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It's a different world now, complimenting a woman's looks is practically an insult, they hear it all day everyday and it will make u reek of ulterior motive. Try not to compliment her general appearance at all, compliment specific stuff that is in her control like her wardrobe or hairstyle to show u are paying attention and it makes the compliment unique. Ultimately the choice of words don't matter, if u are her type she will be flattered, if u ain't her type she will be creeped out.
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:56 AM
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U did nothing wrong here, women move fast, she could have been legitimately interested but also could have met someone else right after meeting u or hooked up with someone she already knows, alot of women clam up and go silent rather than admit it. Just take a page out of their playbook and act the same way, be qyick. Btw it ain't clingy to ask someone on a second date, ur just being honest u want to see her again, it can be flattering if delivered right, all depends how much she is into u.
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:20 AM
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Just start seeing attractive women for what they really are. Many of them are gaslighting narcissists with an overinflated sense of entitlement that are addicted to social media and plows through more dudes then an opposing linebacker. Of course not all women are like this, but considering the possibility any one of them could be, they become way less intimidating and they have to prove to u they are worth ur time.
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:11 PM
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It is wrong to be in need of a relationship, it shouldn't be something u need, it should be something you want, u need to show u ain't in a rush and take the pressure off yourself, so yes u gotta be distant and not care, and this is not a bad thing because it only works to ur benefit, not caring is a good thing if u think about it. Above all else women want what they can't have, so be hard to get, this don't mean shun the female race, u got to tease and challenge them, it means make them earn yo…
/r/seduction22/01/22 06:20 AM
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Not really, there are guys with no humor and confidence that get more ass then a toilet seat, people overlook alot of things if ur good looking, all of a sudden they want to help fix u.
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:28 PM
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Best thing u can do is...nothing. stand back and let this chick and the other dude escalate and watch them ruin their personal and work lives, and as the drama unfolds u will feel alot better knowing it wasn't u when ur laughing at them, plus u will see firsthand why shitting where u eat is bad practice.
/r/seduction13/01/22 04:04 PM
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I would keep things basic and not try to overthink and plan too much, these women most likely already have what u are trying to build...a rotation. You gotta dumb it down and pass the shit tests, women constantly give signals that are opposite of their intent, if the girl is "afraid" of a pump and dump, that may be exactly what she wants, she just going to try to get u in a classy manner hence the chocolate cakes and coffee, u gotta call her out and tell her it seems like she's the one with pump…
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:33 PM
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Don't buy into the whole thing where opinions are permanent, friendzone is permanent, etc..., it is entirely possible to change how a woman sees u by making fast and drastic changes to yourself and your life, if u kill the old u and become a new person, new and often better opinions about u will form. I went from getting nothing the first half of high-school to getting more ass then a toilet seat by losing half my body weight, being engaged in sports, got tattoos, being more open/funny/sarcastic…
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:24 PM
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Make no mistake, they know how it is for us and take full advantage, they get power trip off of swatting guys away, from their p.o.v. it literally releases endorphins. I literally have female friends that use o.l.d. just to do this. Given no women is going to take any less then what they think they deserve, the problem is social media made them all think they are entitled to the same type. These chads have 99% of the options so the woman can never be happy knowing what's happening behind her bac…
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:26 PM
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I want to say p.o.f. or okcupid...if it was still 2008. Now we are better off deleting the apps and going back to basics and going out and having fun, the only way to make these girls overlook the slightest flaw is to show some balls, the kind of balls to approach and woo them in person, and the kind of balls swatting their ass as u thrust. Any girl that puts themselves online that is any kind of good looking is ruined anyway, all the attention cultivates narcissism and sense of entitlement, and…
/r/seduction26/12/21 09:42 PM
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Well known people like a breath of fresh air, best way to give them that is treat them like anybody else u meet, they probably sick of so many people simping for them or kissing ass, even if they think they like that kind of attention. I wouldn't bring up their fame unless they bring it up first, but it's OK to talk about what they do, why they do it, how they got where they are, just regular convo to establish connection that appeals to who they are instead of the fame they have. I can only say…
/r/seduction26/12/21 09:24 PM
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Not only that, they had their backup guy at the ready before the breakup regardless, they plan ahead.
/r/seduction24/12/21 02:41 AM
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Not always. Usually if I get that from a complete stranger who initiated the interaction, 99% of the time she is just trying to get something out of me like cash or a ride, this is what I get alot of walking around downtown. If I was the one who initiated it, and she ain't trying to get anything out of me, or it's someone I'm familiar with then I take it as an i.o.i. Ultimately no matter the situation, it's all in the vibe the person gives, not the words or the kino.
/r/seduction24/12/21 02:39 AM
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Just get it done without showing disrespect, make it clear it's not a selfish decision and it's for the good of both of you. If she is a mature adult she won't hate u, she don't have to, women are masterminds of moving on instantly, you gave her the ticket to do what/who she wants.
/r/seduction24/12/21 02:32 AM
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Don't tell yourself u got no options, they just haven't been revealed. Women have millions of options. So do you. You can literally meet anybody anywhere just ask out 10 women a day. If your rejection rate is 99%, u are still pulling 3 per month, it's all a numbers game, make it work for you.
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:14 PM
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Grow a set and get her number. If it's fake she wasn't interested anyway. Giving out ur number i think is only ok if u also get hers right then and there. Just giving out your number with nothing in return is just going to give her an ego boost that wasn't earned, it's giving free approval, so that p_$$^ gonna dry up.
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:08 PM
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Move onto the next one. She may not be that bitch that is changing her mind last minute, sometimes having a really good time with someone makes the girl realize how she really feels about someone else, u did nothing wrong here but u can't be hung up on the circumstances, just keep going on dates with different women, and make it known, she might chase u when u become the guy she can't have.
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:00 PM
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A couple months. The boundaries were agreed upon right from the start and she pulled a 180 saying how she grew very fond of me and wanted to move in with me. Thanks but no thanks, if I wanted that I would have said so at the start.
/r/seduction23/12/21 05:52 PM
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Thank you this is the real gold, most of what the puas are showing is staged, it's a conflict of interest because youtube and social media is an income stream for them, very few actually show when they get rejected.
/r/seduction22/12/21 09:39 AM
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Don't forget if u ain't her type all of the above becomes creepy/weird, if u are her type anything will work, read the person for interest/disinterest indicators before approaching, its as simple as that.
/r/seduction22/12/21 12:07 AM
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/r/seduction20/12/21 09:29 AM
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Looks at the comments....I call bullshit on alot of what I see. If her overconfidence is something u like about her, no shame in shooting ur best shot. I personally find conceited women can be pretty funny. There was a chick cdl driver at my old job, this girl was supermodel quality and she knew it, redhead with busty c cups, skinny waste, thicc protruding ass, im normally pretty ok with women but I thought I had zero chance so I talked to her like normal like I would with anybody else. I watche…
/r/seduction20/12/21 09:24 AM
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You already got what it takes, it's unreal how far you can get with a woman with normal conversation. You just need to work on escalating to flirting with proper timing, but regular convos with no motive are the key to get u in the door.. If during a convo the girl shows interest by flirting with me or light touching, I know I got the green light to start flirting a little bit. Back to the question at hand: all flirting is: verbal playtime for adults. The difference between flirting and regular …
/r/seduction20/12/21 07:31 AM
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When it comes to somebody u percieve as out of your league, u got to inact costanza protocol. Do the exact opposite of what ur instincts tell you. Fuck the starting at the bottom and working your way up, walk straight up to the hottest girl in your vicinity and just smile and get words out. Doing this regularly will shift your mindset and u will understand its absolutely no big deal, and the mental block will slowly disappear and u can achieve flow state easier. When I started doing this, I was …
/r/seduction20/12/21 03:03 AM
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If a person is brand new to the learning experience of game, liquid courage can definitely help quell the overthinking and the nerves, but long run shouldn't be depended on so actual skill can be developed. Its all about balance.
/r/seduction20/12/21 02:23 AM
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If u don't know what to say, say exactly that, literally whatever is on your mind, it helps trigger flow state. "I don't know what to say, we are two very attractive people and the mutual radienence is giving me the yips." If the girl was interested in you enough to dance or talk in the first place, even if what u say is corney as hell or you feel awkward she will probably just laugh with you and help u keep the convo going., awkwardness is part of the process, it only gets guys rejected if the …
/r/seduction20/12/21 02:19 AM
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Number 1 mistake is not being good looking. Sounds like an obvious broken record but... ...This doesn't mean there is no hope if u ain't a natural born "chad", this means work with what you got and maximize your appearance with 110% effort. Accent your naturally good features and correct your bad ones. Let female friends and relatives make a project out of u and get their opinions. You can't just "go to" the gym, you have to murder it. You can't just "dress up" u gotta be the best dressed person…
