LetterThis2579 Archive

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1	What was the point when you realised "everything is going to be OK"? Man o man, I am living that rn. I told her I was thinking of divorce a year ago, conveniently after that she started telling people and my family I had mental problems and was an abusive father. Literally there had never been even a single complaint about either by ANYONE in the 11 years before that. I filed in June and she then insisted on a GAL. Everyone tells me I should end up with 6 or 7 out of 14 but the anxiety of waiting for the GAL's recommendation is killing me. It was my biggest fear …	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/25 09:32 PM
1	Anyone else cohabitate? 41m from Chicago, I filed back in June. We have been co-habitating since then and started "birds nesting" on the weekends. The latter has been an incredibly effective tool in transitioning our 9yo boy/girl twins and 5yo son. It is now really normal for them and it has allowed me to stay completely present in their lives every single day while our custody battle rages on. To our credit, we never argue in the house in front of them, which is why it has also probably worked well. That said, I am so…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/25 12:49 PM