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| 2 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?I can speak on some friends that are “naturals”, although I’d say only one of them is a natural, the other is lifted heavily by looks, God given and also attained. The natural guy lifts too, he can sing, and understands social media presence. When we are out on trips he will take some pics for the gram to show we are doing cool shit. The other guy was a running back in high school and even got a full ride at a D1 school. The running back is 6 feet while the other guy is five foot six/five. Both … | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 07:08 PM |
| 2 | AITO Who Feels Like Dating Has Never Been Easier?have a good comedy timing this has been the key for me tbh | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 07:43 PM |
| – | Previous Archived Post: Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity to.“She ain’t your bro, it’s just your turn” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 12:34 AM |
| 2 | The true problem with today's society is women have been radicalized far more than menWhat are the voting splits? I know a handful of millennials and gen z that complain yet don’t vote or participate in any other way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 05:29 PM |
| 1 | I catch so many looks at the gym…Her body language said she wants to chat with you, so find a reason to walk up and chat. | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 05:46 PM |
| 28 | Tom Brady discussion: Limits of status—when women fall out of love there’s no turning backJust don't get married and keep your options open if you are that rich. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Do women view a Guy who’s in great shape the same way we guys view women with a great body?Yeah, a fitted suit that accentuates chest muscles and shoulders is equivalent to ass and tits when we look at women. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:13 AM |
| 2 | What is the alternative less direct for “are you single?”If she's happy, she'll say. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Men 30+ y.o. successful at game, do you get girls in their 20s?Just stay in shape and have some activities that get you out of the house. Almost 30 too btw. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 05:14 AM |
| 6 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?One of rhe things preached in the book Models | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 11:07 PM |
| 4 | Talking about body count???I'm a thot too. I realized life is just trading one set of problems for another. You just gotta explain that you liked those guys and wanted to have fun. Add an emphasis on STD prevention and you are good. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 02:53 AM |
| 2 | In your experience what are the things that you did that made girls chase youLosing weight and gaining some muscle. Girls don't even are about your personality after that 😂😂. But seriously though, I have several activities that get me out of the house and around other people. Trivia at a bar is usually one of them and there is a social element built in. Softball is coming up and its easy because there is down time before you bat or while in the outfield. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 05:39 AM |
| 4 | Fuck seduction get in your bag. I don’t want woman until I reach 100k cashNo such thing as ugly, just broke. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Guys who used to be rejected by women but worked on themselves and now are successful, do you feel little disgusted by the change in behaviour of women?Nah, because I want the girl with big tits and a fat ass. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Unless you are in an established relationship with someone, there needs to be a degree of emotional detachment regarding a potential future with themThe hardest thing for me was being a little emotionally attached while realizing I'll be fine when/if she leaves. It got better after forcing myself to keep working on fitness, outdoor activities, and other goals even while sad. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girlsLike secret_twitch said, filter the bad advice for the good advice. One top comment was: leave your ego at the door, but don't take disrespect. Basically, a girl you are hitting on might move one to another guy asap or she might ignore you. Another piece was to talk to everyone instead of just the hot girl you like. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | A girl that ghosted me after the first date is now going to the same gym as I am. Should I say anything the next time I see her again?I'll go against the grain and say don't treat her like she's radioactive. If you guys bump into each other then say a quick hi and go on your day. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 04:49 AM |
| 17 | Never worry about how many IG followers she hasDeadass, I play a sport with a chick who has 500k tik tok followers. I was telling her to get an MRI due to back pain but she didn't have insurance. I was like wtf. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 08:28 PM |
| 2 | The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laidBullshit all the guys in my circle who pull with little effort have great bodies. Girls aren't the main reason they spend hours in there though. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 05:44 AM |
| 20 | having a sex doll instead of dating?If you are gonna fail, do it early in life. | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 04:13 AM |
| 51 | So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you?Complement her on something she has worked on. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 05:22 AM |
| 0 | Is it a good idea to give flowers to a crush as her birth day present ?Just buy her cupcakes. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]While losing weight, find hobbies that get you out of the house. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 12:19 AM |
