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| 3 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Aka DV is funny to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:56 PM |
| 3 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Bruh the comment said the victim would be DV'd, then mocked/downplayed and you thought that was hilarious unironically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:46 PM |
| – | It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market.This post has convinced me to block PPD because it's always bad faith discussions. Ty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 02:36 PM |
| 1 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Nice deflection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:22 AM |
| 10 | men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa.Domestic violence is funny to you ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Handsome and Socially intelligent dude tries for 6 months in dating apps and failing miserably, shows that as a man if you want playtime, you must make dating your everything to get anything in the dating marketpretty obvious none of yall watched the video | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 03:29 AM |
| – | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesokay so its good to have lung cancer to present an image? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 03:16 AM |
| – | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesAlso the tobacco industry preyed on women by selling them a tough independent image if they smoked. So you're falling right for the bullshit without even knowing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 01:02 AM |
| – | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesThis is such a superficial take it's pretty obvious you have now clue what that documentary is about. It's about how nazi psychology has been used to breed the perfect consumer in the US by selling us an image or lifestyle since the 1950s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 12:57 AM |
| 0 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesYes we were heavily influenced before social media but now it's even worse. We must acknowledge and unpack this as a society. I recommend watching "the century of the self" documentary if you haven't already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:03 PM |
| 6 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesWe're all heavily influenced by social media platforms and I don't know how you can simply brush that off saying it doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 03:15 PM |
| 15 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesWhat if everyone logged off the internet for awhile ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Would be more credible if either right or left cared about SWANA lives equal to western ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 12:29 PM |
| 1 | After a lot of self-reflection, I realised that men create their own problems and blaming women is counterproductive and harmfulYes we can choose to detach but pretending the world isn't the way it is only encourages ignorance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 02:42 PM |
| 27 | After a lot of self-reflection, I realised that men create their own problems and blaming women is counterproductive and harmfulI mean to an extent anyone's problem is their own fault if we wanna be that reductive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 12:30 PM |
| 6 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?Different types of power and also it's not a competition to see who has the worse stalkers is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 03:08 AM |
| 4 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructedI thought it was some self hate but that's fair. Also unfortunately it usually seems to be a minority of people creating these systems while everyone else is just complacent. Gotta be ruthless to the systems and kind to the individuals as the late Michael Brooks would say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 11:18 PM |
| 7 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructed"stupid foid"? Wth lol.. I mean the problem with this is that telling men to back off would never work out in women's favor because it plays out exactly as you've mentioned. Anytime more reasonable men tried to point it out we were villainized sooo yeah c'est la vie fr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 08:50 PM |
| – | Women discard what men say they like in women, then turn around and tell men what they like in women.I love a naked face but also can appreciate when someone is done up for an occasion. I'll never force it on anyone and it seems common sentiment that women do make-up for themselves or other women anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateHe was really too good for us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 12:12 AM |
| 5 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateYa not really. People are so uneducated by design and plus there's probably some CIA psyops going on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 07:03 PM |
| 36 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateHonestly a lot of it goes down to a lack of critical thinking and black/white behavior which must be unlearned by everyone. “Be kind to people, be ruthless to systems.” ― Michael Brooks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Women have delusions of grandeur in relationshipsTaking reddit as the sample population for this phenomenon is a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 11:11 AM |
| 0 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workNgl that's a salty male pov but everyone is salty about the other gender so I think we should grant a little grace. Not gonna say OP isn't misogynistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 12:48 AM |
| -1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workThis is clearly a post to improve men's approach to dating in a way that improve the experience for everyone including women and NBs. We can all agree men are a problem and this is trying to fix that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 08:34 PM |
| 1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workYes so why would women be excluded ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:58 PM |
| 0 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workI fw this in a "don't let perfection be the enemy of good" kinda way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:50 PM |
