Lexietherott Archive

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1	QForMen: What are females suppose to call males “creepy” or “creep” for? Being unattractive doesn’t make you a creep. Being unattractive and persistently pestering a girl or not taking no for an answer makes you a creep. It’s the ignoring of her boundaries and her signs of disinterest that is creepy. Those boundaries apply to any unwanted attention so will clearly apply disproportionately more often to ugly guys (as their attention more likely to be unwanted than hot guys) but a hot guy who keeps persisting when the girl has said no will be creepy ..it’s the pesterin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/18 08:33 AM
1	Women care about men's looks much more than they state or admit, research says In a relationship maybe. In attraction, no. Same as men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/18 07:53 AM
1	Let's talk about Aziz. The reason women are reacting to it is because “pushing sex a bit too hard” may seem insignificant to you but that’s what many women want to stop. When you repeatedly push someone’s hand away but they just keep going, it’s not mid communication - it’s the guy choosing to ignore a non verbal no under the guise of it being complicated. If someone is pushing your hand away that’s entirely clear and pretending otherwise because it’s not the answer you want is clearly not criminal, but is symptomatic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/18 07:52 AM
1	The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari Yes, no BJ references - I was projecting! “He probably moved my hand to his dick five to seven times,” she said. “He really kept doing it after I moved it away.” But the main thing was that he wouldn’t let her move away from him” I have no idea what her agenda was but the wider reason women are reacting to it is the coercive nature and unwanted insistence, by her account. We’ve all been there with a guy who keeps grabbing and is sexually aggressive despite what we think is clear behaviour of not…	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/18 07:43 AM
1	How is the Aziz Ansari story any different from slutshaming? Coercion. She is shaming him for being coercive, not because he had sex. Slut shaming is shaming women because they have more sex than the accuser thinks appropriate. There is no implied harm to the other party unlike in coercion where the accusation is that someone pressurised the other person when they didn’t want to do it. See the difference?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/18 07:12 AM
1	Men haven’t completely considered the Consequences of true Female sexual Agency. Because if I kicked off at every man who made gross sexual advances I wouldn’t have a job. All the women I know who raised harassment cases are no longer at my company. The men accused still are. I work at a massive international firm lauded for its diversity policy and I’m in a senior role but I know that making a fuss would make me the trouble maker and trash my career. Soft rape situations perpetuate because there are consequences for the women and most of us still need to work. To assume it’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/18 07:03 AM
1	Men haven’t completely considered the Consequences of true Female sexual Agency. Err or men will just stop coercing women into sex and pretending non-verbal cues are ambiguous? I like how your assumption is that if you can’t just have free rein to harass or try to fuck women who don’t want to fuck you without consequence then there’s no alternative than complete withdrawal from women..rather than just considering that you should be sure someone wants to fuck you before proceeding. Seems an easier solution	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/18 06:47 AM
1	CMV: As long as women prefer masculine men as sexual partners, "Toxic masculinity" will never go away. Because some women are awful too. Or the guy is really hot and she’d rather have someone sexy and a bit of a knob than someone ugly and nice. Same way guys choose hot stupid women over chubby kind ones. Ideally we all want hot and decent but most people are prepared to forego some decency for HAWT. Both sexes do this..and being hot allows that person to get away with being a dick cos hot still prevails	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/18 05:08 AM
1	The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari If someone wants to give you a BJ they will position themselves and go for it. If you’re having to shove her head in your dick that’s a reasonable non-verbal sign that she didn’t want to ..you know cos if she did you wouldn’t have to physically push her head. Yeah maybe you REALLY want a BJ and maybe most girls accept being led, but that doesn’t mean all girls do and so you’re just doing it anyway cos getting the BJ is worth the risk that you are shoving a girl on your dick who doesn’t want to. …	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/18 03:42 AM
