LetItAllGo33 Archive

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–	Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s risky thankless and risky As a father, yes I know this to be true. I wasn't even into having kids, I did it for my wife who by her own admission would have felt she wasted her life without having, and her happiness is my goal. For the women that don't feel that way especially, as they take the physical risk, if you're waiting for thanks, praise, a cookie, or affirmation for having kids, never ever ever have kids and you don't have the temperament to be a good parent. Having kids for thanks is akin to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 12:02 AM
–	Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s risky Child support exists and its revealing how many women who claim to be in favor of egalitarianism, and I am for the record, believe their future should be guaranteed and easy mode should come to the record when things get hard or dont play out as imagined. Men lose their spouses all the time, it's women's idea more often. That's called life. Life is risk. Unless you are born to great wealth, stability isn't your birthright. It's called the pursuit of happiness, not the guarantee. As I often tell …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 10:44 PM
–	what preferences are women allowed to have? Have all the preferences, but you can't then CREDIBLY burden others with a sob story about being lonely. There are good, honest, integrous, funny people out there of both sexes, but if you're holding out for prosperous and tall, you might not also get honest and good, and if you hold out for perfect, aka "never settle ladies," you'll be waiting forever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 02:39 AM
9	Dating the ugly girl won't save you. Agreed on that. Amongst themselves, Women tend to tell women regardless of appearance, intellect, personality, or accomplishment that settling is a mistake and they deserve every moon and star their heart desires merely for existing as a woman. It's a little messed up honestly as an observer, it's setting people up for disappointment and bitterness because reality will rarely roll that way, it just prolongs frustration instead of encouraging recognition of what is and isn't within their control.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 08:18 PM
0	Most people don’t want to be around someone with a victim complex, One night stands with people you're attracted to but don't like aren't abuse. Objectification isn't monopolized by this sex or that sex. Men have one night stands with women who hate men. Women have one night stands with ripped but dim gymrats. Neither consider the other to be spouse material. One is not morally superior to the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/26 03:46 PM
0	Most people don’t want to be around someone with a victim complex, I agree with you about men complaining being unattractive and people being perpetual victims being offputting in general OP. This is a big reason why many women come to be objectified and only desired for their bodies and not their personalities. Men are still largely hardwired to seek that, even in women that constantly complain about patriarchy keeping them down and them always having to fear men in general and tolerate men in general. That takes a women from someone to get to know and court t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/26 03:31 PM
3	If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass. There are approximately 3k billionaires on Earth, there are about 40k centimillionaires on earth. Billions subsist in service to these thousands. They all have a disease or they would have stopped millions ago. All of them should be stripped of such ridiculous wealth/capital/resources so long as there are people without basic needs being met. That can't happen under the current framework, at least in the US. They own the framework, they own the means of production, of propaganda, of state violen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 07:02 PM
5	If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass. Once again as my off the cuff outline stated, by being taken off the board and imprisoned for the rest of their lives for daring to try even once, which would be necessary. Acts of greed are more harmful than even acts of hate, because it's insatiable, greed into the 10s of millions to billions can't be satiated, and it hurts others to let the diseased try. I believe in limited hierarchy that tempers the highs and lows so that basic needs are always met and it's difficult to impossible to amass …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 06:31 PM
3	If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass. No you really didn't, but you did anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 08:03 PM
5	If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass. Nice womansplaining 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 07:52 PM
7	If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass. As a father who loves and nurtures his kids, whose retired grandfather watches them while their parents are at work, why is the blame and expectation for redress suddenly laid upon men? That pain and sacrifice is remunerated with children that you should love and provide you infinite meaning if you wanted them, which you had the option to cancel. Men didn't design pregnancy to be a bitch. And as we're seeing no one is making women do it. For the record it was my wife's life dream to have kids fa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 07:51 PM