| -1 | "Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would workOr a cold assessment of modern society who can hardly take a shower without putting down their phones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.trust me bro its the same static group of individuals I checked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.realistically there's only so much one person can do. I can literally light myself on fire and nothing would change | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.I know its a joke sadly. anything I would want to do to fix things would have me murdered. if I had a community I'd def wanna squash the pedos or power hungry ppl tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.nice argument. just accept it bro ok lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.or is it revolving door of men discovering they can stop centering women in their lives then leaving the online spaces? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.brb overthrowing the US government | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.but they did shut up and thats why theres no phase 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 05:52 PM |
| 4 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.yall are so weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generationsprobably look for women that are in the progress of achieving some goal and don't have the time to socialize as mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 02:56 AM |
| 18 | Modern hookup culture makes women jaded and have unrealistic expectations of mengraph shows surplus of women from 20+ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_New_York_City | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 06:39 AM |
| 1 | 30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man)You a long hair fellow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 07:07 PM |
| 9 | Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceableSo she came here kinda salty and made it a point to shit on men in general by pointing out the obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 11:59 PM |
| – | "I see far more attractive women than men" shows that beauty standards for women are not highIt's not about lying it's about how they don't realize what they consider dad bods are actually built. Same thing with how men mistake natural makeup for no makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 01:23 PM |
| – | "I see far more attractive women than men" shows that beauty standards for women are not highThis is insane. That body in your picture takes a lot of training to achieve. Most dads do not have the time to replicate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Left on seen. Am I too gamey?Happens | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 11:22 PM |
| -1 | Men embrace redpill because mainstream advice is dogshitI mean there's something clearly wrong with the younger GenZ males because they voted Trump in right? Doesn't that make it more important? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 04:46 PM |
| 5 | Found out we’re incompatible during the first date. I’m learning to stop simping.Fumble 🙃🙃 | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 07:54 PM |
| 37 | Found out we’re incompatible during the first date. I’m learning to stop simping.A coworker? I probably would have waited for flirting /obvious interest before asking on a date. | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 05:24 PM |
| 9 | What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?”Congrats on identifying terminally online redditors are bottom of the barrel 👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 05:41 AM |
| 1 | How the internet destroyed datingyou must be new here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 07:22 PM |
| 2 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?Is that a rhetorical question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 03:37 AM |
| 2 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?For the record I didn't do anything bad or wrong it was just our circumstances. My pov still valid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 01:37 AM |
| 5 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?You're right that's important but I do not have any of those problems tho. And I am happy single without an abundance of options... I don't think you quite understand my pov. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 10:16 PM |
| 8 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?I'm damn happy and comfortable single, but it sucks a lot to find the rare someone I like and it not working out. As a man I've noticed women can just make a logical decision to quit seeing me as a option near instantly. It's more difficult for me because I do not have an abundance of options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 09:47 PM |
| 61 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorSomeone knows their hoe math | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 09:42 PM |
| 13 | Korean men are turning to AI to get dates for themLet the apps die tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 04:02 PM |
| 2 | "Ok now swap the genders"I mean if we could just opt out of our biological urges and emotional/social needs then this wouldn't be a conversation. You as a single female opting out is entirely different than a man opting out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 12:55 AM |
| 17 | In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationshipsThere is no such a thing as misandry LMAO k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Have tradcons taken over the redpill?its insane how vindictive ppl are from a sense of moral superiority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 10:50 PM |
| 1 | "Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner datesbobaaaa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 01:51 AM |
| – | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.Idk what they're talking about. Its definitely undesired frustrated men who end up killing people. Nothing we can do about it as a society except introduce suicide booths lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:24 PM |
