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Idk what you mean bro lol sounds like you agree with the study. Women are naturally more picky than men, it’s harder now because feminism has made women independent. Now guys have to bring a lot more to the table while most women can’t be a trad wives anymore because they’re in the work force. And this new way of living has only made us more mentally ill. The data proves this and that’s why RP guys are saying the west is f’d.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:31 PM
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Your brother needs to understand that “love” is the most overrated part of marriage/relationships. Hollywood has sold us the blue pill lie, and the data proves it. It’s a fantasy, just like porn. The divorce rate for love marriages is 50% compared to 4% for arranged marriages. And the satisfaction rates are the same, sometimes higher in the arranged marriages. A lot of it has to do with discipline, couples with high credit scores have an increased likelihood to stay together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:00 PM
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That’s funny, I’ve had 3 gfs tell me they loved me before I said anything, they all had serious emotional issues though 😬🚩 And guys mistake lust for love all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:32 AM
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If you’re a women who thinks it’s a good idea to go on fresh n fit, a show where they have most of the leverage, your IQ is def below 100. Only high IQ women I’ve seen on that show is the blue hair chick who’s always next to Sneako.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:06 PM
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A study of 172 college students found men reported falling in love earlier than women and expressing that sentiment first. The reason men are quicker to say 'I love you' may be because women are biologically predisposed to be pickier when selecting a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:02 PM
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Well I don’t think you and I will be doing anything any kind of way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:28 AM
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I read a study that looks matter a FUCK ton more with cold approaching than actual game or rizz. Matters less if you’re in a friend/social group, which makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:46 AM
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You know it’s bad for older women when even a proud simp questions getting with women in their 30s 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:40 AM
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Let me elaborate, a women who is 4’11 can be just as sexy as a 6 foot women. I don’t care about a womens height, hell she could be taller than me and I’d still find her hot if she has a nice body and face. Men put little importance to height. Women in comparison care more, which is why I said what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:29 AM
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Wym? I said I shoot my shot with them, didn’t say they were easy or desperate. I get rejected too but I’ve noticed my success rate is high so I generally go for them. If you think that’s mean, you should also think rejecting a man for being too short is mean too. I don’t make the rules, I just adapt my strategy accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:21 AM
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If they’re given enough time to get to know me, they wouldn’t be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:45 AM
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New generation definitely watching porn on the internet before they even turn 10. This is why we need strong male role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:44 AM
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Im 6’4 and always try to hit on tall women when I get the chance. I don’t prefer them but I know the chance of rejection is lower since there’s not many men who are significantly taller than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:40 AM
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Nah my first gf was not much to look at, but holy fuck did she know how to apply makeup. Would not have gotten with her if she never used it. But I will admit it’s a unique skill not many people will have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:23 AM
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Yeah, like if I match with someone hot, 95% chance of being a bot or trying to scam. And if not then they usually never reply. I took it seriously for a while, swiping 1000s of profiles a week only to get 5 matches to go on a date the entire time. I tell that to women and they’re always surprised, which is surprising to me. So when I see women complaining about dating apps, it’s like a fat person complaining about being overweight while I’m starving to death in a 3rd world country. We just live …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:27 PM
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Any guys you match with who are putting this little effort definitely have a lot of options and aren’t going to put effort into you. They probably don’t even rely on dating apps to go on dates with women. Women can say what they want, but when the stats show that women only swipe on 5% of men on dating apps, probably best for most men to delete these apps. Like it’s actually bad for our mental health to the point of deleting ourselves. Women have bad experiences but not to this extent which is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:34 PM
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The Bible has guidelines too, but do all people who identify as Christian follow them? No. But idc, they can call themselves whatever they want if people in their own community let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:00 PM
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Ah the good old a No true Scotsman fallacy. TRP is more than a subreddit now. Touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:50 PM
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Is that TRP bible? Didn’t get the memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:46 PM
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Same difference. I’d ask r/redpillwomen what they define it as. Guarantee you’ll get a lot of different answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:45 PM
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True, but I think actively trying to make that happen is a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:44 PM
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r/redpillwomen ask them what they define as a RP women. I don’t understand most of what you said, so please elaborate if you want me to respond to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:34 PM
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RP women are just women who do what TRP defines as the womens role in a relationship/marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:27 PM
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if you didn't know what it was 5+ years ago then just nvm Did the Red Pill have nothing to do with the matrix movies 5 years ago? If so, did someone just invent the name and it just coincidentally was also used in the movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:22 PM
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Red pill in the context of this sub is specifically referring to views and beliefs of sexual marketplace that are classified as "red pill" and the dating strategies that arise from that. Yeah and that’s defined as reality by the red pill. Ask any RP guy on here and he’ll agree. Which is why it’s called the red pill and not something like truth serum. Yall trying to make it into some universal life wisdom and shit, its not supposed to be a direct metaphor to the matrix movies Imao. If it’s not su…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:07 PM
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Red pill is seeing reality as it really is. How is it losing it’s meaning when that’s literally it’s original meaning from the Matrix? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:39 AM
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Call it what you want, they still follow it, in many different cultures. And of course the red pill is a western thing, people who live in absolute poverty already know how brutal reality is, they don’t need to take any pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:31 AM
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Yeah that’s true, but if I’m dating a girl who identifies as a feminist, and I’m RP, the chance for improvement in my eyes is very low. So it’s best to leave that relationship immediately or get on a FWB type relationship with them, if they’re willing. Which is what I did with this one girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:21 AM
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Im not saying sexism is not being promoted, many feminist promote man hating, doesn’t mean that’s what it’s about. And I’ve actively called out sexist RP men on here. I’m saying the reason it’s becoming popular is because it’s teaching men to be masculine and get more options. Mens issues aren’t really addressed in the modern world. Something was growing inside, and now it’s coming full force. Some people will be nicer than others. But it’s the mean ones that get the most attention. That’s just …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:07 AM
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Women can follow a RP lifestyle without knowing what it actually is, many women who live in third world countries are like that. It’s literally a way to escape poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:42 AM
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Im not oblivious to the rest, I’m literally acknowledging it in the post. TRP isn’t becoming popular because men are starting to see women as subhuman, it’s becoming popular because it’s teaching men to be masculine and get more options in life. We follow it for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:39 AM
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Subhuman? That’s not the truth, I’m not gonna defend something I don’t believe in. And like I said, if people want to pull a no true scottsman fallacy that’s fine. You’re obviously pointing at that direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:22 AM
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Women don’t understand what it’s like to be a man, because for the most part they don’t need to. They only complain about sexism if it puts them at a disadvantage, but rarely when it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:13 AM