/r/seduction19/12/21 05:27 PM
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This is commonplace the past couple years, there is a parallel pandemic of mental health stuff, including overusing the internet because most people had no choice. Now alot of people by no fault of their own feel everything/anything has to be done online including dating, it's as if old fashioned in person interactions became taboo, so many women, especially the younger crowd, percieve getting approached as creepy, to the point they try going viral about it, when the fact is women used to dream …
/r/seduction18/12/21 06:45 AM
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Don't get rid of it, it's a sign of prequalification...unless ur in a serious relationship then ur screwed. Aloe+a comb and attack it, then aftershave.
/r/seduction18/12/21 03:25 AM
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There are so many ways to work with this. She gave a direct indicator of interest u can literally try anything and she will probably find it charming or cute if she already likes u, even of u are nervous and feel awkward just roll with it, she thinks ur cute she won't judge u for that and laugh with u,, just do no big turnoffs or disrespectful stuff. Maybe start striking different poses and tell her if she wanted u to ask her out she might need to get more creative with the compliments, and "the…
/r/seduction16/12/21 09:48 PM
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Keep in mind that a woman's critique of you will be different based on whether or not you are her type. Perception is in the eye of the beholder. If u ain't her type, she won't see a sexual vibe about you, and you can literally make no changes and if u happen to be someone else's type, all of a sudden you have sexual vibe. The same concept of how If u aren't her type, anything u do/say is weird or creepy, if u are her type anything u do/say is charming/appreciated.
/r/seduction16/12/21 08:26 AM
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I see what you are saying, it's because of this i usually date women older then myself, I can actually be a gentleman like I was raised and it is appreciated. With most women my age or lower, it's easy to get them to keep comming back by cussing them out and being a jerk on purpose, problem is I've been done with the powerplays for ages, it definitely works, but it's not who I am, I don't want somebody attracted to me for the wrong reasons. Ultimately each woman has her own unique mindset, it's …
/r/seduction15/12/21 04:19 PM
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I agree cold approaching is bad news, which is why I never initiate anything unless the woman makes it obvious that she wants me to, I kind of see it as simulating warm approach. Tbh most of the time I meet someone in public, she approached me first, sometimes for simple stuff like borrowing a lighter, then if she starts talking about herself or asking about me I just roll with it. Overall, however, you said it best, the best dates I've been on were with women I already connected with during nor…
/r/seduction15/12/21 04:06 PM
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The bar/club thing presents a paradox. Yes, these are the places women go expecting to be approached. It's because of this fact they also have their guard up the most and they get into cherrypicking mode. In these situations they only want their ideal man approaching them, which is why usually only 1 or 2 guys in the place are getting all the attention and all the females there are competing for them. Bars and clubs are good for chads, average guys have a much better chance by developing good co…
/r/seduction15/12/21 03:48 PM
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Women have desires and fantasies just like we do, we need to think from their point of view. If some mega chad walks in the room, of course their behavior will change, no different then we would react if the s.i. swim models walked in people are going to check out attractive people either way, it don't mean your exiled from the game for being a normal average guy. I personally would prefere dating an average chick, I don't want someone that was handed everything she wanted her whole life because…
/r/seduction15/12/21 03:15 PM
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That's true in a perfect world that don't exist. The roller coaster ride of emotions the woman experiences is what hooks her, once the guy gets himself together and achieves stability its no longer a challenge so she is onto the next project.
/r/seduction15/12/21 09:37 AM
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Nah, u probably saw something in her that made u overlook stereotypes formed by our judgmental society. It takes giving the person a fair chance to see if said stereotypes actually apply to said individual, sometimes u win sometimes u dont. There is no such thing as a mistake as long as you acquired knowledge/experience.
/r/seduction15/12/21 12:42 AM
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You really did nothing wrong here, everybody got their vices, hers was getting paid to take clothes off. The only mistake was leaving stuff at her place.
/r/seduction15/12/21 12:31 AM
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Like everything it comes down to looks...Women love to try to fix who is broken...being needy is unattractive if the guy isn't her type, if he is her type, all of a sudden she must go on a quest to fix the guy.
/r/seduction14/12/21 03:43 PM
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Think about your target here. Girl on tinder looking for fun. Neither being friendly or foward is going to work. You need to be a coke dealer...even if you're not. I have never heard of a dealer getting ghosted....ever...
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:36 AM
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Always have coke. Even if you don't use. Trust me bro.
/r/seduction03/12/21 06:24 PM
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I'm a goofy looking short guy with glasses and I got more ass than a toilet seat. It's all about the vibes and aura one presents. What the internet determines to be reality is not actual reality. Of course when I was really out there it was different times. I can see what your saying kind of holds true with the younger crowd nowadays, these young women set their bar so high for appearances and financials that they can never be happy or see the person for who they are, and the young males don't d…
/r/seduction03/12/21 06:22 PM
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My point is if you don't approach you are going to feel bad, it's the natural mechanism I was talking about, if we miss out on a shot at populating the earth, we ain't going to feel right. Just like women regret the guys they sleep with, men regret the women they don't sleep with. I was trying to say how to set yourself up to completely not care about the outcome of the approach by caring about the actual important, fulfilling things. Once u 100% don't care about what random people think, u can …
/r/seduction02/12/21 11:04 PM
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Just basic fundamentals for conversation that we were all good at in kindergarten, but society and hyperconnectivity chipped away at many people's natural social skillz and the very concept of socializing the natural way, so sometimes as adults we just need reminders of the bare basics. Observe: Make a connection with the person by stating something about them or your surroundings or the current situation that u observe that genuinely interests you, usually something within their control. Share:…
/r/seduction02/12/21 10:50 PM
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As men we have an internal mechanism that makes us kick ourselves in the ass when we know we have an opportunity and don't take the chance, it can cause a chain reaction of repetition because we are afraid of this feeling more than the possibility of failure itself. Best thing you can do is raise your sense of self worth, which involves alot more than being good looking. Bring as much gain to yourself as u can and show all the love you got to your family and friends and everything else will fall…
/r/seduction02/12/21 10:30 PM
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Don't overthink it and just interact with her no different then u would with any individual u are not attracted to, just regular conversation. Ask a question u genuinely need answered, appropriately pertaining to the situation, such as asking her recommendations on workout routines or music to exercise to or even if there is good coffee nearby. If she seems into normal conversation, then ease into flirty banter. If in doubt, remember o.s.a. (observe, share,ask), this is key to positively interac…
/r/seduction02/12/21 07:47 PM
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I personally don't rely on social media to connect with the opposite sex. I might be old fashioned but some women still like being approached by a confident man in person. The internet started off as an open info source that was a useful tool for socializing, now big tech controls everything about it and takes advantage of human nature for marketing purposes, now everything is so hyper connected that people live on the internets definition of reality and not actual reality. Ghosting is now norma…
/r/seduction02/12/21 05:04 PM
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This article fails to mention the differences between the typical male and female mindset. I know as a man I would personally be very flattered by somebody showing interest and putting effort into chasing me. Women showing interest makes me interested, she can throw herself at me and what man wouldn't want that? Many of us think it's nice to feel needed. With women it's the opposite and this is where this article is very on point. If I simply don't care and I don't need nobody, the girl keeps co…
/r/seduction02/12/21 04:35 PM
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To summarize: avoid American women under age 35
/r/seduction01/12/21 12:26 AM
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If she had sex with u the first time u met, imagine how many other guys got the same privilege. This was not a quality woman this was a girl who didn't get past slut phase. You did yourself a favour, matter of fact I'm stealing your line, the next time I need to get a girl to permanently leave me alone I'll just tell her she can suck my dick when she is upset about personal shit.
/r/seduction26/11/21 03:55 AM
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Sometimes women will say incredibly stupid things just to start a conversation with you. Many women don't have good social skills because they never needed them, so if a girl acts awkward or stupid around you, it's very good news.
/r/seduction26/11/21 03:46 AM
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Try to see that as an advantage because there is no right or wrong way to do it, and no instruction manual for it. Just dumb it down, the stupider u talk the better. The best way I can describe it is to talk like u are assuming she already wants u. If anything watch the old 007 movies with connery/Moore, those are great teachers of flirting naturally because there was no internet making people overthink.
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:54 PM
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Flirt with her friends right in front of her. Works like a cheat code. She may very well get mad. She will also start chasing u.
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:43 PM
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Not everything needs to be a mindgame, don't analyze how often to text and when. If she is into you, she will reply, if she is not, she won't reply regardless of all variables.
/r/seduction06/11/21 06:52 PM
