Lestat087 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Had my first kiss and now she’s moving flaky and violating now She lied to you or on her story. Perhaps another dude took her there. Women typically have multiple options that they are assessing. If you want that to be you, work on your self worth/love. Head youtube & watch thias gibson or heidi pierce videos on attachment style. Ask Jesus for guidance. Men fall in love in womens presence. Woman fall in love in guys absence. They are similar to cats. Chase them & they will run. Be present & they will become curious. You also cant be available all the time. …	/r/seduction	06/04/25 03:27 PM
2	Wisest thing I've ever heard So true. Remember reading a study a guy did with tinder profiles & using the same lines with an "ugly" guy, normal dude & male model. Chicks would respond to make model regardless of what he said to them. Others didn't get the match numbers & got ditched for the same lines.	/r/seduction	05/05/20 11:54 AM
1	We agreed to drink some beer, then she told me a friend of hers was going by, so I canceled You sure you didn't just get nervous? I mean she says she has a boyfriend but also makes it obvious she's into you likely cause she doesn't want you trying lock her down. She then proceeds to talk about sex & stuff she likes like threesomes. On the next occassion you are going meet up she suggests her bedroom instead of a bar & tells you she is bring a friend over. I can't say with 100% certainty but I think the appropriate response would have been to ask her MFM or FFM?	/r/seduction	12/04/20 06:20 PM
2	“Woman falls in love with you for everything that you are, she spends the relationship trying to change you into everything that you’re not. If she succeeds she will dump you for a guy who is what you were when she met you.” -Dante Nero Women fall in love with guys who trigger them emotionally. They also want emotional strength. They will test you. After all can can you stand up for her when you can't stand up to her. Guys who are decisive, have a purpose & take action are always more attractive. When you make her centre of your world & become a pleaser loosing any backbone you had, or you become disinterested not putting effort in or triggering her emotions; that is when you get dumped.	/r/seduction	17/12/19 09:49 AM
1	Apparently, my dad was a legend. Agree 100%.	/r/seduction	13/12/19 04:01 AM
8	Apparently, my dad was a legend. While true I think being authentic has higher value than pretending you like dancing.	/r/seduction	10/12/19 03:01 PM
1	The 3 Best Ways To Show Sexual Intent - (Without Being a Creep) Nailed it! Indifference is amazing. I've got many old bad beta habits still & whenever their interest drops I realise what I did wrong straight away & step back. You can turn it around when you aren't attached to any outcome	/r/seduction	02/11/19 01:02 PM
37	Friend used me for sex to rebound. Caught feelings but she got back with her ex. Any advice to get over her. This is really solid advice. Don't get hung up on someone who doesn't feel the same way.	/r/seduction	26/10/19 01:53 PM
12	I remember how like 2 years ago I unknowingly reflected a shit test Wow she was desperate for attention. Funny thing is as read it at first it didn't sound good but you must have said it with complete confidence & a smirk or smile which just goes to reinforce it's not what you say but how you say it. Without that emotional strength I think it would have come across like she attacked you & you responded by trying gain her validation.	/r/seduction	10/09/19 05:15 PM
1	Went for my first approach ever, she was lesbian! Haha I had this happen in a night club last year. I thought she was just there with her friend so I gave her a pickup line. She laughed & said it was funny then said she was a lesbian. I was like oh sorry didn't realise & looked over at her gf who looked like she was trying set me on fire with laser eyes.	/r/seduction	10/09/19 04:50 PM
11	Help? Sounds like she is interested. She's giving you windows of opportunity & making it easy for you. Women are attracted to men of value. You showed her you wanted her but didn't need her. You were indifferent to the result & willing to walk away which increased her attraction to you. Well done! Least that's how it seems to me.	/r/seduction	10/02/19 03:30 AM
1	Why do some PUAs and some of this subreddit preach "alpha male" mentality and think women like objects? These two mentalities are the main obstacles when approaching women Nailed it! Nice guys finish last cause they are seen as pleasers who will say anything to avoid conflict thus making them appear weak & manipulative.	/r/seduction	23/11/18 05:54 PM
0	Why do some PUAs and some of this subreddit preach "alpha male" mentality and think women like objects? These two mentalities are the main obstacles when approaching women The simplest way I can explain it is women are emotion driven while men are logic driven. The most obvious alpha quality is confidence but the defining quality women want is emotional strength. The difference between an alpha & beta is their mindset. How they view & react to their environment & handle obstacles. This is why women like confidence men so much. They have emotional strength by being confident in who they are & what they are capable of. Farfromaverage youtube channel has some good ex…	/r/seduction	23/11/18 05:52 PM
2	Last night I had a mission (feels like an actual mission, a challenge, from life, god, something) Dont put pressure on yourself. I had build up confidence again after my SO of 6yrs cheated on me with a close friend of mine of 16yrs. Trust me on this. Your best success will be when you go out & just have fun without worrying about results. 2. Stop daydreaming. Stop remunating over the past. Neither will help you. Live in the present. Accepting it is the only way to happiness. 3. Self love. Find those silver linings & stop beating yourself up. How will any woman love you if you cant love yours…	/r/seduction	11/11/18 01:24 PM
32	Meet more people at parties One of my fav youtube channels is called farfromaverage. Chicks want the guy who has the confidence in themselves to not be afraid to talk to them even if they are in a group. Though don't feel bad. I struggle as well. I try to just talk & give genuine compliments to both chicks & dudes. It raises your social proof while making you more likeable.	/r/seduction	22/10/18 02:08 AM