Lidsu Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men who only act nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will lack success. Agree with you. Just to add some interesting food for thought, this kind of "symbolic contract" is thought to be fundamental in human behaviour and society (see the "don et contre-don" theory, or anthropological gift and reciprocity) studies). I can see why thinking "I'll scratch her back so she'll scratch mine" can be such a common mistake in flirting and dating : it's because this mindset works well in other areas of life (friendships, work, etc.). When you think about it, dating has such pecu…	/r/seduction	28/08/22 10:48 AM
21	While you’re at home sulking, the woman of your dreams is building a well rounded life. Make sure you meet half way. This. Mundane decisions have a different flavor when you think "Would I want that my future children imitate me right now ?".	/r/seduction	14/12/20 07:42 AM
2	Neediness Kills Attraction Genuinely interested, could you elaborate more on your definition of "neediness" ?	/r/seduction	11/12/20 08:07 AM
4	3 signs you are her beta orbiter. Tbh human interactions are just messy and complicated. I guess you also have been in a situation where some girl was interested in you but you weren't, but still thought she would be a fun girl to hang out with. You try indirect rejection but sometimes the girl just doesn't get it, and you know that, but let's be honest, it takes a lot of guts to directly reject someone. Guys just need to improve their social awareness to better understand these kind of situations. I don't say that some girls …	/r/seduction	24/11/20 11:46 AM
55	Instead Of Learning What To Say To Women, Learn How To Hold Good Eye Contact. Here's Why... 0/10, girls now avoid me to not have to suffer my intense staring. I'm only half-joking, though. While I agree that a lot of seduction happen with eye contact, your post only say "Train yourself to sustain longer eye contact" and "Try to not appear like you are needy". Okay, but how do you do that, precisely ? I get that your intention is good and genuine, but it's not very helpful. I think that everyone know that eye contact is important, it's even a popular trope in casual discussions about se…	/r/seduction	15/11/20 04:40 PM
2	80% of you aren't going to get anywhere because of this I agree with the fact that you shouldn't be a joy-sucking vampire, but I don't think that going with the mindset that you should add value to someone's life is very healthy. It's basically doing a performance to please others. Then what ? Will you be able to put on with this joyful and happy-doppy behaviour during all your married life, when your partner will be part of your day-to-day life ? You're advertising yourself when you date, and this is the equivalent of false advertising. Nothing bad …	/r/seduction	06/11/20 09:33 PM
20	Gym and diet Right ? What will be next, drinking half a gallon of water everyday ?	/r/seduction	26/10/20 03:41 AM
1	From "Shit" test to "Frame" Tests - All about why they are good Men can also Shit Test women to screen them, for exemple to discover if she's emotionally stable enough, if she's responsible with money, if she can show tenderness and comfort, etc. It's not because there is no potential or there's disdain toward the person tested : it's because we simply don't know the person well enough and we have standards (in this case, for a fulfilling longterm relationship). Day to day world don't provide enough extraordinary situations where we can see how our person of…	/r/seduction	13/08/20 01:01 PM
1	Does having an accent ruin your chances with girls? I will be blunt : accents from perceived non-attractive locations do decrease your overall social status. That's why TV or radio speakers will try (sometimes subconsciously) to erase their accent when they are performing. In French, for exemple, the only "correct" way of speaking is the way of the Parisian upper-class. If you come from the Parisian lower-class, or from the South (Marseilles, Lyon), the North (Lille, Picardie), Belgium, Switzerland, Quebec, West Africa or somewhere else (like Mar…	/r/seduction	28/07/20 02:22 AM
2	How do you reconcile "being enough" with the facts of attraction and sexual competition ? As every human being, you are enough. We all are. Trees or clouds aren't incomplete, and I have yet to see an imperfect wave. If this is true for everything in nature, why wouldn't be it also true for human being ? But that's not the complete picture. You are enough, of course, but do you feel that you have fulfilled your potential ? I don't ask you "Are you satisfied with who you are ?", because that's a tricky question that makes you compare yourself to others even though everyone is his own m…	/r/seduction	20/04/20 12:16 AM