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The name of this sub is r/seduction, not r/ethicaldating
/r/seduction06/11/21 06:49 PM
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What it is...u crossed the threashold. Men's power to attract drastically increases going into their 30s, the same time when all our friends from our 20s disperse and do their own thing. I was shocked how dating went from nearly impossible in my 20s to how easy it is in my 30s, it's like I don't have to do shit, they do the pursuing. If u feel sad and awkward about clubbing by yourself, don't do it because how u feel about it will block your chi.. I personally wouldn't go clubbing without people…
/r/seduction06/11/21 06:47 PM
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If she is still interested then u don't have much to worry about, perhaps she is either into your conversational topics, or she is playing along because she is into you. All you have to do at this point is not fuck up. I wouldn't change much since it seems she didn't change her mind,, but for future reference try for more of a witty, non serious banter and put more focus on physical escalation than verbal. This is why I don't nessecarily think going to a movie is a bad first or second date, the …
/r/seduction06/11/21 06:34 PM
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You said you are not a bad person. You gave yourself your answear. Modern dating is so cutthroat and so grimey u have to be a piece of shit. Think about the type of guys who are great with women...they ain't afraid to wreck entire households or screw over other men. I ain't suggesting to actually become a piece of shit, u just need to look in different places. I'm sorry, if u are a genuinely good person, there ain't much going to happen on tinder. Many girls from o.l.d. ain't going for anybody t…
/r/seduction04/11/21 03:28 AM
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Having options is exactly what gains even more options, but everyone needs to start somewhere, getting from 0 to 2+ is the hardest part. This is where u walk and talk like u are getting laid every night and morning even if u are not. For better or worse, women want competition, if u can't offer that, u can create the illusion. If a girl asks if u are seeing anyone, lie your ass off and say there is a couple women u talk to and u are waiting to see who shows the most effort. If you have to challe…
/r/seduction04/11/21 03:12 AM
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This is textbook. She was seeking your attention, and she got it when u texted first. For alot of younger women the quest for attention is far greater than actually getting the attention, so when she gets it she starts her next quest. Don't dwell on this, when an emotionally mature person is actually interested in u more than her own ego, she will appreciate and respond to you and there is no need to worry about who texts first and how often, she won't play mindgames.
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:46 AM
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U are just in the "too good to be true" denial phase, good things are happening, and if u expected failure, it becomes easy to deny your own successes. You held off on texting her back for another date(smart), and she reached out to invite you over, she obviously wanted to escalate. Most times a woman that is already interested has u at her place or yours, sex is on her mind, it's almost bad manners not to do it at that point. You didn't nessecarily mess up by not taking it all the way, it just …
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:21 AM
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Taking it slow is sending the wrong message. She will see u as respectful for showing restraint. This is good for relationship building, but hooking up don't require mutual respect, only functional genitalia and knowing how to enable the girl's primal desires. You don't want to be the quality guy with partnership potential, you want to be a mistake..Think about the kinds of dudes that regularly hook up with many women...they are disrespectful douches we love to hate, and they move quick.
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:08 AM
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Don't get me wrong, anyone can play mindgames if there is a lacking of compatability and/or maturity, so it's easy to fall under the assumption that everything is a mindgame when it's a constant in modern society
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:03 PM
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If both people are emotionally mature and into each other, all of a sudden texting like this is more charming than needy as long as it's kept in balance, it's all in the perception of the beholder. One girl could think it comes across as needy, another can find it to be sweet, all depends on how much she is into the guy, if she isn't anything/everything is a turnoff anyway.
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:15 PM
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She probably wants u as the guy on the side. It is far better to be "the other guy" than the person that is being cheated on. I would normally say just get into something casual with her, but not in this situation because you work with her and will be forced to keep being around her if u both still want a paycheck.
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:17 AM
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This all depends on one's definition of "approach". Men are direct, women are subtle. Yeah you will have the mega chad of the place that gets approached straight up, but for us "normies" there is still abundant interest if one knows how to read the room. Yes men usually have to break the ice verbally, but often women will give the first non verbal cue, either consciously or unconsciously, basically inviting the man to approach. I firmly believe in not propositioning a woman unless she makes it c…
/r/seduction23/10/21 08:41 PM
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Plant sexual ideas in her head, make ur conversations sexually charged, challenge her...create a scenario where you are questioning if she can handle u if something were to happen
/r/seduction16/10/21 07:03 PM
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There was an older woman present, you actually could have made nice guy mode work for u if the niceness was directed at her.
/r/seduction16/10/21 06:20 PM
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Just make hanging out with you so fun that she doesn't give a shit about your intentions, this is the foundation of all successful non-relationships
/r/seduction16/10/21 06:18 PM
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neither, I figure that allows me to give an objective opinion. 🇵🇷
/r/seduction07/10/21 01:07 PM
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We call it the hartford/springfield market since the whole area is just one big extension of cities and their suburbs, the "northern leg" of the new York "supercity"
/r/seduction07/10/21 01:02 PM
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I only intend to say positive things on the subject but I feel there is no way to talk about this subject without triggering a cancel culture suspension on my account, but here it goes...in my region black is the new rich white guy, every type of woman chases African american men now, it's not even a contest. The only white guys pulling it off are the posers that try to act black.
/r/seduction07/10/21 12:58 PM
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As expected of reddit, downvotes usually mean truth is being spoken.
/r/seduction04/10/21 03:20 PM
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I agree with most of this, but I don't think respect or free attention should just be handed out to an attractive women before it is earned, just like anybody else.
/r/seduction04/10/21 02:38 PM
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Things may be different depending on your region, but walk around any large venue or strip mall around here and behold the amount of couples where 1 person is drastically more fucked up looking than the other, like a complete mismatch. You got model quality girls walking around with some ogres. Take the restraints off and talk to the hottest girl you see anywhere you go, you'll be fine.
/r/seduction03/10/21 11:42 PM
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Pretend she never even shot that first shot, be normal. Anyone can tell you to not shit where you eat but women love dating coworkers because of familiarity factor, so we can't as males do nothing about it. We needs protocals and this situation calls for acting like nothing happened, the less awkward you make it the less likely she is to file paperwork with h.r.🤣
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:47 PM
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Simple: humans want what they can't have, that includes men.
/r/seduction24/09/21 06:29 PM
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Don't get me wrong many women do deserve what they want and should accept nothing less, that has been the same since the dawn of time, the difference is today many don't think they have to do the work to become the same type of quality person they want to attract, girls that are junkie deadbeats thinking they deserve Chuck norris🤣
/r/seduction24/09/21 05:44 PM
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The thing is, as u said, people still got brains, and still got free will. Most people are completely aware that society is screwing them up, and many women make that work to what they think is their advantage, having ridiculous standards is no longer seen as superficial
/r/seduction24/09/21 05:28 PM
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My point of view is women aren't to blame at all, the state of society ruined their identity and femininity, it is weak men that put them on this pedestal that makes them forget the important things they should be looking for in a man that they actually do want but don't know it. big tech capitalises on these social issues by offering services where a woman can just select her ideal man based on photos painting the false narrative that life works like that.
/r/seduction24/09/21 12:39 PM
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Exactly, I never even learned about the sigma male until I was in therapy earlier this year, and had to be told I developed that frame completely by accident because my subconscious seeked an alternate path.
/r/seduction24/09/21 11:51 AM
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Not really, because most of the "dates" were at her place or mine. No one should have to spend alot on a woman to get with her, that is what makes relations transactional, on the verge of it being the world's oldest profession. There were a few quality women that I actually respected that I would wine and dine and they wouldn't see me as a simp for doing so but that type is few and far between.
/r/seduction24/09/21 11:48 AM
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An acronym for OnLine Dating. In the end these chad chasers will be miserable because these guys actually have more options then an attractive woman does, they literally got the entire dating pool available to them when the woman will only consider said 10%, so James bond has no reason to settle, he will keep the rotation going, then the girl will turn 30 and realize she can't get these guys when there are new 21 year olds everyday that will chase him, and she will settle for some simp and take …
/r/seduction24/09/21 11:23 AM
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Tbh at first I mustve developed my senses as natural compensation for how big a loser I used to be. I became a man of action, but am still very average in every way, I just picked up on patterns and took note of the situations in which indicators of interest are thrown my way. It's always when I'm not looking for it, when I'm on a purpose that has nothing to do with meeting women. Most of the time it happens in my work gear banging out work at different accounts (landscaping), or making my perso…
/r/seduction24/09/21 06:42 AM
2

