Lies_Still_Untold Archive

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1	Go or no go. Not clear cut. This is very similar to where I was sitting, wondering the same thing. 80% of your story is mine. I was in a tortured holding pattern for years and the kids, same thing. The older they got, the more they noticed their checked out mom. We started enjoying being outside her presence. A lot. I will skip the ‘kids knew more than I did’ details but she was cheating on me and I never would have known if not for the kids. That was a hard stop for me, she involved the kids and I served her, she’s gone a…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/24 02:13 AM
2	How much will it trouble her ? Let her burn it all up. Keep it vague and ambiguous and she will be out of escort money in no time.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/24 12:57 AM
1	Light blub moment My daughter (whom I have custody) noticed two things once we we’re officially done: She noticed we have money left to do and buy more things and she noticed mom now has to budget everything when she goes shopping. My daughter told me it’s the first time she’s ever seen it happen. Oh and.. oops dear ol ex W is almost 60 days behind in CS and another $1,200 or so in shared expenses. She better budget harder.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/09/24 03:54 AM
4	Unreasonable STBX Record everything. Texas is a one-party consent state and judges love to hear financial extortion. Don’t tell her, just record.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/09/24 03:13 AM
1	STBXW claiming she can’t work My ex refused to work for years. I think she stayed due to a pending inheritance (mine) but I refused to touch it. Found out she has been cheating the majority of the marriage. In the last 1.5 years she managed to get a halfway decent job but was still prying at my potential inheritance. No one is dead so I never touched a cent. However the time is coming. Then I blindsided her cheating ass and our kid knew all about it, stayed with me and now she has to pay me child support. She was abusive to …	/r/Divorce_Men	23/09/24 06:33 PM
1	Need advice - Wife wants a divorce It’s Texas. She won’t get it. It’s a hollow threat to hide hidden assets.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/09/24 03:28 PM
1	Need advice - Wife wants a divorce She wants to ‘share’ an attorney so she doesn’t have to explain the $150K.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/09/24 03:25 PM
1	I think my ex is recording our conversations This. I knew my ex was cyber stalking me including hacking into my email so I deliberately left Easter Eggs she could find. For months. Finally one day she snapped a bit and started accusing me of the things I deliberately left for her to find. I had created backup accounts to save the bogus ‘finds’ with dated time stamps and after listening to her wild accusations, I showed her my secret decoder ring. She was pissed but what can she say? She had no damn business stalking me and invading my priv…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/09/24 10:58 PM
1	When do you know it’s time? Are you happier now? Man, I couid have written this. Just add SWAT team took her to a psychiatric hospital and it’s close. Even with that, she never took responsibility for any of it. 6 guys with AR-15’s pointed at her while she had a gun? It was my fault. As noted, rules do not apply to some.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/09/24 09:13 PM
1	What motivated you guys to continue the divorce process My bro and his ex went through a vicious divorce. His oldest daughter completely turned on him and is exactly like his cheating ex wife. I know she’s my niece but at age 23 now, I can call it - she’s a write off. My niece is so nasty she cheats on her 5 year long term bf and brags about it on her ghost Instagram account. Her bf is clueless. My brother wants to tell him but is a chicken s*it and hasn’t done it. Her bf is a decent guy. I want to but that’s my brothers family. It’s on him. I was lu…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/24 08:05 PM
2	What motivated you guys to continue the divorce process Same here. My kid ratted her out and gave me a years worth of emotional blackmail mom put on her for knowing. Once I found out my teenager was involved in my ex’s infidelity, all bets were off. WW was told to move out. After her ungraceful exit my kid started telling me what I was missing. That’s when WW ceased to being anything to me. I’m still finding out betrayal from 12 years ago. It turned out it was all there, I just didn’t look hard enough and fell for the victim mentality of a profession…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/24 02:26 AM