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That depends on you and what you find interesting. You really can't go wrong. Not all your interests are going to be winners with everyone and that's okay. If you're open to new experiences though I guarantee you'll find something that'll blow people's minds. Which isn't to say you should be out here trying to find interests that impress other people. What I'm saying is have fun in life. Explore. Take risks and do things that are out of the ordinary. I'm sure you can see how that'd lead to becom…
/r/seduction31/10/17 03:04 AM
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By throwing yourself into the crucible. Keep trying until you succeed. You don't need confidence to talk to women you need stupidity. The confidence will come after some time
/r/seduction30/08/17 03:42 AM
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I mean if you're going to insist on trying then don't wait two weeks. All that's going to do is look like you spent two weeks crying over her. Do it now if you're going to. I just don't think it's going to work out because it seems like no matter which way you go she's going to perceive it as coming from a place of neediness.
/r/seduction29/08/17 05:35 AM
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Be real with yourself, you don't just want a fwb you want to hang onto her. I know this because you said, "it hurts". The whole "we can be friends" thing never actually means you can be friends. She's letting you down easy. Sorry dude.
/r/seduction29/08/17 04:56 AM
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She feels bad because she feels like she's a slut, and she feels like having sex outside of some kind of commitment makes her a bad person. You need to remind her that she is a good person. Remind her that her value isn't all wrapped in her vagina. I'm sure she has a lot to be proud of and that isn't all nullified because she had sex with you. Also, sex is normal. Every person that exists on this planet exists because two people fucked. People like sex, sex is awesome. The fact that so many peop…
/r/seduction28/08/17 05:27 AM
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For me three things. The first is alcohol, and yes I realize this is frowned upon here. Alcohol has been shown in various studies to increase creativity. I've definitely found this to be true in my own life. The second is not fretting so much over the details. Sometimes I think of a joke and I freak out because I have to get the wording just right. Instead of freaking out I give myself permission to fuck the joke up. Maybe it lands and maybe it doesn't. Either way, it's no big deal. This frees m…
/r/seduction28/08/17 05:14 AM
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If you want a different life then you need to change something. You can't not change and expect different results. That being said if you want a more active social life then stop making excuses and be more social. That means putting more energy into going out and befriending people. Invite people places. Go out of your way to be in conversations and introduce yourself to people. None of this requires drinking. If you go to bar ask the bartender for something non-alcoholic. Bartenders are general…
/r/seduction28/08/17 04:57 AM
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For me I never know if it's ok. That's kind of the fun of it though. Putting yourself out there without really knowing what could happen. That's instrumental to being outcome independent imo. And taking that risk has made me more successful because I'm not doing things to try and be successful. Instead I'm doing things because they amuse me. At the end of any interaction it doesn't matter if I get a kiss or sex or whatever because I just genuinely enjoy the interaction. To me there's so much mor…
/r/seduction27/08/17 06:06 AM
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I disagree with this. If what you're saying is don't immediately eject when a woman doesn't immediately show interest then sure. But if you're in set for like 5 mins and she's just giving you nothing and looks like she'd like nothing more than for you to leave then just leave. There's zero point in trying to save something that clearly isn't going anywhere. I mean if you're at the level that you have to be told, "Stay in set" then the likelihood that you're gonna turn a set around that isn't goi…
/r/seduction26/08/17 12:02 AM
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Just walk up and say this, "Hey I'm NilesMcKinley. I realize this is random, but I wanted to come over and meet you. Mind if I join you guys?" Most likely they'll say sure and you can talk from there. After a couple minutes if everything goes well and mom seems to approve ask mom if you can steal her daughter for a few minutes. Pull the daughter away, build some rapport, and see where it goes from there.
/r/seduction31/07/17 11:32 PM
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I guess if you can't get pussy you may as well be one. I'm joking! But seriously, it's not that big of a deal. If you want to meet women you have to fucking approach. Stop making excuses.
/r/seduction31/07/17 11:08 PM
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Ha, what are you talking about? Just walk up and introduce yourself. How does having a conversation with a guy make her easy? What is she even saying no to?