8	If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass. Without sperm, what are your eggs and womb? Just a monthly annoyance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 07:32 PM
4	If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass. Start with a hard, constitutional cap on wealth hoarding when it reaches levels that would allow an individual to warp the shape and priorities of a society beyond their single vote. A calculus like 99% of all assets beyond a few million are taxed away. This would encourage more people with less to have to buy into new companies, incentivizong cooperatives with buy in from the employees, while funding universal college based on merit, universal Healthcare that isn't a conman scam like American H…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 07:26 PM
11	If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass. We have to recognize that women are the givers of life and deserve to be protected This is entitlement. Humans are the givers of human life. Last I checked, kids are half of each parent. Women telling they deserve everything and men deserve nothing is misandry plain and simple. Men tend to tell men both women and men deserve nothing and will only get what they earn in modernity, which is closer to the truth. Women used to be treated like "the prize." They demanded to be treated as peers with the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 07:14 PM
11	If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass. As someone who spent a good chunk of their childhood in family homeless shelters parsing literally rancid food, removing humanity from any reality of the human condition is detrimental to humanity. Lack of exposure to reality is a big part of the overarching problem, especially from the class that makes the rules. The poor are generally actually quite shrewd with their money and resources, the economic system is just rigged to keep them from making any headway. A total collapse would actually ap…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 07:05 PM
8	If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass. I have 2 kids and a wife. Believe what you want though. Sorry, I believe in honesty, and the honest truth is the last opportunity to right an already sinking ship died with the Reagan Revolution and the villification of our own neighbors starting with the "welfare queen" that got everyone resenting everyone else while trying to win. We can start over after a lot of pain, or we can have multigenerational pain for most born into into it effectively without end. I'll choose the former. Things might…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 06:49 PM
16	If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass. It boils down to men being entitled for wanting anything from a woman, and women paradoxically telling every woman regardless of actions that they "deserve" anything and everything their heart desires merely for existing as female. I don't think there's ever been a time where it's been culturally accepted for men en masse to tell one another they deserve everything because they're men. Rich people have always said that about themselves, but wealthy men and women are their own diseased ilk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 06:43 PM
22	If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass. Societal collapse will set things right, and considering how social media has been engineered to make people miserable and angry, it won't be that long. Eventually the apathy and detachment of the owners and the anger and desperation of the people will make the big machine break. That's what enshittification is, the beginning of the break down. From the ever doomier (because it sells) algorithm of the social media we consume to our crumbling roads to the deterioration of the quality of the water…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 06:17 PM
16	Respect Civility is owed(if we want to be a society and not a bunch of of apes hurling our feces at one another), respect is earned.	/r/MensRights	02/06/26 01:57 PM
5	Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates It That doesn't even come close to adequately describing the overarching problem. Sorry the central issue of our time that either creates or exacerbates all others in the west doesn't fit neatly on a bumper sticker. That educational sabotage of theirs is working gangbusters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 03:37 PM
6	Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates It Western society is running exactly as intended by those with power/capital. Lets be clear. The current division between every conceivable group including the sexes is because of our economic inequality https://markets.businessinsider.com/news/stocks/stock-market-ownership-wealthiest-americans-one-percent-record-high-economy-2024-1 They can only do this, funnel all the wealth to the top 10% and mostly the top 1% because everyone else is too busy at each other's throats as their media, captured go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 03:19 PM
8	Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates It Progress should be tempered with the welfare of society. We've had a lot of misused technological advancement over the last few decades implemented in a way that profits a few and harms society. Algorithms that get people addicted to doomscrolling, attempting to implement artificial intelligence that profits only a few and leaves far more destitute is only progress into dystopia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 02:31 PM
