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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Divorce limbo		LibGuider	/r/Divorce_Men	06/02/20 04:47 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Divorce limbo It seems like it takes time to petition the courts for a divorce and contact an attorney. Doing those things without communicating intent (going back and forth about whether she chooses to stay, hence the post title "Divorce Limbo") would blindside me because I would not have time to prepare my side. I can say I want to buy a new car just as seriously without going out and doing it. As to your previous post, I would stay with her if our positions flipped. There's no abuse, infidelity, or neglect…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/20 03:55 PM
1	Divorce limbo Ugh. I was thinking this but did not want to verbalize it. Well, it's Friday night. I can't do much until Monday morning. Hopefully I will have some answer by then and can start moving forward. Just have to hold tight until then and hope I don't get blindsided. She is an honest person and says she has not gone down this path or truly decided.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/20 02:30 AM
2	Divorce limbo Harsh, but fair. It's going to take some real change on my end. Hopefully she'll stick it out.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/20 12:26 AM
1	Divorce limbo I agree with the honesty and staying transparent. I have a lot of work to do. I'm willing to do whatever it takes. She won't give me a clue if it's enough because she's holding on to the past, which I get. I'm stuck and it seems like there's nothing I can do to change her mind in these next few days. I feel like she's decided and won't take the next step. I'm grateful to still have my kids around full time for now. But it is hell and looks like it will get worse. Thank you for responding. I'm gl…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/02/20 01:07 PM

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