Pulling a hot girl every weekend is fully possible. Shit I'm butt ugly and I've had years where I've had action like that. It is so simple...I don't approach anybody that don't want to be. That alone cuts rejection in half. It's just the ability to read the person, if a girl is hovering around me in the store smiling and just happens to need the same items I do at the same time, damn right I'm asking her out. If a girl runs into me on purpose in the gas station when she had all kinds of room to …
/r/seduction24/09/21 01:22 AM
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It's a person to person basis. I personally am far more successful in day game. In reality I think it is more about the setting then whether it's day or night. Grocery stores and dunkin donuts is easier for me because I have no ulterior motives, I ain't there for the girls, which drives them crazy enough to have to say something, they want what they can't have so I put myself in a position where they got to do the work, I just try to be funny, I know they are receptive when they laugh even if I …
/r/seduction24/09/21 01:06 AM
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It ain't just you, I have plenty of experience, but the market for quality women dried up despite the fact my game and self care and finances improved over time, it's caused by culture changes brought by social media and o.l.d. that are wrecking women's (and mens) sense of identity, causing people to cave to the pressure of wanting what everyone else wants instead of what they personally want. The kind of quality women we seek do deserve to have standards, but the standards themselves are compro…
/r/seduction23/09/21 11:50 PM
2

60% her place (I like an easy exit) 20% my place (if she agrees to leave by 5am) 10% hotel on a sexcation, 5% vehicle, 5% outdoor.
/r/seduction23/09/21 11:36 PM
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Use my line, crafted based on the great feature film dodgeball. "I know that you know that I know that you know that we both know we don't know each other but would u like to?" Humor plus simplicity. Takes pressure off both of u. BTW this is my only line that works at the bar, it must have some weight.
/r/seduction23/09/21 11:31 PM
0