12	I am not chivalrous. Chivalry was accommodation and deference towards the physically weaker sex. If they want equality as they claim, why would women even want chivalry? That was men shielding women from some of the harshness of the world. Sounds like filthy patriarchy to me amirite?	/r/MensRights	28/05/26 10:08 PM
9	Do you think modern men are becoming weaker than previous generations? Physically, mentally, emotionally, everything feels different now. Why do you think this shift is happening? Or do you think older generations are just romanticizing the past? I think humans are becoming weaker as we're intentionally made dependant on consumerism to survive, and few work skills are relevant to survival skills. I think we can mostly agree that the owner class and the corporate class breed like crazy because they have the resources to. They're selected to have kids by trophy spouses on the basis of their ability to bullshit. To bluster, to sell themselves rhetorically to "win" in the artificial world of business. These traits would feed no one, would fa…	/r/MensRights	27/05/26 03:51 PM
–	Why do some people have a problem with women not wanting to be approached, instead of understanding the real issue? In the last 20 years or so, for better or worse depending on your perspective, women have been telling men loudly to stop approaching them in public, to the point of public shaming and video ridicule. The vast, vast, vast majority of men have heeded this demand. Most men won't approach women in public anymore, which have led to a lot of women unforced complaining that the right men, the relatively small minority they find desirable won't approach in public, and further won't be approachable or o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 03:24 PM
47	"The terrifying rise of schoolboys making AI girlfriends" - Somehow it's only an issue cause men use it I at least appreciate the honesty of the feminists that out and out say this. They say it out loud, openly declaring they wish "unworthy" men would simply recognize that nature is working as intended by removing their genes from the world (and of course would never consider a woman to be so unworthy) and quietly continue to labor to build and maintain society for their benefit until they die alone. They consider it so obvious that they act annoyed having to state what they believe all parties in…	/r/MensRights	26/05/26 07:55 PM
16	A Women being unchosen is a much bigger failure than men being unchosen. As a happily married man, it's really tragic women en masse choose to frame being a supportive partner to an imperfect human no different from them as acting as a therapist. In that sense, I'm my wife's sounding board and she is mine. In my opinion, any person who frames supporting their partner emotionally as "playing therapist/man-womankeeping/emotional labor" is probably toxic and should probably be alone. The whole point is to have someone to support, experience, and bear one another's life …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 06:39 AM
-1	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool They won't be thinking that when they've lost all social value. Regardless of sex, we lose our friend groups and social value beyond middle age. That's why humans pairbond, to have a partner and potentially kids to witness, bear, and experience life with as a family as the elders pass away among them. Modern culture works against what humans are at their cores. Young Women telling women that being single will be awesome are just misery wanting company. And old PEOPLE, men or women telling young …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 09:10 PM
7	Women have very little to gain from heterosexual sex & relationships and men don't care Humans are humans and don't meaningfully change, we just reflect the current, slowly changing culture and zeitgeist. What does sweeten the deal even mean? A romantic partnership is about having a partner to share in life, witness life, bear life with. It isn't a business deal. If you're trying to get the "better deal" and "win" against your partner, you shouldn't have a partner. That said, most humans are social creatures, and despite bravado and cope, most humans who end up alone once they age …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 03:45 PM
–	Her giving “her best” to another man before is irrelevant. "just leave" is always a disingenuous proposition that ignores reality, and for the people that heed that advice without the most dire consideration, are just as likely to end up in a worse situation. It's bad faith rhetoric by Americans towards disenfranchised Americans, capitalist sycophants towards people that hate capitalist exploitation, and by women who tell both women and men to make the non-existent perfect the enemy of the good. The "just" trying to gloss over the very real, as often as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 03:07 PM
2	The extreme future of this gender war I think I want women to keep their rights for the record, that said: Fascists do not. The wind is blowing against women keeping their rights because of the latest waves of feminism not being about equality but superiority. Women seem to not realize that the current culture is a tiny blip in history, historically might typically wins, and they are the physically weaker sex objectively. There was a time I would have marched with women in the streets WHEN it comes to a head and take a bullet to defend thei…	/r/MensRights	11/05/26 10:25 PM