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Like I said, RP is just accepting reality as it is. The general consensus today is RP men can disagree on many things, but as long as we agree that we see reality as it is, we’re RP. If people want to pull a no true scottsman fallacy that’s fine. Yes they’re still up, but like I said, it’s more than just a subreddit. The subreddit isn’t the RP bible, so don’t refer to it as one. The whole point of this post was to change that narrative anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:07 AM
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I saw that, it’s references from like 6-7 years ago, a lots changed since then and TRP is more than just a subreddit now. Red pill now is just accepting reality as it is, doesn’t mean you have to follow any “guidelines”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:55 AM
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Which guide says this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:28 AM
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What is common sense? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:21 AM
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If you’re a short ugly guy (and I’m talking about looks they can’t control, not the way they dress or body) and you don’t have much experience talking to women, you will 100% be discouraged by the data of the rejection rate. Women underestimate how bad rejection can be, I’m 6’4 and good lookin and even I have a tough time dealing with it, can’t imagine a short undesirable man’s experience. I had a friend at work who’s a short guy and not much to look at, nicest guy in the office and always makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:01 AM
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There are some wholesome RP gurus, they just don’t get much views because there’s no woman hating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:13 AM
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It’s not easy for a man to be traditional anymore, and I think it’s one note to just blame feminism. Inflation and the internet has made it nearly impossible for most men to even follow the RP because most guys are priced out of the market. Sure we can get lucky and get a women who likes “us for us” but at the end of the day, we got LUCKY, which means we’re more likely to put up with BS because the woman has the leverage. This probably explains why most divorces are started by women. The RP is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:24 AM
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Many guys become god fearin men for this very reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:12 AM
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I think what women don’t understand is not that it’s a double standard, but the absolute shallowness of wanting a man that much taller than you. It’s not something we can control. I’m 6’4 and Peruvian, I’m extremely rare, you’re not gonna find a mofo who looks like me often, if at all. So when a girl says I’m their type, I automatically think they’re extremely picky and/or delusional if they think there’s a lot of me out there. It’s basically a red flag for me. Like if I tell her I like that she…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:05 AM
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Yeah, that’s what the RP is trying to tell women, but they don’t want to hear it. I’ll admit, I’ve lied to women saying I find their money attractive, when in reality I was just saying whatever I thought they wanted to hear. Men aren’t honest because women won’t fuck them/be in a relationship with them if they tell the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:51 AM
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Ooh yeah completely gloss over my sob story of my friend who died. Must be convenient not to address it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:31 AM
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I wish people would stop falling for this body positivity crap, I’ve had a friend who was morbidly obese die of the flu at the age of 21. Doctors said he could’ve made it if it weren’t for all the other health issues he had because he was extremely overweight. I was really depressed after that, but you can assume I don’t care about people losing their loved ones because of being obese. They’re the exception right? And I’ve dated and had relationships with fat women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:25 AM
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I don’t care about health, people have the right to slowly kill themselves and promote it so others do the same 😂. Especially children, I definitely don’t care if they die young.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:05 AM
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I mean, I was being sarcastic, but whatever makes you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:54 AM
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I mean, being underweight or overweight is unhealthy af, so might as well promote both
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:51 AM
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Zero effect? Then why the fuck were their annoying campaigns for more plus sized models to be recognized if it doesn’t matter that much and has zero effect on peoples lives? It’s because it DOES. Doesn’t matter if things are different now. All I’m saying is you CAN call old men pedophiles for getting with young women, I really don’t care, I’m not old, BUT in a different context, don’t get mad if I assume young women are only dating old rich men for their money, and call them gold diggers with no…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:39 AM
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They don’t know how to be attractive to women. Just like some women think having a successful career makes them attractive to men, when in reality you could be working at target and as long as you’re hot and the vibes are good, you’ll get wifed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:28 AM
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It has a well deserved connotation for people who use people to get money. Did you read what I literally said in the previous comment? I said if he’s broke he COULD potentially be predatory. If he’s rich he could just be exercising his options, and young women are seen as high value in society. If you don’t believe me, just look at modeling agencies, the cut off for women is 25 while men can be in their 40s and they could still have work. You could say they’re predatory but they’re just projecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:23 AM
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Oh I’m sorry is that offensive? If you’re going to insinuate old men who do this are low key pedophiles, I’m going to insinuate the grown ass women who consensually take part in the relationship are gold diggers. Idc if she’s 18, at what age do you think grown ass women should be held accountable for their decisions to get with these men? 25? 35? Never? Charles Manson manipulated women to kill people, but those women are STILL held accountable for the decisions they made. Doesn’t matter if someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:03 AM
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That’s the thing, men who are successful at hooking up with women are going to be very attractive to most women they talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:52 PM
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On the first date? Every guy? It’s the men you’re choosing and/or the environment you choose them in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:47 PM
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Well, he wasn’t successful was he? Again it happens but it’s more common for women to successfully scam men. When men try to do it we usually fail miserably, which is why most men don’t do it. Only the Chads and Tyrone’s can get away with that. The Tinder swindler was definitely a stereotypical chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:25 PM
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If they prey on you, prey back I guess lmao. But my point is men rarely use women for anything other than sex or relationships. It’s extremely rare for men to scam women out of money. While it’s quite common for women to do that to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:18 PM
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Christian women live a red pill lifestyle but unfortunately have blue pill ideas because of the media they consume.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:17 PM
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Only be friends with women you 100% do not find attractive physically. If they end up confessing love for you, it’s best to end that friendship so you don’t lead her on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:14 PM
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Oh so you’ve taken the black pill? You should go to the Philippines then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:02 PM
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Why wouldn’t the young women not also be seen as predatory for getting with a rich old man? Ever hear of gold diggers? It really depends because it can go both ways. If the guy is broke and with a much younger women, I’d say that could potentially be predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:00 PM
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So many men today are dropping their standards just to stop being lonely. It’s sad really, humans need to have good connections with people in order to live a fulfilling life. Science has proved this. Dying alone ain’t a weekend retreat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:50 PM
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If it was legal and regulated, that would automatically get rid of most incels too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:46 PM
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Women saying they don’t care about my money, while also wanting to go out and eat a lot. Like go out with a rich guy I’m living paycheck to paycheck 😭. Inflation is fuckin the average guy over. I usually have the most money saved up when I’m in a dry spell 😂. Unless she’s into you, which rarely happens at first, she WILL want you to spend money for the date. Otherwise it’ll be “boring”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:38 PM
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Well height can’t be changed unless you get extremely expensive and extremely risky limb lengthening surgery in another country. And even then there’s limits. Only thing that I can think that’s equivalent is if a women is over 45 and single. Very risky if she has a baby and many are no longer able to give natural birth, which is something that can’t be changed. Lots of men want healthy kids so if she’s unable to have any, that’s a huge dealbreaker. And I’m not saying women shouldn’t have a choic…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:26 PM
