Let-it-carry-you Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
50	Don't give a guy a chance after he offers a coffee date, even if he offers a nice dinner date after you say no to coffee. What a clown. By "later" he probably meant "next time". When you would be paying, of course.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/07/21 02:22 PM
7	A personal realization: why losers leave during cancer. Yeah. So it's a "female instinct" to be the caretaker and it's the "male instinct" to be the provider, right. However, nowadays they are expecting the woman to be both. F*CK THEM. I'm so sick of this, honestly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/21 09:40 PM
1	A man who only values you for your fertility and beauty is no HVM: never give up studying, advancing your career or your financial security for a man Yeah, sure, just what they want us to be - uneducated and financially dependent so that they could control and abuse us. Hell no!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/21 05:06 PM
15	Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both. I just cannot perceive a gamer as an adult. To me, they are just kids in a grown up's body. Hard pass.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 06:21 PM
20	Why "jUsT cOmMuNiCaTe" is problematic: we live in a culture where men generally get what they want when they ask for it, and where women generally don't. "I feel like most heterosexual men just fundamentally do not want to listen to women. They see it as weak and emasculating. Because they believe that women are inferior; in their mind, taking any kind of direction from a woman is a direct attack on their masculinity. Hence the kneejerk defensive reaction that most men exhibit when being challenged by a woman." Mindblowing. This is also happening in the workplace. I work in an industry where we must follow strict rules and regulations. My job is …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/21 11:04 PM
19	Found close friend’s bf on tinder, lies presume My friend was getting married, it was a beautiful wedding. One of her best friends+her boyfriend was also there. At night, this disgusting pig of a boyfriend cheated on her and someone took a picture of that. In the morning he acted super chill, and the poor girl was not even aware of what had happened behind her back. My friend was so worried about ruining the friendship but eventually told her what happened and the girl decided to leave her boyfriend. A year later they got married. I cannot lo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/21 09:00 PM
28	The audacity. (Found this on another sub) They think they are so smart, don't they? Once a guy opened a conversation with this clownery: "There are many things I like about your profile, but one thing I really, really don't like." So I felt he is negging and wants me to ask him what is it that he doesn't like about me. What a great way to start a conversation with a woman you seemingly like. So I replied "The same!". And what he said to that was: "Wow, you really give off a very unpleasant vibe, woman!" So it's ok for him to say somethi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/21 11:08 AM
1	Worst date of my life People who hate themselves and their lives so much absolutely have the urge to drag other people down to their level, as if it would make them feel better. That disgusting guy is just a little angry boy in an adult's body, and his words have no power. I am really sorry that this happened to you, you did not deserve it. But this really is an important lesson and an opportunity to start having strict boundaries and deciding what you will and won't tolerate. Learning to say no and immediately walki…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 11:16 PM
2	Guy tries experiment on getting women to initiate the first move. Fails. This made me laugh so much, loved it! I have deleted my account from OLD, but my approach was to unmatch if a man didn't write within 48h. No need to keep a collection of scrotes who think that the woman should approach them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 07:57 PM
8	If this has been discussed elsewhere please link, but wondering what are some LVM red flags in OLD profiles? Both photos and text. "Good vibes only". Just seeing this phrase makes my eye start twitching.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 07:48 PM
2	Thank you from my heart, truly Could not agree more! So many horrible things have happened during this year, but I will always remember 2020 with love because that is when I discovered FDS. It has truly changed my view in the best possible way, and I am forever grateful that a group like this exist.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/20 07:50 PM
9	Process Changes to the Sub, Flair, and other Announcements Thanks for the update and the hard work! Was so worried to see that last night the group was closed for a while.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/09/20 11:03 AM
2	Help! How can I protect myself from men? If you want to change something for better, you have to take responsibility for your life, make a decision and take action. At the moment your issues seem huge and there are many of them, that's why it feels so scary and impossible to solve them. It can feel truly overwhelming. But please know that you are not supposed to solve them all in one day! Not even in a month or year! But you have to take action if you want to change your life. Start with the smallest step, focus on one thing first. For…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 10:32 PM
3	Men will tell lies even if it makes them sound stupid rather than be honest Reminds me of my abusive alcoholic ex. He went to a family event and said he would not drink that evening, since a couple of days before the event he got extremely intoxicated to a point when I was actually considering calling the ambulance. He said he would definitely not drink anytime soon, LOL. So he came home very late and was so wasted, he couldn't even put two words together or walk straight. He totally refused that he had been drinking at all and just laughed and denied everything as if I…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 07:02 PM