10	Why the hell should a man consider marriage? Exactly. I'm one of them. It won't be with a woman who fixates on the current culture's approval though. If she's more interested in a wedding than being with you. If she's more concerned with her girlfriend's advice than yours, you'd be a fool to marry. I say this as someone married for a decade with a child and a loving partner. You need to date and vet them for years. If they get impatient to get married, that's another red flag.	/r/MensRights	11/05/26 09:19 PM
12	Why men chose self deletion Sad that in public discourse the popular conversation usually goes: C: How dare men use this talking point, women attempt suicide more! Women are most harmed by suicide! This is women's victim card not men's! R: Men use more means that actually intend suicide, rather than means with low success as a cry for help/attention seeking. C: Irrelevant!... And men's lives aren't as valuable anyway, duh.	/r/MensRights	06/05/26 03:42 PM
9	I feel like we need to start calling women creeps whenever they start recording men Minding there own damn business. It's so prolific there's literally youtube comedy videos skewering/parodying the women that pull their cameras out to try to "show the internet" they think a guy that shouldn't have looked at them looked at them. https://youtu.be/ydbR0-Ag7d4?si It's just about stoking the perception of victimhood. They feel unsafe because they're in public and all the undesirable men failed to gouge their eyes out to make her feel unseen,while still wanting to be seen by as many random internet strangers as poss…	/r/MensRights	05/05/26 11:51 PM
–	You don’t have to admit you have a sense of entitlement to have a sense of entitlement They aren't, I hang around with my wife who isn't very social because of anxiety issues that predate meeting me by a decade that she actively doesn't want to address and that's her choice. I go to women's spaces, just like men's spaces, because I seek to understand, and it's impossible to understand much of anything without hearing the in groups speak amongst themselves. I consider entitlement to be believing one deserves something without tangible reason. In men's spaces, men do denigrate women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 02:48 PM
–	You don’t have to admit you have a sense of entitlement to have a sense of entitlement Women are constantly telling other women with good but imperfect, being human, partners that they should leave to pursue non-existent perfection because "you deserve it guuuuuuurl." Women give women unrealistic expectations of what they deserve, women they both have and haven't even met, merely for drawing breath. I've never, not once seen a woman telling another woman to recalibrate their expectectations to reflect the reality of what if anything they have to offer a partner, an employer, anyth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 02:00 PM
-2	Men need their own way out of romantic dependency If you think fulfillment will come from Amazon boxes and not human connection, you'll be waiting forever. For both women and men, social circles shrink and become increasingly difficult to maintain as we all lose our social value as we age. That's a big part of why having a partner through life is so historically sought, because they aren't just a transient friend that comes and goes like the tide. I worked in innumerable nursing homes for my work for over a decade. There is no girl or guy power…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 09:03 PM
5	Men need their own way out of romantic dependency Men and women are intrinsically and inexorably interdependent. Without one or the other, that's the end of the species. What women seek now is segregation when they don't need something built, repaired, lifted, etc, as the trades are almost entirely men even after attempts to recruit. Very, very, very few women are willing to do the necessary jobs that will leave men and women alike with calloused hands and broken backs after a decade or two. Men still recognize this, even through the toxic and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 08:50 PM
-4	Men (and society) want tangible value from women but are mad that women want tangible value too That's rather sad. Children are supposed to leave and live their own lives where checking in with you is that bi-monthly annoying phone call that eventually turns into a holiday call if you raised them properly. Your partner is supposed to be your person above all others, until one of you literally dies. Your kids are a part of your life together, but they're supposed to have their own lives you're only a minor player in. Your partner is supposed to be the whole point, someone to live with and f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/26 11:08 PM
–	Men (and society) want tangible value from women but are mad that women want tangible value too 1) What a hopeless romantic you must be to consider finding a partner to be akin to a quid pro quo business partnership. 2) More importantly, and as much as women don't like it, your sexual attractiveness and body is something you are, something intrinsic to you, is an aspect of yourself. This can never be said about a man's bank account or assets. They are apart from him, separate from him, and almost always a matter of random circumstance, aka luck. There is no universe where courting someone …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/26 10:48 PM