| 0 | Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of menhuh? I'm not as familiar with any of this as you and that's why I was asking. Not sure I've seen any non-capitalistic systems in history & I'm unfamiliar with "prehistory." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of menwhich ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Men lowering their standards didn’t widen the dating pool so stop doing it.they aren't in a vacuum and therefore can be compared. they're lower | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Men lowering their standards didn’t widen the dating pool so stop doing it.correct, bc they can find other men w lower standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 07:34 PM |
| 0 | Men lowering their standards didn’t widen the dating pool so stop doing it.its a different type of loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 07:33 PM |
| 2 | "Treat women as human beings"no I'm making a comment on your toxic personality. sorry par for the course for the terminally online tho... really shouldn't be talking to ppl like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 02:16 AM |
| 2 | "Treat women as human beings"I try to establish my intent but then pull back if they're not responding on that level & still invested in the convo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 01:00 AM |
| 2 | "Treat women as human beings"I'm aware that many, many men on PPD and TRP have never taken Statistics 101 whats wrong with you fr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 12:57 AM |
| 4 | "Treat women as human beings"obstinately or unreasonably attached to a belief, opinion, or faction, in particular prejudiced against or antagonistic toward a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group. checks out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Do you think different politics will keep men and women from dating each other?what about everyone's needs being met collectively? Just the basic ones: food, water, shelter. And then more depends on your own efforts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 08:26 PM |
| 4 | A major issue with the modern dating market is that immoral sexual behavior is heavily discouraged in men but either ignored or even outright ENCOURAGED in women in the modern era.let's agree they both suck then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | I Don’t Think Women Fully Comprehend The Shame of Being a Male Virgin As He Moves Through His 20sare u trying to fuck him or somethin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 02:20 PM |
| 1 | I Don’t Think Women Fully Comprehend The Shame of Being a Male Virgin As He Moves Through His 20s/r/thepassportbros | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit really isn't that productive or healthy for understanding the opposite sex or solving any gender issues at allactually true. OP says bunch of losers trying to find those "gotcha" situations & here we are now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 01:58 PM |
| 2 | This subreddit really isn't that productive or healthy for understanding the opposite sex or solving any gender issues at allGOTTEM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 01:36 AM |
| 4 | I Don’t Think Women Fully Comprehend The Shame of Being a Male Virgin As He Moves Through His 20sbut man progress on stuff like this can seem so slow emphasis mine & 👀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Men who are not obsessed with women are also demonizedok so you agree that this is a societal issue that both genders have responsibility for because both groups combined are the totality of society. Isn't your example of "what men want" just a strawman? Listening to the people with mental problems as if they know the solution is silly. So is refusing to acknowledge the issue or listening to their input because you're taking their answers too literally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Men who are not obsessed with women are also demonizedis really so annoying lol literally its all about them & their own entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Men who are not obsessed with women are also demonizedActually I think breast cancer is ALSO largely a problem for women to solve. They go to the doctor, get help, get treatments, whatever. That can involve men and women. And so, yes: for guys that are losers, it IS largely their problem to solve. involving both men & women right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 07:59 PM |
| 10 | Men who are not obsessed with women are also demonized"oh you're not interested me? what are you, gay?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 07:56 PM |
| 0 | "Neurodivergence" has become a trendy excuse for dating strugglesseek cougars & prepare for stds (experience) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 09:26 AM |
| 2 | "Neurodivergence" has become a trendy excuse for dating strugglesTBH I'd chalk it up to most ppl having a lack of social ability. Interesting that men tend to be autistic more often tho TIL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 02:05 AM |
| 3 | People misunderstand the idea of "stop chasing women and focus on career and life"We're definitely mostly just animals though. As much as some of us like to pretend emotions don't control us they largely do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Why are woman so annoyed by men finding their promiscuity unattractive when these same woman will invariably judge a guy that uses sex workers?they're saying its a negative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Statistics on lesbian relationships prove that women are the problem more often than we'd like to admitI lean towards that side too because you can literally die. Mental vs physical though I suppose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:42 PM |
| 0 | Statistics on lesbian relationships prove that women are the problem more often than we'd like to admitWell if you're a woman you can cheat more so it can be worse. But if you're a man you can easily kill or hurt someone so it's worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Statistics on lesbian relationships prove that women are the problem more often than we'd like to admitWhich is worse, domestic violence or cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 10:13 AM |
| 14 | The only men who truly benefit from modern dating culture are the tip top percentile of menCasual sex is pretty much the first step to a relationship tho these days..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menyeah and? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 06:51 AM |
| – | Women have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to socially awkward menwe fr despise each other in this society don't we. Acting like socializing is a job lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:05 PM |