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I know it’s fictional but the only reason Beavis and Butthead never score is because of their looks 😂. They have no shame when it comes to talking to many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:24 PM
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Yeah they’re like SpongeBob trying to get into the Salty Spitton, and black pill is Super weenie hut jr’s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:02 AM
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People aren’t logically consistent when they complain about these issues and blame the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:59 PM
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You don’t have to ask what a man or woman brings to the table, if you get to know them long enough you’ll see. In my experience it usually doesn’t take that long. The question might be seen as disrespectful and most people will not know where you’re coming from so why open Pandora’s box? That’s just my take on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:54 PM
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Depends on the culture you’re speaking of, it’s like asking what is music to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:48 PM
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Really just depends, I think in modern day it’s an advantage because you aren’t a slave to a woman’s looks. For a LTR, I think you should be careful who you get with, your partner might end up on that dead bedroom sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:43 PM
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Honestly, it’s just bad representation on both sides. For example, being a feminist doesn’t mean you’re a misandrist, but there are women who genuinely hate men in that group, even openly admitting it unapologetically. Just like being RP doesn’t mean you’re a misogynist, but there are men who genuinely hate women in that group. I think we just gotta call these people out, even if we’re “supposedly” on the same side. Otherwise, we’re just letting them represent us. Anyone see that recent fresh an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:28 PM
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True, but what’s the point of dating if you’re not prepared for it to be successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:11 AM
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It’s common af for divorces to start because of financial issues, marrying rich makes those issues much smaller. Just because many people are in marriages, doesn’t mean they’re ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:30 AM
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Doesn’t mean they’re all okay with that. Some people get depressed living that blue pill life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:54 PM
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Depends how good they are at makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:37 PM
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Yeah, you’re not black 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:31 PM
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Why do I need a study/source to show women prey on men? Is women becoming millionaires on Lonelyfans not enough evidence when porn is free? They literally pay people from Thailand to talk to their fans, posing as themselves. Yes it’s not practical for them to talk to all their fans, but why lie though? Yes men prey on women I’m just making a point that it’s not worth getting a study/source to state the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:05 PM
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Show me a study that shows it’s common for men to prey on women, and I’ll show you. And when I say common, I don’t mean a majority of women are like this, just enough to where it’s significantly more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:54 PM
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They do, just in different ways. Women prey on men a fuck ton by using them for free food in dates or free gifts. While having 0 intentions of ever getting with the guy. Not all but I’ve met quite a few who openly flaunt that as a flex. Like it ain’t even a confession, they’re literally bragging about it. Same way men brag about having sex, it’s the female equivalent. And I’m not talking about sugar babies, I’m talking about regular women who literally only date for free stuff and use men becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:22 PM
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Yeah a lot of them don’t, some do. When I said “successful” i do agree that it was a poor choice of words, and I don’t wish anyone to kill themselves . There are many factors as to why men kill themselves more than women that have nothing to do with what I said. I’m just saying that one factor, if changed, would be significant enough to make women kill themselves more than men. That’s just my opinion though, and it may not be significant at all. I’m also not blaming women for it either, many mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:15 PM
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What does it tell me?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:01 PM
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Well I don’t, I’m just trying to state that reality can be brutal af. And most of the time when people kill themselves it’s because they can’t accept reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:57 PM
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Gaslighting just so you can get what you want is the BIGGEST one. Like if I don’t want to go out to eat because we can cook at home, they’ll say they don’t ask for much and we’re allowed to spend money even though it’s smarter to save it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:51 PM
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You can assume anything about anyone based on how they look. If you see a guy dressed like a bum, it’s safe to assume he’s broke. He might be a millionaire but we have no evidence to prove that based on looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:45 PM
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Yeah, ad hominem attacks just show they got nothing better to say 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:43 PM
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Wait, is this news to you? If this wasn’t true women wouldn’t become millionaires off of Lonelyfans
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:41 PM
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That’s not common, so it’s irrelevant for 99% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:40 PM
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These stories sadden me, these men couldn’t accept their reality so they just deleted themselves from reality. I wonder what went through their mind before ending it. Lots of women out here have the privilege to live in delusion and not accept their reality. If they didn’t have that privilege, guarantee they’d be way more successful than men in deleting themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:35 PM
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Idk why they think that, if a man wants kids he’s not going to get with a women in her 40s unless he’s dense. So that should be reason enough for her to be less selective, unless she doesn’t care what her man wants. They get a lot of attention sure, but it’s probably just for dudes who want sex. That’s why Milf porn is so popular nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:26 PM
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It’s because incels never talk to women, they rely on dating apps to get any connection. The problem with dating apps is that if you’re a guy who wants to find a women who doesn’t prioritize looks, that’s the WORST way to find her. All women who care a lot about looks are on dating apps and it’s rare to find one who doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:23 PM
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Meh some women care about just looks and confidence, even if the guy is acts like a creep/dick. Guarantee there are dudes who act like Beavis and Butthead but get tons of pussy because they’re good lookin. When I say good lookin I also mean based on things guys can control like clothes and hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:17 PM
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They want to fight the patriarchy to make a new patriarchy. Then when shit hits the fan and we need men to step up, all we’ll have is a bunch of chemically castrated pussies who are scared to fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:09 PM
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This is delusional, we find different things attractive, and women can go from a 3-4 to at 7-8 with makeup. Now if you’re talking about the way men dress that’s a different story. But Men aren’t judged based on looks alone which is why make up isn’t marketed towards us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:05 PM
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I wear makeup as a man, it actually is a turn off for some women even if it is subtle. Which is why I rarely ever tell them I wear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:59 PM
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It takes skill for a man do have a high body count, even if he’s good looking and charming. Doesn’t take any skill for women, even if they’re just dating. There’s nothing to debate about that, it’s just reality. It’s why men flex on body count and women don’t. Should they be shamed for it? No, but people are assholes and will judge you regardless of anything. Should men be shamed for being virgins and getting no pussy? No, but like I said people are assholes, nothing we can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:55 PM
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I think women have become more masculine and men have become more feminine. It’s a first world privilege, because in other 3rd world countries, men tend to be more masculine and women are more feminine in comparison. My father from Peru used to say the real world isn’t made for weak men, and now I finally understand what he meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:52 PM
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Sorry, you sound cringe 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:52 AM
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If you can’t get with a girl that looks like tammy slaton, who is a universal 1/10, idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:13 AM
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I’m only talking about only 1/10 women, not unattractive women in general. If you can’t get with a 1/10 women, idk what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:03 AM
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It is easy, if we’re talking about 1/10 women only. That’s so ugly you wouldn’t be able to look at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:55 AM
1