–	Chores are survival skills not gender roles Most of this just comes down to different standards. We've all seen women judge a man's apartment for just having what he needs and uses without fluff. Im married and my wife has never once done a load of my laundry, I do my laundry, but I do underwear after every wear and shirts once every 2 or 3 wears which would make some women gag I know, but it works for me. I CAN cook, but both my wife and I barely want to cook most of the time and handle it our own ways, I eat quickly seared meat or peanu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 10:03 PM
1	Red pill dudes don’t actually do better with women than other men. The ones who seem to do well do so because of a self fulfilling prophecy I think that the red pill kind of tripped and fell into a tangential truism that has been known for a lot longer than theyve been calling themselves that. Some red pill lessons are toxic af, but they do teach men to recognize certain realities they don't walk in with: 1)Stop putting pussy on a pedestal. They are just as shitty as dudes can be and are definitely colder, less romantic, and more naturally calculating. Not their fault, their reproductive drives push them to be cruel, Just like it's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/26 03:17 AM
2	Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument. Women are the ones that give birth therefore women should be valued and men should be livestock is kind of a self serving bias, especially for women that haven't given birth. Again, that can be argued in the abstract, but she's using it to argue that she should be empowered societallh by virtue of being of the group that potentially could give birth. She's arguing for rewarding/punishing individuals based on hypothetical potentials some will and some will not achieve. I'm all for giving mothers …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 09:23 PM
-2	Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument. <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 09:02 PM
5	Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument. A non-mother taking credit for what mothers have done is no different than a non-laborer taking credit for creating or maintaining society. It's an abstraction not tied to the individual. Fools plan and the universe laughs, plans mean nothing, only actions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 08:50 PM
12	Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument. To be fair, a huge amount of women take credit for all women who've had children to proclaim everything from being the real power behind every man to being divine goddesses for creating life... even when they themselves have no children. Collective credit and individual accountability avoidance isn't a common men's or women's failing, it's a common human failing that isn't gendered. Most humans will take any credit they can get credit for, and avoid most blame they are able to avoid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 08:34 PM
2	Age gap posts regarding “power imbalances” ignore that young women have (by lightyears) the most sexual power of any group Add to this that WOMEN are usually the first to claim that women mature intellectually and emotionally faster than men as a form of self flattery. It's one of the talking points many women use as validation when they themselves seek out the same age gap relationships they also ick when it's a woman who isn't them or a way to falsely portray the man as a gross old predator when a relationship ends so the woman can attempt to save face. Women generally want it both ways, to be seen as smarter and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 08:12 PM
3	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women We'll have to agree to disagree on that as well. Have a good one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 11:58 PM
1	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women We're not ENTIRELY our sex, sexuality, and gender identity, but they are absolutely a huge part of who and what all of us are, whether we're willing to admit that to ourselves or not. We are far from immune to the second strongest shared motivation in all of nature next to survive in the moment. We're more that than the plastic crap and made up job title seeking consumers we've been propagandized and indoctrinated to be by interests that DO spend all day fucking on their mega Yachts and resort c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 11:55 PM
1	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women A healthy romantic partnership is inextricable from sex. People that claim to be romantic partners that don't have regular sex by choice, meaning not illness where you should still honor the sexual connection you once shared because no one abandoned that connection by choice, are nothing more than roommates larping as romantic partners. Romantic, or Eros love and relationships are sexual by nature. 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 11:47 PM
5	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women Rank Country Index Score 1 Denmark 85.2 2 Norway 83.6 3 Finland 83.6 4 Sweden 83.5 5 Iceland 82.7 6 Netherlands 82.4 7 Switzerland 82.1 8 Belgium 80.1 9 Austria 80.1 10 Luxembourg 79.8 11 Germany 78.8 12 France 76.7 13 Slovenia 76.4 14 Canada 76.1 15 Japan 76.1 16 Australia 75.1 17 Malta 75.0 18 Ireland 75.0 19 Czech Republic 74.7 20 Singapore 74.6 21 United Kingdom 74.4 22 New Zealand 74.3 23 Estonia 73.5 24 Portugal 72.0 25 South Korea 71.4 26 Lithuania 70.5 27 United States 70.4 We're 27th, d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 10:24 PM