| – | Women have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to socially awkward men...call her on it. ...she's not living up to her part of the social expectation I don't know how well that would go tbh. At least here on PPD women seem to have an extreme aversion to accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonnaw now you've become what you hate. use your brain a little more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Women admitting the crushing reality for most men in dating, would not change anythingwe're told sex and love are needs the fact that you're taught this, and then women show absolutely zero empathy for the men who get neither is interesting. Pretty based on calling out the cliches... Women can't comprehend how crucial it is when you get absolutely none. Sex & love are needs right? Just like food, most people have no concept of "true hunger" aka starvation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 03:23 AM |
| 0 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?If you say so. This dude already knows whatsup so gj for him showing something he already knew ig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 12:52 AM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?why do the women on PPD act like this is some new revelation for men? newflash we know there's creepy thirsty fools out there, and that deters us from approaching women and being that guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 11:19 PM |
| 4 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?This isn't even about men supporting other men. To even have a single person in this world that cares about your life is something that not everyone has. Guess which gender is more likely to be in this situation? Guess which gender is homeless more often... Its about society's indifference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners?I mean yeah me too and probably so do most mature men. It's just so frickin hard to get invested when the timescale needed is exponentially slower than modern dating. Hard for the other side to participate when they're not starving for attention like we are. In general ofc... sometimes you get lucky like me rn where you make an acquaintance only to meet them in a more compatible life stage later on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners?From a man's pov if you get rejected by a woman that's because another, better man was more qualified. Honestly there's truth to it but you're also right it can result in spiraling. Its the tough reality that we aren't good enough if we keep getting rejected. Thats the lesson every man is taught; focus on your career & health and eventually someone will like you. Its the same invisibility that less attractive women on this forum hate as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners?but maybe yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners?Mental attraction and emotional attraction will blend into physical attraction. I don't think men will ever work that way. theres always exceptions to the norm. Personally I'm only attracted to women I can get to know on a friend level first, but I am kinda shy ig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 12:06 AM |
| – | Why do older women (35+) raise their standards and think shaming men their age into meeting them or dating them will work?you dont have 8 yrs to waste with some man whos blech like you did at 21 whata blunder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 01:50 PM |
| 6 | Why don’t men just do what women do?F20 .. yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commitI don't think your data supports your conclusion. First one shows they're equal sure. The second doesn't attribute the lack of loyalty to women, but instead shows they're determined enough to break free from the marriage contract regardless of if they were cheating or being cheated on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'Please don't read my comment literally... I was trying to just give you the jist of my hypothesis. If there's more men than women then they're will probably be more misogynists than misandrists... assuming hating your own gender is rare and the hate is at equal rate on both sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'No woman i know IRL? I'm not saying all men & women IRL actually treat the opposite gender as a monolith; I'm talking about people on /r/PPD. I've definitely seen men all take the heat for the creeps on here. AND here I've seen this implicit attitude + the explicit statement of all men are creeps because some men are creeps. soo yea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'no thats exactly what I said more single frustrated men than single frustrated women... so more misogyny than misandry by sex distribution alone (2/3men 1/3 women? idk the breakdown of this subreddit's stats) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'well if you're comparing men and women ofc more men will be forever alone single & more frustrated overall as a result; its just supply & demand. I still see plenty of misandrists here even if outnumbered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'...that men are reading it as women are a monolith when actually they are not. but then men are a monolith because some of them are rapist or creeps. Not blaming the women here, but its very very very easy to otherize the opposite gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 01:41 AM |
| – | Women have total control of the dating marketThey have master's in philosophy so at least they're educated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 12:55 AM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Naw I don't belong here yall just hate each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:00 PM |
| 4 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"imo this is about how women here generally refuse to listen or have empathy with men's perspectives, and try to teach men how to solve there problems. Funny how its the opposite IRL where men try to solve women's issues when the women just trying to be heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:59 PM |
| 2 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakKinda wanna set it to 6'... and join the navy?? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:56 AM |
| 20 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakmaybe you don't see their issues as a legitimate. Your experience being a woman makes men's issues seem trivial. Why can't poor ppl just pull themselves up by their bootstraps? tho it should be understandable if someone whines anonymously online shouldn't it? it's not like men typically have other's to talk to about their issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 02:14 AM |