0	The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari If she didn’t want sex and the guy went ahead anyway that is exactly what rape is, and was 30 years ago. If you’re referring to someone who consented at the time but later said otherwise, clearly that’s not rape but the timeframe is irrelevant - whether or not there was consent at the time is what defines if it was rape, not whether it was reported at the time . If someone beat you up 30 years ago and you didn’t tell anyone, does that mean it never happened? Obviously immediate reporting would b…	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/18 01:16 AM
1	The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari Coercion is about intentionally trying to make someone do something they don’t want to do.. as an act it is therefore defined by the intention of one party and the experience of being pressurised by the other. Both of these are about the emotional reality of people so it’s hard to know how you could assess if someone was unduly coercive without reference to the subjective interpretation of the situation by either party. There are no actual facts -whilst you could refer to the events as facts, he…	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/18 01:06 AM
1	The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari What is the actual reality in this situation.? If you disregard her emotional reality of feeling coerced and his emotional reality of thinking she was into it, what are the facts you would assess the situation on?	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/18 12:50 AM
7	Is America waking up to the farce that is feminism? No one thinks women are the same as men. The goal is equal opportunity rather than equality of outcome, and part of that is also challenging that the behaviours we see as merit worthy are often behaviours that men are better at because historically men have held the positions of power. If all the powerful leaders have been men, it’s easy to assume that leadership looks like an alpha male..which women will find difficult to live up to. Feminism isn’t saying women can all be as good at male behavi…	/r/TheRedPill	02/02/18 10:09 PM
1	Found this in the men's bathroom of a restaurant I went to recently. Rather than leaving and have him follow you it’s safer to have to restaurant see you into a cab. Also it’s not that every guy does this or even most - but it’s common enough that if he’s being weird on a date and something doesn’t feel right I’d rather just have the situation neutralised at the bar rather than risk it escalating. Also, surprisingly the ones who react badly and aggressively aren’t - in my experience -linked to social class is or tattoed-ness of neck. I probably don’t see women be…	/r/MensRights	24/12/17 09:59 AM
0	Found this in the men's bathroom of a restaurant I went to recently. Have you been followed home after a date by a drunk guy hurling abuse? It’s not infantile to prefer a less hostile outcome - it’s just basic self protection, maybe you haven’t been on many dates with guys and I’m sure you wouldn’t be an asshole about it but most girls I know have been in situations where guys react to rejection with hostility and being stuck with someone who is bigger and stronger and pissed off isn’t a great situation. Having a safer exit is useful for guys and girls and I can’…	/r/MensRights	24/12/17 08:31 AM
2	Mika Brzezinski Warns #MeToo Warriors: ‘I Know Men Who Won’t Hire Women Now’ If the risk is that harassment cases will be costly or give rise to a reputations issue, why is the default response to not hire women incase they get harassed rather than to not hire men in case they do the harassing? If a company is genuinely worried that women will be harassed by men then why assume the women are the problem and exclude them all just in case rather than excluding men just in case? Both are ridiculous but it’s weird that you’d rather include the potential perpetrators than the…	/r/MensRights	21/12/17 04:11 AM
2	Why is it so unacceptable for man to want a virgin as mother of his children? Because it’s weird to value inexperience ..it comes across like you are threatened by the thought of her knowing anyone apart from you which seems insecure. Also weird to value someone based on their virginity which seems outdated and from the days when women’s purpose and value was in child bearing and being a wife..which many people consider diminishing (in the sense that it doesn’t recognise women having a purpose in their own right like men).	/r/MGTOW	21/12/17 03:45 AM
2	I don’t hate women Are there genuinely no women whose company you enjoy?	/r/MGTOW	21/12/17 03:29 AM
0	Women really love thugs and hate decent guys! Sexual attraction is about loads of things - nice is on the list but it’s not the only thing so women dating assholes isn’t because they are liars who don’t want nice guys, it’s just they choose other qualities over nice (as do guys who might prefer a nice hot girl but would take a hot bitch over a nice fat girl). Ideally we want hot sexy fun nice guys but if you can’t find the perfect guy you compromise on something. It doesn’t mean women hate nice guys - it just means nice isn’t the only or mo…	/r/MGTOW	21/12/17 03:17 AM