How does this make me wrong? What point do you think I’m making?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:40 AM
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Yeah I agree, it’s f’d up but it’s reality. That’s why if I was a woman, I’d marry a guy much older than me because I ain’t raising the chances of being left on a death bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:11 AM
3

Younger people are less likely to be terminally Ill and are actually able to take care of older men because they’re younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:05 AM
3

Wym? Men can want women to take care of them and want them to be younger at the same time. Please elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:01 AM
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Because if you’re older, you’re more likely to die sooner? Seems obvious to me. I’m not trying to justify it, it’s f’d up and I would never leave my SO if they were terminally I’ll. But it’s rare for young people to be terminally ill, it’s common for older people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:57 AM
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Why can’t it prove both?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:51 AM
1

Nah if RP went mainstream, Lonelyfans models would go broke, porn will be a dead business and the world economy might collapse. It’s a nice fantasy to think of but it won’t happen. Probably better if it doesn’t honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:45 AM
0

This just proves why men want younger women, less likely to die sooner
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:44 AM
1

Bruh, the world economy is about to collapse, that unemployment number will go up a fuck ton because the Fed wants to fight inflation by raising interest rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:42 AM
21

Men calling themselves Alpha/beta/sigma is as cringe as women talking about zodiac signs in regards to their personality. It’s basically the male equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:32 AM
1

Ummm tell him your concerns and if he doesn’t care, dump his ass? Plenty of dudes out there willing to eat ass and such so def leave him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:24 AM
4

Modern men aren’t weird? No they’re just seen as creepy if they’re not also charming or good lookin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:16 AM
1

Yeah so it’s not really good advice to give if it’s the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:09 AM
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You would never ask this, once you get to know the women you’ll know exactly what she brings to the table. Which in most cases isn’t much, so you should move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:04 AM
1

Yeah, it’s fun because I got both men and women hating on it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:42 AM
1

Yeah, can you link that study?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:32 AM
1

That’s the problem, and the point of TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:29 AM
1

That used to be true, but now because of SJW’s, dating apps and the internet in general, lots of 1/10s think they’re 7-8’s so they put less effort
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:17 PM
0

Guys complain about matching with them on dating apps all the time, can’t be that rare, just go on Hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:49 AM
4

Look around you, almost every person you see is the result of a man getting with a women. I say almost because sexual assault and sperm banks exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:40 AM
2

Might get down voted for this but fuck it lolz. Ugly women actually benefit more from getting rich than attractive women do. Why? Because they can afford to pay for plastic surgery. Most risks that come from plastic surgery are because people look outside the country by doctors with questionable credentials. With more money comes less risk, which is an incentive to improve one’s looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:27 AM
-1