| 4 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakdamn. is it ethical to say youre 6' when youre 5'11" fellas? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeShe could be picking your money though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 07:40 PM |
| 4 | Very fucking equalwhelp I still got a few more years who knows when or if ww3 will ever happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 05:35 AM |
| 9 | Very fucking equalyou won't let me go die like a retard? ohhh noooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 05:33 AM |
| 5 | Very fucking equalI must've missed the vote | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 05:30 AM |
| 5 | Very fucking equalk so we should all sign it if its just a paper then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 01:57 AM |
| 6 | Very fucking equalwe all sign up when we're 18 so its not like its not set into motion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 12:23 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.aiight you're right, but going back to the original claim you're making "OLD is not that popular." I'd say all of the above you mentioned is online dating;which is popular. Still saying tinder/dating apps is or isn't responsible for this can't be said without data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 07:12 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.oh right ppl must be meeting through facebook, twitter or reddit /s seriously though, where are these people meeting online if not for dating apps or website? fetlife? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 06:51 PM |
| 7 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/1/10/How_heterosexual_couples_have_met%2C_data_from_2009_and_2017.png?20191207213921 The most common way couples in the US meet is through online now. Interestingly bars/restaurants meets are rising as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 06:38 PM |
| – | People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average manif you're struggling to get hugs then its obviously not the lack of hugs making you lonely. Its everything else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 01:25 AM |
| – | The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it.Those are the options I'm seeing as a 32 y/o with a career. I never thought about prioritizing someone in the same place. That honestly makes a whole lot of sense with how you broke down the alternatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalyour first post was a lot better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 02:47 AM |
| 8 | What are your thoughts on the research consensus being that women initiate domestic violence significantly more than menJust fyi domestic violence isn't just physical and even though a woman's punches might be weak its only one component of abusing your spouse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think that individual men are responsible for women value in regards to body count?so, his +1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Why do people think that individual men are responsible for women value in regards to body count?It's up to him if other men have sex with her? That's clearly wrong. Individuals barely have control over themselves let alone others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY.Reading this response and the one about women in their 20s dating 20s & older implying there's just more men for either casual sex or relationships made a lot of sense. Its definitely something that took me until me later 20's/early 30's as a man to comprehend. I'm sure plenty of younger men are clueless about it, but they do know on some level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY.Honestly if you're going to suggest to "GeoMax" it almost seems like every man should do that if they can. Why get something on your same level at home when you can more or less shoot up abroad. Ofc you'd have to screen for someone that seriously appreciates you, but that's the same as at home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 03:32 AM |
| 5 | Do women believe that men not approaching is a lack of interest?There's plenty of men without enough confidence or experience to approach. Doesn't necessarily imply a lack of interest at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movementI was merely responding to the context you provided in your initial comment. It seems like what constitutes "man spreading" to you is more fluid than you'd like to admit. Did you ever realize that men never menspread when they are driving a car? When you are in the driving seat and would bother nobody by spreading your legs, you never do it. That's crazy bc I'm literally man spreading rn in my car even though I'm by myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movementI would do it quick, and then retract. Better yet get up and do it while going to the bathroom. Then sit down. I wouldn't be obnoxious regardless of gender bc I'm not a piece of shit. If I'm not taking up anyone's space I'll do it regardless of gender as well out of comfort... Not some sort of perceived maliciousness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movementthis is a hilariously dumb take. Getting comfortable, and separating your balls from thighs is a malicious act done only to irritate women. is this a femcel take or does this represent modern feminism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 01:45 AM |
| 3 | It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege.Honestly anyone with the high or low value mentality or even breaking into the pill ideologies seem to be lost causes. Not really a direct reply to your convo, but its really depressing how toxic everyone seems here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:12 PM |
| 8 | Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating?add it up and 82.3% are at least overweight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 07:20 AM |