-2	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women let's not act men wanting to wet their dick is more wholesome than a woman who will do anything for money. This is, I'm sorry, a ridiculous statement. I know western women largely hate this reality, but our sexualities and gender identities are an intrinsic and massive part of who and what all of us are, men and women alike. Our motivations, our evolutionary drives, are informed by it, we are hard wired to protect those aspects of ourselves before even a digit or a limb. Westerm Women like to de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 10:00 PM
8	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women Dating/courting/romantic partnerships are about sex though, for both parties intrinsically if they are honest actors at least. Everyone would just marry their best friend regardless of genital compatibility if it were purely about the person's platonic partner compatibility. There's a word for when it's purely about sex for one party and purely about resources/money for the other: prostitution, a business arrangement, which is fine, be a prostitute then, but don't claim to be looking for a roman…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 08:42 PM
-5	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women If the woman isn't interested in a potential sexual partner for the sake of a potential sexual partner when courting, she's doing a con job. If it's about purely aboout money and resources, seek someone to go into business with as a business partner. That's what business partnerships are for. Presenting onesself as a prostitute would be an honest, ethical course with integrity if one is looking to trade sex they won't enjoy for resources they will, and there shouldn't be any shame in that, they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 08:09 PM
1	CMV: The “grass is greener” effect is much stronger for women in dating than men Cheating is a betrayal. That said, let's not pretend it isn't a common trope that when men cheat it's "to get their dick wet," and when women cheat it's more socially sympathized with because it's often claimed they are victims of emotional neglect by their partner, often with no specificity beyond vibes. It's very interesting how at least American culture will endorse the woman's view and condemn the non-cheater in that case. Both are equally wrong, but western reactions refuse to reflect that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 09:45 PM
1	"Hot guys be assholes to women!" Well that ain't you No worries. Good luck out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/26 06:10 PM
10	"Hot guys be assholes to women!" Well that ain't you I found a woman who doesn't like the games either, she has always had a lot of anxiety and just wants her man to be a protector, which I am. I'd rather die knowing the truth and doing what I believe is right as well. And I found a woman who, while not enthused about my lack of drive to make big moves up a latter to enrich sociopaths, accepts it because I am classically attractive, work out, and take pride in being a good dad. She's a pragmatist who got most of her list, just not the rich guy, we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/26 06:01 PM
20	"Hot guys be assholes to women!" Well that ain't you Even then, guess who is almost always married? Rich exectutives for weapons manufacturs, the essential care denying Healthcare insurer scam industry, who perform unnecessary mass layoffs for a bonus the wife then spends without a feather ruffled. It's harder to be successful in this world with actually practiced morals and ethics. And 999/1000 women will choose their perception that the immoral/amoral successful person who got all their resources by hurting others needlessly is the strong, and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/26 05:47 PM
–	Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be. You forget that men have made the ARTIFICIALLY fair world that women like you enjoy and never would have been able to build independently of men. In nature, succumbing to our biology that you elevate, men are simply stronger than women and get their way unless they've secured a man to defend them. That's what our nature considers "fair." And you're sitting behind your computer in highly unnatural perpetual comfort and safety able to walk through the world without a rational fear of being preyed …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/26 01:58 PM
–	Women as a whole are more attractive than men as a whole. Female vanity is more important to men than male vanity is to women, so men don't tend to prioritize it. If women valued men's appearance as men value women's, they wouldn't marry a man's bank account and/or utility at laborious tasks, and men would be less career focused and more vanity focused as a consequence. Men largely don't give shit 1 about women's income, technical ability, or strength with rare exception. Women don't give men a reason to be hyper vain. They can claim they care, but it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 12:13 AM
–	Women as a whole are more attractive than men as a whole. I feel like you're trying to "win" in some "one is a superior entity" contest. Neither men or women are better than the other. We both suffer from an incurable condition of being just insufferable that is being human, it just comes out differently but it all boils down to an unearned sense of self-importance. A lot of what is discussed here are more cultural mandates that lead to dysfunction in our species ability to pair bond. Whats the point of "boys are yucky/girls are gross" debates? Didn't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 12:00 AM
