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LexiFromWestchester/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 02:50 AM
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I have a male friend who is moving from Washington state to either Tampa Florida or Dallas Texas because he prefers feminine women who actually enjoy looking nice in public. Washington seems to have the most casual, androgynous looking people who don't give an F how they are perceived in public. Which is fine for them I suppose. It's just not the best part of the country to be single and looking for a like-minded partner into traditional gender roles
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/25 11:10 PM
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I think you will look great! Keep up the good work. Your goals are attainable and completely within reason. I wouldn't even sweat it. ❣️
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/25 11:08 PM
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This is it right here folks 👆. Reddit is used by the entire planet. And the entire planet is WAY more liberal than the United States (except for certain areas like Russia, but I don't think too many Russians go on Reddit...)
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/25 03:17 AM
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Many of us have such a past; ages 18 - 22 can be such a transitional and explorative time. Take accountability for it, be grateful it didn't lead to more dire consequences, then stash it away. I know I was a lot more promiscuous with OS than PIV and struggled with adding all those encounters on my body count. But the important thing is knowing who you are now and being honest with yourself on who you were. Time to move onward, but don't bring along any guilt /shame from that period.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/25 08:15 PM
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I'm obsessed with my nails so I am always thinking of new nail art to try or what sandals are going to look best with my pedicure. It's something I've just always been into as a part of self-care and having some Me Time.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/24 11:30 AM
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Yes, that's right. My heart went out to her and I gave an emotional response. But you're right, sorry I didn't mean to break any rules.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/24 11:15 AM
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He doesn't sound like he's matched up right for you. It sounds like he doesn't even need or want someone to share his life with. I would hesitate before jumping into something serious/permanent with this guy. Your needs aren't being met, and he doesn't seem to particularly care.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/24 10:43 AM
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I think Journaling is probably helpful to most people ( it's nothing that ever captivated me because writing always equates to 'homework' or just boring repetitive work so it's never anything I want to do ) but perhaps find another way to discharge that energy, that way you leave no evidence behind. You probably hurt his feelings. Also he probably thinks since you went to the trouble to write it down that you must mean every word of it. Gotta convey to him how that's not the case at all, althoug…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/24 01:31 AM
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Well groomed and well taken care of !!!!
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 07:06 AM
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I am lucky in that I have two good friends who are also SAHM's within a few miles of us and on Friday evenings the guys take the kids which allows us girls to go get our nails done, or a massage, or just de-compress without the kids. It's only three hours but it's something we all look forward to and feel rejuvenated for the weekend with hubs & the kids. It sounds like you're doing a great job, I would totally not obsess as much over the cooking aspects as that could be whatever energy you have …
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 11:32 AM
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I would get comfortable with makeup ASAP and do something very eye catching with your hair. This may sound weird at first , but I have a bestie who is overweight but her makeup is flawless, hair gorgeous, and her nails are long and glamorous (always has her toenails showing & flawless as well.) She gets a lot of attention from assets like these that she can flaunt as she is trying to slim down to a healthier weight.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/24 12:53 AM
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Your screenname definitely makes sense after reading your post! I love the fact that you two can go out and get all this attention from others, it's definitely a shot of dopamine to the brain as well as self-esteem and ego boost. I would just be careful about relying on this kind of attention from others as a sort of sexual stimulant in the bedroom. You two should be enough to turn each other on, and if you're Christians, you need to be wary of how you two may be unconsciously stirring up lust i…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 11:19 AM
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She never investigated and just assumed everything was going great ...she lived in her own la-la land. But she knew what he was like before they met. I am close to them but I really don't suspect he's cheating on her, but I am in denial too ...I suppose, for her sake lol. (Basically it's none of my business and TMI for me.)
/r/RedPillWives22/12/23 02:36 PM
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I love this!!! I think pageants are so glamorous and I'm a big proponent of Mrs. Pageants and encouraging older women, mothers, and wives to participate in them. (I don't like pageants for under 18 though.)
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/23 02:21 PM
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She was pretty realistic, in a way, because she knew her husband had been with quite a few women before they met and got married. So she kind of assumed that part of him wasn't going to change. But she would rarely ever admit that to herself...she preferred the denial and focusing on everything looking perfect to outsiders.