I managed to do the opposite of turning it around.. I was very "active" in my 20s, now there is nothing happening. Having decent game and my shit together used to be enough, but due to the culture shift created by o.l.d., I just don't qualify because I'm less than 6'5", even though I'm still a confident man of action, not even the fatties want it, they are actually even more picky now🤣 I'm sure I'll be alright once I'm out of the United states.
/r/seduction23/09/21 11:25 PM
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It's a good thing u have been approaching, it's a good confidence boost short term, but in the long run it can beat your confidence back down if u keep approaching with no results. I've learned that it is better to enable the women to put themselves near u to flirt or throw u the first non verbal signals, this way are only approaching women that are already interested and u will get more dates. It's really about paying attention and recognizing the signals when a girl hopes u to come talk and th…
/r/seduction14/09/21 08:54 PM
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Try to look at things from a more high value mindset, even the best of us catch ourselves in simp behavior from time to time. You should never have to abort anything because getting with a woman should not be the mission in the first place, ur happiness and quality of life should be. She didn't reply so she's the one who aborted, she failed to earn you. Also there is do, or do not, there is no try.
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:44 PM
1

If this kid flirting with the woman makes u feel uneasy, that's understandable but u can't show that, just have fun with the situation. Steer into the skid. Sometimes if I'm on a date or just hanging out with someone I like, guys will hit on her right in front of me, sometimes she will flirt bac because it's only natural, theres no stopping this, and I've learned to not muscle flex or pick fights over it, I'll ask the girl if she was thinking about smashing his nangas. This ain't self sabotage i…
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:09 PM
1

You stand out by also having 10 other girls chasing you simaltainiously.
/r/seduction08/09/21 07:05 PM
1

This is where the fact that nobody around you cares is a good thing.
/r/seduction06/09/21 05:46 PM
1

Skip the pregame and just start having sex within minutes of meeting, don't give yourself time to think or psych yourself out. No shame in taking half a viagra either.
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:08 AM
6

I blame the male race. Dudes give so much free validation that women got used to it and expect it, now they are addicted to it and must get their fix.
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:04 AM
2

Search funny animal fails, this always gets them going.
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:01 AM
0

Casual hookups shouldn't involve investment at all. I would definitely have more respect for a woman that makes me work for it, which is good if I want a relationship, but respect has nothing to do with a casual flings. I find the best way to get around investment is to be quick, and make it obvious that you are a plaything, a human dildo, I tell them I live right down the street if they were having dirty thoughts.
/r/seduction26/08/21 11:59 PM
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Usually if the girl wants to spend the night within the first couple dates, it becomes a fwb situation if she comes back for repeats, yet she doesn't want to spend alot of time outside of the bedroom, not alot of words are needed if both people know what it is.
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:50 AM
1

It was a 23 year old girl on pof! You really expected another outcome? When they don't give their number but take yours it is usually for the purpose of doing exactly this.
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:43 AM
1

I know how to bring it to 50% I chose not to, 98% is my calculated personal standard, too much on my plate, managing women is a distraction
/r/seduction19/08/21 04:37 PM
1

98% fail rate is actually pretty standard. The way I see it, if I talk to 100 girls a month, a success rate of 2% gets me 2 new women every month.
/r/seduction18/08/21 04:54 AM
1

Yes. You need to be high value to attract women. Male value is more or less measured by body count, so everyone gotta start somewhere...
/r/seduction18/08/21 04:48 AM
1

Don't ask. A woman don't have to be single to want you. If she cheats on someone with you, you did nothing wrong If u didn't know anything.
/r/seduction16/08/21 09:58 PM
3

Time doesn't get you over anybody, action does. Having multiple partners usually does the trick.
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:35 PM
2

You don't need the internet for milfs, they are everywhere, and they are on a mission to prove they can still compete with the younger women. Just don't pursue anything more than fwb with them, these milfs didn't settle in their 20s they just wanted to keep plate spinning until they were past their prime, all the Chads will go for the young ones with less miles on them, so the milfs try to reel in a nice simp to take care of them, and u don't want to be that. Hit and run!
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:51 PM
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Hookups (and also love) happen when you ain't looking for it. Women are incredibly skilled at sensing ulterior motives. Next time just have regular conversation, women find it very refreshing when they ain't being objectified, only escalate when you know she wants you to, she will make it obvious, it's all about reading people.
/r/seduction14/08/21 06:39 PM
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It ain't about being bad, it's about being genuine. Assholes and jerks and outlaws happen to have naturally genuine qualities because they know who they are, while nice guys and kiss asses and simps are fake personalities. A bad boy can be a good or bad person, but they ain't "nice", being nice and being good are 2 different things, nice=fake.
/r/seduction14/08/21 06:15 PM
2

I concur, I've seen it for myself, the women's behavior towards me improved drastically when my appearence improved, I was out of shape and ill groomed in high-school, then I gradually lost weight put on some muscle and keep the haircut and facial hair tight. I am now 34 and the same women that called me a creep to my face and sabotage my reputation now like hitting me up repeatedly inviting me out. Now I'm the one that don't give them a chance, shit I tell them; "if I wasn't good enough then u …
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:56 PM
1

In my experience chasing women that don't give open signals results in problems...problems that come with court dates.
/r/seduction14/08/21 01:39 PM
1

Front now on just get their phone numbers like an old person. If she gives u her phone she may actually be interested... Most girls will give social media info to just about anybody for more followers to fuel their narcissism.
/r/seduction14/08/21 01:36 PM
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If you are really scared of talking to or making it with a woman, basic training will be very good for you, because after that experience you won't be scared of too much. I say focus on your enlistment because one you get back to civilian life you will have the mindset and skills to tackle any aspect of your life. If u can't wait that long the fact that you are leaving for the airforce is your play! "You seem fun and I fear I may end up liking you..it would be wrong to pursue a commitment becaus…
/r/seduction10/08/21 05:45 AM
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I won't even dignify you with a counter argument, come at me when u get a psych degree.
/r/seduction10/08/21 05:30 AM
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Average size is actually best case scenario, because vaginas also have an average size, by this logic an average dick gives the most pleasure to the broadest spectrum of women. Real life ain't like porn, only certain women can be pleasured well by a huge cock, not every woman gets off on feeling like they are giving birth in reverse. You can even have a little Irish shelailie and if you use it like a sewing needle it will do better for certain women than a jackhammer will. Remember your hand and…
/r/seduction10/08/21 05:11 AM
2

