizer? Beat people up in bars? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 05:14 PM |
| 2 | If you had a son and he asked you how he can become a man, what advice would you give him ?I really don't know, but most answers apply to women 100% too. I guess men should be kinda... different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 05:08 PM |
| -1 | Most men catch feelings for their female friends, women rarely for their male buddiesYeah, most men would fuck their female friends, but they are not falling in love with them. Women are affected by the oneitis far more often than men. Women really, really fall in love with their close male friends. It's something that is still very peculiar to me, some women really like that "connection," and when it happens, they REALLY fall in love, no matter how the guy looks. Guys, on the other hand, just wanna fuck tight-ass hoes, even though they are their friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 05:00 PM |
| 2 | If you had a son and he asked you how he can become a man, what advice would you give him ?Same applies to women. I think the answer is different for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 04:55 PM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Exactly. Communist societies are more promiscuous, for a variety of reasons (I will not elaborate), this is not the reason why they fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 04:41 PM |
| 3 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.People who say that modern hookup is destroying society don't even know how slutty their parents and grandparents were back in the 1960s and 1970s. Even in non-western countries, people were way sluttier 50 years ago. Just ask anyone from Eastern Europe. Those communists were horny as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 11:34 AM |
| 3 | Discussion: How important are red and blue pill for autistic people?Red pill is blue pill explained to autistic men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 11:33 AM |
| 4 | Average guys in relationships are subject to a different set of rules than attractive onesYes, we do fuck everything. But once a hot girls shows up, it's bye-bye for the plain Jane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 04:16 PM |
| 13 | What do YOU want in a partner (inspired by TV Tropes)?My standards are simple: #1 - not fat - that cuts down the dating market to 30 percent #2 - she has to like me - that cuts down the dating market to 0 percent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 04:10 PM |
| 4 | Average guys in relationships are subject to a different set of rules than attractive onesYes, he would have sex with an average chick. But he will simply disregard her if a hot chick pops up in his life. Men act exactly like women. There's a lot of hypergamy in mens' world. That's why TRP is not real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 04:08 PM |
| 8 | Average guys in relationships are subject to a different set of rules than attractive onesGuys think the same about hot vs. average women: Hot girl with glasses - OMG, so hot, I love nerdy girls. Average girl with glasses - Oh... nice Hot girl who doesn't deepthroat - Oh... that's ok, I understand boundaries Average girl who doesn't deepthroat - Wtf, she don't love me Hot girl who doesn't cook - Oh, I can cook too, I can even show her Average girl who doesn't cook - Wtf girl... Hot girl who wears a t-shirt and jeans - Casual and hot Average girl who wears a t-shirt and jeans - you ai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Non-Americans, what country do you live in, and do you think it has a better dating culture than the USA?I am not waiting for the unicorn. I have no standards, LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'Not true at all. Most normal women understand that guys want casual sex, and they don't act weird about it. In fact, they are creeped out when a guy does NOT want casual sex and refuses to hook up. That's when women are really grossed out (is he gay? is he mentally ill? is he religious? does he have a micropenis?). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Q4Everyone, can you give examples of good women/men you know in real life? Preferably people of the opposite gender to yours.M38 - I have 5 close female friends and they are awesome. They are successful, work hard, have relationships, and offer amazing support to their loved ones. One of them is somewhat autistic (the only woman I know that is definitely on the spectrum), but she is an amazing person. I could call her at anytime in the night and ask for a cup of tea or some shit. Another one is very hard-working and supports her family. She just got married to an awesome guy. She always brings me gifts when traveling.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isOr you could just get out of the playing field and die a virgin. Your choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Non-Americans, what country do you live in, and do you think it has a better dating culture than the USA?I am blue-pilled too, so you can't really argue with me on this subject. I can't move to SE Asia, unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 10:38 AM |
| 0 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isI kinda agree, but people have higher standards. What's more, they want a gf/bf now, and it should be easy. Not some fat wife/husband when you are 35. It's all about perspective - when people say they struggle, they actually KNOW that most will eventually get married. They want it to be easy, to have regular hookups with hot partners. Not "eventually getting married at 35". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Non-Americans, what country do you live in, and do you think it has a better dating culture than the USA?Well, I didn't even find a girl to kiss me or hold my hand, so I guess getting married is a no-go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 09:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV People dont understand that „improving yourself“ will not fix the dating issue with inc*ls on a societal levelMost of them don't even have to improve. They just have to socialize and lower their standards. Even if an incel is fat, he can get a girlfriend. There are plenty of women who like fat guys - they just have to socialize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 09:33 AM |
| – | Q4M, would you consider dating or even marrying a Plane Jane?Yeah, but only if she has no gag reflex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 09:32 AM |
