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| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?right your obviously american so there is no talking sense to you lol. no i dont want a man to pay for the first date, i have my own money and ill pay for myself. but yes some men and women still think like that. it sucks but all you can do is not conform to it. fair enough some women will let a man pay but just dont go out with them? or try to educate them. you were the one who brought up the whole protection thing omg. but protection from who? the only people who are statistically likely to ha… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/25 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?that is not our fault, its the product of the patriarchy which is not something we designed. some women are shit yes but so are some men - you shouldnt generalize like that. also the only thing we need 'protection' from is men. but we dont need protection that is bullshit and an outdated view, all your talking about is people opinions. and there not even valid opinions they are wrong. maybe you just live in a part of the world that still holds these views but they are not how everyone thinks. an… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/25 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?yes and i am just saying that its not bullshit and men need to stop blaming us for their misfortunes | /r/MensRights | 14/04/25 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?thank you! <3 | /r/MensRights | 14/04/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?i could say the exact same thing about men :) the difference between you and me is i will now stick up for men's issues but i doubt you would for women's issues. denying the the fact that we all have issues makes you apart of the problem fyi. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/25 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?you are generalising a lot here, which is not fair. that may be your experience but not all people are like that. i could also say the same thing about men though - its not a competition. also you cant force someone to open up to you. you can be there for them in everyway and sometimes people will still not tell you whats going on. and why blame women for not noticing when your also withholding that information? communication is a two way street and someone needs to start the conversation - you … | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?nobody believes that women struggle at all?? that may be true - but those arent true feminist. there will always be extremists in a group with a common ideal. but it is pointless to point out other peoples failures in this if you also refuse to acknowledge the struggles that women face. you would be no better. dont stoop to that level - rise above and just be better. call people out on their bullshit and if they dont accept it, thats on them. you would have done your part. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?okay fair enough. men do have struggles that i was unaware of. i am gonna do better now but can you agree that women also struggle? everyone does, the only people who benefit in this world are the rich. ive learnt that we need to stop blaming each other and actually listen to our peers and their experiences. there is no point in comparing pain - we all just need to work a little harder at having some compassion. it doesnt matter if other people don't because change starts with the individuals. t… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?no i agree with you. the double standards are crazy and not okay. in my opinion, i think the MeToo movement was great but it also scared a lot of people? i think they just favor women in those big legal cases you were mentioning because there are afraid of upsetting people (i was 12 when this happened so pinch of salt and all that). i know some might say the 'woke people' like its a bad thing and yes, it 100% gets taken too far a lot but i think being 'woke' is important. it just means your more… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?no need to be rude. the past is always important and for different reasons. some of my female friends were not going to vote in the last election. i told them to remember what it took from the women before us to be able to do this. she voted i think you are way too caught up in this. i am now able to see both side. i will not argue, debate or try to counter any of your points. i now know life sucks for everyone. we are all going through hardships and oppression of sorts. i will now stand up for … | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?i know and i understand this now. being here and talking with everyone that i have, i realise anything i have said about women being oppressed, turns out it is happening to men as well. i thought i knew a lot about the equality movement but it seems i still have some learning to do and more life to live. i do think there is a lot of hate here towards women, and vis versa. as individuals we must stop comparing our pain and recognise that it is actually shared. we are all struggling and instead of… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?yes it certainly is a difficult topic to navigate properly! i feel as though we are currently at the same page almost. not in a good way unfortunately. i think both sides hate each other equally haha. on the womens side, i have heard the 'kill all men' (although i thought it was a joke when i saw it) and i've heard the man blaming. but on the other side we have incels and some men who really hate women. tbh both are valid. we all suck. we could've been the smartest, most developed civilization w… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?thats super interesting, thank you! i suppose i have never thought of it in that way, there are definitely a lot more issues men are dealing with than i thought. but it seems i can accept that fact, but a lot of people on this group refuse to believe that women struggle at all. we can all be struggling. it is important for us all to listen and go through life with an open mind and heart. this group has 100% open my eyes - so truly thank you! i saw a good comment on it though - "Remember guys, do… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?yes i did notice that and it is valid BUT that is a class, societal issue. its the rich vs the poor and i didnt feel it was relevant here. that vote wasnt for all women either but it was the first time in our history anyone from that gender could vote. but it was also 1928 before everyone over the age of 21 (i believe) could vote! but yeah that is 100% a valid point! thank you for bringing it up - eat the rich i say haha | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?the past is always relevant and important. those who forget are likely to repeat. see my edit. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?I can understand that - but its a very outdated look now. We don't need someone to provide and protect us anymore. It was a a consequence from the patriarchy but I can imagine there will be some men and women who still have these views unfortunately. Also I don't see this as a privilege as you make it sound like women owe men for this huge privilege you have given us. That's not how it works. The privilege is being able to provide and protect ourselves, but men have that too. So.. is there any a… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?I was doing my research on pretty much all things men from all the replies that I got and I had seen this. It's super horrid. It must be really hard for victims to come forward when there's not even a real law to protect you. It definitely needs to be changed. Well I can't call myself a feminist if I'm not willing to learn and grow. Also just as a human I think its stupid to be so set in your ways and unwilling to learn. We do not know everything! And that is okay but we have the ability to know… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?I also do appreciate a good debate with someone I feel respects and actually reads what I say, so thank you! This has actually been very insightful and I have been doing my research. I suppose you are correct in the fact that I only ever hear women's stories, I'd like to think this is just because the men around me don't have these issues or stories, but now I think that might not be true. I do have to say, who are these feminists your getting this information from? Because I proudly call myself… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 06:38 AM |