Yeah, just gotta find the ones that actually know their smv
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:25 AM
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Guys who are 6’2 are rare but guarantee you’ve seen quite a few in your life. Same goes for 1/10 chicks. I think a good point somebody made is that guys have 0 incentive to get with 1/10 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:21 AM
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That’s my point, men who don’t want to improve and blame women are the same as women who don’t want to improve and blame men. Lots of people should be happy but aren’t, if that wasn’t the case, nobody would be depressed because they could just choose to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:08 AM
2

Well I have high standards, so if I just settle for the women in my pool, the standards are being lowered. I’m not saying I deserve them by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:05 AM
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Guarantee any guy who puts even a little bit of effort can get a 1/10 chick. The problem is when the 1/10 chick thinks she’s a 6-7.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:02 AM
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Men complain if they’re unhappy, I took your advice and lowered my standards for women and that only made me depressed. I don’t believe men or women should lower their standards, but they shouldn’t complain if they don’t get what they want while also not improving themselves. This includes a women who complain about men. Improvement is different for men and women. For example a women can get rich but it doesn’t really do much in regards to attracting more men, unless she pays for plastic surgery…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:46 PM
2

Being boring isn’t shitty. Lots of women don’t realize how hard it actually is to be charming and funny. Took me 5-6 years before I was even told I was either. That’s time in my life I’ll never get back, but in the end it was worth it because I can have higher standards now. So it’s lazy advice to just say work on your personality with no deeper dive. It’s easy to get women if you have low standards. But it’s also an easy way to be unhappy, which is what I found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:51 PM
1

If they’re getting angry, they probably put you on some sort of pedestal and felt entitled to your attention. Once they realized they weren’t entitled to shit, some unresolved personal issues must have come up and they got angry. This is why TRP teaches men to not put any women on a pedestal. But that’s just my opinion, they could just be crazy and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:10 PM
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It’s irrelevant what he is objectively, as long as you’re attracted to him, you’ll put in effort, that’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:07 PM
1

Most of womens problems when it comes to dating could be solved if they put in more effort into finding their match. They have “themselves” to focus on, so it takes out more time then they’re willing to put in. It’s not gonna be easy, but nothing worth having comes easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:04 PM
1

Probably doesn’t get any pussy, ppl who actually get women are used to rejection, especially if they cold approach like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:02 PM
12

Giving them a fake number used to work before cell phones, now he’ll probably ask you to text back to be sure it’s not fake
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:01 PM
1

Normalize men wearing makeup, then it’ll be easier to compare looks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:53 AM
1

Is it a privilege that only ugly chicks wanna do me with low effort on my end?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:55 PM
3

Well I do because I have options, most men don’t compared to women. If a women acts like an asshole all the time, I’m not gonna simp over her and work it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:28 PM
3

MGTOW wouldn’t be controversial if they stopped obsessing over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:58 PM
3

Im a male self diagnosed hypochondriac, so sex with strangers is an ick for me. I’m the exception though according to all the pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:52 PM
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Men don’t like asshole women, we put up with them because we think we have no options. This is usually the case. Women get with assholes because assholes don’t give af, and assholes are more likely to talk to more women with no shame. They have more options so they get away with more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:44 PM
1

THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:42 PM
2

Yacht parties? What percentage of men go to those places do you even know? Your average man ain’t going to the places you’re going yet you judge us based on that. MOST men don’t even interact with women that often but you wouldn’t know because you only see the ones that do. It’s perception bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:14 PM
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Men who choose to police how you act at dive bars are the WORST representation of men. You can’t control how they police you or not. Just control what you can, by NOT going to sketchy places 😂. And we get it you can protect yourself, idk how that’s relevant at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:08 PM
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No, YOU said “"Normal" men often encourage shitty male behavior and or they simply turn a blind eye to it.” While also saying you went to a sketchy dive bar. Normal men don’t go to places like that, wtf are you on? Im not gonna judge black/Hispanic ppl based on my experiences with them in a bad place, you shouldn’t either. But it sounds like you’re both sexist and racist since you also said you’re not “PC” enough for this conversation. And I am? Lol Women should protect themselves, just leave it…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:57 PM
1

Well you can be disciplined without being determined. Like I could workout twice a day and hate it for a while, but I’m disciplined enough to just do it, regardless if I feel like quitting the whole time and am having second thoughts. Being determined definitely helps though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:37 PM
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Disciplined people can be determined
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:46 AM
3

No, struggling shouldn’t be romanticized. Things like guys who constantly say they wake up at 4 am to start the day, when there’s some Mexican lady who is doing the same thing to go to work all day but isn’t making a big deal out of it. Red pill is for people who are privileged and live in delusion, so they don’t even realize that struggling is just a part of life. Like if you’re not happy all the time there must be something wrong. They’re convinced they have anxiety and/or depression, when it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:04 AM
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Yes, most of the guys who take the red pill are living a delusional privileged life. Women too, feminism for example is a first world privilege. So when things don’t go their way they complain and feel entitled to stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:22 AM
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I was raised privileged, so yes not in poverty or lower class. My parents did grow up in dirt poor poverty and tried to shelter me from the reality of the world when they raised me in the US. This in a way made me take many things for granted. It wasn’t until I got SEVERE sciatica that I had a wake up call of what true suffering is like. I was in constant 10/10 pain for weeks with no sleep. I’ve never had suicidal thoughts until this happened. I was facing a reality I couldn’t accept and wanted …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:13 AM
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It helped realize nothing worth having in life comes easy, and you shouldn’t feel entitled to things you don’t deserve. You can’t control what others do, but you can control what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:57 AM
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Because I was lookin for motivation, instead of trying to build DISCIPLINE. Life motivates you everyday, but it mostly motivates you to be average and be okay with it. Red pill helped me to say fuck that and be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:46 AM
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Red pill has helped me get disciplined to improve myself, I’ve lost weight and have more options then ever before in my life. I’m just on here to debunk a lot of the stuff guys/girls say, most of the time it’s just excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:18 AM
1