| 8 | Women love bad boys love them because they present a chance to play a nurturing, feminine role to a strong, bold, yet troubled manWomen love good looking bad boys. They also love them because they are assertive and not shy. But, generally speaking, they love the bad boys that are attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?It's not poverty, but social climbing is far more difficult when you work a blue-collar job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Physical attractiveness is extremely important for choosing a romantic partner because our society expects monogamyNot everyone goes into a relationship thinking it will be monogamous. There are many open relationships. And definitely no teenager thinks that their summer-love will last forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:32 PM |
| 6 | Non-Americans, what country do you live in, and do you think it has a better dating culture than the USA?Yes, I have a facial deformity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Physical attractiveness is extremely important for choosing a romantic partner because our society expects monogamyThere is absolutely no connection to societal expectations of monogamy. People function almost like automatons - is she/he hot? - if yes - me wants to fuck, if not - me wants to not fuck. Monogamy or not, we like attractive people; and we don't like unattractive. And that's cross-cultural. Even uncontacted tribes appreciate beauty, the same as yuppies in Seattle or political prisoners in Xinjiang, or Inuits who never wear pushup bras. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:21 PM |
| 6 | “dressing provocatively” is a subjective statement and largely differs from person to personDressing provocatively differs from person to person - that is from the person who dresses provocatively to the person who dresses provocatively. When men say that a woman dresses provocatively, it's code word for "she's hot as phuck and I want to go deep between those honey-buns". Men don't say provocatively about a beached landwhale with 3 layers of fat like the Michelin man, who hasn't showered since the overthrow of Pinochet in Chile. Dressing provocatively is about a woman being attractive,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:18 PM |
| 6 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?Brutal-pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?So if I am bald and have a recessed jaw, and feed little ducks, it's not good enough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?this makes me horny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?You get horny when you see a guy working on a farm? LOL That screams like poverty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:07 PM |
| -1 | Women, what makes you notice a guy?You are delusional. I just got relatively jacked and all tight-ass MILFs make eye-contact. These sluts ain't loyal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:06 PM |
| 14 | Non-Americans, what country do you live in, and do you think it has a better dating culture than the USA?Romania - the main difference I see is every guy, no matter how fat, bald, or short, gets married. Men don't struggle here. Women really struggle to get a good boyfriend/husband. A LOT of married guys (married to women) are on grindr and love to suck dick. It's quite surprising, really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | What exactly should one change or improve upon if they're called "too nice" as a negative?Just be more assertive. Ask out girls you like, approach, escalate. That type of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:59 PM |
| 1 | What is your definition of masculinityRich Cooper. Just buy that damn soap and you'll see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 06:10 PM |
| 5 | CMV : I have never seen a young woman dissatisfied in a relationship with a traditionally attractive manYou talk shit. I have plenty of female friends, and most were/are in relationships. A couple of them were in LTR with conventionally attractive guys. They split up because of abuse, alcohol, lack of interest, lack of prospects (guy didn't want to work), and a friend left her boyfriend because he didn't want to get married. Attractive people can be just as disgusting/abusive/boring as average or below average people. And women get dissatisfied with these men on the regular. However, it's better t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 06:09 PM |
| 4 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?The same for me. I was redpill, and I got scared about it. I was literally disgusted for being so full of hate. Then, I embraced the bluepill, mainly because of my female friends. Women are not bad. They are just people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 03:16 PM |
| – | WOMEN DONT ENJOY SEXBrutal-pilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:39 PM |
| 1 | WOMEN DONT ENJOY SEXEver had a female friend? They get very horny and always talk about sex and relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:39 PM |
| -1 | You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urselfYeah, but most women are invisible. They are just average. They don't have dozens of guys to choose from. The math doesn't add up. If Alice has 7 guys to choose from, and Becky has 8 guys, and Sarah has 7, there are not enough men to go around for Mary, Liz, and Laura. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:12 PM |
| -1 | You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urselfThey are selective, but it does not apply to average and below average women. They barely get approached for serious stuff. Trust me, I know, I have a lot of female friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:00 PM |
| -1 | You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urselfWho the hell started this with women being the selectors? Only hot women select. Ugly women don't select anything. Trust me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 01:51 PM |
| 5 | I know this has been said a million times before: but the men who are feeling lonely and struggling in dating just have higher standards.I just went to a music festival this past weekend. There were hot women, average women, and ugly women. I noticed that I never even noticed the average and ugly women. That's what men who struggle do 24/7. They notice only hot women, who don't like them back. They simply don't notice average and ugly women. Men who struggle don't like their options. And they refuse to lower their standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence Matters A Lot More Than People RealizeIt's about being socially intelligent. Nobody cares if you solve the Poincare conjecture and you are 400 lbs, have a unibrow, don't know how to say hi and make eye contact, and have a cum-stained t-shirt. When people say "I want an intelligent partner" they talk about people who know how to joke, say quirky stuff, but in a fun way, and be a socially adjusted person. Nobody cares about your hypersphere and how it relates to the topological space. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 11:00 PM |
| – | People underestimate how circumstantial attraction isYeah, it's pure luck most of the time. Luck and numbers' game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 09:02 PM |
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