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We'll see how it goes ;)
/r/askTRP14/11/16 07:48 AM
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You have 0 chance of getting any chicks if you're letting idiots like that publicly belittle and humiliate you stand up for yourself mate. I was ignoring him until I noticed exactly this. Not that I was trying to hit on girls, we are at work after all. BUT, seeing them treating me differently because of him was... the worst. banter back if he doesn't like it He doesn't. He also doesn't like it when you middle in his conversations and mock him the same way he mocks you. If he sees you coming, he'…
/r/askTRP14/11/16 07:14 AM
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What I have not seen is someone as pussy as you.... You are probably right, I somehow thought I deserve it because I have my issues too, but I get it, I'm just scared of confrontation. Man the fuck up and knock the guy out if he fucks I can't, he's way bigger than me and we are at work. I'll find a way to make this stop though, you are right, it's all about confrontation,.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 10:26 PM
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I'll do that. And if he even tries to play the "we can't work with lexus card" with my bosses, I'll sink his ass by telling them all the shit he says about them with him in the room and see how he copes with it.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 10:21 PM
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I'll check the sidebar and get back to you asap.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 08:49 PM
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so I started not giving a fuck and winding him up instead, it was simple because he was a hothead himself. This right here. When I started doing it, he began pushing the group against me. Talking about how it's hard to work with me, about how it's not fun when I'm around, how it would be better if I wasn't around, etc. And every time I somehow pop my head and give him some shit, he starts with all that crap again... wtf is wrong with this guy???
/r/askTRP12/11/16 07:52 PM
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Didn't take long before the tables had turned. Lol, it seems like my case. The few times where he was trying to be "serious" and I started mocking him on the background and belittling him, he got pissed as all hell and started screaming at me... The fact is, he somehow started playing power plays and turning everyone against me, and I'm talking about people that like me. For example, he hates our bosses (and they like me), and he trashes them behind their backs. When they are in the room though,…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 07:50 PM
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"If no mistake have you made, yet losing you are … a different game you should play." - Madonna Or different people I should relate to... but I can't right now, and I refuse (call it ego) to let someone as dumb as the guy giving me shit to push me out of the group just because he doesn't like me... Humans are social animals and group acceptance is a part of that. EXactly. All of this started bothering me when one guy began suggesting, implicitly and not, that I was not part of the group, and he …
/r/askTRP12/11/16 06:17 PM
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Because the group was formed at work, and because he's the only one acting like this, not the others. And he enjoys that shit, he enjoys going straight up to a person that LIKES me and telling him or her how STUPID I am and similar shit... I ignore him as much as possible, but when the whole group is gathered, and/or when we are at work in breaks or lunch or whatever, he flares up like hemorroids... And I don't want to give up a job I love and the few people I like because of him...
/r/askTRP12/11/16 06:04 PM
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So, if he gets out of line and pushes me down more than necessary, I should just escalate? Won't that make me look badly butthurt?
/r/askTRP12/11/16 06:00 PM
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Yes, you are right. However, sometimes it's pointless to burn yourself. If a girl in an LTR, at work, starts touching your arm in front of other girls, don't go and try to hit on her... work = bad idea, work + ltr = very bad idea...
/r/askTRP12/11/16 05:58 PM
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I've had girls touch my muscles just to show other girls she had leeway in the group (she was new there). Other times, I've had girls touch me to make it easier to ask me for help later on. In both of these cases, I could touch them back, so I can confirm your point of view. However, touch them back and grabbing her ass or boob is not the same thing...
/r/askTRP12/11/16 05:53 PM
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Yeah, you are right. It's just it got to a point where he thinks he can punish me by making me the clown of the group whenever I do or say something he doesn't like, that's what bothers me, that sort of arrogance. And besides, if we are organizing something and he steps in saying shit like "don't tell lexus where we are going..." or similar, again and again, it starts getting to me...
/r/askTRP12/11/16 05:46 PM
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Build success. I have, that's what's frustrating! refer to being physically superior I've built myself up, I don't know if I can get any bigger, but I got big enough. refer to being economically superior I already am. refer to superior experience or mastery Took me a while but I manage to become the best at my job! These are just a few options, the point is to improve yourself until there's no contest A guy at work, for example, in spite of being below my level, having less money, and being less…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 05:32 PM
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And if I didn't want to give up? How can I out-dick him?