It's a logical train of thought to feel this way. The truth is when u get out and start doing it you will realize that nobody cares. The fact that no one cares is a good thing. During day game everyone around you is either too busy on their smartphone or on their own agenda to give a fuck. Worse that will happen is people may look at you like your a badass cuz u are. Bars and clubs are different, there will always be cock blockers, and set interupting is to be expected, this is where you perform…
/r/seduction10/08/21 04:49 AM
1

I would advise you to start doing things like an old person and talk to her over the ancient phone app. You can still use snap during busy times when it's more convenient, but being able to convey tone with actual conversation every now and then is crucial for forming a real connection.
/r/seduction10/08/21 03:26 AM
1

Every play in existence requires you to be attractive. It is OK to not be attractive. It is NOT ok to stay unattractive. Forget about women, being attractive is good for mental health. The good news is, there is no such thing as an ugly man, there are just those willing to put in the work to maximize what they naturally have, and those so lazy they let themselves go. When women are comparing guys, their brains work different then when we compare women. Women will find the most attractive guy in …
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:21 PM
1

It's exactly this. Being an extrovert must be complicated, it is only effective if the person conveys himself in an exact manner, "playing the game". Introverts don't gotta do shit! They just need to be aware of the naturally attractive qualities an introvert possesses. This is why I'm on the path of the sigma male, it meshes with my default personality. I'd rather be a real sigma then a fake alpha.
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:03 PM
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I went from zero in high-school and most of my 20s to having a pretty regular dating life. I never learned seduction, I figured things out by accident. I wasn't playing hard to get,, I was actually hard to get by being an antisocial introvert. I realized ignoring beautiful women is a powerful thing that makes them seek approval, the change I had to make was I just had to learn to simply reciprocate the interest when a woman tried to get my attention, but keep up the hard to get thing until she j…
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:43 AM
2

Find your alcohol apex. Drunk enough to have liquid courage, but not so drunk you are keeling over and talking like Jabba.
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:37 AM
8

Not wrong, but nearly every woman that is single will have dudes wrapped around her finger like that whether or not she admits it.
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:35 AM
1

Because dating isn't a candy store, it is a vicious cutthroat jungle of narcissistic women and weak men. Women will reject men harshly, sometimes even sabotage them, rejecting is a power trip ego inflating device to them so they ain't going to give the guy respect, they are going to try to make it hurt. This is why it is so important to read a person and get familiar with the woman before propositioning her so you can gauge her interest. If she is into you she will be flattered you ask her out, …
/r/seduction30/07/21 08:48 PM
2

I would normally say do that thing where you intentionally act needy to make her run and not bother with you anymore. The problem is that trick don't work on women below a 7...so make sure you are first to file a harrasment complaint.
/r/seduction30/07/21 08:41 PM
0

Nothing changes, you have her interest now it's about keeping it, never be the first to text!
/r/seduction30/07/21 08:37 PM
4

To summarize: if she thinks you are attractive everything you say is charming. If she don't think you are attractive everything you say is serial killer crazy.
/r/seduction30/07/21 03:47 PM
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Every man on earth should start ignoring women. It's probably to only way to mitigate the narcissism pandemic. Just go to any bar and talk to everybody except the attractive women, don't even glance at them, and watch what happens. They actually start working for approval instead of expecting it.
/r/seduction30/07/21 03:44 PM
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Don't put too much thought into it or you will get the yips like the best of us can at times. Just get used to never letting a woman pass u without you acknowledging her. This way meeting women organically won't require you to go out of your way to do so, it will become part of your everyday life, an involuntary reflex like blinking or breathing. When you do have a target you want to go out of your way to meet, just use the 3 second rule and be dumb. Always be respectful, but don't confuse that …
/r/seduction29/07/21 03:47 AM
1

Holy shit if you were in my area you wouldn't have to do shit, they would just chase you, you are THE type most want around here. Shit I date Spanish women almost exclusively because the white ones will actually take nothing less than a tall black man, literally all my female friends say this🤣
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:46 AM
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I had a hard time with it, which is why I started out by just saying hello then keep walking, I was honestly clinching buttcheeks everytime because I was so nervous. I was shocked by how many good responses and smiles I got, sometimes they would start conversations, and I'm like the opposite of a chad, probably a 7 at best. That's when I realized dipping my foot slowly into cold water was pointless, I should have cannonballed straight in and feel the sweet relief that the water wasn't as cold as…
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:33 AM
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Best thing to do here is start some new practices. Never cross paths with any woman without acknowledging her, this includes non targets. Start by just greeting them and keep on walking. If they want to talk let them. This way, in circumstances where you run into the girl repeatedly there is already a degree of familiarity established. Do this for a month and you won't have to fight shyness, you will be conversing with women on instinct. Usually a good first impression involves interacting at fi…
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:05 AM
3

You met them in a club environment and you didn't dick them down that night. It's not like you met them at church, you gotta seal the deal fast or they will call someone else for dick the next day. There is the other possibility that you did nothing wrong and they just ghosted you because that is the new normal, it's an ego boosting power trip for them.
/r/seduction28/07/21 08:53 AM
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I say keep ignoring them, don't even glance at them. I am an introvert, and I ain't no chad either, yet I have had my fair share of beautiful women pursue me. I always wondered why, I found out I was attracting them completely by accident. They are so used to male attention they go into approval seeking mode in the rare instance they don't get it. Now you don't have to see it as a bad habit, you can use it to your advantage,, you can use the secret powers of the introvert even if you aren't one,…
/r/seduction27/07/21 02:40 AM
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Would james bond ever wait for the woman to make the proposition?! He'll no, you gotta lead her to that bedroom. The only thing you are waiting for is the woman's non verbal suggestions. If you can read that she is into you it ain't inappropriate to flirtatiously proposition her. If she don't seem like she is into you, then it's inappropriate, so move along, being able to read the person before talking all kinky and suggesting sex is the key to not getting a face full of mace.
/r/seduction26/07/21 05:07 AM
0

You don't need pics or profile to find convo starters. Most every girl on pof is exactly the same. You can bet whoever she is she loves dogs and going hiking, and defunding police
/r/seduction22/07/21 10:32 PM
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Funny thing is, women on these apps ain't all trashy or narcissistic, they act differently towards different guys depending how they meet the person. It's no coincidence that I (and many others) get ghosted alot more by women met on o.l.d. than irl. Most women I met irl recently have been decent, they don't ghost, they offer to pay, if we ain't a match it's at least talked about with respect. Some of these same girls use o.l.d. and admit to treating guys on the apps differently. I think is has a…
/r/seduction22/07/21 10:23 PM
1

Bet 5 dollars she can't beat you in tonsil hockey🤣
/r/seduction22/07/21 10:09 PM
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Don't cold approach. This terminology implies ulterior motive, there was this thing before the internet called regular socializing, where your motives will become clear in an appropriate way anyway. It is unreal how far you can get with a woman with regular conversation. Just have hobbies and activities that puts you around alot of women so you can talk to them organically, do volunteer projects, set up a stall at a market, have fun with it. You are a member at this gym, so is she, you are both …
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:45 PM
0