Do you actually have psychopathic tendencies besides this? It must be so easy for psychopaths to get laid, wish they could give men a pill to be one temporarily. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:59 AM
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Oof I’m 6’4 so I often times don’t recognize my privilege. Ppl always assume the lady’s are throwing it at me 24/7. I have to agree or they’ll think something’s wrong with me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:55 AM
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I used to be this way until I became a stoner. 80% of my social anxiety went away. Definitely made me fun to be around women. Don’t recommend it to everyone though since weed effects ppl differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:49 AM
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Claiming she’s a 10 when she clearly is not. Also if she talks about hating men a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:41 AM
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Said no ass man ever 🍑🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:39 AM
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No I just disagree and stated why, you can disagree with someone and not be offended. I disagree with a lot of men who feel entitled to a womens body and don’t have anything to offer. And she literally told me in the thread she believes men should be held accountable for not helping, which proves my assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:30 AM
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Then why mention it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:05 AM
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I’m all for holding people accountable, even myself, as long as we’re being logically consistent with it. Otherwise we shouldn’t do it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:20 AM
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She didn’t say that, she said that when men harass her, other men don’t help. And I’m saying we’re not obligated to help and shouldn’t be shamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:15 AM
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If they feel entitled to police how you intervene, then they’re just shitty people. In a perfect world we could just get rid of shitty people but unfortunately that’s not gonna happen. I used to be all for the one bad apple spoils the bunch. But it’s not logically consistent when people use it. For example, feminist blame ALL men for letting other men partake in bad behavior. But those same feminist wouldn’t dare blame all black men for letting other black men partake in criminal behavior. Becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:07 AM
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Understand that strangers/men have no obligation to protect you, you go out alone, expect to protect yourself alone. Women say “I don’t need no man” BUT then complain when you actually do and we do nothing. Reality is a tough pill to swallow. Men are humans who are afraid of confrontation just as much as you are. Maybe the man harassing you is dangerous, idk. Men get killed over shit like this. Women have the privilege to be confrontational because they’re less likely to get punched or murdered,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:43 PM
1

I follow red pill but honestly don’t care about n count, but if she passes a certain number, I definitely want a paternity test if we have a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:56 PM
2

This is unfortunately the experience of the average joe. But it’s reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:49 PM
1

Tell us without giving a touch grass response
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:43 PM
1

To keep it simple, yes include them, and I just say have it separately because it’s different for every gender. Men are objectively WAY more hornier than women. There was a post on a sub Reddit of an asexual trans ftm person who was going through hormonal therapy. I’ll try to look for it but they said something along the lines of feeling much hornier than ever before because of the testosterone. I’m not trying to have a gender debate, but most men are filled with this horniness everyday because …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:41 PM
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Put them separately too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:30 PM
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I used to be those dudes, until I found out I was just too thick and got a custom made condom. I’d suggest most guys get them if condoms feel too tight or loose. Women getting with a women is different than men getting with a women. That’s why I’d like to see them both but separately. And again, if you follow what I say, you’ll find more guys who meet your standards regardless of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:24 PM
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There are plenty of guys who would follow your safety guidelines and are good looking. You just need to swipe more often, especially if you’re looking for a guy who’s good in bed. By more often I mean everyday for at least an hour. The more often you swipe, the more pickier you should be. By body count I mean just with men, that’s it. Oral sex is still sex, if my gf says she’s only been with 3 guys but then I find out she’s sucked 30 dicks, 31 if it includes me, I’d be fuming lol. Share the wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:10 PM
1

This will not work for everyone, but getting high and trying to crack jokes with friends definitely helped me be a more funny and less serious kind of guy. Make sure you’re tolerance is high though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:00 PM
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Why increase the chances of it failing though? Even women looking for just sex can act like prudes if they feel disrespected.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:56 PM
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Wait wait wait, hypothetically, are you having sex with 100 men and only 2 of them are good in bed? 😳 Also If you don’t want to share your body count that’s fine, but it’d be a good point of reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:44 PM
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Umm where’s the problem? 25 in the course of several weeks? And you haven’t been on there in months? Sounds like the problem is you’re not swiping enough. You’ll get spammed but you can filter that by picking the best top tier looking men. Now I get it. So out of 25 you got 5, do they ever flake on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:32 PM
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How often do you swipe? How successful have you been on getting sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:59 PM
2

What are your safety guidelines? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:50 PM
2

Right after matching usually, and a girl asked me how tall I was and I said check my profile. She said that was too much work since we already moved off the app😂. She didn’t even delete it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:48 PM
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Then you shouldn’t have a problem since there’s a high supply/low demand of those men. Unless you’re not much to look at and have high standards looks wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:39 PM
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Idk but in a given year I’ve had 80. Im on the app everyday and endlessly swipe. Keep in mind I’m very picky with who I right swipe on, and a lot of girls don’t realize how tall I am until we meet in person. 90% of my matches flake on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:33 PM
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Conversations go a long way, just don’t abruptly talk about sex and you’ll be beating most guys who do. And don’t expect anything from a match because most of them will flake on you. It sux but it’s reality. Just be the best salesman you can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:49 PM
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No, im VERY picky when it comes to right swiping, and I think most men should be too but our nature and environment don’t make it easy. That would stop these whales from thinking they’re 10s when they’re really 0’s and should lose weight if they don’t wanna die young. Toxic positivity is worse than toxic masculinity. For me, this wasn’t always the case. I used to have NO standards and would go on dates with women I didn’t find attractive at all just to look for a good time/vibe. I thought there’…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:26 PM
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I’ve had accounts on multiple apps, never had any luck on tinder, too saturated. Hinge seems to be the app that I’ve had the most luck on. Just wish they had a body type filter, I don’t like fat women, they have a height filter though 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:08 PM
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Comparing what’s easier or harder doesn’t really do much to add to the conversation. Men and women ARE different, and therefore have different problems when it comes to dating and getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:43 PM
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Women SHOULD have a strong vetting process, it’s not your fault guys are shitty salesmen. Like I said it’s hard, but nothing worth having will come easy. I’m actually playing on “easy” mode since I’m 6’4 and good lookin, and even that seems HARD af when I right swipe on 100s of women and get no matches. I couldn’t imagine what hardcore mode must be like for a guy, might not be worth it but I’m not the guy to ask. Keep in mind, just getting matches doesn’t guarantee anything will happen. Women ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:33 PM
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If your on dating apps, most of the women on there will waste your time. It sux but that’s just the nature of it. And women will subconsciously think you don’t actually care about them even if they’re down to talk to you about sex abruptly after matching.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:31 PM
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This was in 2016, lots of dudes seemed to like jumping into the topic of sex, guys DONT EVER DO THIS. I think a lot of guys with a high libido want to find a girl with a high libido, but don’t understand that women hide that shit and it usually won’t be revealed until y’all are actually having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:16 PM
2