/r/seduction31/07/17 10:51 PM
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You can approach with her mom there, what makes you think you can't?
/r/seduction31/07/17 09:55 PM
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I swear this sub has way too many guys that just wanna come here and whine and bitch instead of actually trying to better themselves. To me it's the hallmark of guys that don't actually approach and talk to women.
/r/seduction31/07/17 07:19 PM
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Yeah, I'm just gonna bow out of whatever is happening right now. Enjoy the rest of your day.
/r/seduction31/07/17 12:25 AM
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Absolutely. The majority of women I approach have boyfriends/dates. No problem I'm not Mr. steal-yo-girl. If they say they're with somebody then I'm happy to walk away.
/r/seduction30/07/17 06:22 PM
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I wasn't harassing anybody. I talked to a girl in a bar. She talked back. We were having a conversation. If two people having a conversation makes you mad enough to threaten violence then what does that say about you?
/r/seduction30/07/17 06:17 PM
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I wasn't hitting on her though. When I go out I talk to people. She happened to look like another girl I met before. I literally said, "That's not a pickup line." If another man talking to your girl makes you mad then clearly you're insecure af. But I think you're spot on otherwise. I could have done a lot differently and I'll definitely be more disarming in the future.
/r/seduction30/07/17 06:16 PM
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Having a reason to have a fragile ego doesn't mean you don't have a fragile ego.
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:37 PM
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I think commanding me like a dog to go was insulting. But I get that saying "He started it." is childish. I think 100% I could have handled it better.
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:32 PM
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Why get mad if another man talks to your girl?
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:30 PM
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Absolutely they'll be destroyed over time. Why would you continue to think something that is proven to be false? That is funny. It happens because you're viewing things through this lens of bullshit limiting beliefs. Will being more muscular boost your success? Absolutely. So will looking better. But not having those things doesn't mean you can't succeed. I think for you you need to realize that you're viewing everything through a lens of "I'm not good enough." "I'm weird and that isn't okay." Y…
/r/seduction30/07/17 04:16 PM
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So first off, I'm on still on my journey. I've been at it a little while and the differences are already night and day. I think the biggest takeaway is that I needed to deprogram myself. I had (I should say have cause I'm still workign at it) to remove all these limiting beliefs I had. There are so many little things that cause me to limit myself and it's bullshit. I'll give you an example. I went out last night with a guy I met 3 days ago. We spotted these two beautiful blondes. Both taller tha…
/r/seduction30/07/17 03:31 PM
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5% of what? Single guys?
/r/seduction30/07/17 03:12 PM
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I totally agree. I let my ego get in the way.
/r/seduction30/07/17 03:11 PM
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Take a step back man. You went out SOLO. That's amazing! Do you know many guys here won't even approach a woman? Dude, I'm applauding you right now. Reading through this I think you need to focus both more and less on yourself. Let me explain that a bit. You clearly beat yourself up so much and for what? Because you didn't get some pussy? Fuck that. Where you're at right now, game isn't about pussy. You have to understand that this is a journey and everytime you approach and go out you take 1 st…
/r/seduction30/07/17 03:09 PM
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Dude, going out alone is so fucking fun. People are so friendly. Just go have a good time and don't be scared. As long as you're having fun, people will be attracted to you like a magnet. I'm not gonna wish you luck because you don't need it. It's enough just to go
/r/seduction29/07/17 04:29 PM
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Cold approach is hard. The overwhelming majority of men don't have the balls to do it and of those that do they usually fail. It takes a lot to get good. Usually it's easier to just take whatever comes your way and you can calibrate pickiness depending on how much comes your way.