6	The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women. Most women see men as a means to an end, not the end in themselves ie a partner to go through life with. Of course western women have been conditioned to see the means of their acquisition of material gain as labor, even if that labor, loving your partner, could have more value in terms of depth of human connection, than what they are pursuing, Instagrammable totems and pricey experiences to compete against their girlfriend's hoards. Capitalism poisoned everything in the west right down to human…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 09:25 PM
–	Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships. Ultimately every human endeavor ever undertaken doesn't matter. Everyone will evenfually die and the Earth will eventually be destroyed by our sun. The only thing that matters to anyone is what anyone chooses to care about. Our biology and evolutionary psychology put their thumbs on the scale to push our minds to make that care about sex, but you're right, we can still choose something else or nothing at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 08:25 PM
1	As if men dont contribute half the genes required for the baby I do IT for a construction firm. I can say with great confidence that men produced the building she is standing in. We have women in our billing department, but women have very, very, very little interest in the trades that actually build the society they prance through acting superior. Same goes for the people that actually build the cars they drive, again I'm not talking about the exectuves, shareholders, billers, and other do nothing capitalist leech middlemen which a lot of women are, I'm ta…	/r/EverydayMisandry	17/02/26 07:23 PM
0	Vague language is necessary for women’s world view Women are just as vain as men are, they just think it's classier and higher ground to pretend they aren't with these vagueries. At least men are generally shallow about the traits of the actual woman or women they're interested in. Women are also shallow about that, but are equally concerned with the hoard of resources they control, which is not intrinsic to the man, but almost always the luck of their random circumstances. Women don't care if that person is the usual nepo or the rare self made,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 11:47 PM
1	It is not a parent’s job to teach their kids how to get laid. You did not undersell her. Pitiable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 11:56 PM
3	It is not a parent’s job to teach their kids how to get laid. Are you being serious? Unless there's some sort of coercion or a asexuality going on, meaning if both parties are present sexual beings, there's a carnal hunger, a need, an animalistic desire to pull one another into each other, a physical energy you get that you can really only tap into in that situation. I'm sorry if you haven't. It's really a tragic thing that our culture and many others in different ways teach women to fear and hate that sexuality within themselves, in some cultures to the p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 10:44 PM
3	It is not a parent’s job to teach their kids how to get laid. You explore the bodies of people you aren't having sex with? Also an agape or philia love hug in no way feels like an Eros hug, the same goes for the rest. They aren't comparable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 10:13 PM
3	It is not a parent’s job to teach their kids how to get laid. Humans bonding physically, touching, caressing, teasing, playing, holding, kissing, exploring, hugging, tickling, laughing, eventually getting around to the genitals, and so much more. Humans connecting on a level beyond what our crude languages can provide.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 10:07 PM
4	It is not a parent’s job to teach their kids how to get laid. Coolzies Also if you think sex is just getting your genitals touched, may you find better partners and become one yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 10:02 PM
5	It is not a parent’s job to teach their kids how to get laid. I'd provide them the social tools to get laid from a more limited perspective, as well as the birth control talk along with my spouse when age appropriate. It didn't roll that way, but had I had a daughter, It wouldn have been important to me not to raise them in shame of their own sexuality and irrational fear of half the population as so many do. Women are as sexual as men, our Puritan prude culture just enjoys trying to beat it out of them with shame, guilt, and irrational fear, and of course…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 09:28 PM
8	It is not a parent’s job to teach their kids how to get laid. I'm a father and husband, and I consider it my responsibility to provide my son the social tools to get laid. Sex is awesome, one of the greatest parts of the human experience. Just because prudes try to devalue it, minimize it, and claim it isn't important doesn't make it so. I honestly pity especially the American trait of devaluing what's important in life and overinflating what isn't. It's a vestige of our prude Puritan roots. We celebrate basically walking dead people who treat their labor …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 09:04 PM