Ngl, I didn’t understand your question, can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:10 PM
2

Just to add, your luck also depends on the dating app, so definitely find out which ones you have the most luck on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:07 PM
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I did this once, got tons of matches. I think women dont want to put in the effort in finding a guy who isn’t in it for sex. It’s HARD af but possible. Guys don’t want to put in any effort either. Not me, I have to swipe 1000s of profiles to get a few matches and even then it’s not guaranteed to go anywhere. But I’m consistent and get dates frequently because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:00 PM
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Agreed, but I think women who dont have anything to offer and have these high standards need to improve on themselves, in the context of getting a HVM. Same goes for men. An unemployed fat guy living in his parents basement can have high standards too, but if you don’t improve on yourself, your true options will be 0 and will stay that way unless you improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:44 PM
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Not at all lol. But I’m trying to improve myself everyday instead of feeling entitled to things I don’t deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:13 PM
0

The average person could not get with a millionaire. Average ppl lose in life when it comes to finances, it sucks but it’s reality. Some get lucky, but the exception doesn’t make the rule. I rather die alone then be with someone who’d divorce me and leave my children in a single parent household. But that’s just me. Maybe ppl delude themselves to being happy, but I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:05 PM
1

Yeah settling with a broke person make those problems worse. Life’s not fair but it never promised to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:56 PM
1