/r/askTRP12/11/16 05:25 PM
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These are shit tests. If you pass them you get a point. If you flip them back onto the other person, you get double points. I don't think they are. When the other guy starts acting aggressively (verbally) against me, not joking, then that's not a shit test... When the message is "exclude lexus or things will not be easy", how do you deal with that? Don't let it bother you, it's not personal until you allow yourself to get offended. But it got to a point where he insults me, those that like him l…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 05:22 PM
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It depends. He says stuff like this to those that like him, so he can get sincere laughs. I don't mind that. What I do mind is that he constantly does this in front of people that do like me, and in time their opinion of me shifts... It's so toxic, so fucked up that I cannot explain to you how it makes me feel when he acts like this...
/r/askTRP12/11/16 05:19 PM
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It's weird. I tried to get physical with him once and he didn't life a finger and didn't take the bait. On the other hand, whenever he wants to "punish" me for something he deems "bad behavior", he either talks about me like if I wasn't there, insulting me (for example, lexus is just stupid, ignore him...). Otherwise, he comments about me life and drops veils threats of violence, like "how many punches I'd through at his face if I could" or "one of these days someone's gonna give him a lesson...…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 05:15 PM
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They're trying to get a rise out of you It's a male shit test You have something they don't They feel insecure by you and therefore lash Exactly, and I knew this from the start. That's why I always took it easy and just threw shit back. The problem is, the guy I'm talking about didn't like it, he didn't like to be on the same level than me, nor the fact that others may find me funny or cool. So, this escalated into flat out trying to push me out. I mean, he started shitting on me with the others…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 01:02 PM
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It's not the entire group, just one guy that gets everything started. He picks on me on anything that seems negative at the moment, and uses that as an excuse to insult me. Not funny, friendly banter, it's flat out "fuck with him, let's exclude him and have fun". The issue is that he somehow likes to insult me in front of other people and frames it as jokes, like calling me "the stupid idiot" in front of other people, completely ignoring me... What do you do with someone like this? Escalate unti…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 12:50 PM
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Try poking fun back at them and stop being so sensitive, are you a girl or something? No, it's just that whenever I did that it always ended up with him acting angry and trying to use the group against me. It went like this: 1) we busted each others balls, 2) the moment I got the upper hand, he would start complaining about me and trying to shit on me withing the group, with me there or not, and 3) I stopped to avoid being ostracized by this. I have no problem with bonding busting each others ba…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 12:48 PM
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We are teasing a girl about her liking me and Guy A looks at guy B and starts "Guy B! He should actually denounce her, given he's child!". I'm teasing a girl and she's laughing and guy A raises his voice to guy B "he's a stupid child... look at him..." I'm saying something dumb to chill, girls start laughing, and this guy starts "he's too stupid... did he really have to come?", exasperated. If I scream, I'm unstable, if he screams, he's justified. If I say somethign stupid, I'm stupid, if he say…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 08:38 PM
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Well, of course I can always improve, what I meant was that I'm being given a hard time for stuff that's not subject to improvement... For example, it's one thing to say "we are going, it's me, jimmy and shortie!", said by a friend. It's something different to say "... but the stupid midget has to come?", said by someone who keeps saying he doesn't like me, while looking to a girl trying to make her laugh. Do you see the difference here? I don't take the insult badly, I don't care about people i…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 07:03 PM
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Last question and I'll drop this: if you, in your group, suddenly have a guy who, when you are all gathered around joking, will suddenly out of the blue comment about the topic at hand and use that to say you are short, stupid, a child, etc, just to make everyone else laugh, and completely ignore you, would you be ok with that?
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:50 PM
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Maybe I wasn't clear. It's not what they say that bothers, I don't get offended, I grew out of that in high school... What bothers me is that they flat out start saying that about me to the others, completely ignoring me, just to make everyone laugh. It's the attitude, not what they say. What should I do in that position? just throw a bottle to the guy's head while he's actively trying to mock me to another in my face? what's the point of ignoring me is this is friendly?
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:35 PM
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Exactly. And that's what bothers me about all of this, this doesn't look like friendly banter. One of the guys has this fucked up tendency to just look at another guy in the room and start saying funny stuff about me. He always manages to get two or three guys to laugh at jokes about me, while the girls around us look at him and me. And he completely ignores me while he does it. What is that? where's the bantering in all of this?
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:24 PM
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be a better man. I am a better man. The things I get mocked for are not bad things (for example, my height or my intelligence), and it's usually carried out by people who are the opposite of me...