5	Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to women I hear what you're saying and yes, there was a lot more societal expectation. What I mean is that for some now, marriage has turned into a list of material demands, like a list you made for Santa Clause but it's a list of material demands for your future spouse you haven't even met. That may be what the most traditional of marriages is about, but it isn't what a loving partnership is about, and it will ruin it or worse, make it last as the business arrangement between two detached parties that i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 09:21 PM
21	Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to women It cuts both ways and it's a threat both are throwing at the other. Positive attention is a hell of a drug, I doubt that most older single women and most older single men will fail to be lonely and bitter despite a brave face, and that isn't really something you can know until you know. I'm married. At the end of the day if you are getting married off a checklist or material expectations you're doing it wrong. The whole point is to have a dedicated romantic partner to experience life with, becau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 06:51 PM
1	Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire? Women are attracted to power and status. That isn't an attack, that's just their average drive. For most men, power and status seeking women are a turn off. That doesn't mean it's a usual deal breaker, but it's not the norm to see it as a pro. You can call it exploitative but so is nature and we're just Animals, but men at some level want a woman who depends on and is grateful to him, while women want the protector/provider. Sadly modernity has run counter to fulfilling those drives for most. If…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 03:22 PM
1	Men offer nothing to women but still expect women to want them From a perspective of pragmastism, right? Some act like the assholes in power, that a lot of women voted for, won't take them away from them when they've literally already started. Im a dirty socialist, and want them to have all the equal rights, but I'm a tiny hated minority. Republicans certainly want to take their rights away, and neoliberals want whatever polls well in the moment on social issues. They love playing up how they're physically weaker, but they seem to be in a hurry to burn brid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 01:56 AM
8	Men offer nothing to women but still expect women to want them I'd wager more older men warn against marriage than older women. I have a spouse. I don't make much money, neither does she, but together the practical side of life works. It's more about having a peer to go through the shit with. An emotional connection, not a talent show. it's about finding a qualitative connection that goes deeper than quantitative checkboxes. If you want generous, go find a generous employer. If you want funny, go to a comedy club. If you want an intimate partner, that shit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 01:43 AM
1	Do people take dating advice more negatively from the opposite gender compared to their own? This is a quintessential human weakness hard wired into us. We love finding as many ways as we can to divide ourselves into ever finer in groups. "I don't like people with this colored skin! Child of mine, don't you dare mate with someone of x religion, we believe in y! They talk funny! They dress funny! They have cooties!" As a species, we are exclusionary as fuck. Probably helped when there was only enough game for one tribe to survive the winter. Now it's more to feel the schaudenfreude of pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 10:59 PM
3	Respect I think in a vacuum, everyone is owed civility until you know who they are. At that point, respect has to be earned, or not.	/r/MensRights	14/08/25 06:43 PM
7	Radical feminists often deny being a monolith, but they never cease to act as one I do enjoy the hypocrisy of the extreme feminists TERF war. Really shows the malice in their hearts when they attack a woman who was born male, because it's more important to them to tear former males down than to lift women up. And talk about punching down.	/r/MensRights	14/08/25 12:44 AM
2	Most Passport bros leave the country because they can’t get any women in the U.S and try to take advantage of the American dollar being worth more over there Everyone takes advantage of every angle they can. Women use beauty to take advantage of money they didn't earn. People take promotions they didn't earn from hard workers by sucking up to and bullshitting the boss instead of doing the work. How many wealthy people shun their nepo inheritance they didn't earn in order to play fair? They take the advantage 999 out of 1000. This isnt a gendered thing. People take advantage of their options. Fair minded people, not boys not girls specifically, in thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 03:06 PM
2	The “everyone gets a wife” experiment lasted about 50 years and failed. Now it’s back to normalcy It's also a lesson that will hopefully ring throughout the ages for those willing to see the truth even if that truth isn't palatable: Women as a rule aren't interested in their partner, in a companion to share a life with, they're interested in what they can materially gain for their presence, physical intimacy, and appearence of interest, because as you say, in a vacuum, when all that's offered is a romantic partner and companion to experience and bear the struggles of life with, they'd largel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/25 09:33 PM