| 0 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidThe best time was before Covid but you can get the vaccine and do things you enjoy outside of the house. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Men who were once horrible with women but are now good, what changed?Lost weight and gained muscle. Honestly it's all about looks first and communication second. During that weight loss, I participated in hobbies that get me out of the house and around people. Coed softball, soccer, volleyball, and trivia all have a lot of women. It's even easier because the conversations are simple to start. Add in volunteering and you will meet a lot of different personalities. Wardrobe change was next, I wear fitted suits to work since it's the dress code. I have those fitted … | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 03:40 PM |
| 9 | Y’all men gotta start getting comfortable with the sheer amount of volume we have to work not only for sex but even more so for a relationship.😂 😂 😂 Just being in shape puts you in the upper echelon. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Give me a game plan.Gain muscle and find physical/other activities that will get you out of the house and around people. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Is "game" easier for an American overseas?Yeah, you'll be the cool foreigner with a completely different set of manners, accent, behavior and other things. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.😂 😂 | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.It's cool if she has experience, but if she rubs it in your face or brings it up without context then I would dip. Also the part about pursuing a serious relationship before you met is probably true. Women can really pull above their range if it's just NSA, but for relationships, they have to be realistic. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]In my experience all those guys are randoms so don't get too jealous. Secondly, you have the biggest advantage which is seeing her face to face instead of being a face in her dms with 1,000 pictures. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 09:49 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Key issue here is, "wait". You don't do that man. | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 08:17 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]We do trivia night at a bar. There are always tables with women around us. It's even easier to open because you can trade answers. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 02:07 AM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]Put yourself in situations where you are likely to meet women. The gym has worked well for me, Co-Ed sports, and game nights with friends. Game night has especially worked well since new people are always trying to come. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Guys with lay count > 50Honestly I'd advocate for a higher body count. The alternative is worse. With a high count, you know you are desirable so if a girl is giving you bad vibes, you can move on easily. Secondly, your attention span is spread over multiple people and activities. Guys I know with high counts have their happiness eggs spread over multiple activities so that a girlfriend or lay doesn't shatter their worthiness. | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | What amount of alcohol is your sweet spot in clubs/bars?About 3 at the pregame. I hit dance clubs so the music get me hyped. | /r/seduction | 14/11/21 08:19 PM |
| 17 | [deleted by user]Agree and escalate. She said they weren't having sex so he said they weren't after some food and weed. | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 02:46 AM |
| 2 | What’s the best way to make girls chase you?Talk to multiple women. If she learns you are talking to other women, especially if they are more attractive, hooking up will be an open layup. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 03:26 PM |
| 0 | Certified Lover Boy? Even high status men can make a high quality woman uncomfortable if they give too much verbal praise and put them on a pedestal. Example from Drake’s speech about Rihanna and her reactionA little of CB and a little of Future. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 05:37 AM |
| 12 | Certified Lover Boy? Even high status men can make a high quality woman uncomfortable if they give too much verbal praise and put them on a pedestal. Example from Drake’s speech about Rihanna and her reactionEvery guy needs a little Future to balance the Drake. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 05:30 AM |
| 2 | 10 year age gap. Free to proceed?Yeah, make the move. It's just life experience. It's only creepy if you exclusively look for young women, | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Should I try harder, or is she just not interested?Keep being friendly, but move on to other women. | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?Hobbies where both genders are there. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenExactly anyone ia kidding themselves if they think otherwise. The guys I know who pull consistently are all muscular and lean. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Advice for 29 and never been on a date?Whatever you enjoy, there is no real rule. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 03:38 PM |
| 1 | How do I meet girls and how can I get to know them? Looking for casual sex and/or a long relationship.First you gotta work on having personality and physical attraction. Started off with basketball ball in the gym for me. I made friends there and some guys had girlfriends so their friends became my friends 😁. I lost a ton of weight so this improved my confidence. Volunteer as great for me as well because it's something you genuinely care about. I noticed my happiness was spread across various activities. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 07:11 PM |
| 1 | As a man are low body counts attractive to you?High, I don't want her thinking about me too much. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 06:57 PM |