| 2 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsOh yeah ig I imagined you to be closer to my age. That's definitely a known difference between those two age ranges. Hence my mention about mid 20's + Also you're right about men being able to date younger women period. Maybe contingent on being decently attractive. My dad is closing in on 60, isn't well off, and is on his 2nd or 3rd gf in their 30's after getting divorced to my mom. Even me in my 30's gets way too much attention from younger women. Kinda feel like the women on here are stuck in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsI pretty much only date women far older than me why? Not trying to be a jerk, but I'm 32 and been tending towards the mid 20's. Not so much my own age, but maybe 40+ might be ok. Can't really put my finger on why tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 09:03 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups?hang around men who think no woman is listening I am a man, and talk to them under such conditions all the time. Hearing anything like that is extremely rare, but then again I try to avoid shitty people. It's just so insane to see the way women generalize men here. Like, who tf hurt you? Ofc if you did hear something like this it would stand out. It's just cognitive bias, but maybe you need to find better men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingNeed to train an AI to set a dating MMR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 05:59 PM |
| 7 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenyikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 07:48 PM |
| 10 | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?In some of these places one of the sons are forced into this so that the other sons can have kids without having to spread the resources... so yea kinda fucked up if you care about the individuals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 05:45 PM |
| 0 | Why are you trying to shame "women" into lowering their standards?hmmmmmmmmm ok no worries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Why are you trying to shame "women" into lowering their standards?So you're not ok with it if that's your example of women being bashed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Why are you trying to shame "women" into lowering their standards?What's so wrong with dying alone when u got cats? Esp if you're ok with being single and not settling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:15 PM |
| 0 | Women feel just as entitled to men's minds as they complain men do to their bodies.You're gonna judge men off a group of gamers? Though what he did is girlfriend zone you, and apparently doesn't know how to court women... which is to be expected here. He should have took the rejection and chilled out, but he made it really embarrassing for himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?In the context of the thread where normal attractive women are finding success, yet there being trouble for women more attractive it makes sense to be referring to to 8's - 10s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Lesbians, how hard it is to date women?From their comment and the comment thread they replied to + you acknowledged right now there's screening for real bi women needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Lesbians, how hard it is to date women?They were saying tedious in the sense of finding someone who legitimately has mutual feelings for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 06:35 PM |
| 5 | With access to easy sex, it is up to women to control their n countsIf men really cared, they'd demand sex resumés yea like thats really a thing or something people would be honest about. Hey I see a gap between 2018 and 2020, who were you fucking back then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Women, what do you think of stuff like Nofap or NoNutNovember?This thread really misses the point where it's about having a porn addiction and abstaining from that. NNN is a meme but Nofap is about addiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:52 PM |
| 3 | How many people here have had their heart broken?I shared mine and I got downvoted and victim blamed. Surely, you're not talking about this link where theres nothing but support? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/sftvig/how_many_people_here_have_had_their_heart_broken/husc2p1/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isso /u/letsdelveintoit1 was right about the PPD morons. well thx for wasting my time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isBc men are seen as always horny and always want sex to the point where women should rape them but claim it wasnt or minimize rape. Just so you know toxic femininity is a thing too. And yeah thats forced by men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isNaw apparently toxic masculinity is more of a cultural thing and not something only men possess. The expectation that men aren't supposed to cry or share their feelings otherwise they're weak is another example where women play a role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Wealth and sexlessness correlate extremely well. The former reliably creates the latter on average.It's just dopamine my dude. Hard to enjoy "normal" experiences when youre used to the most extreme stacking of dopamine releasers as your norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 05:56 PM |
| 2 | The main criterias women use when it comes to selecting a partner for casual sex vs. relationshiplook into stem cells for.. what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 04:31 AM |
| 5 | “You can’t be sexist towards men in a mans world”They're using the systemic racism definition while conveniently not understand it or pretending there's not other form of racism. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/10/20 11:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: single mothers are not you problem.correlation =/= causation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is the most unattractive thing a man can do?Those look normal... You mean like these? (Long link on mobile sorry) http://shared1.ad-lister.co.uk/GetImage.aspx?cid=c4c95218-7ed1-458e-95de-84c07b19a481&id=5e14eff0-d342-4d41-b36a-700db62711a3&num=1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/17 12:14 AM |
| 2 | CMV/CHALLENGE: men who claim that constant attention paid to females by unsuitable men is an "advantage" should all go to a gay bath house or "judy garland park" tonight and put their money where their mouth isSo you have all these fuckbois just trying to fuck... and then a man with priorities treating women as equals shows up. If they can show their witty incisiveness and take action to close the distance things work out juuust fine.. Thanks fuckbois! 1) Be attractive. 2) Don't be unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/17 02:28 PM |
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