LiamGatsby Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How to maintain attraction and interest when they sober up. Maybe you need to do a few Hail Marys on the ones who don’t seem to be too interested at first. Since you don’t have much of a relationship with these girls and barely know them, the best thing you can do be chill and laid back, which is what you seem to be doing already. One truth I know about girls and dating in general is even though women are picky about things (food, clothes) they are NOT picky about who they like	/r/seduction	20/07/21 12:46 AM
1	How to maintain attraction and interest when they sober up. Not to be cynical but maybe the girls are just using you to get free drinks and what not. It doesn’t hurt to know who the bartender is	/r/seduction	19/07/21 11:52 PM
6	This girl rejected me three times and I still took her home that night. This is solid advice, instead of the cheap, unrealistic hack your way to success posts you usually see on here. It’s a process and you gotta get uncomfortable sometimes to get the girl	/r/seduction	15/07/21 12:36 AM
1	Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to. Exactly. The other guy is overreacting. We’re not mind readers. Some girls will make it known they don’t wNt to be disturbed and fair play there. But for the rest as men we have to try. Can’t sit on your hands waiting for a hint to come. As I always say, as long as you’re respectful and courteous you’re good.	/r/seduction	14/07/21 01:45 AM
1	Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to. Thing is, talking is appropriate at work too. I’m willing to admit work is a off limits but like with anything else with dating, there’s no hard rule. There are plenty of office romances, and a fair number of people meet their spouses at work, so it brings us back to the OP’s point. As long as you’re not rude or /violent/ creepy (Which is the extreme women who don’t want to be approached always jump to) then you have to be willing to take that calculated risk, because as a guy your options are n…	/r/seduction	13/07/21 10:50 PM
7	Tinder may not be the way to go, even if you're an attractive guy. Tinder is completely broken and they (Tinder) know it. It’s wasteland of IG promotions and bots. You’re right though the average guy doesn’t stand a chance on Tinder.	/r/seduction	05/07/21 05:51 PM
1	An unusual story and what I've learned about attraction and confidence The most important part of this post is that you’re 7/10, which is pretty good and by far the most attractive thing about you (if we are to believe you). I think safely deduce that the girl didn’t give a shit about your personality or whatever else and just saw a good looking guy and wanted to pursue him	/r/seduction	03/07/21 03:29 PM
-3	I finally approached her at the gym. Wow what the fk is this. He just went up to her, said hi and you’re on about what exactly..? All this virtue signaling for what? It’s not that deep	/r/seduction	29/06/21 06:59 AM
3	I finally approached her at the gym. I mean the thing some women will tell you they don’t mind being approached. Some women go to the gym HOPING they’re approached. So I reckon you get off your high horse and quit pretending like approaching women at the gym is some taboo thing. As long as you’re respectful and not a pushy/creepy, it’s not a crime. They’re human beings like you and i	/r/seduction	29/06/21 01:15 AM
20	Unpopular dating opinions I've gathered over the years 1 isn’t unpopular. You just have to open a dating app. Solid 6s and 5s acting like 10s because they have 500 matches Also #7 is a great way to filter women. I absolutely do not want anyone who measures me by how much I make or don’t make.	/r/seduction	20/06/21 08:48 PM
1	The improvement is real. The mindset ia important too This is pretty cool	/r/seduction	20/06/21 07:46 PM
1	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? This sounds like some Jedi mind trick. If you're interested, go talk to her. You'll know right away if she's interested. Everything else is just fluff.	/r/seduction	06/05/21 01:55 PM
1	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? I dunno man, this also seems awful presumptive. Bright yoga pants and a small t shirt signal they're interested in being approached? I don't buy that. As I've said, if you want to approach, approach but that reasoning is not sound at all. In my experience, there has never been a single time I have interacted with a girl that liked me and she didn't SHOW clear interest.	/r/seduction	06/05/21 12:31 PM
1	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? Where did I say contrary?	/r/seduction	06/05/21 04:04 AM
-1	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? Strokes her hair? What are you, 10? Guys face the same fear. You approach a girl and she’s not into it, she might think you’re a creep, player, whatever. No different from the fears and doubts men have. If you want to approach, do it but don’t tell people to “look for signs” like stroking of the hair because that sounds like a canned line from a pickup artist. Any girl that’s interested will let you know, best believe that. You underestimate how good women are at letting their interest be known.	/r/seduction	06/05/21 03:21 AM