| 3 | How powerful is it really, when a girl realises a guy has many other options?Pretty good lol. Some women won't like it but it's whatever on that. Just don't take it personally, and remember not everyone will like you, just like you don't like everyone. A stripper I wanted to smash benched me but she put me in the game after seeing me with a more attractive girl. A few girls have put me, on their "next" list when they were looking for a new boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Went from a girl telling me I look like her little brother’s friend to hooking up with her in her apartmentSame thing happened to me at 14. The girl, who is my ex now said the same thing. What's funny is, I thought that statement sealed the deal for her to become my girlfriend. I just keep a playful demeanor and kept flirting. The rest is history. | /r/seduction | 18/01/21 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular Opinion: You need to be texting the girl you are dating in between datesI think it black and white these days because guys flood women with messages in between dates. | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to be beyond help?See a therapist. Start some hobbies. Fitness is usually the easiest. Playing basketball and lifting is a great way to heal after work. Hangout with out with everyone. Read the following books: No More Mr Nice Guy Models 3% Man | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 02:13 AM |
| 1 | I feel inferior to other guys in dating. There are always bigger, more handsome, richer etc. dudes and I feel insecure. How should I overcome this feeling?Honestly I just gave up and focused on things that made me happy. As the guy said above there will always be a guy better than you at something. There will be a guy taller, wealthier, better jaw and other stuff. I focused on stuff I can control. My weight, whether I beat my friends at sports, and fashion became my main drivers. | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 08:35 AM |
| 8 | Is 28 too late to start hooking up more?The book models touched on this indirectly. My man said meet girls at events you enjoy. If you enjoy soccer, are you more likely to attract a girl through bumble or at a coed soccer game? | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Any guys who had to resort to prostitutes to have sex, did you manage to get sex the normal way?Yo I read some of the comments here and I change my mind. It is better than scrolling through bumble and seeing the women you won't get. Go get a hooker but make sure you do not become addicted. | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 12:29 AM |
| 5 | How much does being in shape help you while pursuing girls?I fumbled the bag a few times, but it's better than no bag. I did get lays for confirmation. I made it a mission to spend at least 10 hours outside the house on Saturday and Sunday | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 12:13 AM |
| 32 | How much does being in shape help you while pursuing girls?Women will check you out. After I lost weight and toned up, I could see women checking me out. You look better in clothes and it improves confidence. | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Any guys who had to resort to prostitutes to have sex, did you manage to get sex the normal way?Yeah I feel it. 6 months is just a random time line. You could do 3 months. | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Any guys who had to resort to prostitutes to have sex, did you manage to get sex the normal way?I would say, give an extra 6 months of genuine effort. Talk to any girl and see if you click. Even if she is below your standards up to a point of course. If that doesn't work then fuck it get a hooker. | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 03:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop beating myself up over anxious/awkward moments in my dating life?Silence is fine people try to overgame which causes some awkwardness during silent moments. Just walk in peace for a bit and then talk about something else. | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 05:12 PM |
| 3 | What age did you lose your virginity?Men's prime age is like 25-50 basically. Stay in shape and that helps a lot. People start doing this at all ages, I got a friend who's is a natural since 15ish and others started mid twenties to thirties. The regret of not trying hurts more than rejection. As for advice, I'm a novice so I'm learning. Get to work. | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 05:09 AM |
| 3 | I finally got really hot girlfriends... and then lost them. Don't make these mistake tooI know a guy who is similar. At least 100 women have cheated with him. | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 06:22 AM |
| 3 | This isn’t for meDude 30s to 50s are peak for men, especially if you take care of your self. You gotta get to work. Start with easy shit. Gym after work was life changing for me. I used to get on reddit and waste my evenings. Now I've lost 100 pounds. Great for socializing especially if you like basketball. As for work, I did accounts payable and made it a goal to get to corporate by eoy 2018. I had that job by summer 2018. Now unless you got celebrity money you are stuck with your face. You can control your bod… | /r/seduction | 23/07/20 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Skin Care For MenI started with basic work. Drink water - I can see oil levels change after 2-3 days. Cleanse - cerave normal skin Exfoliate. Cerave moisturizer. Sunscreen when I know I'll be leaving the house. Reduce added sugar. Don't use soap, my face was drier than the moon, when I used soap. | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 04:49 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being seen as a friend and become more attractive?3% man also had some good advice. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 03:53 AM |
| 10 | How did you get the girl that wasn’t interested at first?I just decided to move on after 1 month in the friend zone. I focused on improving physical looks, dressing, reputation, and personality. She ended up having a major crush on me but by that time, I had moved on and wasn't interested. | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 07:11 PM |
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