Gentlemen... Don't share your feelings with women, EVER! They will only weaponize it and use it against you. Find a bro, father, uncle brother, dude, any man who will understand how it is to be a man and share your feelings with them. Women can not understand men's feelings period!
Because American society doesn't care about men as people. Only as providers. Provide nothing? You're not a person. Provide a lot? You're a king. Simply existing is not enough if you're a man.
One of my gay friends has a feminine sounding voice. He's kinda a big guy. Party at his house, we all crash and are hungover the next morning. Dudes voice was very deep and raspy. I remember thinking, that's what he would sound like if he was straight.