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:21 PM
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First off, how old are you? Are you in High School? This shit doesn't happen in the real world or in college. We are adults, it's just that we joke a lot. Second, what are they making fun of you for? Your weight? No, I'm thin and muscular. It's my height and intelligence. I'm short, can't do anything about that, and one of the guys always uses that against me for any reason just to call me a child. I'm the child of the group, that has been decided by him and keeps pushing that button like crazy.…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:18 PM
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People who shittalk you in front of you while pretending you aren't there are not worth keeping as friends if I'm honest with you. Cut them off. I know this. And it's usually one guy who does this. But he wants me gone, that's why he does it, I'm not just going away because of him... When asked why you're leaving respond in a very calm tone "I'm not going to listen to this shit, I've got other things to do". Again, he wants that. And I would come off as butthurt, all he wants is for people to la…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:15 PM
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But we are a group, we tease each other, but for some reason I'm under the impression that sometimes teasing targeted in my direction is just to fuck my image...
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:13 PM
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But how do you become less of a victim when you are doing nothing wrong? For example, I'm short and like to joke around. A guy in my group calls me a child each time I joke because I'm short and whatever. That same guy enjoys doing the same crap, but can't contain himself from putting me down when I do something. How do you become less of a victim? stay quite and do nothing? Another guy likes to frame as a dumb-clown and each time someone dumb is around us, or some dumb behavior is happening, or…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:12 PM
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And if they are making fun of you without talking to you? I find it extremely hard when guy A looks at guy B and starts with "hey pete! we don't have to remember kindergarten, we have dummy over here for that!". And this without even looking at me... What do you do when that happens?
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:08 PM
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Yes, when it's directed at me. However, when someone from the groups starts with "Lexus this, lexus that...", and they are not talking to me but to another person in the room, they are actively ignoring me and trashing me at the same time... Me intervening to make fun of the guy always comes off as desperate. What do you do in that case?
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:06 PM
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Sarcastic or serious?
/r/askTRP18/06/16 11:05 AM
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Nice life man! So, in the end it's up to her, right? I mean, for example a woman that seems into me but also tells me she has a boyfriend AND she also tells me that she's NOT trying to lead me on. In this case, even though I didn't make a move, why would she act like this? Should I just wait for her to beta the fuck out of the current guy?
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:08 PM
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Yeah, but he has kind of a head start, doesn't he?
/r/askTRP02/06/16 07:56 PM
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I'm in the middle between: First, approach, make your intentions clear. Smash or don't smash. and Second, go through with the "Billy Beta Boyfriend Audition" where you pretend to be the 'trusted friend' while secretly wanting to bone her, but never getting to do it. In which I sometimes make my intentions clear, sometimes I don't. But I never fall for the "trusted friend" routine. With the first approach, you find out, early on, and don't waste time/resources on girls who aren't fucking you. Yea…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 07:22 PM
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Sometimes I talk to some bros like, "there's the guy that wants to nail my ltr". Alphas won't mate guard, but it's like the guy who wants to alpha the fuck out in every interaction, he doesn't blend in. They'll forget to call him when they hang. But it takes some time to be identified as such. I agree, and I'm not there yet. I will display value but I won't be one upping every other guy. Well, it looks I'm not giving comfort in any way then, which is good, I wasn't aiming for that. Too many of t…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 07:19 PM
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Giving the impression you're gaming all the women is trouble man. Guys will cut you out. I noticed this too, but I've only seen this with extremely insecure betas, at least in my experience. No, you get friendzoned when you offer the girl the sort of comfort that you should only offer with tons of sex involved. Ok, this is clear. But, if you stay around, don't provide "comfort" other than flirting and generally fun, would it still be the same? I get it if the woman was getting something tangible…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 04:47 PM
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In this case, I'm sure it all comes from his insecurities. However, he also realized it's relatively easy for him to run over people and impose himself onto others by using a miriad of manipulative attempts: public shaming, condescending comments, criticism, insults, etc, all framed within the group so that people get to feel the sting of his judgement... And that's what bothers me. He wasnt like this and he decided to change on purpose, making it hard for everyone. And it's so pervasive, subtle…
/r/askTRP07/05/16 06:23 PM
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I realize that and I'm working on the emotional aspect to get over this. However, the fact that I'm forced to act somehow in order to stop someone like this from making the workplace a jungle is unbearable. I focus on my job, better mysef professionally and all I get is a first row ticket to this guy's manipulative attempts to make things hard for everyone...
/r/askTRP07/05/16 06:18 PM
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The arrogance of an ignorant fool taking matters into his own hands and turning a nice place to work into his personal psychological coping zone... It got to a point where he has no issues criticizing managers and bosses in front of new colleagues just to puff his chest, and thus creating a divided and toxic environment for no reason... And that's one thing. The other is his condescending attitude towards those coworkers he doesnt like. He tries to shame them in front of other people as a way to…
/r/askTRP07/05/16 02:05 PM
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