/r/seduction28/07/17 05:31 AM
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I don't need to search Reddit, I have the real life experience that proves otherwise. Women, or people rather, will say a lot of things. What you say and what you do are two completely different things. Machiavelli wrote about this almost five centuries ago. My only concern here is the men that come in here and read what you just wrote and are discouraged from approaching women. I'm telling you, from a place of having done it probably 100 times at this point, you don't know what you're talking a…
/r/seduction25/07/17 08:12 PM
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This is ridiculous. Please don't post from a place of authority when you have zero experience with the matter. You being a woman doesn't make you an authority on approaching women. That's like having a chef prepare an amazing meal for you and then going around telling other chefs how to prepare their meals. Knowing what good food tastes like doesn't make you an authority on making good food. I personally have experience with plenty of women being very pleased with having been approached. I've be…
/r/seduction25/07/17 07:50 PM
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Dope shit man. 1 Nice job not ejecting and pushing forward. I wouldn't really say you did anything wrong here other than the weak conversation starters. "What do you guys got going on tonight?" works well. The whole how did you guys meet conversation never really lead anywhere for me so I've dropped it from my repertoire. Also, some women get nervous. Doesn't mean they want you to leave they're just shy sometimes. Had this girl turn beet red on me once and clam up a bit. I could see in her eyes …
/r/seduction24/07/17 09:00 PM
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Lots of girls aren't on dating apps. I just cold approached a girl tonight who had never even heard of bumble. Personally, I love cold approaching. I'll be honest, I am unsuccessful a lot of the time. Mostly because women are engaged or have boyfriends, but it's such a huge fucking confidence boost for a woman to tell you she's flattered or that she thinks you're hot despite having a boyfriend. It feels so good to make a girl blush or giggle. Tonight I had a girl tell me that I did everything ri…
/r/seduction23/07/17 08:51 AM
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Yeah, that's something I was thinking about earlier. Anybody can come here, give advice, and generally act as if they know what the fuck is up without any credentials. Sometimes it's really obvious when someone has no idea what they're talking about, but other times it's hard because the majority of people here are new including me. I'm not sure what the solution is, but it would be really helpful to know who actually knows shit.
/r/seduction18/07/17 06:07 PM
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Yeah, it's a solid model and I get the ideas behind it. I'm not 100% sure where things fall apart for me. I think I lose my frame. I get nervous and I give too much of a shit what other people think. I also don't know how to vibe well. I approached this beautiful woman yesterday, got her hooked, but I just really wasn't sure what to do with it. Part of it was I was so nervous I was literally shaking. I think I hid it well, but it made it really hard to have a good conversation. This is far from …
/r/seduction17/07/17 07:43 PM
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Because we're so conditioned not to do it. There are so many things we've been told that prevent us from openly hitting on people in front of other people. Even here in this subreddit there are comments about how hitting on women is sexual harassment. It's all bullshit and you have to break this conditioning. I can tell you from experience women want to be hit on. Not every women and not by every guy, but in general they're happy to be complimented. It's a confidence boost for both parties. We a…
/r/seduction17/07/17 05:14 AM
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Watching this video makes me realize I have no idea what I'm doing. You're literally just saying whatever and then cut to you in a booth making out. I always find myself trying to carry on this boring ass conversation, but then if I try to spice it up it gets weird. Idk, I've clearly got a lot to learn. Can't wait to get even halfway to your level one day.
/r/seduction17/07/17 04:05 AM
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Just go out. There is a fuckton of dudes at bars trying to pick up chicks. Just go up to them and talk to them. All you gotta do is not kino them, and keep an eye out for the gays... I should note here that I have no problem with gay dudes, but I've run into this problem where you'll give out your number and then they try to fuck you for weeks on end despite you saying you're straight.
