Agreed. It's like people think just cause a man can take a hit better than the woman its doesnt count as violence toward that person. If you get shot with a bulletproof vest on it's still attempted murder.
Saying someone deserves something and actually being the person to go through with those actions are two different things. Would I shoot her, cut her head off, and dump her in a river? Hell no. But I couldn't care less if it were to happen to her. Apparently that makes me as bad as the murderer themselves though? Dont be ridiculous.