Just challenge her to a tonsil hockey contest, loser gives oral, everybody wins.
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:21 PM
6

It's all dependant on the individual that is being dealt with. If the girl is rolling her eyes and closing her posture, I'm headed for the hills before the mace comes out. If she seems open, but the more proper type, I'll throw jokes but not commit completely to honesty, I'll gauge how receptive she is before saying anything too foward.
/r/seduction21/07/21 01:25 AM
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This post is all you need to know to pass shit tests. Women ain't so stupid that they don't know what we want right from the start, yes there is different options that we look for, but all of which involve sex, whether it's fwb, ons, ltr, etc...and they already know it. The most common shit test..."you're just trying to get in my pants"...I'll say "I couldn't fit in your pants if I tried,Im just trying to have pre marital intercourse with you🤣"
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:44 PM
8

I second this, daygame is better for 1 on 1 approaching, things need to be done the opposite at night: open and charm the whole group, isolate the target when the group is comfortable and familiar, repeat targets name in conversation, subtly put her down, repeat with other members of group.
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:37 PM
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Don't even think about what to say, just think about what not to say. If the girl ain't interested nothing you say will work. If she is interested, you can say any random or stupid thing you want, just no serial killer shit and no compliments and no validation.
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:33 PM
4

Do exactly what she just did, go talk to somebody better looking.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:41 AM
8

Just never cross paths with any woman without acknowledging her during your regular routine and outings. This includes non targets. It's really just good manners, but doing this normalizes approaching and makes it an involuntary reflex like breathing or blinking. If you already got a 10-20% success rate, you will end up with more options then can be handled. I ain't saying to proposition the non targets, but greeting everybody will keep up the flow state to greatly help with the targeted approac…
/r/seduction17/07/21 06:11 AM
2

Just pre disqualify her in your mind...I tend to say certain things to myself to make sure I ain't putting her on that pedestal in my mind... "She's really hot so she is probably really stupid" "She's very cute and young, so she is most likely a social media narcissist" "She is quite attractive...she probably never had to work for sex...I shall teach her to earn it"
/r/seduction17/07/21 04:35 AM
1

I call real. Almost all successful bar pickups I have witnessed involved the dude getting the girl away from "the creep" or lecturing some over bearing guy about respect.
/r/seduction16/07/21 09:52 PM
4

For Asians, be a touch more sensitive than normal. For Latinas, look like you sell drugs. Bonus points if you actually sell drugs. For white women, you literally just have to show up.
/r/seduction16/07/21 09:30 PM
3

Steer into the skid. Use the awkwardness. When things do go well, the tension and awkwardness don't disappear, u both laugh more, it gets more weird, then the clothes come off, then it's REALLY awkward. The only time things seem "normal" is during the "you don't live here, you have to leave when I do" convo. Then it just gets loud.
/r/seduction16/07/21 09:06 PM
5

This is solid advice. If it was 2014. Making them wait used to render them powerless in casual situations, or even cultivate actual respect in relationship building scenarios. Now, the second you shut things down, she simply whips out her hand held hookup device and walks away to get quick sex (therefore power) elsewhere, because it's that easy, then you deleted.
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:59 PM
8

He is a former athlete like myself, so he got good posture and build, but also like me he is kinda short I'd say 7/10. It's hard to develop a theory when he don't even know what he is doing right. What I do know is he doesn't get individuals, he gets entire groups, I really think it comes down to social proofing. He does tell me, "to get any one girl, you have to be able to get her entire circle."
/r/seduction15/07/21 04:42 AM
2

In many foreign societies, the majority of prostitutes are males. This proves women want sex as much if not more than we do. American social programming is powerful albiet ridiculous.
/r/seduction15/07/21 04:01 AM
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Well, my best friend is definitely in the 100 club if not more. He don't even cold approach. Women go to him. He can't even explain why. He is an a.m.o.g. I think it has to do with the fact that women let other women evaluate the man to determine his value. He's got the body count so the next girl always has to know why.
/r/seduction15/07/21 03:53 AM
2

I say abolish the cold approach. These situations you speak of establish the familiarity and connection that warm approach requires. The good news is this all can be simulated with anybody through regular conversation, without the need for an extreme situation to be taking place. A genuine reason to talk to someone can always be found on the fly. I find it's best to start by not saying anything you can't say to your mother or sister, respect still matters, at least offline. Once she gives indica…
/r/seduction15/07/21 03:45 AM
0

Watch the old 007 movies, I'm talking Connery and Moore eras. Pay attention to how people interacted before the internet existed, and how Bond always got the yes. He didn't say a whole lot, it was the frame he was maintaining and the sexually charged power of the words he did speak. If she agrees do dance with you, ask her if she would prefer to dance horizontal. If she says she gets off early tomarrow, ask her "your place or mine?" Ill give you my most recent one that worked. I had a dunkin chi…
/r/seduction14/07/21 09:16 PM
1

The ki given off by indicators of interest. Recognition of this can cut rejection in half if you simply only proposition those who are already interested.
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:49 PM
1

No thanks, I only go to Chicago to practice bullet dodging. San Francisco is good for day game, all the men are dating each other leaving the women a little hungry.
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:44 PM
1

Absolutely, men's attraction powers increases with age as long as he kept growing his lifestyle and finances, and stayed healthy. There ain't no way a silver chad fox pulling up in a Ferrari on the campus commons is leaving without multiple girls.
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:34 PM
14

The phone contacts definitely didn't cause the ghosting, the girl needs to know you were already qualified by "the tribe", this is an advantage if anything. Keep in mind you did meet her online, it ain't like 5 or 10 years ago, there ain't no more respect, ghosting is now normal, you could have done absolutely nothing wrong.
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:00 PM
1

Maybe u are too honest. I've noticed that average or sub par women definitely respect honesty, but the hot ones want drama, that want to be lied to, they want a roller coaster of emotions. Look at barney Stinson, when he runs his plays the girls KNOW he is full of shit and they go home with him anyway.
/r/seduction12/07/21 10:48 AM
1

3 is the big one. They can smell desperation from miles away. They only want you when you don't want them, as soon as you do feelings change.
/r/seduction12/07/21 10:22 AM
1

Idk if it is just me, but the hot girls seem easier to talk to. Sometimes the average ones are a little shy or have low self esteem and think the dude is patronizing them. Alot of hot girls claim that they don't get asked out too often (lies), and they seem to open up easier then the average girls. I seen alot of guys complain that they rarely make a successful cold approach on a high quality woman. They ain't wrong, i actually don't cold approach at all. They approach me, I'm on that sigma male…
/r/seduction12/07/21 10:19 AM
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It takes cahones to make that many approaches,, but you WILL NOT get better with just practice, you will keep getting discouraged. No amount of practice in any game or sport actually improves anything if the person keeps repeating the wrong technique. If you keep shooting free throws without the right coaching and techniques, all that effort for nothing will make you hate the game because you kept missing despite the effort. You need coaching and understanding of fundamentals on top of regular p…
/r/seduction12/07/21 01:46 AM
8