/r/RedPillWives22/12/23 02:12 PM
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I've known traditional wives who put on blinders and go into active denial about it. They don't go looking for it, so they don't see it, so it doesn't exist. I do not recommend this approach.
/r/RedPillWives22/12/23 09:07 AM
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"The Power of Sexual Surrender" by Marie Robinson "Me? Obey Him?" by Elizabeth Rice Hanford "The Sensuous Woman" by "J"
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/23 03:14 PM
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Thank you, you're sweet. 🙂
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 12:20 AM
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No, not all "humans" dislike having their focus diverted. I would think normal humans would prefer human interaction, especially from their mother, rather than focus on an inanimate object. What a strange comment.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 12:03 AM
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Breath of fresh air. The smell of the freshly cut grass wafting thru my bedroom window is drawing me outside where I want to touch it. Time to turn off the devices and live in the real world!!! 🤗😊
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 04:56 AM
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Well at least we have this space. Would it do any good to ask at r/dating "Hey why did you ban me?" At least we should try to get them to say something on record.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 04:10 PM
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All their little mannerisms & eccentricities went from cute or endearing to extremely irritating. I always would feel uptight or anxious in their presence all of a sudden, like I could never just relax and let my guard down. I started to question their sincerity when before I would take everything they said at face value. You can just tell that a shift has taken place, although while in the middle of it's hard to put your finger on it...but after a bit it becomes readily apparent.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/23 04:12 AM
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I truly wonder whether it has ever happened: she grows up and matures into a bright young woman. She is 5'6" with a thin waist and "enough" on top to have an almost perfect figure. She has beautiful long golden locks, flawless skin, a beaming smile. Graduates #1 in her class and has various options ahead of her ...maybe she will join a sorority and give back to the community...but she is so athletically gifted she may turn out for any of the major sports her school offers, yet don't forget about…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/23 11:32 AM
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I wouldn't put yourself out and ditch your personal style unless you really and truly connect with this guy and see a future with him. I am all for dressing to please our man, but just make sure he's worthy of being your man. You can't just feel "meh" about him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/22 07:28 AM
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I'm conflicted. I think having beauty standards that we all can attain or aspire towards are generally a good thing. However we in the traditional community do have our own principles more or less, so it's not like we're competing with every floozy out there. I'd like to think we hold ourselves to a higher standard. I think having close personal friends with common goals, aspirations, and values lifts everyone up ...
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/22 07:25 AM
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Remarkable response, all I can say is listen to these wise words right here ☝ Love, love, love...
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/22 11:27 AM
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Nails Nails Nails! I do believe longer is more feminine but everyone's mileage does vary on length. (Even my toenails are a squidge longer lol, I love the look!)
/r/RedPillWives25/07/22 08:29 AM
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Absolutely abhorrent
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/22 04:35 AM
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You -have- to do these events. For yourself. Is there someone else you could bring along ?? I'd work on your husband a little bit more too ( in a sorta roundabout way so it's not pleading with him). I'm rooting for you !
/r/RedPillWives22/07/22 04:02 PM
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I just love this season of sun, ladies...I feel like I'm in my uber-feminine natural element. The long, langorous days at the pool or beach with the kiddos, getting our tan just about the penultimate shade, showing off our dainty girly-girl pedis while rocking our cute strappy sandals, eating a whole lot lighter meals (& even skipping some) because it's too hot for anything heavy (which also does wonders for our girlish figures lol + ) Anyways hubs is happy , kiddos happy , baby girl is incredib…
/r/RedPillWives22/07/22 03:51 PM
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Sorry I missed the part where you requested ones specifically for fiance...these are not those, these are for you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/22 12:08 AM
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Heart to Heart About Men: Words of Encouragement From Women of Integrity .....by Nancy Groom Helper By Design: God's Perfect Plan for Women in Marriage....by Elyse Fitzpatrick Making Sense of Men....by Allison Armstrong Finding the Hero in Your Husband....by Julianna Slattery I have a million more titles if you need more! 🥰 But these and the other suggestions above should get you started!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/22 07:49 PM
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Yes !
