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Why? Generally it seems men and women get upset when looking at each other and not seeing what they instinctively want for themselves. Understanding reality as it applies both ways may be uncomfortable/unpleasant but in the end it is only beneficial.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/26 12:03 PM
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How the mismatch was treated, and who in the situation was favored or disfavored, appears to have been.
/r/MensRights22/01/26 01:03 PM
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It is ok and healthy to want a strong and positive man in your life. That alone however doesn’t address all issues, especially if you are bringing issues with you to the relationship. A strong and positive man wants a strong and positive woman who is as much a help to him as he is to her. The other danger is wanting that type of person in your life to the extent that you convince yourself that you have found them even when you haven’t. It can be difficult learning to see only what is there, and …
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/23 04:19 PM
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I’ve read interviews with women who were circumcised where they found the notion that they couldn’t enjoy sex or climax amusing. Which doesn’t mean it affects everyone the same (a common error in evaluating almost anything) but it seems to be something of a myth.
/r/MensRights07/04/22 04:41 PM
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I was struck by the question about what she Compromised on regarding the husband she married. This is something I think she attempted to answer but could have answer more effectively. ​ The real point is that the standards that many women have for an ideal match are unrealistic for the purposes of finding a quality husband. ​ Realizing that your criteria are wrong for your desired objective and changing them is not compromising. It is realizing your methodology for achieving your goals is not ef…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 01:45 PM
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You can be supportive and be realistic and risk averse at the same time, it is just more difficult. My tentative suggestion to you (and indirectly your boyfriend) is that you should be supportive of him pursuing his passion for creating content but desire to see him do it in an organized and responsible way. If he wants to progress up to doing enough to make it an appreciable revenue stream he will likely need to diversify his content (as in more than re-edits of the work of one existing creator…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 03:00 PM
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A lot of truth there. Many women seem to have been so indoctrinated by Feminism that they interpret anything which isn't explicitly accommodating/comported to their preferences and wordview as Misogyny. Which ... is actually simply rationalized Misandry with a ton of social backing and reinforcement behind it. It seems like there is a lot of related emotional baggage relating to this that OP will need to deal with if she wants to improve her relations with men. To unlearn a lot of Feminist propa…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 02:35 PM
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This is a much deeper insight into the perception that women generate with their words than it seems most women have. And most of the time most men just let it go even though it annoys them because it is either laborious or argument causing to explain that no, we don't see it the same way. A little diplomacy and tact go a long way with anyone. It seems like most men these days have become accustomed however to not getting that. STFU in many ways is meant to prevent a lot of these things from hap…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 12:43 AM
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This. ​ All from the perspective of taking her at her word (driving him to it and wanting to salvage things) then the following: ​ OP, ​ You need to make him see that you take his unhappiness seriously. And to mean it. ​ Having an honest dialogue about his unhappiness, and that you acknowledge it (and the part of it that is your responsibility) and are earnest in wanting to improve things, is the minimum for trying to salvage things. ​ As for sex ... as a guy, no sex equals no connection. And it…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/19 02:26 PM
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I understand. And you are right, and maybe he needs to hear, that you can't make something better if he never speaks up. However I would caution you to also consider that if you respond consistently negatively to him or his perspective when he does speak up that this frequently can contribute to communication drying up between people as well. ​ If you want to potentially salvage things and this is the state of affairs ... you are going to need to do your best to both foster positive/constructive…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 02:13 PM
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This. ​ It seems likely to me that the communication between OP and her husband was rather impaired at best originally and is still rather less than ideal. And if his complaints are about feeling taken, always giving, and constantly doing things relating to her wants/needs... then that is the core of why he found Red Pill. OP might disagree with him feeling this way but that should come after understanding it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 01:06 AM
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You are quite young and it seems still deciding who you want to be. This could easily change in three to five years. Or three to five months. Or not. It is hard to say. The possibility also exists that this could be due to poorly behaved children (there are so very many of those these days) that you are around, rather than your reaction to all children. Consider looking for ways to be around children other than the ones you've been around so far, looking for those that are better behaved, and se…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/19 04:35 PM
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If you made a mistake, learn from it and move on. Dwelling on it isn't productive. ​ Everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect. There is no "Perfect Alpha" out there who is exempt from that. ​ You are wasting time/effort/energy in an emotional headspace that is negative. Why? ​ Own the mistake and the fact that you made it, and then make a decision. What do you want to do now? Dwelling isn't doing. Get to doing.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:49 PM
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Be cognizant that a significant amount of the proble here is your failure to lead. Changing who you are doing this with will not therefore necessarily produce a better result. You shouldn't feel obligated to stay with her if she is making you unhappy. But you shouldn't break up with her for her behavior being part of the outflow of your failings either. Own your own behavior, improve (demand improvement from yourself as much as you would from say an employee), and sift through to similarly deman…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 03:23 PM
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Family law basically seems to be about the state fundamentally being worried about who is going to provide for the woman/kids, and the state not wanting it to be them if they can help it.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 04:58 PM
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Note sure if real post...
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/19 04:51 PM
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This.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/19 12:36 PM
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I concur with the above. My only add would be to remember that being married is new to him as well, and that he needs to learn and adapt to his new situation as much as you do. Try to prevent a you vs him mindset from developing. It is all too common if/when disagreements/problems arise. Instead try to foster a team mindset with him. Make him feel like the captain of your team/ship and (usually) it will make him want to act like it (in a good way).