/r/seduction16/07/17 06:21 PM
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We all have and make excuses for why we don't go after the shit we want. I'm a lot younger than you and I have a really good job. People generally really like me, and I know I'm attractive. You think all that means I approach girls left and right? Nope. Still have some serious AA. I make my own excuses about all kinds of stupid shit. We all do. The important thing to remember is that you can't let your mind make excuses because that's just fear. It's your way of protecting what little ego you ha…
/r/seduction16/07/17 03:56 PM
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You have a serious case of oneitis. You need to let it go, for your own sake, and develop an abundance mentality. That's my advice. That being said I know you're not going to listen to me, and to be honest I've been there. Erykah Badu gave some really great advice in an interview she did one time. She was talking to a woman that couldn't get over a man that kept doing her wrong. Erykah told her to keep going back to him. Just keep going back over and over. Eventually your ass will learn once you…
/r/seduction12/07/17 05:20 AM
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It's obvious, you've said it here yourself, you want to be more social. You want a girlfriend and you want to feel more comfortable talking to people. Focus on that. Being social is a skill. I started out telling myself this but not really believing it. After a couple months of going out and talking to strangers I've already noticed I'm much better at making conversation and expressing myself. I feel more comfortable in social situations. I've learned a lot just in the past couple months of goin…
/r/seduction11/07/17 09:50 PM
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"3'2"" or "8'5"" "Not sure, why don't you come over and measure me?" "Super short, but like a sexy Jon Snow short". Or maybe Peter Dinklage works better This is more of a frame thing. As a short guy, you need to maintain frame and it's clear from these messages that she rocked him with this question.
/r/seduction11/07/17 05:17 PM
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Ha, maybe. One of those 2 girls did tell me I'm hot. On the other hand I've had girls frown and turn their backs on me without saying a word immediately after opening. I've had girls act upset with me just for approaching as if I'm some kind of asshole just for saying hi. I've had girls completely ignore me as if I didn't exist. The thing is, yeah, a lot of people aren't going to want to talk to you. They aren't going to want you there, but it's not your job to decide that for them. Here's the t…
/r/seduction10/07/17 07:54 PM
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That's how it should be. Never try to plan conversations because they will never go the direction you want or expect them to and that's part of the fun. What you can do though is keep "plays" in your playbook for when certain situations arise. So, for example, we know shit tests are a thing. So if those come up you know generally how to handle them. Now you also know that when you violate social norms it's a good idea to acknowledge that as a way of showing you're not some crazy weirdo.
/r/seduction09/07/17 05:37 AM
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"Mind if I join you guys?" I do this ALL the time and I have literally never been told no. The only time it's weird or awkward is if you see a girl sitting alone at a table. Every time I've approached a girl at a table by herself she is waiting for her boyfriend or date to come back with drinks. Just last night I saw two women sitting at a table so I walked over and said, "Hey, mind if I join you guys?" I sat down and started asking who they were. Couple minutes later one of the girls says we sh…
/r/seduction08/07/17 08:13 PM
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Fucking dope dude. Here's a tip for next time, call out the elephant in the room. Acknowledging that big awkward thing shows you're socially intelligent and not just some awkward weirdo that doesn't know he's violating social norms. You can usually get a laugh out of it as well. This guy James Tusk posts his videos here sometimes, and in them he usually leads with, "Hey I realize this is very forward, but I thought you were attractive and...". I think it's an awesome way to make your intentions …
/r/seduction08/07/17 03:25 PM
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It's all about approaching and doing. That's what it all comes down to. You could never watch a minute of content in your life, but if you get out there and approach and keep trying to improve you're gonna be fine. That being said content helps you to improve quicker by telling you the things you don't already know. It helps you put stuff together more quickly. At the end of the day though it all come down to you and putting in the work you need to to figure out your own style of seduction.
/r/seduction01/07/17 05:24 AM
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Your shit is awesome. Really appreciate you taking the time to put this out there for us. Have you ever considered getting a podcast going?
/r/seduction27/06/17 03:38 AM
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Depends on how you're motivated. These days I've gone out enough that I know that's just how things work. Every time I'm headed to the bars alone I'm nervous, but I think back to all the good times I've had and I get excited. I look at the nerves like a signal that I'm about to have a good time. That I'm pushing myself out of my comfort zone and that means I'm about to do something exciting. I know that at the end of the night even if I bomb horribly the worst thing that'll happen is I'll go hom…
/r/seduction26/06/17 01:26 AM
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I think this is a really solid point and this is the problem I currently have. Usually I get nervous and rapid fire questions and statements because I'm so scared of the conversation dying or getting weird. You got any tips regarding this kind of thing?
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:05 AM
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