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/22 07:38 PM
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Not a red flag at all actually.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/22 05:17 AM
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I think it's totally fine to mould yourself into your SO's ideal type...EXCEPT when it's something like gaining weight which I think is unhealthy. My husband likes pretty simple, girly-girl-type things on me like wearing more makeup, acrylic nails, and heels so these things were easy to transition into...
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/22 04:21 AM
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I am obsessed to almost OCD about my nails so they are always done and perfect and a major part of my self-care. I focus on dressing every day in a feminine manner, keeping in mind that I can be a positive example to the younger women in my social milieu at church & in the community. I spend a good hour every morning trying to perfect my makeup routine while also trying out new trends or fun looks. Learning new recipes and baking techniques including the skills necessary for perfecting multiple …
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/21 06:45 PM
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A good man who loves you will stay focused on you, especially if you're doing what you say you are...so what if other women find him attractive?? let them. A man of value will not heed them or give them a second glance because his attention is 100% focused on you. But you need to choose this man wisely, these types don't grow on trees.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/21 06:20 PM
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I dunno , I mean you both have feelings apparently...mutual affection there...that is something extremely positive and worth using as a building block. I would try to keep communication ongoing and often when you two are apart as a way to continuously monitor the strength of any potential bond. Hopefully he cuts his ski bum trip short in order to be with you. If it's meant to be it will happen with the two of you physically together, not separated by vast distances.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/21 05:52 PM
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Sounds like you aren't too into your husband. I can see in a way how he comes across as perhaps too submissive and passive in many areas. And he's not fertile. He just doesn't exude enough masculine dominant energy for you. This just may be the way he is programmed especially due to his past. The guy at the cafe is definitely a heedless distraction and you need to focus away from that but your husband is not the long term answer at home either.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/21 05:39 PM
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The last thing you want to do is nag him about anything sexual. Wait until you two are together alone during the day or in the car or whatever and express your feelings at that point. He may not get it, my husband never did...you just need to learn to take care of business yourself eventually. Some battles are not worth fighting especially in the bedroom department because egos are so fragile.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/21 05:20 PM
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My husband prefers traditional feminine lip shades and glossy lips, so that's what I stick with. (It's my personal preference as well.) However if my husband wanted to see me in black lippy for a change I would try it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/21 09:11 AM
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One trick you can use until you have it all figured out is just be a really good actress and fake a really good orgasm as he climaxes. You will be blindsided by his renewed confidence and ego boost after the fact. In this respect I see it as a gift you're giving your boyfriend. No more feelings of inadequacy on his end...he will feel like a complete man again, which will only benefit the relationship further.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/21 10:20 AM
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Let Me Be A Woman -- Elisabeth Elliot Captivating -- John & Stasi Eldredge The Surrendered Single -- Laura Doyle Girl Defined -- Kristen Clark & Bethany Baird
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 04:55 PM
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Fascinating Womanhood - Helen Andelin
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 04:40 PM
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Ohhhh she sounds cool ...thanks for the tip!
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/21 09:55 AM
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It's not scientific. It's just fluff.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/21 09:47 AM
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You already seem to be on top of it. You know it doesn't have to be some big proclamation. In fact it shouldn't even come up until you both are comfortable enough checking out each other's prescription meds and nosing around lol. If he asks you what such-and-such is for, just casually say it's for your bi-polar disorder and don't make a big deal over it. He could just lightly shrug it off who knows. Look this doesn't have to be some albatross hanging around your neck. You say "mental illness" as…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 01:13 PM
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Women should be supporting each other not tearing each other down. Stupid petty jealousy. Ultimately you just need to hang out with women who share your values.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 12:58 PM
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BIG RED FLAG
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 12:53 PM
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I think both areas are relatively easy to get a handle once you commit yourself to some goals. Weight can always be lost, a body can always get toned and a face can always be improved via makeup, skincare routines, cosmetic touches, etc. It's just getting into the proper mindset and finding the motivation at a consistent level.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 12:51 PM
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I have weekly salon appointments for my nails, I'm just fastidious about them though. It sounds like you are new at this. You will get your routine down and it will be so much more effortless. Most of those things will become so automatic you will wonder what the big fuss was at the beginning lol...Just don't worry so much!
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 12:43 PM
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