Keep talking like that and I'll knee kick you in the box. In the most affectionate way possible.
/r/seduction12/07/21 01:35 AM
3

Go ahead and use the corny one liners. Matter of fact, the dumber the comment, the better.. Blatantly saying what comes to mind is better than overthinking, it will help trigger flow state. Just say it as a joke, only be half serious. Doing this will get a reaction to help u gauge her interest level. If she laughs when u say corny shit, that may be choosing signal, she may be open to talking. If she rolls her eyes at you, pop a 180 and run before you get hit with mace🤣
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:21 PM
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If I had the authority to upvote this post 1000fold I would, this is the only practical and truthful advice I have seen on this sub. I have taken heavy downvotes for saying stuff like;"No compliments, no validation, use your time constraints, set the logistics". If there is one thing I learned about reddit, truth gets downvotes, people can't handle reality.
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:46 PM
2

I wouldn't say I lose interest when the woman shows interest, I was just rejected so much in the past that idk how to handle acceptance, which definitely makes it hard for me to reciprocate the interest and I come off cold/numb. Oddly enough, I realized by accident that being unattainable and not reciprocating the interest seems to make them even more interested, they keep trying to come back.
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:05 PM
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34M 5'7" 19 women total. I remember girls in high-school that had a higher count than that before graduating🤣 4 were in high school, one was from another school and the other 3 I met by working out with other teams after school during the offseason. 2 were my age, 1 a year younger. I was always a loser before playing sports, this proves jocks have social value even if it's ill placed. After high-school, online dating was actually viable for average men (2005-2013), I hooked up with 8 and 2 becam…
/r/seduction08/07/21 01:51 AM
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I think it is OK to do a little homework on stepping up ones game, it's all about the source of the content. I find that most p.u.a.s offer up genuine garbage, I pay more attention to life coaches and liscenced psychologists. P.u.a.s can only relay info that works for them. Most of what they say only applies to the 9s and 10s that they chase full time. This stuff is manipulation based and won't work on an actual woman with a brain and moral compass. This is exactly why "in field" footage is so r…
/r/seduction08/07/21 01:13 AM
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Do exactly option 2 of what you didn't want to do. Act cool. Say "what's up" Walk away. This is some badass, pimp, high value conduct. You show you ain't there for her, you are out for fun with friends, there are more important things to do than her. This asserts she can't just have you, she has to earn you.
/r/seduction07/07/21 11:16 PM
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This is simple, talk like you are the one she is chasing, and make her jump through your hoops like you are the smart and sexy piece of ass. She did give you her number, this means she likes something about you. Just tease her like you are her piece of ass, just keep it light and humorous. Say stuff to make yourself laugh and she will probably laugh with you, just avoid insults or big disrespect. Use these concepts as a foundation of how to talk and entertain her. As for what to actually say..sp…
/r/seduction07/07/21 11:09 PM
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The good news is you don't have to be over committed to "acting like an adult". You have been on dates with 10s, so you already know that women really want to feel like a kid again, sometimes they need some childish humour they can mirror. You are self aware enough to know your problem, but it ain't as big as you may think. Acting like a kid is better than acting like an old stiff. Just match your persona with the general vibe and situation. Serious conversations and fancy dates require some "ad…
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:58 PM
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If the girl already agreed to "Netflix and chill"...it's really hard to fuck things up just don't overthink it. No woman is showing up to "Netflix and chill" not expecting sex, Netflix is just a dignified excuse to get stuck real good, so you need to do a good deed and give her what she is showing up for, just lead things at a medium pace and adjust according to how she reacts. I want to say dont bring up the virgin thing unless she asks, but if she does, tell her the truth, she may want to take…
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:43 PM
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If I could upvote this 999 times I would. I do have a mom and sister, other than them I assume the woman is a heartless manipulative harpy until proving me wrong,, because most live up to the assumption. They know I ain't taking their shit so the panties hit the floor. Does that make me a bad person...maybe..but I ain't ever again going to be that nice guy finishing last. Women respect men that don't respect them, and they ghost and sabotage the guys that do. Facts.
/r/seduction06/07/21 11:08 PM
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Quitting jerking off is the whole point! You ain't going to reset your body chemistry by dick beating without porn, that addresses the dopamine fluctuations, not the testosterone or confidence issues. Even just edging without ejaculating is expending testosterone, you can't stockpile it to service others if you keep servicing your own pipes!
/r/seduction06/07/21 12:49 AM
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Best decision you will ever make. Social skills improve automatically because instincts kick back in, and the body becomes physically enhanced since it's once again running on a normal stream of testosterone, and dopamine levels out, alleviating symptoms that come with addiction, after about 6 weeks the desire shouldn't even be there.
/r/seduction05/07/21 11:23 PM
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Dating apps worked for me 2006 thru 2014, zero results since. I have a normal dating life without the apps, and there isn't really a "method". I just escalate with women that already know who I am from my daily life that I didn't meet with ulterior motives, for context, I'll call these warm approaches. My work involves being on the road, so I will talk to the gas station chick or the dunkin girl that has already talked to me or showed me signs of interest, because I work at or do personal errand…
/r/seduction05/07/21 11:13 PM
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Mind fart, brain freeze, the yips etc. As u said can't come up with anything in the moment. Mind not connecting with the mouth like I know I should say something witty or of a teasing nature but nothing is comming to mind.
/r/seduction05/07/21 06:52 PM
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Auto correct strikes again, it was supposed to be "was drawing blanks"
/r/seduction05/07/21 05:47 PM
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Tinder is a problem for all men and women. If you ain't good looking, nothing happens, if you are good looking you waste your time on lots of crazy people. The mendoza diagonal is real, no good-looking person that is sane even needs the internet.
/r/seduction05/07/21 03:27 PM
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If she declines the invite then ghost her ass. If she contacts you first, that confirms she is still into you.
/r/seduction03/07/21 03:07 AM
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To this day I was drawing blanks on teasing, the only solution for me was to tease women right from the start, this means drawing blanks ain't an option and it's actually easier to come up with stuff. Plus I've seen they feel more at ease by me showing my intent from the start, if she didn't walk away, and laughed or teased me back I know she is probably interested, thus cut my rejection rate alot when I think about it.
/r/seduction03/07/21 02:33 AM
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My best advice is to get money. It ain't about the money at all, it's about the confidence that comes from supporting yourself. Pick up multiple jobs, turn that into tuition money to train and have a career path. Talk to your local career center,, there are dozens of ways to have tuition waived or reduced.. When you make better money double it by setting up passive incomes. Get whatever you want in life, it's easy when you stop making excuses to yourself. The most important thing is to know your…
/r/seduction02/07/21 08:29 PM
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