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I am? Not sure what you're getting at.
/r/MGTOW216/02/20 01:28 AM
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I believe that any woman will cheat given the right set of circumstances. Head over to r/theredpill and read the sidebar.
/r/MGTOW216/02/20 01:21 AM
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Be realistic about the nature of men. Do everything in your power to counter that nature and drive that man insane.
/r/MGTOW215/02/20 10:38 PM
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Please save the memes and woman bashing for the original sub over at: r/MGTOW. I could really care less, I'm trying to find a new workout routine and recipes to go along with it.
/r/MGTOW215/02/20 08:31 PM
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If that's what you're taking out of this, I've either written this wrong or you totally misread my tone. I'm laughing about all of this, I highly doubt I "ruined" my reputation in town above what can essentially be summed up to high school drama. I did nothing more than be charming and entertaining to them, and I was respectful and courteous all around and everything I was doing and saying was reciprocated to me at the time. Of course I'm going to be talked about. This would not have been a bad …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/20 10:52 AM
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A "bad" reputation can mean a couple different things in my experience. In college I was part of a small tight-knit program. I got some notoriety for sleeping around with girls in the program. I had broken up with my High School sweetheart and I played up the whole heartbroken, "he's only ever going to love her," artsy-farsty vibe at the time. To my surprise, there was a brief window of time where girls in that program seemed to be lining up to get their turn with me. In situations like that you…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/20 09:49 AM
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Trying to encourage already hypergamous women to cheat. All women are hypergamous (AWALT). I'm not an asshole, like you proclaim you "were." I am an attractive and readily available bachelor that can liven up a room, make good conversation, all while being engaging and fun, to both men and women. I only encouraged the girl with an out-of-town-for-two-months boyfriend who wanted to keep drinking with me after all her friends had left at 2 in the morning to do so, and when she shut me down, I resp…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/20 09:41 AM
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Please save these kind of things for the other sub. It's really not very constructive.
/r/MGTOW215/02/20 07:09 AM
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These corners of the internet have existed since the start. Communities like Reddit are prone to becoming echo chambers, so people of like minds find places in which no on puts forth an opposing idea and are emboldened by this. They feed of each other. You don't even have to look to the gamers sub, just look at the original MGTOW
/r/MGTOW215/02/20 07:06 AM
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Agreed. I was taught by my mother at an early age that every room I walk into, I make better. Essentially, the same philosophy OP expressed above, and sometimes I find that men that do not espouse that have to try soooo hard to get laid. Being the charismatic "life of the party." isn't hard at all when you're comfortable with yourself and the value you bring, and outcome independence builds as a result.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/20 05:57 AM
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I am aware this sounds very blue pill. Gotta remember Alpha/Beta are fluid, and you're only human. Your story sounds a lot like mine. I'll DM you something in a bit.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 07:47 PM
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I'm not a self proclaimed stoic by any means, but certainly attempting to integrate their teachings in my daily life. I wanted a throwaway for TRP/MGTOW and I was staring at that book when I made it. I would suggest that if she calls/text, just ignore it entirely. If it's really bad or it makes her hamster spin, I would go as far as to block her number outright. As the post above says, you'll only be able to move forward once you've given up all hope of there ever being anything. She's dead as f…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 07:24 PM
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Treat it like a breakup, ghost her.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 06:04 PM
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You doing alright, man?
/r/MGTOW219/12/19 06:57 AM
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This found me at the good time. It resonates with me deeply. Coming out on the other side of a grueling boxing match with myself (over a girl), this helped to reaffirm the course that I've painstakingly gone through, but am getting out of fairly unscathed, and eager to stay the course to a much brighter future I'm making for myself. So much of it really is torture that we impose on ourselves. Once you take the thinking part out and just act towards the future, things get better exponentially fas…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 06:46 AM
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This is kind of where I am. Had two long-term relationships, one was my high-school sweetheart and the other was post Uni, where I moved in with her and began a life as an adult. The latter is still fresh in my recent past, but the entire ordeal made me realize that entertaining the notion of co-habitation with a woman and a life of servitude are not something that I am cut out for. There are men out there with far more patience, tolerance, and willingness to play the husband and father role tha…
/r/MGTOW215/12/19 09:19 PM
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Synopsis: Alex Cameron is a artist/musician, notably a close friend of Brandon Flowers. His work touches on internet culture quite frequently. In this song he examines the cultural shift of male/female relationships and sings he "never thought he would feel bad for the boys" as he tells the story of a sexual harassment claim and references "living a life without women" and "the goddamn redpill"
/r/MGTOW210/12/19 07:15 PM
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You're absolutely right. After this relationship I'm going monk to fine tune my habits and rid myself of self-destructive and beta patterns. I've had two 3+ year relationships that failed due to my inability to stick to red pill principles and it's plain as day what my shortcomings were in those scenarios. I don't necessarily plan to cut women out of my life in the long term, but I'm closed off to the idea of relationships until I've internalized said principles and sworn off marriage and childr…
/r/MGTOW222/11/19 05:48 PM
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Are you seriously gatekeeping MGTOW?