Yeah, settling with a broke person would make that happen. Life’s not fair, deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:54 PM
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Yeah, also if you’re a socially inept weirdo, it doesn’t matter how you look, just look at Elliot Rodger.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:08 PM
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If you have/want kids, yes, because you run the risk of divorce. And the data shows that’s the worst environment for a kid. So in a way, settling is selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:04 PM
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If you’re an average man, that’s how 95% of your interactions are gonna be like. It’s a numbers game, no women is special. Don’t waste time on a women who will waste yours. You’ve never had the experience of being rejected over and over again by women as a man so you dont understand, and we don’t expect you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:37 PM
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Then ask the other men who AGREE with OP if they’re 6’4 and good lookin. Guaranteed they’re not. And I’ve been rejected by most women, which disproves what you’re saying. Telling a 5’7 guy to simp over a women is stupid, he should spend his time getting money, working on game and talking to many women. THAT WORKS. Otherwise he’s gonna be some pussy whining about being in the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:27 PM
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Yeah because they’re probably socially inept weirdos 😂. I used to have a six pack when I was 18 and am better with women now after I gained weight from an injury. Trying to lose it now to increase my options, but still have way more then when I was 18. Just having money doesn’t mean shit. You have to be the whole package, that’s what true red pill is about. What OP is saying makes sense when you put it into this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:00 PM
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You sound like a blue-black piller, def not red pill, which is odd if you’re a women. I’ve seen plenty of short guys with hot women my whole life. You don’t understand the male experience, as you can see many MEN agree with OP because of our experience. And yeah I can get women who are average/ugly and have in the past, but that didn’t make me happy. I have high standards now and women who are of high value don’t just consider looks, you have to have status, security, personality/charm and ambit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:50 PM
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If the 5’7 guy continues to be average, ofc. If you follow red pill philosophy you’ll know that it’s about improving yourself to get more options instead of simping. Assuming OP has that context in mind, he’s correct in what he’s saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:47 PM
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Yeah that’s my point, But even a guy who’s 5’7 can still get more options. Not waste time simping for women who don’t like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:21 PM
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Yeah I have the privilege of being 6’4 and good lookin, so I by default have more options than men in the same position as me if all other things stayed the same. Women aren’t a monolith, they like many different things. But what I’ve learned that when it comes to women, quantity will eventually equal quality. So men should talk to MORE women instead of focusing on one’s that don’t show interest, who aren’t even guaranteed to like you at any point if you pursue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:11 PM
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I’m a low value man, I’m just willing to get rejected a lot more than most men, which is why I have options. I say I’m low value because Im always working on improving myself. I’m not gonna waste my time trying to get with the 70-80% of the women who reject me when 20-30 are already showing interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:51 AM
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And if a guy doesn’t have options, he should work on getting more. His life is ending one minute at a time. I didn’t always have options and was miserable, but did something about it and am much happier. And those girls are missing out whether they know it or not because I’m actually a fun guy to be around. That’s coming from the girls who actually stick around with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:36 AM
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Could there have been women who I vibed with if I bothered to keep talking to them? Of course, but it’s them missing out not me. That’s how most men should think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:15 AM
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Women need to understand a man’s time is valuable, just like there time is valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:38 AM
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Yeah, I’d take being in the friendzone as an opportunity to network to meet other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:30 AM
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True, but most obstacles can be overcome, it’ll be hard af so it’s up to the person if they think it’s worth overcoming. Life never promised to be easy and fair, so don’t expect it to be. I used to be a socially inept weirdo who got panic attacks talking to women I found very attractive. I have an anxiety disorder I take meds for. It took years to overcome that and finally be called charming by a hot girl. It’ll be harder/easier for others but like I said it’s up to them if they think it’s worth…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:07 AM
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Yeah, the odds are def stacked against you these days. Although I disagree that you should be worried about being accused of sexual harassment. If she says no, just leave it at that. I think feminism has created that fear which killed CA. But then again I might have the privilege of being a good lookin guy, so I can’t speak for people who aren’t much to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:58 AM
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You don’t need to justify your preferences. Just like I don’t need to justify not liking fat women who have a high body count. Just don’t complain if you don’t find many people who meet those preferences. Inflation is super high, most 25 year olds who completed college have a lot of debt and can’t afford to rent. I have the luxury to not pay rent at my parents place and save up money to invest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:52 AM
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Yeah, western society has deemed being uncomfortable as a bad thing, when it really isn’t. People who get used to being uncomfortable get shit done and are successful in what they pursue. That’s why movies like Fight Club are loved by the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:50 AM
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Well in real life, I have to face rejection a lot more, which is not easy. And I’m not talking about just cold approaching. That’s the only positive thing about dating apps, you don’t actually see yourself getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:39 AM
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Sorry, I didn’t understand what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:22 AM
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Well if you’re ugly yeah, it comes down to a numbers game for dating apps. I use Hinge and endlessly swipe and get a match for every 100 right swipes. I’m very picky. It ain’t easy, but nothing worth having is. I find time to do it in my busy schedule. I’m good lookin and tall so I’m playing on easy mode, and even that feels hard. I can only imagine what hardcore mode must be like, def not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:15 AM
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Good point actually, but I think OP is speaking more on a cold approach or on dating apps, which if applied, makes what he said make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:55 PM
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Honestly, guys who complain about being in the friend zone need to work on getting options instead of being whipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:46 PM
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Nah, men have one life to live, for it to be wasted simping on women who don’t bother with us or put 0 effort is dumb. But OP should’ve put day instead of minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:40 PM
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Okay, then stop replying to me in paragraphs if you really don’t care 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:59 PM
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Women can do whatever they want, just don’t expect a man to be okay with it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 09:51 PM
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Goal post mover? Bro I think you’re the one that needs to touch grass, like everyone else in this sub 😂. Not every reply is supposed to rebuttal the previous one. I was replying to something YOU said not OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:46 PM
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You’re saying dating survives because women aren’t a monolith correct? I’m saying “dating” is meaningless, people settle but it doesn’t mean they’re happy with their decision. Women divorce at higher rates than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:38 PM
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Just “dating” someone is meaningless though. How long will the relationship last is a more important question. When people lower their standards they tend to be less happy. I know I was, which is why I have high ones now. Women have a right to have high standards just like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:19 PM
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Isn’t it obvious? Gay guys are still GUYS so they understand each other better, and know how to satisfy. They understand the gay experience. They’re also not attracted to females, which makes it easy to be friends. Women do NOT understand the man experience, so it’s harder for us to connect without creating a deep bond. Most men also don’t understand the women experience, which is why TRP is popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:37 PM
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I plan on having kids when I get married, I do NOT want my kids living in a single family household. Stats show it’s far from ideal and I’ve experienced being the kid in that situation and it sucks. Too many people settle and feel entitled to marriage. This is why my standards are extremely high for marrying someone. Obviously there’s always a chance of shit hitting the fan, just like there’s a chance of getting cancer even if you take all the preventative measures. But at the same time, it stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:29 AM
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Self improvement is masturbation, now self destruction?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:15 AM
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Main difference in men vs women body counts is it actually takes some SKILL to have a high body count as a man, even if you’re good looking. Unless you’re a 4/10 women or less, it takes little to no skill to sleep with many men. There was no birth control or paternity tests until recent history, so men chose virgins in order to ensure the baby would 100% be there’s. That’s probably where slut shaming women came from. I don’t think it’s necessary these days, just don’t get mad at men if we ask fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:09 AM
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Honestly, if you’re a universal 4/10 or lower, I’d agree to this, but if not, definitely work on all of it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:49 AM
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There’s exceptions to every rule, but the exception DOESNT make the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:40 AM
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Go to the gym (lifting mainly for leg/butt gains) get good at doing make up consistently, and if you’re willing to accept the risks, get plastic surgery. I would post how you look like on a sub Reddit that judges on looks honestly. This could avoid unnecessary surgery due to a poor self image.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/22 10:33 PM
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Yeah, like if my girl is liking pics of ripped dudes in loose sweatpants and shirtless, knowing they live near by, I’m out 👋🏽
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/22 10:08 PM
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Also male, I only read them if the women isn’t much to look at, even then looks matter more. But if they put in effort in a conversation, that matters more than effort in a bio.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/22 12:00 PM
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FACTZ, like if all he did was pay prostitutes, I’d say that’s easy af.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:50 PM
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As a man, you don’t deserve anything unless you work for it, and even then you still might not get it. But you gotta have that drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:49 PM
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You shouldn’t focus on what should, could or would. Focus on “what is”. A short guy can spend his life complaining about taller men having an advantage, or he could do everything he can to increase the amount of options he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:22 PM
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Women have a right to have height standards, but they’re hypocrites if they have a problem with dudes with weight standards. Literally can’t control height at all. Y’all should go on r/tinder to see why dudes won’t shut up about this, it’s pretty hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:22 AM
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