LeverageSynergies Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learned “The best revenge is a life well lived” Move on hard, fast and just try to live your best life	/r/seduction	12/09/22 01:50 AM
2	Finding a boyfriend In general, the guys that are confident enough to approach you (out of the blue) are not the type that you're looking for. 1) Find them naturally/organically OR 2) Go out and be proactive and hit on them	/r/seduction	18/05/22 04:24 PM
1	I Don’t Think She’s That Much In To Me Girls are not perfect either. They often throw out mixed signals unintentionally. Don’t read too much into it. Just go out the date, keep it light and fun, and reassess based on how it went	/r/seduction	14/04/22 05:58 PM
1	When to ask girl out? Yes - that’s pretty good. Two suggestions/considerations: 1-“hey want to grab lunch after class? The Thai place a block over has been on my bucket list all semester.” (Or, “I heard they actually make a killer chicken sandwich in the cafeteria”). With only a little bit more effort, you can make lunch feel EXCITING 2-I don’t think you need the “I’d like to get to know you better”. Saying that puts pressure on both you and her that this is a formal date. After a few 1-2 lunches it will be obvious t…	/r/seduction	06/04/22 05:49 PM
1	When to ask girl out? Dont "ask her out". Just find a fun/interesting event that is happening and suggest that she joins you in going there. Dont make it awkward with some big "will you be my girlfriend" confrontation. Just start doing fun things together. And do it immediately	/r/seduction	06/04/22 03:21 PM
1	If a woman says shes engaged, do you give her your number anyway or you just leave it be? Be the change you want to see. Absolutely let it go.	/r/seduction	05/04/22 05:04 PM
1	You guys who can hold deep conversations with girls mainly and men, how to make friends, what is the secret? Man - good question….and great answers from the group too! I’m addition to the comments, consider the book “how to win friends and influence people”	/r/seduction	22/03/22 08:08 PM
1	how do i approach guys and ask for their numbers without looking creepy Also, it’s a actually probably hurting you (being too nice on a first date) I’m sure you’re actually just a really sweet person, but in a way you need to hold that back a little bit. It’s cliche, but to a small degree you have to be a little “cool”. Act (a little bit) like you don’t care if they like you (because you u e a wonderful great life even without them). Keep your head up. Your coming into your 20’s where guys will be throwing themselves at you left and right. I’m a way, dating will nat…	/r/seduction	17/03/22 08:47 PM
7	how do i approach guys and ask for their numbers without looking creepy Feel appreciated? Respectfully, you shouldn’t “appreciate” anyone until they’ve done something to deserve it. And if it’s a first date they’ve done nothing to deserve anything yet. Perhaps just sit back and relax a little bit. After you’ve gone on 3 to 5 days with someone then you can start bringing them gifts	/r/seduction	17/03/22 07:40 PM
22	How do I (F20) flirt with guys 1) you’re 20. For the next 15 years you will have a tidal wave of men hitting on you. You have no idea what’s coming. 2) Just dress normal, act normal, and treat guys like anyone else: ask them about them, and their interests 3) as everyone said, you can flirt by causally touching the guys arm or hand. Eye contact is your other tool/option If you like a guy, find something that you guys have in common and suggest that you both go do that thing together (a really cool ice cream shop nearby that h…	/r/seduction	16/03/22 08:16 PM
5	Cigarettes As you see from the comments: 1) that will be a deal breaker for some girls but not all 2) your vulgar language will also be a deal breaker for some girls (but not all) Some girls will love you just as you are, but you can increase your odds by making improvements in #1&2 above.	/r/seduction	07/10/21 04:16 AM
2	I think I am unable to get into any relationship because I am incapable of being sexual with a girl Force yourself to relax your standards a little to get more experience/comfort in all phases of a relationship	/r/seduction	17/04/20 06:27 PM
1	What does magnetic eye contact mean? I think you have to go for it - doesnt need to be a big deal. Find a tea shop nearby, then next time youre drinking team with her, tell her about the shop, and ask if she wants to join you next weekend.	/r/seduction	06/03/20 03:13 PM
1	how does sex “just happen”? 1) Get drinks (dont go overboard) 2) Genuinely have a good time - laugh, joke, tease him 3) Suggest that you go back to your dorm - dont make a big deal out of it. Just say "hey you ready to get out of here" 4) Be a little aggressive and kiss him (at your dorm) 5) The rest happens naturally	/r/seduction	23/01/20 05:29 PM
8	Guys who couldn't get women, what changed? Forget the phrase "cold approach" - it sounds intimidating! Just start talking to everybody you see when an opportunity presents itself. See a 70year old with a nice sweater, "tell them - hey great sweater - love the pattern!" When you're in line somewhere and its taking forever - comment to the person ahead of you or behind you, "man at this rate, ill be ordering dinner instead of lunch!". Basically, start being outgoing. Eventually when you see a girl you want to talk to, it will be easier (di…	/r/seduction	04/10/19 08:38 PM