35	Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women? Yeah this is bullshite. Know what to look for? What do you have to be, a psychic? Unless a girl comes up to you and starts talking to you, it’s always going to be a 50/50 gamble, and the odds are always lesser the less physically attractive you are. That’s just how things work.	/r/seduction	06/05/21 02:12 AM
11	It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men who only act nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will never prosper. What a load of shit. Imagine a guy says the same thing but about women. You would be called a misogynist so fast your head would spin. Let’s not make or create excuses for women having preferences for who they date. You will see all types of men end up with women, the quiet ones, the loud ones, the mean ones, etc. One thing that I know for sure is if a girl likes you, even if you’re mute, it’s not going to matter lol. Everything else is just bs	/r/seduction	30/04/21 10:17 PM
7	Asked gym crush out. Only taboo if you’re ugly Jokes aside, I feel the same way. Every girl you speak to tells you something different but if you’re an attractive guy, I’d wager the girls who maybe didn’t want to be bothered wouldn’t mind. C’est la vie	/r/seduction	30/04/21 09:29 PM
2	Pro tip I learned from a natural Ah, the good ole bait and switch	/r/seduction	21/04/21 02:24 AM
0	A Different Approach to Better Conversations Conversely, you can stop chasing women that aren't that into you. 99% of the time it never works out. You can tell when a girl is interested; she will respond in a timely manner and if not, apologize and asks you engaging questions. The same is true for men. If you're carrying the conversation and hoping she eventually becomes interested, you've already lost.	/r/seduction	16/04/21 12:11 AM
104	Do you approach enough? "Everyone has funny stories about being rejected, dating, weird sex. Don't worry about making mistakes because mistakes end up being good stories for your dates." I love this line!	/r/seduction	14/04/21 01:28 AM
3	First night out Honestly I hate going out alone and I reckon most people do too, so the fact that you had the courage to see what’s out there by yourself is huge	/r/seduction	27/03/21 02:57 PM
3	Asked out the hottest girl in my gym... (first time trying pickup) To me this is weird because the responses you get from women is mixed. Some girls will flat out tell you they are at the gym to work out and don’t want to be harassed/bothered. I can pretend to be a Jedi and say I know the vibe the girl is giving but it seems like a complete shot in the dark until you go up to her, whether or not you’re being a nuisance or someone she would welcome sharing a conversation with	/r/seduction	09/02/21 01:05 AM
4	Be the PLAYER that WOMEN LOVE! Sounds like you’ve built up one heck of an advertising campaign. Those girls are into you because of your pictures and perceived social capital is what I’m getting here	/r/seduction	02/02/21 02:04 AM
1	Shouldn't you just look for signs of attraction instead of trying to spit game? That’s generally very accurate. Girls that are into you make it very obvious. If you find yourself needing to be a jedi master just to talk to her then that’s a sign that you’re fighting a losing battle	/r/seduction	26/12/20 09:24 PM
3	Why “nice guys finish last” HHhaha thank you, I love it. This was giant ad for “men are trash” disguised as some sort of advice lol	/r/seduction	23/12/20 01:27 AM
1	Why “nice guys finish last” Thanks for this post. The OP just seems to be want validation from the ethers by hopping on the men are trash bandwagon	/r/seduction	23/12/20 01:25 AM
3	Why “nice guys finish last” Lmao this is a giant ad for why men suck. I’m glad you got laid but man, why is it so commonplace to shit on men and if the exact same scenarios are reversed you’re called a misogynist? I get y’all wanna be politically correct and all. Eg point #2 could be directed at IG girls but of course you’d get hit with the misogynistic word if you dare criticize women for being whoever the hell they want. Men are living lies though Overall this post seems like one big “approve me!!!l” from women on here l…	/r/seduction	23/12/20 01:19 AM
1	It's hard because of shitty men Yeah that’s a little wild I that gotta pay the price for the behavior of other (men) people. Granted I do know this post doesn’t apply to me but men have it pretty hard too is all I’m saying.	/r/seduction	19/12/20 04:17 PM
3	LMAO At My First Ever Day Game Approach Generally speaking, women don't like being approached at work. It makes them uncomfortable. There are caveats though, as such is life and things are unfair sometimes. If you're attractive enough for instance you could get someone's number at funeral...But all the same, happy to see you took a chance. She might text you. She's probably a bit nervous lol. That happens to them too mate.	/r/seduction	26/06/18 04:44 PM