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/19 12:30 PM
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She (Mom) seems to have a beyond healthy desire to be tied into and controlling his life. Reading the diary of an ex, getting access to his Facebook and Phone, etc. I would be very surprised if she was not the stereotypical overcontrolling and co-dependent Mom who had him completely under foot for his entire childhood and now can't stand to let go of him now that he is an adult. This is not something new in his life. This -is- his life, and how things have been for his entire childhood up until …
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/19 07:11 PM
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Mom also likely wants things this way and would very much resist change. ​ And he will only change things if he for some reason decides that he wants to, as stated. Meanwhile he seems like he can't see past the fact that it is Mom. ​ It is difficult to impossible to deal with this externally. And he won't -want- to see any hard truths about Mom. ​ What is at issue here is most likely that she has raised him to be this way, and changing it now is ... very much an uphill fight.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/19 06:47 PM
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My recommendation would be to consider finding some variety of physical hobby you both would enjoy. Something that both of you could have fun with and thereby try and help her establish some different habits. A lot depends on what she (and you) are interested in. ​ Just for an example ... I will use myself. I hate working out. I find it unpleasant and boring and basically I would rather be doing something more interesting with my time. But I love to fight. So I do martial arts and this also help…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/19 12:55 PM
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You can't make someone accept a hard truth no matter how much you might wish that they would. And if it is a hard truth they don't like, especially about themselves, they may resent the attempt. It depends a lot on your relationship with her but in general I would advise extreme caution. Maybe invite her to do things and/or if she likes a given product or the like, and start small and with no judgment/pressure attached. Try to give her some opportunities to be more involved with these things in …
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/19 12:24 PM
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What is your Mission? You need to answer that one for yourself.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:32 AM
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Many of the men there are just angry. Angry at life, the world, women ... whatever. Just angry. A lot of them have only found Red Pill it seems like after things went seriously wrong and they started looking just as seriously outside the box for ways to "fix" their lives. It is (while not completely) a much more accepted thing for a woman to pursue ideas/strategy like RPW than for men to pursue Red Pill. Red Pill is pretty negatively portrayed in general. (See Quarantine for example.) So many of…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/19 01:47 PM
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Men dont love us the way we want them to. ​ This is part of the Red Pill. Realizing the unpleasant and undesired truth. But realize that this cuts both ways. ​ Women generally don't love men the way men want them to either. This is one of the harder lessons to learn for both men and women, generally because it is a truth we would rather were not true. And yet facts are stubborn things. ​ So now you realize a bit of the truth of things. Congratulations. Seriously. It doesn't seem like most people…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/19 01:27 PM
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I've made several other comments here that I think outline my opinions relating to this issue. ​ You misread OPs post. OP says her manfriend shuts down to avoid getting hurt/being vulnerable. That's a weakness/character flaw. ​ To my read this is an absolute. Essentially I can have a different opinion or view of ... the thing, whatever the thing is, without it being a "misread" of the material. If you intended this as something softer or more friendly than that, then perhaps there was some misco…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 07:34 PM
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More information required. Example: What makes you think you would benefit from advice in these areas? Is there a problem you are trying to address? Or just seeking to improve?
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 07:19 PM
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Thank you dear neurosurgeon. ​ Just wanted to say that made me laugh. 8D
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 07:08 PM
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That is only one possible view of his behavior. It may even be true. But I don't have to think that just because you do, or because she does. Or even if she took something he said as meaning that. Not that it couldn't be true, but based on what I've seen so far I don't think it is.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 07:07 PM
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Insisting that her emotions are facts to her logic/reason oriented guy would be just making things worse. It is clearly not how he views the world or processes events. And I doubt he wants to change that at all. (And why should he?) This would just start driving a wedge between them and/or make him resent being expected to. ​ If she wants to have a better relationship with him she is going to need to invest in understanding and dealing with him on terms they can both find agreeable, not insist h…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 07:02 PM
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This.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 06:43 PM
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Emotions are not facts. They are the outflow of our personal perceptions of things and how we interpret them. They can be completely wrong if either the perception or the interpretation of the facts at hand is off to any degree. If the perception is divergent from the facts, the resulting emotion is also divergent from being based on inaccurate perceptions, and therefore both are wrong. If the interpretation is off, same difference. Yes this means emotions can be wrong if they do not accurately …
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 04:50 PM
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Tons of truth here. ​ When he opens up it is because he trusts you. Men typically don’t go hang out with their guy friends and spill all their emotions all over and work everything out together like we women do. Men tend to open up to one person (their wife/girlfriend whom they really trust). So if/when he opens up make sure to really listen without judgement. ​ Just wanted to highlight this section in particular. Not only do men not do this, or want to do it at all, but women doing it in relati…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 04:30 PM
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The largest difference in my experience is that many/most women see their feelings as a priority and they view facts through the lens of those feelings, and this is how they view "the truth." (As an aside this is part of why one of my go to sayings with my wife is "Feelings Are Not Facts.") If he is logic/reason oriented ... his basic perspective on feelings is likely rather different. Facts and actions come first, feelings are a distant third and subject to being viewed through the lens of said…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/19 04:26 PM
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1: Both of you need to work on positive/constructive communication. If you are trying to teach each other lessons and get back at one another you are not functioning as a team at all, much less him leading and you following. It sounds like neither of you are particularly good at this. Perhaps a talk about specifically that would be helpful for both of you. Serious work seems to need to be done here. 2: I suggest a schedule that allocates time (perhaps a days of the week rotation) for family thin…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/19 03:37 PM
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There is no reason to believe her about anything. You seem like you are hanging on to things at the expense of seeing your situation clearly. (Hardly something new or unique, so don't feel bad about it.) Tinder + Snapchat/sexting + confirmed location with a person? What more do you need here? ​ It is painful now. You can't really do anything about that. All you have right now is making the best decision you can for your future. And that is up to you. But if you stay, don't be staying with any il…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/19 03:20 PM
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