| 3 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?okay so i apologise, i just did some research and seems like both genders sexualise each other equally! and tbh its really not a competition, both can be true at the same time. also you seem to think that women are privileged - why? in what way are we privileged? | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?huh this is very interesting and i will be sure to do some research! thank you! i feel like the sounds sarcastic but i am genuinely interested in learning more about this subject, i know im not always right and i think its good to be open to everything! | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?my statement? | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?mate, seriously. that's very dramatic google definition for feminism: Feminism is a range of socio-political movements and ideologies that aim to define and establish the political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes. so whoever you spoke to is an extremist, and anyone who says anything more than that definition, has no right to call themself a feminist. simple as | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 01:46 AM |
| -1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?you are the same type of guy to agree with 'not all men' so i am very disappointed that you feel this way. its like any group with a common ideal, there are extremists. i'm not asking you to be a feminist, i just ask that you have the decency to educate yourself for what we truly stand for, before you bash it or make up these wild accusations. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 01:26 AM |
| 0 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?You’re absolutely right—those are serious issues. And guess what? Feminism talks about them too. The actual enemy is the toxic masculinity that tells men to 'man up' instead of seek help, that mocks male vulnerability, and that treats men as disposable. You’re mad at feminism for a wound the patriarchy inflicted. The system hurts all of us—it just benefits you more while doing it. Feminism isn’t about saying women have it worse in every way—it’s about tearing down a system that values power over… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?woah. look you seem to have a lot of hate. i hope your life improves and you feel happy. thats the only thing humans want, to feel happy and safe. i hope to get there one day too. but i dont think this discussion is benefitting anyone and im not going to change your mind anymore than you can change mine. pain should not be compared. it is all valid and bad. the world needs more light and love so we should try harder to connect and understand one another. it is okay for us to disagree and we can … | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?this is part of feminism and the patriarchy. men decided women were not allowed to be drafted. this has changed now i believe, we want to help. also give me a women who has started a war in the last 500 years. war is shit and terrible for everyone, there are no winners. it kills everyone. you say men are born to be cannon fodder then women are born to make more soldiers. it sucks for everyone. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?yes. people on the internet are weird and scary but i dont even have a reddit account im british | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 12:37 AM |
| 0 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?literally what does that even mean | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?well i am from the uk so i dont know about the usa really. from what ive seen it looks like the biggest shit show and im surprised anyone in a minority are still living there. i have held my hand up that i shouldn't have invaded this space and commented - i apologies. EVERYONE experiences pain and suffering - some more than others and we (myself included) need to stop comparing others pain. it is all valid and it is all scary and wrong. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?you are completely right and i have held up my hands to apologise. i shouldnt have come on here and i shouldnt have said anything, this is not the space for me to do that. thank you for holding me accountable and challenging me - it is the only way to grow! | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?i am 20 and am from the uk - in 1918 women over 30 were finally given the right to vote. forgetting history is the first step in repeating it. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 12:26 AM |
| -1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?you are right, this was not my space to come into and i apologise. buttttt...you have raised some excellent points. so many people were poor in those days and yes that always has and always will be the case. if you have more money, you are more important in this society. but in those days, women who were working class worked along side the men, everyone earning very little, but the higher in class you go, you see women not allowed to work or own any money or properties. everyone has problems! ev… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 12:23 AM |
| -1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?well... this is not true whatsoever, but okay! i doubt i will change your mind so, all i will say is that everyone and anyone can be objectified and it is never okay. feeling uncomfortable by someone is not okay! i would know and it is no fun, and I'm so sorry if you have also had that experience. <3 | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?i appreciate your response! i think its important to be challenged or having your beliefs questioned. i have admitted - this is not a post i would ever make. i was angry and i stubbled across this page and that was a completely wrong thing for me to say. this is and should be a safe place for men to vent and find comradery, and i am sorry i infiltrated! we all just need some peace and love - people in this world are too cruel to each other when we are all just trying to live for the first time. … | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 12:04 AM |
| -4 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?right okay i was gonna leave this but okay.. the statistics you have given are terrible, truly it is not okay. but those are men on men crimes, google says 70% of violent offenders are men. a women's most likely attacker is a man - https://noviolence.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/Whataboutmen.pdf - this is a great thing to check out. everyone has been bashing me about bringing up the past, but its something you cant and shouldn't ignore. i may not have lived it, but i still experience the le… | /r/MensRights | 08/04/25 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?okay fair enough, I've read all the replies and i apologies. i had been down a rabbit hole when i discovered this group - i don't even use reddit. i was angry and i was just basing it on my experiences which is sucky and not helpful in groups like this. i have two brothers and i do think that spaces such as these are important, i want the men in my life to be able to talk to me about their fears and worries and life, and to be honest, they do. every person on this planet has the ability to be di… | /r/MensRights | 08/04/25 11:25 PM |
| -18 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?reading these comments i think i can see why. its actually made me tear up. in my opinion, men have never been an oppressed group. yes there are sub-groups that include men, but as a whole, you guys have done pretty well for yourselves in history. i think that the idea of men being oppressed in todays society is quite funny. i think what is concerning people, is having to make room for everyone else. if we look at history, men have been the protectors, the providers and the leaders. women were n… | /r/MensRights | 08/04/25 06:26 AM |
| -69 | Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit?prevent true equality???? are you serious. because if you are that's actually so funny! all throughout history women have been used and treated as objects, as less than men. its only in the last 200 years or so that we have actually been given the right to vote and be seen as a human, with or without a husband. i understand your point and yes that is not a great look for the feminist movement but my god, can you blame us? we are angry and tired. tired of hiding our sexuality, of being denied pow… | /r/MensRights | 08/04/25 05:57 AM |
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