Letsgoouttogether Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
183	My experiences of 2 years into Seduction/Pickup		Letsgoouttogether	/r/seduction	25/07/16 03:30 AM

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1	After intro text is it cool to text again or call same day? This is common sense. I gotta friend who never touched Pickup at all and is a complete natural. If I'd ask him, he would give you the exact same answer. Especially at the phone people think way more about stuff like this. Not only men, even women do this. Many women do think about this stuff themselves - When to write what to write etc. You are right, this is real life - then act accordingly. Spaming a girl is nothing you would do in real life. It gets even more creepy if you chase this one girl…	/r/seduction	07/10/16 02:45 PM
1	After intro text is it cool to text again or call same day? I said don't make a rule out of it but in this situation it's just plainly wrong. Why would you follow up the same day? Either wait for her reply (and she will always reply if she enjoyed the interaction) or wait a few days. You just get across as needy this way. The only thing it conveys that you really want her to answer. (expecting a reaction from her)	/r/seduction	07/10/16 01:39 PM
1	the tinder effect I strongly disagree. How would being charismatic/confident help you in getting matches? People rate you based on your looks before even giving you the chance to text them. I've done multiple tinder experiments and took about 100 screenshots as back up. I took a good looking guy with casual non shopped photos. I had no bio at all. The guy i took wasnt very muscular but he at least looked like he would go to gym once in a while. I received about 50 matches per day, girls sometimes texted me first,…	/r/seduction	07/10/16 01:07 PM
1	Need help with neediness and understanding seduction First of all, you don't need game if you are a natural social butterfly. I can tell you, most of us are probably introverts. Secondly, do not think about game when you are in a set. It will make you look like a robot trying techniques. Use game to get the right mindsets. Use game to critically reflect what went wrong in certain sets AFTER you finished going out. Once you understand, you will internalise these things and do them naturally. Neediness is one of the most important factors of being u…	/r/seduction	07/10/16 01:13 AM
1	Need help getting rid of the thought of what people think. I really dislike how often people misuse the expression depression. If you think about what other people think about, then you doubt yourself. Same advice as always, fix yourself. How do you fix yourself? Go to gym, persue a nice job, build a social circle of nice friends, be healthy. Everything that makes you feel good. Once you like yourself you will lose the fear of others judging you.	/r/seduction	07/10/16 01:01 AM
1	In a nightclub? What do you expect to get to know out of this question? I honestly doubt you are able to pull off a make out that easily if you have to ask such a question. It is a dancefloor. Just dance, enjoy yourself - sure you can try to engage interactions while dancing. But thinking you can pull off a makeout that easily is a bit too ambitious. I can only recommend you to not try to talk too much on the dancefloor. If you want to talk lead her somewhere else.	/r/seduction	07/10/16 12:51 AM
2	After intro text is it cool to text again or call same day? Wait for her answer. Don't send two texts instantly in this situation (It is possible in other situations). Moreover, you shouldn't make a rule out of it. Text when it fits. Evaluate the situation - how was your interaction irl with her? How far did you get? (From what I read, you didn't get physical at all. All you did is talking/getting a bit flirty) Right now, you probably interpret way too much into your interaction. Be realistic, it's the most important thing in texting. If you ask her out …	/r/seduction	07/10/16 12:46 AM
1	the tinder effect First of all, tinder is like 80% about looks. Whether you get matched with a girl is solely dependent on your looks for the most part. Just try it out yourself, make a fake tinder profile, take a picture of an attractive dude. You will get about 50+ matches per day. The prettier you are, the more matches you get. Moreover, it is true what they say. If you are an attractive guy on tinder, you can say whatever you want. She will be down meeting you and eventually hooking up. So the way to increase…	/r/seduction	07/10/16 12:34 AM
3	How do you deal with crippling loneliness? This. A girl won't fix you. If there was anything to happen, you would probably meet a girl that is either crazy or depressed herself and will only drag you down. Fix yourself first, then you can attempt getting a girlfriend.	/r/seduction	07/10/16 12:18 AM
1	How do i do? There is literally way too little information to give you advice. We get to know nothing about your interactions with her. From what I can read you should probably try to fix yourself first instead of trying to make a move on her. As long as you feel shitty being yourself, you will give this vibe to other people.	/r/seduction	07/10/16 12:14 AM
1	What are things that you've done to get into state? Trollpost :D	/r/seduction	07/10/16 12:10 AM
-1	Had my first interaction with a GORGEOUS girl... Hey, by all means, it is cool that he grew balls and approached her. And it is definitely the right step. However, eventually it is just a pity number. A number is worth nothing. Just an anecdote of when I went out partying with my female best friend who is very beautiful. She was shaking around with this guy the whole night, they even kissed - he got her number. Not even 5 minutes when we left the club, she asked me to block this number and delete it from her phone. He was a nice guy and all bu…	/r/seduction	07/10/16 12:04 AM
3	Had my first interaction with a GORGEOUS girl... Sorry to disappoint you but from the way you describe it, it sounds like she was feeling leagues above you. Sure, it is brave to approach and probably already sets you apart from most people, but in that interaction you first of all seemed to put her on a pedestal. You stopped doing what you would be doing (eating your burrito), you instantly complimented her on the approach (which can work, however, you need a whole different frame for this). She probably received you as a nice guy, saying some…	/r/seduction	06/10/16 11:30 PM
2	How do I prevent getting depressed and setting myself up after xxx rejections? I would suggest to improve your looks to minimise your chance of getting rejected. Everyone gets rejected every now and then but the rejection gets way less frustrating if you get pussy in between. The easiest way to get pussy is looking better. Moreover does a good look affect your confidence very positively. If you want to know what everyone can change in order to improve their looks just click my profile and take a look into the post I wrote some weeks ago. Game will not help you not getting …	/r/seduction	27/08/16 09:13 AM
1	My experiences of 2 years into Seduction/Pickup Yes, posture is definitely key. I briefly mentioned it above and thought I covered it by listing the gym. Going to gym and lifting fixes most of your posture automatically in the long run.	/r/seduction	25/07/16 02:45 PM