/r/MGTOW222/11/19 01:52 PM
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My feeling exactly. I gave it shot after shot, going against my better judgment. Somehow secretly hoping that this girl who was so similar to me on paper would recognize the "sacrifices" I was making, but it was just never enough.
/r/MGTOW221/11/19 10:39 PM
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Thanks for your input. I'm pleasantly surprised at the solidarity I'm finding on this sub. What you're saying resonates with me, and I'll surely refer to this comment if my brain tries to trick me into believing otherwise again. At the moment, I'm content and I feel strong. I no longer feel responsible for her feelings, and I'm letting go of possessive feelings. Heck, at this point I'd be glad to see her be someone else's problem. I set myself back, and I have a lot of work to do to get back in …
/r/MGTOW221/11/19 05:47 PM
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There was money I put into furnishing her apartment, trips, and more outings than I would have liked. Nothing I can't get back.
/r/MGTOW221/11/19 04:05 PM
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Ditto. Dodged a bullet
/r/MGTOW221/11/19 03:56 PM
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You can respect a woman, enjoy her femininity and company without letting it take away from your purpose in life. committing to more than FWB is sacrificing other priorities. Not committing will eventually cause a plate to break. I'm not seeing your point, to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 03:55 PM
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I hear you loud and clear.
/r/MGTOW221/11/19 03:18 PM
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Absolutely. I wont let myself be blinded again.
/r/MGTOW221/11/19 03:13 PM
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Copy that! I've never had a problem going monk. I've enjoyed solitude and delayed gratification is the name of the game. I'm a handsome dude, so bedding women has never been much of an issue. I just had to shed the fantasy of monogamy and "love." All in all, women have moved to the bottom of my list of priorities, too much to do to waste my time. I'm just thankful I didnt sign marriage papers or get her pregnant.
/r/MGTOW221/11/19 03:09 PM
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Thank you, brother. Glad to be back.
/r/MGTOW221/11/19 02:39 PM
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Whomever is most invested in a relationship is the one who'll be hurt when it ends
/r/MGTOW10/11/19 07:39 PM
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lol
/r/MGTOW10/11/19 07:35 PM
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Which is? Take a picture of a bookshelf?
/r/MGTOW10/11/19 07:34 PM
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I find ROK helpful at times, but I don't really see his argument here. If you enlist in an Athletic Club or Bodybuilder gym, you'll get everything he listed and it'll be mostly men, even if there's women oftentimes, these women are bodybuilders themselves, already shooting testosterone and therefore quite manly. When I go to the gym I pay absolutely no mind to anyone around me. My focus is solely on my workout. If there is a HB10 working out glutes next to me, my mind is so far from thinking abo…
/r/MGTOW10/11/19 07:33 PM
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She thinks that's all you need. If you express to her that you need sex more regularly or that you're not satisfied, that's "toxic masculinity"
/r/MGTOW210/11/19 07:20 PM
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Ive found myself traveling foreign countries with a woman, and wishing I was alone to see the place the way I wanted to.
/r/MGTOW10/11/19 06:30 PM
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I needed to read this today. The absolute truth.
/r/MGTOW10/11/19 06:29 PM
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oh stfu with that star wars crap. Read Aurelius.
/r/MGTOW230/10/19 03:41 PM
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"Women age like milk, men age like wine." Sure, you get older and your testosterone levels drop, but if it gets bad you can always hop on TRT. Men get sexier as they age, procure financial stability and maturity. There is no wall for men, so long as you don't create one yourself by not taking care of yourself.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 04:41 PM
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Women will always keep orbiters around. Pay it no mind, it's her job to shut other guys down if they try anything. The more you care about her orbiters, the more she'll pull away from you.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 05:21 AM
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Stop "falling in love," period. Feel it, sure, but "falling in love" is for women and your job is to make them fall for you.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:58 PM
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If you're still working on being financially secure, you should spin plates. "seriously dating," is going to be a money drain, and having kids even moreso. If you're wanting have kids, you've still got plenty of time to build the life of a provider. Spin plates and absorb Red Pill wisdoms so that you can have your pick at the best candidate available to be the mother of your child.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/19 05:05 AM
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It's important not to mate-guard. ​ When encountering signs of a woman's flirtatious nature coming out to play at the sight of another man, let her. It's an indicator of multiple things and an opportunity to asses your status. Your woman should be charming, flirty, and desirable. After all, she is a direct reflection on you as a man. How often do we point at weak men with horrendous shrieking wives and say, "look at that example of what not to be?" It is entirely up to a woman's discretion to dr…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 06:28 AM
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